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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we're all on here for different sexual reasons,why do most couple profiles have loads of pics of there wife looking hot and sexy and not one of there partner .Women like to get a feel of what the male looks like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's because the lady is the bait. We try to show both of us but there's only so may ways to take a pic of a cock. It's amazing how many single men profiles have dozens of nothing but cock pics. For this reason we don't focus on the cock. |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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I have a theory, and i hope i am wrong.
It goes like this:
Some of these the woman has no idea the male half is on here. He puts up the photos as bait but she is never going to meet with anyone.
You can tell fairly quick when the Woman is fully involved.
What do people think have i got this wrong. Hope so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we're all on here for different sexual reasons,why do most couple profiles have loads of pics of there wife looking hot and sexy and not one of there partner .Women like to get a feel of what the male looks like."
Not all couples are looking for other couples.
Some are looking for straight single men who, to be fair,are not really interested whether hubby looks like attractive or not.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It depends on what the couple is looking for - if just single straight men, why does it matter what the male of the couple looks like? If it's one of those 'unicorns' for a FFM, it would help to have a more equal number but quite often I think it's because the male isn't as attractive/camera shy and the belief that the woman sells them better.
It can be frustrating but people run their profile how they choose to, no right or wrong way of doing so. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
I'm just not as attractive  & most of our pics are taken by H & just posted up, I just get a cursory "Is this pic alright?" Before posting..
Unlike a lot of profiles at least i'm there though & more than one cock pic which is sometimes all you get 
S |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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This thread keeps on repeating so I will repeat my usual response: couples choose the balance of photographs that works for them. If it doesn't work for you when browsing/perving then move on till you find one that does -there are plenty to choose from.
For example, OP, your ratio of male to female pics is only 2:9 - this might not be enough for some people, but so what? You are happy with it. |
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It's a compatibility thing (isn't it always ) and as said above if the number of photos doesn't suit your needs move on.
We have found that profiles with no or few pictures of the man mean that he doesn't want to be involved whatever the text might say, so we filter them out. |
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"I agree Vandeman, it's usually the male half of a couple who gets in touch and when he asks "what would you like to do to her" you just know he's wanking away like a good un!lol.
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Yes, we've all had that happen. Funny how the wife is always working / visiting her sister / out with her mates / in bed. Tragic really.  |
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"I agree Vandeman, it's usually the male half of a couple who gets in touch and when he asks "what would you like to do to her" you just know he's wanking away like a good un!lol.
Yes, we've all had that happen. Funny how the wife is always working / visiting her sister / out with her mates / in bed. Tragic really. "
We chatted with a couple on another site and the wife was in the shower for three weeks  |
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"when they advertise as a couple and make it known they seek couples.Then why not show some of the male."
If people don't think it's important that I (Mrs) have a clear idea of what the male half looks like I assume they imagine I don't mind who I play with so we don't meet .
It's a filter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's because the lady is the bait. We try to show both of us but there's only so may ways to take a pic of a cock. It's amazing how many single men profiles have dozens of nothing but cock pics. For this reason we don't focus on the cock. "
There's only so many ways to take pictures of clunge too... and yet so many people manage to be creative! |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"when they advertise as a couple and make it known they seek couples.Then why not show some of the male."
Same if you only want a bi-fem but for full three way play, they are going to need to see more than a shadow or a cock..
S |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when they advertise as a couple and make it known they seek couples.Then why not show some of the male.
Same if you only want a bi-fem but for full three way play, they are going to need to see more than a shadow or a cock..
S"
I totally agree!
Hope to see you two at Mingles soon, great profile, pics and veri's! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread keeps on repeating so I will repeat my usual response: couples choose the balance of photographs that works for them. If it doesn't work for you when browsing/perving then move on till you find one that does -there are plenty to choose from.
For example, OP, your ratio of male to female pics is only 2:9 - this might not be enough for some people, but so what? You are happy with it."
I love a good ratio quote on a Monday morning x |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"when they advertise as a couple and make it known they seek couples.Then why not show some of the male.
Same if you only want a bi-fem but for full three way play, they are going to need to see more than a shadow or a cock..
S
I totally agree!
Hope to see you two at Mingles soon, great profile, pics and veri's!"
17th & then not till sometime in the NY.
S |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We find it odd and a reason we may not reply to a wink or opening message. As much as I like to see some pics of the lady then so does Dee pics of the male. They don't need to be face pics but a pic of a guy in a couple is not a lot to ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is strange for a couple not to at least have 1 pic of the male. The female body is accepted as a beautiful creation  but to expect a meet etc without seeing the other 'half' is beyond possible for us  we are here for both of us and agree that neither of us should "take one for the team" and the lack of photo only suggests that you are not quite who you say you are or having something to hide.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thankfully we have one but that was me teasing her !!
Normally I don't have pictures because it gets a bit exciting taking some of her pictures and I seem to just want to enjoy her body and we forget about my pictures?? Lol |
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"We find it odd and a reason we may not reply to a wink or opening message. As much as I like to see some pics of the lady then so does Dee pics of the male. They don't need to be face pics but a pic of a guy in a couple is not a lot to ask. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a theory, and i hope i am wrong.
It goes like this:
Some of these the woman has no idea the male half is on here. He puts up the photos as bait but she is never going to meet with anyone.
You can tell fairly quick when the Woman is fully involved.
What do people think have i got this wrong. Hope so."
I'm on here all the time and S rarely comments. He said a few days ago that people probably think he is a figment of my wild imagination. I agree with the above. I think you can tell when a woman is involved fully rather than being a silent partner who perhaps doesn't even know that she is splayed all over Fab ... now there's a scary thought. |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
bedforshire |
"Was thinking same it's a joke
And women always usually bi and guy straight "
Well now thats anouther good point actually. The number of guys in couples who say straight but then love watching me on cam. Just let it all hang out folks get somr sway with your swing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we're all on here for different sexual reasons,why do most couple profiles have loads of pics of there wife looking hot and sexy and not one of there partner .Women like to get a feel of what the male looks like."
You can always ask the couples to get on webcam before a meet. That usually will save you guys time |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"we're all on here for different sexual reasons,why do most couple profiles have loads of pics of there wife looking hot and sexy and not one of there partner .Women like to get a feel of what the male looks like.
You can always ask the couples to get on webcam before a meet. That usually will save you guys time "
This is a very good point of course also proves what you see is what you are getting. If the woman turns up as well on screen then game on you have found one of the genuine couples on the site. They are here folks honest i have met a number, socially most but played with a few |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In our friends only pics we have a face one of us together and a body shot of J holding a hat over his nether regions lol. But it's because he's not as comfortable getting pics taken, took me ages just to get that one.
Just all down to preference really and what it is your looking for.
L xx |
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