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Let's say your best friend introduces her FB to you, because she bragged about him and maybe have future threesomes. You know your friend really likes him. Would you meet up with him,alone, for a fuck , almost on a daily basis? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my friends wouldn't need permission from me to fuck someone i've fucked. i'm a good friend like that. 
in fact i recommend guys off here to my sister sometimes.
it's only fuck buddies, not like they're married or anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree friends before fucks always. Also agree not too keen on the whole idea that my friend has also been there. Once or twice yes don't see it being a problem but nothing regular. It never ends well. |
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over a year ago
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I have this with a friend. I introduced her to a guy I really like. They now see each other and she doesn't talk to me much now and he's no longer a friend. hurts very much as she knew I really liked him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like the FB means a tad more than this 'friend' is letting on.
I wouldn't go there, just because there's a friendship & an open approach to sex doesn't mean everything has to be shared. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they're just sleeping together - then why not? And why's it all about the 'friend'? It takes two to tango, and he's the one putting his dick where he wants to... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's say your best friend introduces her FB to you, because she bragged about him and maybe have future threesomes. You know your friend really likes him. Would you meet up with him,alone, for a fuck , almost on a daily basis?"
no.. as its my friends partner..be it fb or otherwise
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget "
'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people saying it's a jealousy thing, I wouldn't do it because as others have said i wouldn't want to go with someone my friend had been with. Also think the guy has a lot to answer for as well, some women are very quick to blame other women in things like this! |
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By *izbitMan
over a year ago
St Helens |
"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget
'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'... "
Then you should re read the ops statement of there's potentially more than that.
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'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'... "
That's what I thought too.
Baffled why they have to ask for one's permission. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget
'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'...
Then you should re read the ops statement of there's potentially more than that.
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The OP hasn't made such a statement. She merely said they were 'FB' - or fuckbuddies. |
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By *izbitMan
over a year ago
St Helens |
"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget
'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'...
Then you should re read the ops statement of there's potentially more than that.
The OP hasn't made such a statement. She merely said they were 'FB' - or fuckbuddies."
In true panto style 'oh yes she has' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget
'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'... "
In an ideal world that would be the case , but it's rarely that way .
There's nearly always much more going on .
In the case of of the op , what happens when the friend isn't getting any as the fb is shagging her mate every day ?
Chances are she finds out her best mate is getting all the fun and she gets the hump as she introduced them !
And no , we wouldn't do it . |
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"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget
'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'...
Then you should re read the ops statement of there's potentially more than that.
The OP hasn't made such a statement. She merely said they were 'FB' - or fuckbuddies."
FB. Fuck Buddy. You've helped me out here. I've spent the last 5 years believing it to stand for Felicificative Belonophile.
Cheers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of people saying it's a jealousy thing, I wouldn't do it because as others have said i wouldn't want to go with someone my friend had been with. Also think the guy has a lot to answer for as well, some women are very quick to blame other women in things like this! "
Same with me. It comes down as respect for my friend. Id refuse to meet a fb of someone I knew without them being there.. and if they stopped meeting I certainly wouldn't go there.
Its not about ownership or jealousy more a code of conduct |
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"Let's say your best friend introduces her FB to you, because she bragged about him and maybe have future threesomes. You know your friend really likes him. Would you meet up with him,alone, for a fuck , almost on a daily basis?"
If you love potential drama and possibly loss of a "friend" then fill your boots!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose that being really brutal...if he likes the friend more than he likes you there's really nothing you can do about that...feelings can't be controlled in that way, no matter how much you like him too...
but I'd reconsider a friendship with someone who would behave like that in the first place with someone they knew i really liked and put me in the position where I had to ask these kinds of questions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have many rules when it comes to sex, but the one I would never break, is to never, ever sleep with some I class as a friends girl.
There is so many other girls to choose from. Not worth the risk, now I'm not perfect by any stretch of the imagination, I've slept with girls who've had boyfriends, fiancés, and husbands and done so with out their partners knowledge, but I didn't class them as friends.
I've slept with friends on here girlfriends fiancés and wives but that was with their permission and knowledge.
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"Is this an exclusive FB or is he fucking half of fab get a grip its a free world"
He wasn't fucking anyone else. The said ,friend, just started inviting him around whist blocking and refusing to see others from fab. Or just having BJ socials with other guys while waiting to be fucked by him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I suppose that being really brutal...if he likes the friend more than he likes you there's really nothing you can do about that...feelings can't be controlled in that way, no matter how much you like him too...
but I'd reconsider a friendship with someone who would behave like that in the first place with someone they knew i really liked and put me in the position where I had to ask these kinds of questions "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let's say your best friend introduces her FB to you, because she bragged about him and maybe have future threesomes. You know your friend really likes him. Would you meet up with him,alone, for a fuck , almost on a daily basis?"
By. The sound of it you already doing it xx |
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He wasn't fucking anyone else.
So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment."
Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1st girl meets guy as a FB . they get along great and she introducing him to her bestie mate "possible 3some etc"
Great idea !
Bestie mate fancies having guy as more than just a part time FB so decides to go behind her friends back fucking him whenever she wants not when her friends says its ok.
girl 1 and bestie mate fall out over a bit of cock ........2 months later the exact same scenario now happens to bestie mate after another friend wants to fuck her now boyfriend behind her back = no guy for either of the fem friends and lost a friendship.
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By (user no longer on site)
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He wasn't fucking anyone else.
So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.
Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB. "
Sounds like you didn't ask him for exclusivity fast enough and he wasn't on the same wavelength as you.
Next time perhaps make it clear with the people you're sleeping with how you feel about them and how you expect them to behave? |
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He wasn't fucking anyone else.
So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.
Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB.
Sounds like you didn't ask him for exclusivity fast enough and he wasn't on the same wavelength as you.
Next time perhaps make it clear with the people you're sleeping with how you feel about them and how you expect them to behave?"
Fair enough. But tell me, is it really up to me to decide whether they , as independent thinking adults, should or should not fuck?
It's not my cock nor it's my fanny.
Isn't that up to one's conscience? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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He wasn't fucking anyone else.
So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.
Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB.
Sounds like you didn't ask him for exclusivity fast enough and he wasn't on the same wavelength as you.
Next time perhaps make it clear with the people you're sleeping with how you feel about them and how you expect them to behave?
Fair enough. But tell me, is it really up to me to decide whether they , as independent thinking adults, should or should not fuck?
It's not my cock nor it's my fanny.
Isn't that up to one's conscience? "
They're not mind readers. Don't expect humans to do what you want, if you don't tell them what you want.
In my world there's nothing wrong with sleeping with friends or friends partners, as long as individuals are consenting and having fun.
In your world that's clearly not the case. That's why communication is so important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He wasn't fucking anyone else.
So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.
Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB. "
if he's up for fucking someone else more regular then i doubt that.
also, i notice how the guy has escaped all blame here despite him being the one fucking both women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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He wasn't fucking anyone else.
So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.
Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB.
Sounds like you didn't ask him for exclusivity fast enough and he wasn't on the same wavelength as you.
Next time perhaps make it clear with the people you're sleeping with how you feel about them and how you expect them to behave?"
Think the issue is with thr friends behaviour.... no way would I do this. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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He wasn't fucking anyone else.
So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.
Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB. "
So you aren't wanting him to swing then? You need to talk to him if you're wanting exclusivity as he's probably thinking he's doing nothing wrong. |
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When I was introduced as FB, I didn't ask her friend maybe you would like to try...
But if I have been asked, I would ask the opinion of my FB. I wouldn't risk my friendship over having sex. I make friends for live not weeks or days... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget
'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'...
Then you should re read the ops statement of there's potentially more than that.
The OP hasn't made such a statement. She merely said they were 'FB' - or fuckbuddies.
In true panto style 'oh yes she has'"
No she hasn't. She's just insinuated with her posts there is more. And to be honest that's the problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fuck buddies only work if the people are on the same page feelings wise.
OP if you are the one giving permission tell them that you are pissed off. Or if you are the one seeking permission ask yourself why you feel guilty.
And ask yourself is the drama worth it for a Shag? |
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Thank you all for your comments. It's clearly that one shouldn't tell friends about their fuck.
It's also clear that one should take control of FB's cock/pussy and tell them if it's OK or not for them to use their cock/pussy on other people, because clearly they can't judge that by themselves.
It's also clear that you don't need to ask for someone permission to know that fucking it's friend's FB almost daily whist refusing and blocking other guys on fab, it's just wrong .
So I learnt.
If you want someone to yourself then tell them they are not allowed to use their on body on others, no matter if you are in a relationship or not and no matter if it's their body or not. I also learnt that friendship is worth preserving and no matter the situation, you shouldn't fuck other's FB wether they permit it or not.
In conclusion, I learnt that although it's fab, you should never, ever mix your friends with your FB. It always ends up in drama.
Thank you all.
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"Let's say your best friend introduces her FB to you, because she bragged about him and maybe have future threesomes. You know your friend really likes him. Would you meet up with him,alone, for a fuck , almost on a daily basis?"
Clearly although the term fuck buddy is being used for your best friend it is more than that.
If the guy views it as a fb situation then things are already in trouble as they are not on the same page.
Bringing you in probably wasn't a great move.
The fact that anyone feels the need to ask permission :/ means you and he know her feelings.
Sounds like he needs to walk away from both of you
You need to decide if your best friend is worth more than the guy
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"Let's say your best friend introduces her FB to you, because she bragged about him and maybe have future threesomes. You know your friend really likes him. Would you meet up with him,alone, for a fuck , almost on a daily basis?"
Stealing is a crime |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is a fuck worth losing a friend over OP? If yes then you were never her friend."
I got the feeling its her friend rather than the op doing the deed with her friends fb. I could be wrong
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