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"best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time."
I dunno, the people who aren't as cynical as us seem to have a lot of fun. |
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"best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time.
I dunno, the people who aren't as cynical as us seem to have a lot of fun. "
i have a lot of fun, but it's cynical fun. |
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"best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time.
I dunno, the people who aren't as cynical as us seem to have a lot of fun.
i have a lot of fun, but it's cynical fun."
 - cynical fun, love it.
I guess as a couple looking for couples we have a different perspective.
We'd never take one for the team, and a lot of couples say the same, but we sometimes find that hard to believe. |
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I'm not , rather I'm always a little sceptical.
What is fun is putting oneself deliberately outside ones comfort zone. That way one learns new things that you like, and don't like too |
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"best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time.
I dunno, the people who aren't as cynical as us seem to have a lot of fun.
i have a lot of fun, but it's cynical fun.
- cynical fun, love it.
I guess as a couple looking for couples we have a different perspective.
We'd never take one for the team, and a lot of couples say the same, but we sometimes find that hard to believe. "
i probably would, if someone really loved me and the other person wasn't that bad. but i'm cynical in the first place that guys would pretend they want me so they can get more sex anyway (as this tends to be what happens). |
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"best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time.
I dunno, the people who aren't as cynical as us seem to have a lot of fun.
i have a lot of fun, but it's cynical fun.
- cynical fun, love it.
I guess as a couple looking for couples we have a different perspective.
We'd never take one for the team, and a lot of couples say the same, but we sometimes find that hard to believe.
i probably would, if someone really loved me and the other person wasn't that bad. but i'm cynical in the first place that guys would pretend they want me so they can get more sex anyway (as this tends to be what happens)."
Ah you see we both have taken one for the team before, not exactly on purpose but it happened.
Plus I've suspected being the one who the other woman has taken one for the team for, if that makes sense.
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"best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time.
I dunno, the people who aren't as cynical as us seem to have a lot of fun.
i have a lot of fun, but it's cynical fun.
- cynical fun, love it.
I guess as a couple looking for couples we have a different perspective.
We'd never take one for the team, and a lot of couples say the same, but we sometimes find that hard to believe.
i probably would, if someone really loved me and the other person wasn't that bad. but i'm cynical in the first place that guys would pretend they want me so they can get more sex anyway (as this tends to be what happens).
Ah you see we both have taken one for the team before, not exactly on purpose but it happened.
Plus I've suspected being the one who the other woman has taken one for the team for, if that makes sense.
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took a few minutes but yeah that made sense eventually, and it could've happened but hopefully you'd really not have an idea. |
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"Yep, my opinion of men has nosedived since joining this site!
Our opinion of people, female and male, has taken a knock due to fab "
My opinion of hamsters has changed since joining xhamster |
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"You call it cynicism, I call it realism. I've been on here a while and can usually see the BS being peddled quite early on."
Maybe that's the difference between cynicism and realism/pragmatism.
Being a realist means you're aware of the bullshit but you manage expectations and have fun.
Cynic means you see bullshit everywhere and it gets in the way of fun. |
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"Yep, my opinion of men has nosedived since joining this site!
Same.
Anyone would think this is dial-a-vag!  "
Lol
To be fair though some of the women and couples can be as bad, It's a lack of respect by people towards others in general. |
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"Nah. Cynical with a soupçon of merriment here. Renders me a pragmatist who keeps her sense of humour."
well put yes......remain realistic perspective of human behaviour but always prepared to be pleasantly surprised!
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