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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone do anything other than delete shit messages like "Hi" or "You okay?" We've just had one and I said "I think so".
They asked why "think so".
My response went something like:
For a number of reasons. The two I'd like to focus on for now are the following:
Logically, although we're a couple, because we're currently in two different places, I don't know with absolute certainty that my wife IS okay. I hope she is, but I couldn't guarantee it.
Secondly, how does someone truly know if they're okay? It's a difficult question to answer without first defining the meaning behind okay. There's a dictionary definition - but what does it mean to US?
Now, let's say that, after a long chat, we've agreed on our definition of the true state of being okay. I'm willing to bet that it would involve both psychological as well as physical factors. With this in mind, how qualified do I think I am in measuring my level of okayness in a psychological or physical capacity? I'm not a psychologist or a doctor, or anything even remotely related to a profession that might help us with this.
Because of these two points, it's impossible for me to say with any certainty that my wife and I are okay. I could guess - and I did when I said I think so.
So, as we've discovered together:
I think we're okay - but I can't be absolutely sure.
They've not replied yet lol
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Does anyone do anything other than delete shit messages like "Hi" or "You okay?" We've just had one and I said "I think so".
They asked why "think so".
My response went something like:
For a number of reasons. The two I'd like to focus on for now are the following:
Logically, although we're a couple, because we're currently in two different places, I don't know with absolute certainty that my wife IS okay. I hope she is, but I couldn't guarantee it.
Secondly, how does someone truly know if they're okay? It's a difficult question to answer without first defining the meaning behind okay. There's a dictionary definition - but what does it mean to US?
Now, let's say that, after a long chat, we've agreed on our definition of the true state of being okay. I'm willing to bet that it would involve both psychological as well as physical factors. With this in mind, how qualified do I think I am in measuring my level of okayness in a psychological or physical capacity? I'm not a psychologist or a doctor, or anything even remotely related to a profession that might help us with this.
Because of these two points, it's impossible for me to say with any certainty that my wife and I are okay. I could guess - and I did when I said I think so.
So, as we've discovered together:
I think we're okay - but I can't be absolutely sure.
They've not replied yet lol
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this is exactly the type of reply i want to send when my filters were down, as you now know they take a while to compile, so that's why i have my filters on for everyone, so i don't feel like doing this, everytime i go to my inbox xx A= for effort xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone do anything other than delete shit messages like "Hi" or "You okay?" We've just had one and I said "I think so".
They asked why "think so".
My response went something like:
For a number of reasons. The two I'd like to focus on for now are the following:
Logically, although we're a couple, because we're currently in two different places, I don't know with absolute certainty that my wife IS okay. I hope she is, but I couldn't guarantee it.
Secondly, how does someone truly know if they're okay? It's a difficult question to answer without first defining the meaning behind okay. There's a dictionary definition - but what does it mean to US?
Now, let's say that, after a long chat, we've agreed on our definition of the true state of being okay. I'm willing to bet that it would involve both psychological as well as physical factors. With this in mind, how qualified do I think I am in measuring my level of okayness in a psychological or physical capacity? I'm not a psychologist or a doctor, or anything even remotely related to a profession that might help us with this.
Because of these two points, it's impossible for me to say with any certainty that my wife and I are okay. I could guess - and I did when I said I think so.
So, as we've discovered together:
I think we're okay - but I can't be absolutely sure.
They've not replied yet lol
this is exactly the type of reply i want to send when my filters were down, as you now know they take a while to compile, so that's why i have my filters on for everyone, so i don't feel like doing this, everytime i go to my inbox xx A= for effort xxx "
Fortunately I'm great at talking complete shit totally off the cuff, so it didn't take long to write at all lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not got time to reply to all the decent messages i get never mind the shit ones as well.
do like the idea of replying saying i think i'm having a heart attack haha.
wonder what these guys would do though if they asked if you're ok and you replied with all your problems? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone do anything other than delete shit messages like "Hi" or "You okay?" We've just had one and I said "I think so".
They asked why "think so".
My response went something like:
For a number of reasons. The two I'd like to focus on for now are the following:
Logically, although we're a couple, because we're currently in two different places, I don't know with absolute certainty that my wife IS okay. I hope she is, but I couldn't guarantee it.
Secondly, how does someone truly know if they're okay? It's a difficult question to answer without first defining the meaning behind okay. There's a dictionary definition - but what does it mean to US?
Now, let's say that, after a long chat, we've agreed on our definition of the true state of being okay. I'm willing to bet that it would involve both psychological as well as physical factors. With this in mind, how qualified do I think I am in measuring my level of okayness in a psychological or physical capacity? I'm not a psychologist or a doctor, or anything even remotely related to a profession that might help us with this.
Because of these two points, it's impossible for me to say with any certainty that my wife and I are okay. I could guess - and I did when I said I think so.
So, as we've discovered together:
I think we're okay - but I can't be absolutely sure.
They've not replied yet lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What should be the reply to the age-old, "wanna f**k?"
yes.
you.
up the bum.
with a terminator dildo."
Haha, I used to say yeah why not, bend over and brace yourself sugar tits accompanied by a photo of me doing a guy with a strap on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not got time to reply to all the decent messages i get never mind the shit ones as well.
do like the idea of replying saying i think i'm having a heart attack haha.
wonder what these guys would do though if they asked if you're ok and you replied with all your problems?"
We've always wanted to do that, but never went through with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A simple sorry I can't talk right now as busy would suffice no need to be an arse,maybe the person is just finding their fab feet and u go and shit on their parade and dent any confidence they had,not everyone can put forward an eloquent icebreaker that will stand out but a polite hi how are you is a lot nicer than nice tits fancy a fuck.just my opinion and sure I will suffer the wrath of the clique but tired of mighter than though people on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A simple sorry I can't talk right now as busy would suffice no need to be an arse,maybe the person is just finding their fab feet and u go and shit on their parade and dent any confidence they had,not everyone can put forward an eloquent icebreaker that will stand out but a polite hi how are you is a lot nicer than nice tits fancy a fuck.just my opinion and sure I will suffer the wrath of the clique but tired of mighter than though people on here "
Not sure they're being arsey, I think its quite amusing but obviously everyone's sense of humour is different and people will react differently to the same message. If I sent a reply like that, it would be purely to see what their reaction is and whether they share the same sense of humour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not got time to reply to all the decent messages i get never mind the shit ones as well.
do like the idea of replying saying i think i'm having a heart attack haha.
wonder what these guys would do though if they asked if you're ok and you replied with all your problems?
We've always wanted to do that, but never went through with it. "
tempted to do it and see what happens now. probably will if nobody else replies who has already done it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A simple sorry I can't talk right now as busy would suffice no need to be an arse,maybe the person is just finding their fab feet and u go and shit on their parade and dent any confidence they had,not everyone can put forward an eloquent icebreaker that will stand out but a polite hi how are you is a lot nicer than nice tits fancy a fuck.just my opinion and sure I will suffer the wrath of the clique but tired of mighter than though people on here
Not sure they're being arsey, I think its quite amusing but obviously everyone's sense of humour is different and people will react differently to the same message. If I sent a reply like that, it would be purely to see what their reaction is and whether they share the same sense of humour."
well I do put some effort into my messages but lots don't some just don't know what to say and a polite how's u is better than a cock pic and "fancy riding this"and to be so pedantic with your reply is a bit off in my opinion but that's just my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What should be the reply to the age-old, "wanna f**k?"
yes.
you.
up the bum.
with a terminator dildo.
Haha, I used to say yeah why not, bend over and brace yourself sugar tits accompanied by a photo of me doing a guy with a strap on!"
You never know, they might call you on the bluff. I wouldn't object |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of profiles on here read if you ask if I/we am/are ok send cock pics or oneliner message will be deleted why not just post that on your profile op will stop it occurring and u needing to reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of profiles on here read if you ask if I/we am/are ok send cock pics or oneliner message will be deleted why not just post that on your profile op will stop it occurring and u needing to reply"
No it won't stop the messages like that, that's often the problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A simple sorry I can't talk right now as busy would suffice no need to be an arse,maybe the person is just finding their fab feet and u go and shit on their parade and dent any confidence they had,not everyone can put forward an eloquent icebreaker that will stand out but a polite hi how are you is a lot nicer than nice tits fancy a fuck.just my opinion and sure I will suffer the wrath of the clique but tired of mighter than though people on here
Not sure they're being arsey, I think its quite amusing but obviously everyone's sense of humour is different and people will react differently to the same message. If I sent a reply like that, it would be purely to see what their reaction is and whether they share the same sense of humour.well I do put some effort into my messages but lots don't some just don't know what to say and a polite how's u is better than a cock pic and "fancy riding this"and to be so pedantic with your reply is a bit off in my opinion but that's just my opinion"
Well I think its quite amusing but eveyone's opinion will differ. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What should be the reply to the age-old, "wanna f**k?"
yes.
you.
up the bum.
with a terminator dildo.
Haha, I used to say yeah why not, bend over and brace yourself sugar tits accompanied by a photo of me doing a guy with a strap on!
You never know, they might call you on the bluff. I wouldn't object "
Haha, some did but it mostly got me blocked! |
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By *r_G_SPMan
over a year ago
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The trouble is that there are a large amount on here who wouldn't understand an eloquent message if you sent one anyway!
It can be difficult determining ones intellectual capabilities when sending your first message.
What is the perfect ice breaker anyway?
You wouldn't walk up to someone in a pub or club and spill you life's interests and abilities would you?
The first thing you would say is hi!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What should be the reply to the age-old, "wanna f**k?"
yes.
you.
up the bum.
with a terminator dildo.
Haha, I used to say yeah why not, bend over and brace yourself sugar tits accompanied by a photo of me doing a guy with a strap on!
You never know, they might call you on the bluff. I wouldn't object
Haha, some did but it mostly got me blocked!"
bet it was the size of your strap on that made their eyes water at the thought lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The trouble is that there are a large amount on here who wouldn't understand an eloquent message if you sent one anyway!
It can be difficult determining ones intellectual capabilities when sending your first message.
What is the perfect ice breaker anyway?
You wouldn't walk up to someone in a pub or club and spill you life's interests and abilities would you?
The first thing you would say is hi!!"
exactly and maybe hi how are you so can't see why the op is so het up |
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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago
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Its a time thing OP, Males send loads of messages to the waste bin in the Fab abyss, never to be seen or heard of again, plus too many of us have all on stringing a few words together, with any formal use of punctuation ??? So maybe we are saving everyone a load of time by allowing the Ladies and couples to delete without the need of even opening them  To be fair most on here have the sense of humor of a block of very hard lard ,the forums are where the funny people spend their time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its a time thing OP, Males send loads of messages to the waste bin in the Fab abyss, never to be seen or heard of again, plus too many of us have all on stringing a few words together, with any formal use of punctuation ??? So maybe we are saving everyone a load of time by allowing the Ladies and couples to delete without the need of even opening them To be fair most on here have the sense of humor of a block of very hard lard ,the forums are where the funny people spend their time!"
Well the comedy factor is why I keep coming back.
For instance the OP has clearly made a tongue in cheek post but some people are taking it way too seriously. And it's turning into the usual arguments about opening messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I think they're fit then yes, I'd reply to hi. I'd rather that than pages of long, time consuming, carefully crafted messages from people I don't find remotely attractive and will just delete straight away. |
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By *r_G_SPMan
over a year ago
Nice shoes |
"If I think they're fit then yes, I'd reply to hi. I'd rather that than pages of long, time consuming, carefully crafted messages from people I don't find remotely attractive and will just delete straight away."
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"Does anyone do anything other than delete shit messages like "Hi" or "You okay?" "
This is on a par with cold callers who ask you "How are you TODAY?" Like they didn't give a toss about how you were yesterday 
I have to conclude that enough people reply to these one liners to keep people interested in sending more out. If people didn't get replies to these, they'd stop sending them, wouldn't they?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I think they're fit then yes, I'd reply to hi. I'd rather that than pages of long, time consuming, carefully crafted messages from people I don't find remotely attractive and will just delete straight away."
ruby hi" lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reply to shit first messages if they send a pic and I like it
Some people just find it hard to know what to put in a first message and it would be stupid to turn down a guy you thinks hot simply because he put hi
Don't get me wrong if several messages later he still bores me I'll drop him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I reply to shit first messages if they send a pic and I like it
Some people just find it hard to know what to put in a first message and it would be stupid to turn down a guy you thinks hot simply because he put hi
Don't get me wrong if several messages later he still bores me I'll drop him "
and that is very reasonable not every one has the gift of the gab |
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