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Fingering. Is it a lost art ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Talking to a few of the younger lads in the pub over the weekend(18-21ish) and use older blokes (30-40) were reminiscing about finger blasting your girl in the back of your Vauxhall nova after being to see a film or what ever the younguns were like " that don't happen any more mate" pleases tell me it's not true I love giveing a good fingering and to think a whole generation are missing out on some magical times. |
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"Talking to a few of the younger lads in the pub over the weekend(18-21ish) and use older blokes (30-40) were reminiscing about finger blasting your girl in the back of your Vauxhall nova after being to see a film or what ever the younguns were like " that don't happen any more mate" pleases tell me it's not true I love giveing a good fingering and to think a whole generation are missing out on some magical times. "
Ahhh the good ol days  |
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Micky Flanagan does a great sketch of it should be on youtube
Happy memories of fingering a gf, can't believe it doesn't happen anymore with a younger generation
Do they just out whole "bases" and jump from a peck on the cheek to sex  |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
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Due to fumbling rubbish finger fucking when I was younger I thought fingers weren't my thing. I can now joyously announce that I'm a fully fledged finger fuck squirting queen. After a week of practice and after a horny meet last night, a good hard finger fucking resulted in a massive puddle of cum on the kitchen floor (mine) I was seated in the kitchen on a chair. Unfortunately we had no time to enjoy as our 14 year decided to walk through the back door asking what we were up to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have a lucky chap and saying that your lucky to have a chap that still knows the value of a good fingering "
Indeed. I wouldn't date someone who didn't
~Mia |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Due to fumbling rubbish finger fucking when I was younger I thought fingers weren't my thing. I can now joyously announce that I'm a fully fledged finger fuck squirting queen. After a week of practice and after a horny meet last night, a good hard finger fucking resulted in a massive puddle of cum on the kitchen floor (mine) I was seated in the kitchen on a chair. Unfortunately we had no time to enjoy as our 14 year decided to walk through the back door asking what we were up to "
Oh I bet that was awkward  But glad to see you love a finger fuck |
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"Due to fumbling rubbish finger fucking when I was younger I thought fingers weren't my thing. I can now joyously announce that I'm a fully fledged finger fuck squirting queen. After a week of practice and after a horny meet last night, a good hard finger fucking resulted in a massive puddle of cum on the kitchen floor (mine) I was seated in the kitchen on a chair. Unfortunately we had no time to enjoy as our 14 year decided to walk through the back door asking what we were up to "
An awkward time  |
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"Years ago, me and my mates would talk about "Kit-Kat" girls.
Were they two fingers or four finger girls?
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We used to sing "a finger of fudge is just enough to give the girls a treat" sure it was the twix advert |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finger fucking is fun (kat) xx
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I agree. 
But that is one hell of a tongue twister.  Oh tongue is also good (kat) xx
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I agree.
Besides you need a back up when your fingers get tired. "
Very true lots of foreplay is always good xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't know fingering was an art..."
Proper fingering is.
No this current fad of finger blasting, all gun's blazing, in and out like a piston.
Proper fingering is as much an art as anything else.
Time, practice, experience and understanding.
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
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"I didn't know fingering was an art...
Proper fingering is.
No this current fad of finger blasting, all gun's blazing, in and out like a piston.
Proper fingering is as much an art as anything else.
Time, practice, experience and understanding.
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Sounds wonderful,I love to be the object of time, practice, experience and understanding finger fucking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I didn't know fingering was an art...
Proper fingering is.
No this current fad of finger blasting, all gun's blazing, in and out like a piston.
Proper fingering is as much an art as anything else.
Time, practice, experience and understanding.
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I totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs isn't a fan of fingering. Just tongue or cock will do for her.
She's really not impressed with the latest obsession on the scene with fingering and squirting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I didn't know fingering was an art...
Proper fingering is.
No this current fad of finger blasting, all gun's blazing, in and out like a piston.
Proper fingering is as much an art as anything else.
Time, practice, experience and understanding.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the art of fingering is definitely lost on some people ...
and I blame the porn industry as most men that try it these days end up furiously rubbing (or fingerblasting) in the hope that that will make me squirt!
no, it will just give me a sore cunt  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"the art of fingering is definitely lost on some people ...
and I blame the porn industry as most men that try it these days end up furiously rubbing (or fingerblasting) in the hope that that will make me squirt!
no, it will just give me a sore cunt "
I watch some pron and think Christ on a bike she can't be getting anything from that I love to give a nice slow sentious fingering |
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"the art of fingering is definitely lost on some people ...
and I blame the porn industry as most men that try it these days end up furiously rubbing (or fingerblasting) in the hope that that will make me squirt!
no, it will just give me a sore cunt "
This - porn has a lot to answer for.
Fingering can still be sensual and tantalising without the need to 'finger fuck' like there is no tomorrow. Stimulation of the g-spot gets best results for me, but even better is a gentle fingering while my tongue works on the clit. Have had some good times with that technique |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The art of fingering has been lost to all but a few, who don't think they have to blast away inside a woman. The vagina is a very sensitive area and either side of the thin walls are the urethra and rectum. Gentle fingering has almost died out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely adore being fingered! Such a massive turn on for me and the only way I usually orgasm. Especially if he's kissing me at the same time. I literally turn to putty in a mans hands.
Sadly very few men seem to do it. Or if they do, they don't keep up the momentum. Or god forbid, have sharp nails.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Years ago, me and my mates would talk about "Kit-Kat" girls.
Were they two fingers or four finger girls?
We used to sing "a finger of fudge is just enough to give the girls a treat" sure it was the twix advert"
It was the Fudge advert. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely adore being fingered! Such a massive turn on for me and the only way I usually orgasm. Especially if he's kissing me at the same time. I literally turn to putty in a mans hands.
Sadly very few men seem to do it. Or if they do, they don't keep up the momentum. Or god forbid, have sharp nails. "
Most guys are just to rough for me
I love being gently fingered but guys just don't seem to know the meaning of that anymore, I blame gushing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutely adore being fingered! Such a massive turn on for me and the only way I usually orgasm. Especially if he's kissing me at the same time. I literally turn to putty in a mans hands.
Sadly very few men seem to do it. Or if they do, they don't keep up the momentum. Or god forbid, have sharp nails.
Most guys are just to rough for me
I love being gently fingered but guys just don't seem to know the meaning of that anymore, I blame gushing "
totally agree. Nothing worse than rough, dry, flinger blasting. Wish more guys did it "properly"! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fingering is great, especially when you find that spot and make a lady gush and you feel their pussy tighten around your fingers."
here we go... gush brigade.
Not everyone gushes. Some of us do pelvic floor exercises. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutely adore being fingered! Such a massive turn on for me and the only way I usually orgasm. Especially if he's kissing me at the same time. I literally turn to putty in a mans hands.
Sadly very few men seem to do it. Or if they do, they don't keep up the momentum. Or god forbid, have sharp nails.
Most guys are just to rough for me
I love being gently fingered but guys just don't seem to know the meaning of that anymore, I blame gushing totally agree. Nothing worse than rough, dry, flinger blasting. Wish more guys did it "properly"! "
But didn't you know the way to cure dryness is blast a bit harder |
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"Absolutely adore being fingered! Such a massive turn on for me and the only way I usually orgasm. Especially if he's kissing me at the same time. I literally turn to putty in a mans hands.
Sadly very few men seem to do it. Or if they do, they don't keep up the momentum. Or god forbid, have sharp nails.
Most guys are just to rough for me
I love being gently fingered but guys just don't seem to know the meaning of that anymore, I blame gushing "
Needs to start slowly with single finger and little insertions before building the speed, depth and lastly amount of fingers, lol! Love to see the enjoyment building, especially when the fingering is being done discretely in a public place! Love it! |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
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"Fingering is great, especially when you find that spot and make a lady gush and you feel their pussy tighten around your fingers. here we go... gush brigade.
Not everyone gushes. Some of us do pelvic floor exercises. "
Umm I've got pelvic floor muscles of steel, think your confusing cum/squirty with piss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talking to a few of the younger lads in the pub over the weekend(18-21ish) and use older blokes (30-40) were reminiscing about finger blasting your girl in the back of your Vauxhall nova after being to see a film or what ever the younguns were like " that don't happen any more mate" pleases tell me it's not true I love giveing a good fingering and to think a whole generation are missing out on some magical times. "
It most certainly does happen, in a bike shed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fingering is great, especially when you find that spot and make a lady gush and you feel their pussy tighten around your fingers. here we go... gush brigade.
Not everyone gushes. Some of us do pelvic floor exercises.
Umm I've got pelvic floor muscles of steel, think your confusing cum/squirty with piss "
ummm no. I believe it is piss. Not some random gland that factually doesn't actually hold any liquid. But there's many threads arguing it back and forth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talking to a few of the younger lads in the pub over the weekend(18-21ish) and use older blokes (30-40) were reminiscing about finger blasting your girl in the back of your Vauxhall nova after being to see a film or what ever the younguns were like " that don't happen any more mate" pleases tell me it's not true I love giveing a good fingering and to think a whole generation are missing out on some magical times. "
I'll rather lick and rub the clit with my finger at the same time *Mr |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura |
"Fingering is great, especially when you find that spot and make a lady gush and you feel their pussy tighten around your fingers. here we go... gush brigade.
Not everyone gushes. Some of us do pelvic floor exercises.
Umm I've got pelvic floor muscles of steel, think your confusing cum/squirty with piss ummm no. I believe it is piss. Not some random gland that factually doesn't actually hold any liquid. But there's many threads arguing it back and forth. "
Well I can categorically state that I do not squirt piss, my squirt is milky! |
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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago
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"Fingering is great, especially when you find that spot and make a lady gush and you feel their pussy tighten around your fingers. here we go... gush brigade.
Not everyone gushes. Some of us do pelvic floor exercises.
Umm I've got pelvic floor muscles of steel, think your confusing cum/squirty with piss ummm no. I believe it is piss. Not some random gland that factually doesn't actually hold any liquid. But there's many threads arguing it back and forth.
Well I can categorically state that I do not squirt piss, my squirt is milky! "
Actually I can squirt piss too when I'm rushing to piss  but that has nothing to do with squirting cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fingering is great, especially when you find that spot and make a lady gush and you feel their pussy tighten around your fingers. here we go... gush brigade.
Not everyone gushes. Some of us do pelvic floor exercises.
Umm I've got pelvic floor muscles of steel, think your confusing cum/squirty with piss ummm no. I believe it is piss. Not some random gland that factually doesn't actually hold any liquid. But there's many threads arguing it back and forth.
Well I can categorically state that I do not squirt piss, my squirt is milky! "
It's definitely not piss! Those who say it is have obviously never experienced it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fingering a girl used to be a right of passage for all boys. It was the first step to sexual maturity.
Now I'm older I absolutely adore giving a woman a good fingering and as my veris will testify am quite good at it. Nothing better than working your fingers inside a woman and seeing and sensing the reactions as you explore inside her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fingering is great, especially when you find that spot and make a lady gush and you feel their pussy tighten around your fingers. here we go... gush brigade.
Not everyone gushes. Some of us do pelvic floor exercises.
Umm I've got pelvic floor muscles of steel, think your confusing cum/squirty with piss ummm no. I believe it is piss. Not some random gland that factually doesn't actually hold any liquid. But there's many threads arguing it back and forth.
Well I can categorically state that I do not squirt piss, my squirt is milky!
It's definitely not piss! Those who say it is have obviously never experienced it"
I've been at many many parties where white towels have been used and left until the next day to clean... Its piss. There's also no body part that can contain it other than the bladder. I seriously suggest you head to the doctor if you honestly believe it isn't piss- As there's something being held inside your body that can cause infection. And as every medical journal ever published doesn't show it, I'd be very worried! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Prefer fingers to a tongue!
God me too! If only more men boasted about their fingering skills as opposed to their oral skills  "
totally agree! Oral can be so boring!!!
Give me fingers any day!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talking to a few of the younger lads in the pub over the weekend(18-21ish) and use older blokes (30-40) were reminiscing about finger blasting your girl in the back of your Vauxhall nova after being to see a film or what ever the younguns were like " that don't happen any more mate" pleases tell me it's not true I love giveing a good fingering and to think a whole generation are missing out on some magical times. "
A finger blasting? Hardly an art. Fingering, however, is! |
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By *armersWoman
over a year ago
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I love being fingered so many places to explore touch and feel. I love sucking his fingers afterwards too
I also love fingering back too watch a woman squirm as you are hitting the right spots x
Instant gratification x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be the only one who had very little teenage years experience of this
Does t mean you can't make up for it now "
Very true shame its the only thing the fella isn't good at good job he has skills in oral |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
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"I must be the only one who had very little teenage years experience of this
Does t mean you can't make up for it now
Very true shame its the only thing the fella isn't good at good job he has skills in oral "
The two go together so well though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love to be fingered, S can find an amazing spot and strokes it gently for ages, the sensation and build up is something I haven't experienced before and when I cum it's an uncontrollable hip jerking orgasm, squirt loads and the butterfly feeling up inside my pussy are amazing.
Knocks the breath out of me every single time. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The classiest local 'fingering' spot for non-drivers used to be under Worthing pier.
I wonder what goes on under there if it really is a dying art in our young... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must be the only one who had very little teenage years experience of this
Does t mean you can't make up for it now
Very true shame its the only thing the fella isn't good at good job he has skills in oral
The two go together so well though "
They sound perfect together |
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"Talking to a few of the younger lads in the pub over the weekend(18-21ish) and use older blokes (30-40) were reminiscing about finger blasting your girl in the back of your Vauxhall nova after being to see a film or what ever the younguns were like " that don't happen any more mate" pleases tell me it's not true I love giveing a good fingering and to think a whole generation are missing out on some magical times. "
I'm with you OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fingering in my opinion is hugely underrated. I also meet for a social and recently I have found myself checking out the size of his fingers
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But in this case...
Does size matter? "
Surely dexterity and imagination wins over size in this battle? |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Fingering in my opinion is hugely underrated. I also meet for a social and recently I have found myself checking out the size of his fingers
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But in this case...
Does size matter?
Surely dexterity and imagination wins over size in this battle? "
I think size matters to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fingering in my opinion is hugely underrated. I also meet for a social and recently I have found myself checking out the size of his fingers
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But in this case...
Does size matter?
Surely dexterity and imagination wins over size in this battle?
I think size matters to "
Are we talking length or girth here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love being fingered so many places to explore touch and feel. I love sucking his fingers afterwards too
I also love fingering back too watch a woman squirm as you are hitting the right spots x
Instant gratification x "
totally agree with the instant gratification |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Talking to a few of the younger lads in the pub over the weekend(18-21ish) and use older blokes (30-40) were reminiscing about finger blasting your girl in the back of your Vauxhall nova after being to see a film or what ever the younguns were like " that don't happen any more mate" pleases tell me it's not true I love giveing a good fingering and to think a whole generation are missing out on some magical times. "
It happens a lot in swinging but sad to say the number of guys that havent a clue has put me off letting guys on meets as been torn once at least and hurt a few times and I do tell them.... we are talking injured from the first few moments... 
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it is tbh. Nothing better than a guy who knows what he's doing with his fingers but if he's just going to waggle them around in my foof without a clue it's damn annoying |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
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"Fingering in my opinion is hugely underrated. I also meet for a social and recently I have found myself checking out the size of his fingers
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But in this case...
Does size matter?
Surely dexterity and imagination wins over size in this battle?
I think size matters to "
Did I mention I have very long fingers, I think I did |
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By *penJackMan
over a year ago
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"Not everyone gushes. Some of us do pelvic floor exercises. "
Having a strong pelvic floor doesnt preclude gushing. In fact, it can help.
And it's absolutely not piss. Different taste, different smell, different colour. And it dries clean.
I personally wouldnt care if it was piss, and I believe some studies show it may contain trace elements of urine. But sooooo not just piss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The younger generation will still be fingering in the back of the car, only these days they are fingering their smart phones instead. Far more important to them. |
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