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Don't you just hate people who hide their profile.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's like a being bloody voyeur. I am what I am and you can see that though my profile and forum posts what I feel. Why hide in the dark side where no one can see you? It annoys the fuck out of me. Cxxx |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I hide my profile if I want a break from the site. Means I don't show on a search. I also filter my message when on a break. that probably really pisses off some blokes but tough. I run my profile the way I wish to. |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
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Because life is far too chaotic at the minute to even think about meeting. So no point people viewing profile and send a message only to be told im not meeting at the minute, and dont know when i will be again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think if you have been through a tough time it is a legitimate reason for hiding your profile.... but over 30% of the people who look at us do not reciprocate. We are open to scrutiny and they are hidden. It simply isn't equitable and annoys the fuck out of me.
Generally I believe it is just the action of bottom feeders who are unwilling to share their need or vulnerability or they are just abusing the openness of the rest of us. |
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"I think if you have been through a tough time it is a legitimate reason for hiding your profile.... but over 30% of the people who look at us do not reciprocate. We are open to scrutiny and they are hidden. It simply isn't equitable and annoys the fuck out of me.
Generally I believe it is just the action of bottom feeders who are unwilling to share their need or vulnerability or they are just abusing the openness of the rest of us."
So hide your profile then they can't see it and you'll feel waaayyy better |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"I think if you have been through a tough time it is a legitimate reason for hiding your profile.... but over 30% of the people who look at us do not reciprocate. We are open to scrutiny and they are hidden. It simply isn't equitable and annoys the fuck out of me.
Generally I believe it is just the action of bottom feeders who are unwilling to share their need or vulnerability or they are just abusing the openness of the rest of us."
Nobody tell OP about ninja viewers, they'll combust  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow.
I hid our profile as we have decided to have a short break from meets for reasons that are nobody's business but ours, but are damn good ones.
Hiding your profile stops it showing in searches and therefore reduces the influx of inbound messages by 98%
What's the point in wasting everyone's time adversting something that isn't currently available?
I didn't realise that by having a short break it meant we weren't allowed to come on the site to speak to our friends, participate in the forums, see what is happening in our favourite clubs, and look to see if there is anyone who might tickle our fancy in the future...and that in doing so it would install such venomous hatred in other users!
I stand corrected by the profile police.
Please accept my sincere apologies.
Ruby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if you have been through a tough time it is a legitimate reason for hiding your profile.... but over 30% of the people who look at us do not reciprocate. We are open to scrutiny and they are hidden. It simply isn't equitable and annoys the fuck out of me.
Generally I believe it is just the action of bottom feeders who are unwilling to share their need or vulnerability or they are just abusing the openness of the rest of us."
Why should people share their vulnerabilities with strangers??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow.
I hid our profile as we have decided to have a short break from meets for reasons that are nobody's business but ours, but are damn good ones.
Hiding your profile stops it showing in searches and therefore reduces the influx of inbound messages by 98%
What's the point in wasting everyone's time adversting something that isn't currently available?
I didn't realise that by having a short break it meant we weren't allowed to come on the site to speak to our friends, participate in the forums, see what is happening in our favourite clubs, and look to see if there is anyone who might tickle our fancy in the future...and that in doing so it would install such venomous hatred in other users!
I stand corrected by the profile police.
Please accept my sincere apologies.
Ruby"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not one person mentioned the OP's profile pic...interesting 
Why? Because he's sitting on a toilet? So what... "
Last time i looked it was a woman.
Maybe YOU need to get out more or lay of the booze.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not one person mentioned the OP's profile pic...interesting
Why? Because he's sitting on a toilet? So what...
You need to have another look "
I'm really not that interested tbh.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not one person mentioned the OP's profile pic...interesting
Why? Because he's sitting on a toilet? So what...
You need to have another look
I'm really not that interested tbh.. "
LMAO dismissed buddy bedtime for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not one person mentioned the OP's profile pic...interesting
Why? Because he's sitting on a toilet? So what...
Last time i looked it was a woman.
Maybe YOU need to get out more or lay of the booze.
Dismissed. "
I Couldn't be bothered opening up the profile.. I was replying to the sentiment not the profile.. Maybe your eyesight is brilliant for thumbnail images.. So last time you looked at the profile it was a woman.. Me.. I didn't.. And I might lay off the booze not lay of the booze.. Whatever that means..
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"It does seem a little strange when you get a wink and they have hidden their profile..."
I think its odd that anyone proactively searching would hide their profile, but it doesn't annoy me. I just delete and move on. |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"I think if you have been through a tough time it is a legitimate reason for hiding your profile.... but over 30% of the people who look at us do not reciprocate. We are open to scrutiny and they are hidden. It simply isn't equitable and annoys the fuck out of me.
Generally I believe it is just the action of bottom feeders who are unwilling to share their need or vulnerability or they are just abusing the openness of the rest of us."
Some people just don't like couples perving over them lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know and accept that some people have to hide their profile due to being victimised on a Fab.. but not 30% of people who view us .. in all of our emotional and visual nakedness.. Cxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Whenever I see "Profile not available' I feel somehow diminished, reduced and left less valued. Perhaps I should be less open, more diminished and less openly vulnerable and change our profile to "not available" ... but this is not why we are all here. We are here to tell those who are like us that we are open, available ... and vulnerable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not one person mentioned the OP's profile pic...interesting
Why? Because he's sitting on a toilet? So what...
Last time i looked it was a woman.
Maybe YOU need to get out more or lay of the booze.
Dismissed. "
Some men have pics that are mostly a woman and their hand or cock stuck in them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whenever I see "Profile not available' I feel somehow diminished, reduced and left less valued. Perhaps I should be less open, more diminished and less openly vulnerable and change our profile to "not available" ... but this is not why we are all here. We are here to tell those who are like us that we are open, available ... and vulnerable. "
Less valued? I wouldn't let any site put a value on how I feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know. Really gets on my tits.
It's ironic coz your profile is hidden love your humour.. "
It's only hidden because I'm not meeting at the moment-too busy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know. Really gets on my tits.
It's ironic coz your profile is hidden love your humour..
It's only hidden because I'm not meeting at the moment-too busy."
You're one of the 30%..its OK.. And no need to give any reason to anyone.. |
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