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After all the recent threads about external indicators of beauty or sexiness, (fat/thin, black/white, big tits/small tits, BBC/BWC et al) I am curious to know what internal traits turn you on. Humour? Intellect? Confidence? Shyness? Kindness? Assertion?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We both have a strong attraction to people who enjoy life and aren't afraid of having fun"
Aren't afraid of having fun - I see that on profiles a lot and I'm a bit confused by what people mean by that. Would you be able to clarify?
I'm not being argumentative or facetious, just curious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We both have a strong attraction to people who enjoy life and aren't afraid of having fun
Aren't afraid of having fun - I see that on profiles a lot and I'm a bit confused by what people mean by that. Would you be able to clarify?
I'm not being argumentative or facetious, just curious. "
No, I'm the same with the confusion on that one. Surely fun is subjective.. If one persons idea of fun is not the same as someone else's... Surely that just means they like different fun.. Not that they aren't fun... Bloddy hell, confusing myself there  |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
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"Aren't afraid of having fun"
Hard to quantify but I suppose it's like being in a situation where you can choose to do something without knowing the outcome, taking a risk and saying "Fuck it, lets do it!".
It's being able to let go and fully enjoy yourself without thinking "Can't do that, I might look silly" or "I'm too old to do that" or "What would x think if they knew I did that?" etc. Let your hair down and have some fun.
It's being able to sit around a table and laugh your arse off all night about absolutely nothing, instead of telling us about how much money you earned in the last quarter or how your car broke down last week. Or talking about the fucking weather.
We've all had meets where you're sat there thinking "Jesus...I wish he/she would just shut up. I think I might fall asleep". We've also had meets where you wish the night would never end and time flies in. We're after the latter.
Does that make sense or have I complicated it even more?  |
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Ambition, a bit of drive. I don't care what people do, particularly, but I like them to be trying to succeed in whatever field they work in.
Sarcasm or a dry sense of humour. Not too fluffy or romantic because that shit is a huge turn off for me.
Argumentative, assertive and will challenge me back and give as good as they get from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the women around me growing up were bright so l do think intelligence is the trait l find most attractive.
Confidence less so, l believe men are better at overlooking shyness than women are.
l am also attracted to women who are good mothers. |
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Making me literally laugh out loud, confidence without arrogance, being able to hold a proper conversation and being interested in me so not just asking the usual boring questions.....and the big one for me-being able to spell....well at least not just using text talk! Haha |
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"Ambition, a bit of drive. I don't care what people do, particularly, but I like them to be trying to succeed in whatever field they work in.
Sarcasm or a dry sense of humour. Not too fluffy or romantic because that shit is a huge turn off for me.
Argumentative, assertive and will challenge me back and give as good as they get from me. "
You do love a debate. So do l though. |
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"All the women around me growing up were bright so l do think intelligence is the trait l find most attractive.
Confidence less so, l believe men are better at overlooking shyness than women are.
l am also attracted to women who are good mothers. "
Good mothers. That's beautiful.
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Aren't afraid of having fun"
Hard to quantify but I suppose it's like being in a situation where you can choose to do something without knowing the outcome, taking a risk and saying "Fuck it, lets do it!".
It's being able to let go and fully enjoy yourself without thinking "Can't do that, I might look silly" or "I'm too old to do that" or "What would x think if they knew I did that?" etc. Let your hair down and have some fun.
It's being able to sit around a table and laugh your arse off all night about absolutely nothing, instead of telling us about how much money you earned in the last quarter or how your car broke down last week. Or talking about the fucking weather.
We've all had meets where you're sat there thinking "Jesus...I wish he/she would just shut up. I think I might fall asleep". We've also had meets where you wish the night would never end and time flies in. We're after the latter.
Does that make sense or have I complicated it even more? "
Oh yes, makes perfect sense now - I know exactly what you mean about both types of meets. Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Polite, intelligent and positive personalities are essential for me and as someone who is easily persuaded I'm often attracted most to assertive adventurous types!
I'm not asking for much!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.
if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good."
How does one fake character? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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It is so hard to quantify but it's exactly what I look for in a one on one meet. At the risk of being accused of elitism, someone who is bright, isn't afraid to have a different opinion than me and express it without being a twat about it, funny with a dry sense of humour and a sense of the absurd, quick thinking, candid when necessary and non-clingy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My man has a cheeky chappie nature and he's so funny - that's what I like in a person. Oh, -and someone who can have an intelligent conversation - I also find intelligence sexy
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the women around me growing up were bright so l do think intelligence is the trait l find most attractive.
Confidence less so, l believe men are better at overlooking shyness than women are.
l am also attracted to women who are good mothers. "
Women who are good mothers is a good one, but not really something you can see online,only in real life I suppose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, it's what's inside that matters - if it's my cock then that's just perfect
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No, actually, a sense of humour, down-to-earth attitude, not superior, easy going . Simples "
Haha good answer!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.
if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good.
How does one fake character? "
easily, if they want to do that.
i had a relationship with someone for almost 3 yrs who did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.
if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good.
How does one fake character?
easily, if they want to do that.
i had a relationship with someone for almost 3 yrs who did."
It's been said that sociopaths/psychopaths are generally capable of faking like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.
if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good.
How does one fake character?
easily, if they want to do that.
i had a relationship with someone for almost 3 yrs who did.
It's been said that sociopaths/psychopaths are generally capable of faking like that. "
Yes. And you only find out when the police come knocking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a real thing for intellgient guys who are funny. Marc is probably the smartest person I've ever met, and he makes me laugh, so in my eyes he is perfect. |
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"not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.
if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good.
How does one fake character?
easily, if they want to do that.
i had a relationship with someone for almost 3 yrs who did.
It's been said that sociopaths/psychopaths are generally capable of faking like that. "
covert ones, yeah. |
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"not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.
if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good.
How does one fake character?
easily, if they want to do that.
i had a relationship with someone for almost 3 yrs who did.
It's been said that sociopaths/psychopaths are generally capable of faking like that. "
Yes and narcissists, for years.  |
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If I had to choose one, it would be humour.. Dry humour to be exact. 
