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Is this really Facebook?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So joined a few weeks back. I'm just a genuine naughty guy ( who isn't right! ) who's been swinging for years etc. Though I'm finding the site highly frustrating as it seems to not really be a swinging site if you get what I mean.

Why do non swingers populate it so much?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i'm not even a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i like sex with singles.

and 3sums where i'm being fucked from behind and i can pound my pussy into him while i'm sucking off the other guy.

i also like to post meals and pictures of cats.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i like sex with singles.

and 3sums where i'm being fucked from behind and i can pound my pussy into him while i'm sucking off the other guy.

i also like to post meals and pictures of cats."

Well that's great. ..but isn't it open to everyone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish."

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why? "

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why? "

I choose to...simple!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i like sex with singles.

and 3sums where i'm being fucked from behind and i can pound my pussy into him while i'm sucking off the other guy.

i also like to post meals and pictures of cats.

Well that's great. ..but isn't it open to everyone? "

well yeah coz my p

e is a singles profile.

i don't really post pics of meals or cats, i don't even do that on facebook.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i like sex with singles.

and 3sums where i'm being fucked from behind and i can pound my pussy into him while i'm sucking off the other guy.

i also like to post meals and pictures of cats.

Well that's great. ..but isn't it open to everyone?

Facebook. ..meals...yeah!

well yeah coz my p

e is a singles profile.

i don't really post pics of meals or cats, i don't even do that on facebook.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too. "

Very true, couldn't agree more there is that side of it of course. But you wouldn't hang around a swimming pool if you had no intention of actually using the pool?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too.

Very true, couldn't agree more there is that side of it of course. But you wouldn't hang around a swimming pool if you had no intention of actually using the pool? "

maybe we just don't want pool and go?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too.

Very true, couldn't agree more there is that side of it of course. But you wouldn't hang around a swimming pool if you had no intention of actually using the pool?

maybe we just don't want pool and go?"

Hahahahaha! . . . . Well I love to swim! x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too.

Very true, couldn't agree more there is that side of it of course. But you wouldn't hang around a swimming pool if you had no intention of actually using the pool?

maybe we just don't want pool and go?

Hahahahaha! . . . . Well I love to swim! x"

i nearly fall asleep in the pool anyway, it's too relaxing.

there's all sorts on here using the site for all the things it can be used for. i think only people we should complain about are those who lie to get what they want really. like they want sex chat so pretend they want to meet, things like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too.

Very true, couldn't agree more there is

that side of it of course. But you

wouldn't hang around a swimming pool

if you had no intention of actually using

the pool?

Each to their own. ..

But surely everyone can do what they want on here!??

maybe we just don't want pool and go?

Hahahahaha! . . . . Well I love to swim! x

i nearly fall asleep in the pool anyway, it's too relaxing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too.

Very true, couldn't agree more there is that side of it of course. But you wouldn't hang around a swimming pool if you had no intention of actually using the pool? "

Never been to an outdoor swimming area, and not everyone was swimming? I have. I'm confused by your comment though... Why do you care? Meet the ones you want to meet, and don't worry about how others use the site. If it was all about only sex, why have forums called the lounge, and swingers chat for example?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too.

Very true, couldn't agree more there is that side of it of course. But you wouldn't hang around a swimming pool if you had no intention of actually using the pool?

maybe we just don't want pool and go?

Hahahahaha! . . . . Well I love to swim! x

i nearly fall asleep in the pool anyway, it's too relaxing.

I guess! . . . People maybe need to get out more and get more actively involved in life. . . Maybe because I'm continually in a social situations it's easy for me to see the site as purely a sex medium. . . . Never really considered there may be people ( isolated/lonely ) who haven't got much of a social side of life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Really. ..who gives a shit?

It's a sex site!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too.

Very true, couldn't agree more there is that side of it of course. But you wouldn't hang around a swimming pool if you had no intention of actually using the pool?

maybe we just don't want pool and go?

Hahahahaha! . . . . Well I love to swim! x

i nearly fall asleep in the pool anyway, it's too relaxing.

i'm not lonely but who usually has a social life that revolves arond sex? i have now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why can't I upload pictures of my dinner on here? Really frustrating. Facebook is so much better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too.

Very true, couldn't agree more there is that side of it of course. But you wouldn't hang around a swimming pool if you had no intention of actually using the pool?

maybe we just don't want pool and go?

Hahahahaha! . . . . Well I love to swim! x

i nearly fall asleep in the pool anyway, it's too relaxing.

You mean you are continually in sex based social situations? That would be boring for me. I keep my vanilla social circle completely separate from my fab persona. Best of both for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 08/12/16 03:47:03]"

I wouldn't say I was generalising or unleashing scathing attacks on anyone. And I certainly don't think that everyone is sitting away sad and lonely. . . . It was a general question I asked out of curiosity really as there's many I've had a peek at that do fall in to that category but of course not all.

Personally I think you've just generalised me there though x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 08/12/16 03:47:03]

Personally I think you've just generalised me there though x "

That's why I deleted the comment, I realised I read it wrong x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't I upload pictures of my dinner on here? Really frustrating. Facebook is so much better.

Love it.... just include you eating your dinner darling ..x

And OP I love the social side and I'm not isolated or lonely ...... it's called Fab Swingers as it has to be named something ...... it incorporates all sorts of play and it is evolving it's not in its purest form .....

adaptability flexibility and open to change ..... we no longer have corner shops or just fruitshops or milkbars.....

We have hypermarkets / supermarkets that sell baked beans as well as furniture yet named Supernarket

......and we have online shopping and soon we willl be able to walk into a shop and take what we want and walk out without even going to a till with the new Amazon Go ......

Change happens my friend ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too.

Very true, couldn't agree more there is that side of it of course. But you wouldn't hang around a swimming pool if you had no intention of actually using the pool?

maybe we just don't want pool and go?

Hahahahaha! . . . . Well I love to swim! x

i nearly fall asleep in the pool anyway, it's too relaxing.

You mean you are continually in sex based social situations? That would be boring for me. I keep my vanilla social circle completely separate from my fab persona. Best of both for me

No I mean I teach and coach etc. so when on here I'm looking to escape that. That's all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too.

Very true, couldn't agree more there is that side of it of course. But you wouldn't hang around a swimming pool if you had no intention of actually using the pool?

maybe we just don't want pool and go?

Hahahahaha! . . . . Well I love to swim! x

i nearly fall asleep in the pool anyway, it's too relaxing.

You mean you are continually in sex based social situations? That would be boring for me. I keep my vanilla social circle completely separate from my fab persona. Best of both for me

No I mean I teach and coach etc. so when on here I'm looking to escape that. That's all. "

Ahhh right, okay

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why can't I upload pictures of my dinner on here? Really frustrating. Facebook is so much better.

Love it.... just include you eating your dinner darling ..x

adaptability flexibility and open to change ..... we no longer have corner shops or just fruitshops or milkbars.....

We have hypermarkets / supermarkets that sell baked beans as well as furniture yet named Supernarket

......and we have online shopping and soon we willl be able to walk into a shop and take what we want and walk out without even going to a till with the new Amazon Go ......

Change happens my friend ....

Yeah very true! Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm only here until I can pass the Turing test.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Why not?

I use this site....a sex site...as I wish.

Nothing wrong with it sure, but why?

Why not OP? It's also a place where like minded people can converse... There is a social side to swinging too.

Very true, couldn't agree more there is that side of it of course. But you wouldn't hang around a swimming pool if you had no intention of actually using the pool?

maybe we just don't want pool and go?

Hahahahaha! . . . . Well I love to swim! x

i nearly fall asleep in the pool anyway, it's too relaxing.

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i use it as a sex site to fulfill fantasies, but just masturbation as its much safer than 20+ partners!

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By *lixir of lifeMan over a year ago

knob Creek

I think I know what the OP is getting at .

U read daily status updates from people about how bad they feel today and how terrible there work is .

But usually these are lonely people who put these statuses up to get attention.

No doubt they will then get messages asking how they are and bingo theres the attention an insecure lonely person craves .xx

This is probably not the place for someone of that personality type though

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

What classes as a non swinger?

Some maybe taking a break from meets,some just like the forums .

If they are upfront about why they are here,what harm does it cause?.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i like sex with singles.

and 3sums where i'm being fucked from behind and i can pound my pussy into him while i'm sucking off the other guy.

i also like to post meals and pictures of cats."

You're perfect.

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By *VK_RugbyCouple over a year ago

Rugby

As long as the non swingers don't turn timewasters there's no problem

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

Its just a sex site is it not, most are after the same things- lots of ways ti acheive it though I guess so we chat crap in the meantime I guess lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm finding the site highly frustrating as it seems to not really be a swinging site. Why do non swingers populate it so much? "

To quote from your own Profile: "try not to judge"....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So joined a few weeks back. I'm just a genuine naughty guy ( who isn't right! ) who's been swinging for years etc. Though I'm finding the site highly frustrating as it seems to not really be a swinging site if you get what I mean.

Why do non swingers populate it so much? "

Why do whingeing single men populate it so much??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I know what the OP is getting at .

U read daily status updates from people about how bad they feel today and how terrible there work is .

But usually these are lonely people who put these statuses up to get attention.

No doubt they will then get messages asking how they are and bingo theres the attention an insecure lonely person craves .xx

This is probably not the place for someone of that personality type though"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do non swingers populate it so much?

Why do whingeing single men populate it so much?? "

To annoy you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do non swingers populate it so much? "

Actually, No, I don't get what you mean - as you haven't explained what you find frustrating.

You've been on fab for 7 weeks, and in that short time you have reached the conclusion that it's not a swinging site.

Why do non-swingers populate it so much?

The site is open for anyone to join. There is no requirement for anyone to 'prove' that they are a swinger - how one would do so is anyone's guess - and of course, by leaving it open to everyone, those new to the world of swinging are welcome.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"i like sex with singles.

and 3sums where i'm being fucked from behind and i can pound my pussy into him while i'm sucking off the other guy.

i also like to post meals and pictures of cats."

Haha, my profile would be full of them if they let us...I managed to get a ream tea in once!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone wrote on my Facebook wall I'm a naughty guy, I'd delete and block him.

This is nothing like Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I know what the OP is getting at .

U read daily status updates from people about how bad they feel today and how terrible there work is .

But usually these are lonely people who put these statuses up to get attention.

No doubt they will then get messages asking how they are and bingo theres the attention an insecure lonely person craves .xx

This is probably not the place for someone of that personality type though"

Should they only be writing how they have a rock hard cock that needs to unload down a throat? Or a wet pussy needing filling?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont understand why it bothers people how others choose to use the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I know what the OP is getting at .

U read daily status updates from people about how bad they feel today and how terrible there work is .

But usually these are lonely people who put these statuses up to get attention.

No doubt they will then get messages asking how they are and bingo theres the attention an insecure lonely person craves .xx

This is probably not the place for someone of that personality type though

Should they only be writing how they have a rock hard cock that needs to unload down a throat? Or a wet pussy needing filling? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do non swingers populate it so much?

Actually, No, I don't get what you mean - as you haven't explained what you find frustrating.

You've been on fab for 7 weeks, and in that short time you have reached the conclusion that it's not a swinging site.

Why do non-swingers populate it so much?

Your right, but it would be a far better site if people were more transparent about their reasons for being on here . I don't care if you here to just chat,cam, talk shit or whatever just be honest about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well we are definately swingers, and most of the people we know well from Fab would regard themselves as swingers too. This site has served us well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well we are definately swingers, and most of the people we know well from Fab would regard themselves as swingers too. This site has served us well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Make it what you want it to be for you. Let others do likewise for themselves. If what they do is not for you, avoid them. There's plenty of Fab to go around.

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

Why do non swingers populate it so much? "

What is your definition of a non swinger !!??

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

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Personally I think you've just generalised me there though x "

What is it you've "peeked at" that says they are not swingers ?

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

"Why can't I upload pictures of my dinner on here? Really frustrating. Facebook is so much better.

Post a pic of your dinner with your cock resting on it...that should be ok

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Originally I thought swingers were couples who swapped partners or had foursomes. It does seem that many do use this site as a dating site directed towards nsa sex. Let's face it, the largest population on here are single men, many of which are married blokes looking for sex behind their partners back.

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By *rimo4uMan over a year ago

north kensington w10

Some people just like the attention i think, and showing off there pics. They like to be popular ect..

Why do non swingers populate it so much? "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its just a sex site is it not, most are after the same things- lots of ways ti acheive it though I guess so we chat crap in the meantime I guess lol"

i wonder.. have u ever been to a swinging club? theres a massive difference between swinging and ya bog standaed shag.

whilst sex is involved in both they are different worlds apart on the experience itself side of things

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I know what the OP is getting at .

U read daily status updates from people about how bad they feel today and how terrible there work is .

But usually these are lonely people who put these statuses up to get attention.

No doubt they will then get messages asking how they are and bingo theres the attention an insecure lonely person craves .xx

This is probably not the place for someone of that personality type though"

what? so posting that ur cock is in ur hand and ur dick is so hard at any given point of the day when u have decided to have a wank isnt trying to get attention then no....

oh right..... yeah ! im guessing ur views on that type of attention from ya status msgs may be different tho

of course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He's left?? Gutted. I was chatting to him the other day. He was a right hottie, and a laugh!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's left?? Gutted. I was chatting to him the other day. He was a right hottie, and a laugh!

You must have scared him away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How can this site turn back to being about swinging not facebook2?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I accidently stumbled on this site thinking it was fansite for the movie "Swingers" - it's so money baby and you don't even know it

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

Why do non swingers populate it so much? "

Because we can, and the management don't object.

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By *ik MMan over a year ago

Lancashire

The difference between Fab and Facebook is at least I've had sex with a few of my FB friends....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The difference between Fab and Facebook is at least I've had sex with a few of my FB friends.... "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Since some of us don't use facebook or any other social media type things I wouldn't know.

People have choices of how to use the site I'm happy about that since it's how I decide who I'd like to meet or not. I'd hate to have conform to some standard format you can only do this or that you can only use it for this or that.

I know I'm not great with words, but hopefully it makes sense to someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's left?? Gutted. I was chatting to him the other day. He was a right hottie, and a laugh!

You must have scared him away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Welcome to the world of fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How can this site turn back to being about swinging not facebook2?"

You what? This site is totally about swinging from our experience. Of course there are many who don't use it for swinging, but that doesn't effect us one way or another. Everybody we know from this site are swingers, and we've had no difficulties finding swingers. Those who think there isn't enough swinging going on are either hunting down the wrong people, going about it the wrong way, or maybe are just not cut out for swinging. But there is most definately plenty of swinging taking place on Fab!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Since some of us don't use facebook or any other social media type things I wouldn't know.

I know I'm not great with words, but hopefully it makes sense to someone."

Yes it does make sense. I use social media but if you're careful about it and are aware of the site tools it doesn't have to be full of drama or invasive.

Just the same as here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I use this site like I use the supermarket sites.

I look what's on offer. Click on what I want and wait for it to turn up. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's left?? Gutted. I was chatting to him the other day. He was a right hottie, and a laugh!

You must have scared him away.

ahhhh lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not necessarily a swinger just a naughty guy who loves sex!

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