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over a year ago
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This is why it is easier to say, 'Thanks, but no thanks', delete message, block sender. Harsh, but stops post-mortems. Nothing worse than having to explain why his profile, attitude, photos etc do not appeal and leave you open to the rejected-guy back-lash, where you get called nasty names and are told that you have an over -inflated opinion of your worth.
Not ever happened to me though, so just thinking it through!!  |
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"Why explain and open up a can of worms for yourself ??? You don't want to meet them that's all they need to know . If that's not clear then block button should enlighten them"
So you talk to a guy, let him think it's all good and then suddenly block?
No wonder so many guys get pissed off about when this type of attitude of common from women here.
Tip for the future OP, don't lead a guy on. If you want to get to know him then go on a social ffs. |
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"Why explain and open up a can of worms for yourself ??? You don't want to meet them that's all they need to know . If that's not clear then block button should enlighten them
So you talk to a guy, let him think it's all good and then suddenly block?
No wonder so many guys get pissed off about when this type of attitude of common from women here.
Tip for the future OP, don't lead a guy on. If you want to get to know him then go on a social ffs."
Exactly OP...you owe it to him to meet him regardless of what you think...you musn't hurt his feelings...right  |
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"Why explain and open up a can of worms for yourself ??? You don't want to meet them that's all they need to know . If that's not clear then block button should enlighten them
So you talk to a guy, let him think it's all good and then suddenly block?
No wonder so many guys get pissed off about when this type of attitude of common from women here.
Tip for the future OP, don't lead a guy on. If you want to get to know him then go on a social ffs.
Exactly OP...you owe it to him to meet him regardless of what you think...you musn't hurt his feelings...right "
And just so he doesn't get a complex, give him a BJ.  |
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"This is why it is easier to say, 'Thanks, but no thanks', delete message, block sender. Harsh, but stops post-mortems. Nothing worse than having to explain why his profile, attitude, photos etc do not appeal and leave you open to the rejected-guy back-lash, where you get called nasty names and are told that you have an over -inflated opinion of your worth.
Not ever happened to me though, so just thinking it through!! "
I like a drama free life. When visible there's no ambiguity to what I'm looking for and state I'll not reply to anyone outwith that and I don't!
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"Why explain and open up a can of worms for yourself ??? You don't want to meet them that's all they need to know . If that's not clear then block button should enlighten them
So you talk to a guy, let him think it's all good and then suddenly block?
No wonder so many guys get pissed off about when this type of attitude of common from women here.
Tip for the future OP, don't lead a guy on. If you want to get to know him then go on a social ffs."
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"Why explain and open up a can of worms for yourself ??? You don't want to meet them that's all they need to know . If that's not clear then block button should enlighten them
So you talk to a guy, let him think it's all good and then suddenly block?
No wonder so many guys get pissed off about when this type of attitude of common from women here.
Tip for the future OP, don't lead a guy on. If you want to get to know him then go on a social ffs.
Exactly OP...you owe it to him to meet him regardless of what you think...you musn't hurt his feelings...right
And just so he doesn't get a complex, give him a BJ. "
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"So normaly i just tell someone that i have changed my mind and dont think we will be compatable only this time i explain why and he says he doesnt know what im on about.  "
so why message him saying ok ill meet, then let him down,,?why even message him at all if his not your kind ov meet? Can see why men on here get pi****, off now |
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"So normaly i just tell someone that i have changed my mind and dont think we will be compatable only this time i explain why and he says he doesnt know what im on about. so why message him saying ok ill meet, then let him down,,?why even message him at all if his not your kind ov meet? Can see why men on here get pi****, off now"
why can someone not change their mind? during conversation someone might say something that puts me off for whatever reason...i don't think by having a conversation with someone,it measns its obligatory to fuck them..thats ridiculous! |
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"So normaly i just tell someone that i have changed my mind and dont think we will be compatable only this time i explain why and he says he doesnt know what im on about. so why message him saying ok ill meet, then let him down,,?why even message him at all if his not your kind ov meet? Can see why men on here get pi****, off now
why can someone not change their mind? during conversation someone might say something that puts me off for whatever reason...i don't think by having a conversation with someone,it measns its obligatory to fuck them..thats ridiculous!"
and theres me thinking this is a swingers site, not dating site, so sorry |
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"So normaly i just tell someone that i have changed my mind and dont think we will be compatable only this time i explain why and he says he doesnt know what im on about. so why message him saying ok ill meet, then let him down,,?why even message him at all if his not your kind ov meet? Can see why men on here get pi****, off now"
We spoke on the phone it was just afterwards i was wondering about some things he said thats all as i have made the mistake of meeting men who wanted different things to what i did, which makes me over cautious sometimes. Anyway he did sound nice on the phone which is why i was trying to explain to him. Sometimes i have taken things the wrong way and maybe he did too. Anyway i have said i will meet him now. |
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"So normaly i just tell someone that i have changed my mind and dont think we will be compatable only this time i explain why and he says he doesnt know what im on about. so why message him saying ok ill meet, then let him down,,?why even message him at all if his not your kind ov meet? Can see why men on here get pi****, off now
why can someone not change their mind? during conversation someone might say something that puts me off for whatever reason...i don't think by having a conversation with someone,it measns its obligatory to fuck them..thats ridiculous! and theres me thinking this is a swingers site, not dating site, so sorry "
So you fuck everyone who asks?!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had it happen to me before, the girl changed her mind the night before a meet. She just said she doesn't think she wants to meet anymore, sorry. I was disappointed, but you no what I did? Said that's ok, thanks for letting me know. Blocked her to prevent future run ins and moved on, problem solved! Why guys have to make a big deal out of it I don't know! If she doesn't want to meet, you're not going to convince her otherwise by moaning! |
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"Why explain and open up a can of worms for yourself ??? You don't want to meet them that's all they need to know . If that's not clear then block button should enlighten them
So you talk to a guy, let him think it's all good and then suddenly block?
No wonder so many guys get pissed off about when this type of attitude of common from women here.
Tip for the future OP, don't lead a guy on. If you want to get to know him then go on a social ffs."
Where did I say suddenly block ??? All I said was if you don't wish to meet then that is all you need to tell them.If then they don't take the hint then block .perfectly reasonable.
As for saying that's leading a guy on...seriously? ?!!! As said either party are perfectly entitled to change their mind for what reason at any time . I personally wouldn't want to meet anyone who can't get that concept and think they are owed a shag .
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"Why explain and open up a can of worms for yourself ??? You don't want to meet them that's all they need to know . If that's not clear then block button should enlighten them"
At least you've had the decency to let him know, rather than simply failing to show.
The least he could do is thank you for that.
You've even given him an explanation - it's not your fault that he has a problem accepting it.
I would suggest that he has, in fact, proved the point |
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