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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well they say work collegues who have psrtners obviously cant really date outside of work because there partners would most likely know but at work xmas do's everyone is out out and all dressed sexy so its a prime target for people who work together and like eachother to cheat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's probably more that have been cheated on that actually know about it. I've seen lots of it over the years from people that otherwise you wouldn't think butter would melt in their mouths. There must be something in the table wine they give out at works parties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont understand it all tbh. Never understood cheating "
It's one of those things that is unique to everyone in that situation. Who knows why people cheat. My ex cheated on me and I don't blame her as I was a lousy husband looking back. I'm divorced now. I would have cheated on me so I can understand why she did and would do things very differently now.
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"I dont understand it all tbh. Never understood cheating "
I'm with you there. Cannot contemplate it and I really do not understand the mindset that leads to cheating.
Mind you, if I did get together with someone at a party I would just let my wife know ASAP after the event. And vice versa, if she takes a liking to someone at a party.
However I separate work and play and wouldn't pull anyone that I work with. Funnily enough at my work Christmas party last week, my line manager started a conversation "Who would you sleep with, out of the people at work?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then leave and find someone dont stay wirh them but see/date/fuck other guys behind your partners back.."
It's not as simple as that always. You make it sound black and white. I don't think it always is. After my divorce I've heard so many stories from my friends about their situation and every relationship has its own complications.
Saying just leave is too simplistic and I mean this with the greatest respect, also a bit naive I think. Relationships are complex and sex is just one part of it. There's lots of other factors too that keep people together |
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