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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its actually quite hard for younger guys on here to get some attention. Now I am not writing this to complain but I know you need experience to get noticed but you can't gain the experience until you get noticed. If that makes sense.
Im not new to sex at all and quite experienced when it comes to the bedroom, my ex was insanely wide so haven't got many boundaries really.
I just think some woman have high standards on here. But let hear what you guys think? |
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Have a look at how many of the women's profiles you're looking at end at 40 and be glad you're still under on here!!
Saying that it's hard for all guys - I do ok because I've persevered, am polite and reliable and am happy to meet at clubs etc as well
It's a marathon not a sprint for single guys on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its actually quite hard for younger guys on here to get some attention. Now I am not writing this to complain but I know you need experience to get noticed but you can't gain the experience until you get noticed. If that makes sense.
Im not new to sex at all and quite experienced when it comes to the bedroom, my ex was insanely wide so haven't got many boundaries really.
I just think some woman have high standards on here. But let hear what you guys think?"
Then gain some? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its actually quite hard for younger guys on here to get some attention. Now I am not writing this to complain but I know you need experience to get noticed but you can't gain the experience until you get noticed. If that makes sense.
Im not new to sex at all and quite experienced when it comes to the bedroom, my ex was insanely wide so haven't got many boundaries really.
I just think some woman have high standards on here. But let hear what you guys think?"
What makes you think that it's your age that is holding you back? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Because people are after the more expereience, basically the ones who have verified by other.
And with my age they just think oh hes too young to know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because people are after the more expereience, basically the ones who have verified by other.
And with my age they just think oh hes too young to know."
You're only 19. To many you will be too young. We are at the other end and many say we're too old! |
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"Your ex was insanely wide? Is this code for something?"
I presume he meant wild!! 
Tbh op I wouldn't consider a guy who wasn't at least mid 20's - there may be others out there who don't feel the same though! Have you done a search to find women and couples whose age criteria you meet? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See fab as a connecting tool not a free ticket to pussy. Yes your young but use that wisely and so your maturity thro your personality n i think you'll do fine. On n if a woman chats to you on here don't auto assume she's game cos chances are she's just being friendly. Xxx |
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"Because people are after the more expereience, basically the ones who have verified by other.
And with my age they just think oh hes too young to know."
But you don't know for sure that it's your age that is preventing you from getting a meet. Unless all your replies are 'nah, ya too young' and then you will know.
It could be something......else!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah i meant wild, that was a typo.
And Im not on here just for Sex, yes its nice added bonus. But Im on here because i want to meet other like minded without the hassle of a relationship.
And ive done a search and the ones i message just tend to blank even when I persoanlly match some if not most of there requirements. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah i meant wild, that was a typo.
And Im not on here just for Sex, yes its nice added bonus. But Im on here because i want to meet other like minded without the hassle of a relationship.
And ive done a search and the ones i message just tend to blank even when I persoanlly match some if not most of there requirements."
Most of us women get lots of messages so we often just have a quick butchers at the profile before we open the message.
For me atm I'm not meeting so I just scan my messages then bulk delete. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah i meant wild, that was a typo.
And Im not on here just for Sex, yes its nice added bonus. But Im on here because i want to meet other like minded without the hassle of a relationship.
And ive done a search and the ones i message just tend to blank even when I persoanlly match some if not most of there requirements."
Widen your abilities. Are you really straight? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So would it be an problem if i message again at a later date? in hope some woman might see it if they do miss yours first time round?"
No not at all. I quite like the ones who message again after a few weeks because it shows a genuine intrest n not just a FaF copy n paste message. Xxx |
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I suggest going to a club because then your looks and personality will be used to your best effect whereas on here, written communication quality can sometimes tip the balance from the young to the older. In some cases. Not mine. Cos all I ever say is 'shag?' |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I suggest going to a club because then your looks and personality will be used to your best effect whereas on here, written communication quality can sometimes tip the balance from the young to the older. In some cases. Not mine. Cos all I ever say is 'shag?' "
He's too young for most clubs. |
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"I suggest going to a club because then your looks and personality will be used to your best effect whereas on here, written communication quality can sometimes tip the balance from the young to the older. In some cases. Not mine. Cos all I ever say is 'shag?'
He's too young for most clubs."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because people are after the more expereience, basically the ones who have verified by other.
And with my age they just think oh hes too young to know.
You're only 19. To many you will be too young. We are at the other end and many say we're too old! "
Au contraire  |
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You should be doing proper dating. ....these poor girls in the vanilla world don't get a look in ...and then you think in real life It's going to be the same....well the answer is NO.....live a proper life before you think of swinging |
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"yeah the clubs around me are 21 i belive ill have to double check that. So would be hard for me to go to a club"
Yes I do have high standards and that is gonna change.
The youngest I've had so far has been 20 so there are women on here who will meet you if you meet their standards, as for clubs I'm sure one or two are from the age 18 you would have to look into that but failing that you can still attend socials as most are in bars. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its actually quite hard for younger guys on here to get some attention. Now I am not writing this to complain but I know you need experience to get noticed but you can't gain the experience until you get noticed. If that makes sense.
Im not new to sex at all and quite experienced when it comes to the bedroom, my ex was insanely wide so haven't got many boundaries really.
I just think some woman have high standards on here. But let hear what you guys think?"
Problem I have with younger guys is that when I talk or cam with them, they will cum and go, or more likely just go. I doubt any could satisfy me! 30 minutes is not what I need. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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It is quite remarkable that a lot of guys on fab, both young and old, expect a free fuck after shooting off a five line message and complain when this tactic doesn't work. Life, and swinging, isn't quite like that. Those that put in sone effort - eg visiting a club or joining a social - usually have much less to complain about. I often play with young guys, but not ones that simply send a message or two. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im not really complaining, im just curious as to what the actually way to go about swinging when your a young guy on here.
Now id love to go to clubs but ones around my require 21 and as for the social meets i think i might start going to them.
As for a 5 liner you cant really say much in 5 lines. But hey ho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love younger fellas, but you're younger than I would go for. I moved my filters up a little as I found too many times this age group "popped" a little early but then were mortified and legged it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See with me it would be slightly different, having the wild ex and the crazy thing we did. im not exctied as easily anymore. I think thats alway why im on here to try new things but im just not sure if im doing things right on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a difficult place for any man. You can only learn by experience, but if it helps at all the chaps I meet who are now in their mid to late 20s on the whole, certainly have it weighed up all right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So your kinda saying just stick with it? And as time goes on ill eventually get meets and experience the older i get?"
Pretty much...pretty much an across the board rule luvver. Just do one day at a time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At 19 should be out with your mates meeting girls and enjoying yourself not looking online for it.
Go out and have fun buddy while you're still young and can.  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"You should be doing proper dating. ....these poor girls in the vanilla world don't get a look in ...and then you think in real life It's going to be the same....well the answer is NO.....live a proper life before you think of swinging "
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"So your kinda saying just stick with it? And as time goes on ill eventually get meets and experience the older i get?"
Is this the only place you're looking for a meet? Or are you getting out and about and getting to know people. If the former you're probably going to get frustrated quickly. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"At 19 should be out with your mates meeting girls and enjoying yourself not looking online for it.
Go out and have fun buddy while you're still young and can.
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My grandson is 18 and having a whale of a time with the young ladies...offline |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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To be fair on the younger generation, I would have killed for a place like this when I was 19. I was a right goer, and would have loved to be able to experience a wider selection, so to speak.
however, I'm a woman. Bit easier for me on here. Not so easy when out and about. |
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"So your kinda saying just stick with it? And as time goes on ill eventually get meets and experience the older i get?"
You can see that being 19 (or 20) on here is NOT an advantage. It's not a selling point. It is in a bar or club though. Bound to be loads of other ladies your age too and hardly anyone my age to get in the way. I'm not saying leave but what I am saying is don't rely on Fab for sex - you'll succeed more in real life. |
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I only meet younger men but they still have to interest me.
I'd say your profile puts me off. You're proud of your cock and going drinking. You're just after the stereotype things like heels, stockings and a FFM.
Us older women are people and want to meet guys who want to meet us as people not just to tick the 'older bird' off the list |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is something im trying as i cant deal with all the realationships.
And yes im going out, nights out down town etc.. But im using this for more of a different variety, because town is just the same crap each week.
Im only on here to find some new. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See fab as a connecting tool not a free ticket to pussy. Yes your young but use that wisely and so your maturity thro your personality n i think you'll do fine. On n if a woman chats to you on here don't auto assume she's game cos chances are she's just being friendly. Xxx"
This!
Personally, I love younger guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its actually quite hard for younger guys on here to get some attention. Now I am not writing this to complain but I know you need experience to get noticed but you can't gain the experience until you get noticed. If that makes sense.
Im not new to sex at all and quite experienced when it comes to the bedroom, my ex was insanely wide so haven't got many boundaries really.
I just think some woman have high standards on here. But let hear what you guys think?"
You'll get to the golden age. No need to worry too much |
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