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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My fb is now routinely spitting on me during play....always when fucking doggy. TBH it's getting on my wick... and I'm beginning to wonder, is he merely taking 'inspiration' from porn or could it be a lack of respect or even dislike? Whatever, it's going to stop! Got me thinking though, do any women, or men, enjoy it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have had this during a humiliation/dom/sub scene - it was part of the role play, I endured it rather than enjoyed it because I knew it fitted into what my partner wanted, I was comfortable to try it once ...afterwards we talked about it and agreed not to continue with that aspect of play....all part of learning how to please and be pleased 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"have had this during a humiliation/dom/sub scene - it was part of the role play, I endured it rather than enjoyed it because I knew it fitted into what my partner wanted, I was comfortable to try it once ...afterwards we talked about it and agreed not to continue with that aspect of play....all part of learning how to please and be pleased
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Great communication!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If someone spat on me it would be the last thing they did before I threw them out. Some like it, I find it disrespectful. Tell him you don't like it. "
Yes, I do need to get better at my communication as who knows? He might think I like it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My fb is now routinely spitting on me during play....always when fucking doggy. TBH it's getting on my wick... and I'm beginning to wonder, is he merely taking 'inspiration' from porn or could it be a lack of respect or even dislike? Whatever, it's going to stop! Got me thinking though, do any women, or men, enjoy it? "
that is so wrong !!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A definite NO from me! As a result I'd probably vomit over him anyway 
But you need to tell him to stop hun x"
Maybe I should try that and see if he likes that particular fetish hee hee! I will tell him...but wondered what's motivating it. What do men, or women, get out of it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, just politely tell him it is not your thing and please could he not do it again. He has probably seen it as you said on porn. You just need to re establish the boundaries, a good FB can be hard to find, so better to just say. He probably doesn't realise you don't like it, as he has done it and you haven't told him don't. XXX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, just politely tell him it is not your thing and please could he not do it again. He has probably seen it as you said on porn. You just need to re establish the boundaries, a good FB can be hard to find, so better to just say. He probably doesn't realise you don't like it, as he has done it and you haven't told him don't. XXX"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a huge symbolism behind this act.
In my culture, when we spit on the floor when someone pass by you, it means we higly despice them.
Having said that spitting on you, during sex, in a position where you are submitted to him, might be sign of total possesion.
Maybe this is just what it is.
But if you don't like it, make it stop or it will escalated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He is showing contempt for you by spitting on you! Personally I think it's gross and disgusting, not to mention very disrespectful. Tell him to stop or you won't see him again!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some males believe it is an alpha mark ... and it will intensify things for you as it's a sense of power over you and that you will be more bonded to him... feel good factor ....
It's certainly not for me ... everyone has their kink ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a Nurse, spitting spreads so maybe germs so id definitely be telling him to pack it in.
If it's bothered you enough to mention it on a forum, then it's definitely on your mind.
If he's grown up enough to put his bits on you, he's grown up enough to take some constructive criticism. If not.... Next!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a Nurse, spitting spreads so maybe germs so id definitely be telling him to pack it in.
If it's bothered you enough to mention it on a forum, then it's definitely on your mind.
If he's grown up enough to put his bits on you, he's grown up enough to take some constructive criticism. If not.... Next!! "
*many *in bit of a typing frenzy! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some males believe it is an alpha mark ... and it will intensify things for you as it's a sense of power over you and that you will be more bonded to him... feel good factor ....
It's certainly not for me ... everyone has their kink ... "
Hmmm hadn't seen it in those terms...love your avatar btw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"shit in your hand and slap him next time.
Thanks for the advice but I think I'll just tell him to stop. Less messy!
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it wasn't serious 
really though, just have a frank word with him and point out the line in the sand. he should understand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My fb is now routinely spitting on me during play....always when fucking doggy. TBH it's getting on my wick... and I'm beginning to wonder, is he merely taking 'inspiration' from porn or could it be a lack of respect or even dislike? Whatever, it's going to stop! Got me thinking though, do any women, or men, enjoy it? "
Anyone spits on me I'll fucking slap them!
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"My fb is now routinely spitting on me during play....always when fucking doggy. TBH it's getting on my wick... and I'm beginning to wonder, is he merely taking 'inspiration' from porn or could it be a lack of respect or even dislike? Whatever, it's going to stop! Got me thinking though, do any women, or men, enjoy it? "
Is he trying to lube his cock up a bit more?
Either way someone spat on me I'm more than likely to punch them. |
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"My fb is now routinely spitting on me during play....always when fucking doggy. TBH it's getting on my wick... and I'm beginning to wonder, is he merely taking 'inspiration' from porn or could it be a lack of respect or even dislike? Whatever, it's going to stop! Got me thinking though, do any women, or men, enjoy it? "
It doesn't matter if other people like it or not. You don't like it, and should say so the first time it happened.
Speak to him about it, you should be playing in a way that you are happy with xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being spat on by Dorian only though.. and this is only when we are having a good hard rough fucking.
Personally it makes me feel like a bad girl and it makes me feel very naughty which is why it turns me on so much when he does to me.
It's more because I love being controlled in the bedroom and I am definitely a heavily sub person. I just love being used by him
Some people would have a fit if they saw what I let him do to me but I love it hehehe.
It's more about a control/giving up control thing for most people.
I wouldn't let anyone else do it to me that's for sure
But I would suggest if you are feeling uncomfortable to have a word with him about boundaries and what you are and aren't comfortable with.
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"My fb is now routinely spitting on me during play....always when fucking doggy. TBH it's getting on my wick... and I'm beginning to wonder, is he merely taking 'inspiration' from porn or could it be a lack of respect or even dislike? Whatever, it's going to stop! Got me thinking though, do any women, or men, enjoy it? "
I would grab hold of his nuts real tight and ask if he likes them being crushed NO then don't spit on me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my ex used to love this. She'd spit in my mouth during a sub/Domme session as a kinda domination/subjugation act.
If you're spitting directly on someone (and not to get their dry bits wet), it's to dominate and humiliate them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Find spitting to be disgusting, never come across it in a sexual context and if someone wanted me to do it to them I'd have to say no.
I was spat at once on a football pitch, it didn't end well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Communication is probably key, he should have let you know he wanted to do that and asked if it was OK, you should have communicated your dislike when it happened. The sooner you let him know that you don't like it, the sooner he can make the decision as to stop spitting or stop fucking you. |
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