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By *ave Devine OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

So how do you difine exceptional males?

Seen it mentioned a few times and interested to know how couples and ladies define this

Thanks

Dave

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By *ave Devine OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

I know this was posted about 6 months ago but hey no harm in new response

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By *obbytupperMan  over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I suppose they're looking for personality and attraction, don't just assume that they are looking for cock-size.

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It's a difficult one for me as I am not attracted to conventionally good looking men. Also, how could I tell that they are exceptional until after I have met them?

I think clean, polite, well mannered, considerate, nice cock, willing to go down on me, and goes like a train. I'm willing to compromise on a few of those (although cleanliness is a must!!)

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By *ave Devine OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

Thanks just see if mentioned a few times with no real explanation or clarity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me...

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By *anny PepperoniMan  over a year ago

Matlock

I think its a paraphrase for we reserve the right to say no for no apparent reason!

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By *anny PepperoniMan  over a year ago

Matlock


"I think clean, polite, well mannered, considerate, nice cock, willing to go down on me, and goes like a train. I'm willing to compromise on a few of those (although cleanliness is a must!!)"

Blimey that's uncanny!!!! You just described me!!! (The not conventionally good looking part works as well)

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I tend to say "fuck off"(in my mind) to them to be honest- and its worse when they profess they are "exceptional"

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By *anny PepperoniMan  over a year ago

Matlock


"I tend to say "fuck off"(in my mind) to them to be honest- and its worse when they profess they are "exceptional""

Raises glass in agreemant!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

with some of these profiles all I assume is their heads are so far up their own arses they would be horrible to meet....I love the sex side of it all but i wont drag myself to beg for a meet with no-matter how fuckin hot she(they) are,,,my essence is fun, not to be pigeon holed!

anyway "exceptional" cpls reading this I still wanna fuck the tasty wife/partner!!!! hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some of you not bitter much: way to advertise yourselves!

I prefer men over 45 with life experiences etc. I was contacted by a 32 year old, ex-Sandringham, tours of duty in Iraq, Bosnia and Afghanistan, injured in action. He's since set up his own security company.

This young man had seen and done things I could only imagine. I figured if he was man enough to go looking for WMDs, this "exceptional" young man was man enough to handle mine!

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By *ave Devine OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

seems it means differnet things to different folks

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Some of you not bitter much: way to advertise yourselves!

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glad it was just not me thinking "way too shoot yourself in the foot guys!"... keep going!!!

you know there are just some threads when you think "wouldn't touch that one with a barge pole!".... this would be one... lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple  over a year ago

Bolton


"seems it means differnet things to different folks "

You've hit the nail squarely on the head there, if you contact someone looking for an exceptional male and they don't want to meet you, then you aren't their cup of tea, you might think you're exceptional but they might not! It's a pretty subjective term. Z

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some of you not bitter much: way to advertise yourselves!

I prefer men over 45 with life experiences etc. I was contacted by a 32 year old, ex-Sandringham, tours of duty in Iraq, Bosnia and Afghanistan, injured in action. He's since set up his own security company.

This young man had seen and done things I could only imagine. I figured if he was man enough to go looking for WMDs, this "exceptional" young man was man enough to handle mine! "

Its not about being bitter in the slightest its basically just standing up and not being told u aint good enough...its something i point out in my own profile regarding future or present interests.

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston

I'm definately exceptional.

Several times I've been told by couples that they don't normally block single blokes but in my casr would make an exception.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple  over a year ago

Bolton

in all fairness, you wouldn't put 'we're looking for nondescript guys who are ugly with tiny willies and zero personality........................' when you're looking for that extra fun, you want to do it with someone that you fancy! Z

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple  over a year ago

North Cornwall

Actually I always assumed the meant they are usually looking for couples or bi fems and an occasional male of their choice. Btw our profile is designed to put off quite a few guys so that the field is narrowed before we start reading mail. I'm guessing some other couples do the same... had a few things stuck up my arse but never myself.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

well thats me shot maself in the foot....how do i revert to my invertibrate-ways lol

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By *anny PepperoniMan  over a year ago

Matlock


"Actually I always assumed the meant they are usually looking for couples or bi fems and an occasional male of their choice. Btw our profile is designed to put off quite a few guys so that the field is narrowed before we start reading mail. I'm guessing some other couples do the same... had a few things stuck up my arse but never myself..... "

I think the whole crux of the thread is the abiguity of the term exceptional its such a catch all it could bei in the small print on an insurance policy.

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By *anny PepperoniMan  over a year ago

Matlock


"well thats me shot maself in the foot....how do i revert to my invertibrate-ways lol"

U have another one and anyway u don't shag with it

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple  over a year ago

North Cornwall


"well thats me shot maself in the foot....how do i revert to my invertibrate-ways lol"

I'm guessing by keeping your gob shut and I'm second guessing that's unlikely. Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"well thats me shot maself in the foot....how do i revert to my invertibrate-ways lol

U have another one and anyway u don't shag with it"

its needed especially if I want to make the beast with two backs lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"well thats me shot maself in the foot....how do i revert to my invertibrate-ways lol

I'm guessing by keeping your gob shut and I'm second guessing that's unlikely. Pmsl"

my gobs open for ur gush anytime secret....(mrs of course!!)hehehe

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple  over a year ago

North Cornwall


"well thats me shot maself in the foot....how do i revert to my invertibrate-ways lol

I'm guessing by keeping your gob shut and I'm second guessing that's unlikely. Pmsl

my gobs open for ur gush anytime secret....(mrs of course!!)hehehe"

Ohhhhhhh

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple  over a year ago

North Cornwall

By the way....my idea of exceptional male.great looking, fit, intelligent, funny, respectful, enthusiastic, lovin three not two, shows respect for himself as well as others, clean, shaved, reliable, stays in touch and chemistry on fire. They are out there ladies... we have met some! Lucky us. Hip hip for exceptional single males.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way....my idea of exceptional male is Raisealaff.great looking, fit, intelligent, funny, respectful, enthusiastic, lovin three not two, shows respect for himself as well as others, clean, shaved, reliable, stays in touch and chemistry on fire. They are out there ladies... we have met some! Lucky us. Hip hip for exceptional single males. "

knew u were into me...am blushin btw xxxxx

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple  over a year ago

North Cornwall


"By the way....my idea of exceptional male is Raisealaff.great looking, fit, intelligent, funny, respectful, enthusiastic, lovin three not two, shows respect for himself as well as others, clean, shaved, reliable, stays in touch and chemistry on fire. They are out there ladies... we have met some! Lucky us. Hip hip for exceptional single males.

knew u were into me...am blushin btw xxxxx"

Pmsl forgot to add local........

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way....my idea of exceptional male is Raisealaff.great looking, fit, intelligent, funny, respectful, enthusiastic, lovin three not two, shows respect for himself as well as others, clean, shaved, reliable, stays in touch and chemistry on fire. They are out there ladies... we have met some! Lucky us. Hip hip for exceptional single males.

knew u were into me...am blushin btw xxxxx

Pmsl forgot to add local........ "

on my yot, just sowf of u

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple  over a year ago

North Cornwall


"By the way....my idea of exceptional male is Raisealaff.great looking, fit, intelligent, funny, respectful, enthusiastic, lovin three not two, shows respect for himself as well as others, clean, shaved, reliable, stays in touch and chemistry on fire. They are out there ladies... we have met some! Lucky us. Hip hip for exceptional single males.

knew u were into me...am blushin btw xxxxx

Pmsl forgot to add local........

on my yot, just sowf of u"

Lol. Will see if I can spot your jolly todger.. I mean roger

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"By the way....my idea of exceptional male is Raisealaff.great looking, fit, intelligent, funny, respectful, enthusiastic, lovin three not two, shows respect for himself as well as others, clean, shaved, reliable, stays in touch and chemistry on fire. They are out there ladies... we have met some! Lucky us. Hip hip for exceptional single males.

knew u were into me...am blushin btw xxxxx

Pmsl forgot to add local........

on my yot, just sowf of u

Lol. Will see if I can spot your jolly todger.. I mean roger"

they dont call me captain hook for nothing!!(see cock pic) lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is it ok to ask for exceptional ladies aswell?

First class honours from Oxford, Phd and career with top City bank while simultaneously pursuing a career as a model on the catwalks and a weekend job saving the whale?

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By *ave Devine OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

Mine field I reckon

Also thanks for all the lighthearted comments

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Exceptionalism......that's what Hitler wanted too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it ok to ask for exceptional ladies aswell?

First class honours from Oxford, Phd and career with top City bank while simultaneously pursuing a career as a model on the catwalks and a weekend job saving the whale?

"

Of course you can! It's your fantasy I won't whine like a baby like some of the men on this thread because I'm excluded!

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By *anny PepperoniMan  over a year ago

Matlock


"Is it ok to ask for exceptional ladies aswell?

First class honours from Oxford, Phd and career with top City bank while simultaneously pursuing a career as a model on the catwalks and a weekend job saving the whale?

Of course you can! It's your fantasy I won't whine like a baby like some of the men on this thread because I'm excluded! "

I don't think there is any whining going on on here at all! Its all fairly good natured banter as far as I can see!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple  over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Is it ok to ask for exceptional ladies aswell?

First class honours from Oxford, Phd and career with top City bank while simultaneously pursuing a career as a model on the catwalks and a weekend job saving the whale?

"

Thats me out... hate those whales lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What I consider as exceptional is for me to know and for the others to find out. Most do not get pass the first message.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple  over a year ago

North Cornwall


"What I consider as exceptional is for me to know and for the others to find out. Most do not get pass the first message. "

You go girl!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it ok to ask for exceptional ladies aswell?

First class honours from Oxford, Phd and career with top City bank while simultaneously pursuing a career as a model on the catwalks and a weekend job saving the whale?

Of course you can! It's your fantasy I won't whine like a baby like some of the men on this thread because I'm excluded!

I don't think there is any whining going on on here at all! Its all fairly good natured banter as far as I can see!"

You think telling people to fuck off and being up their own arse as banter?!! Really?!!

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By *ave Devine OP   Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

ex·cep·tion·al

Adjective

1. Unusual; not typical.

2. Unusually good; outstanding.

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By *anny PepperoniMan  over a year ago

Matlock


"Is it ok to ask for exceptional ladies aswell?

First class honours from Oxford, Phd and career with top City bank while simultaneously pursuing a career as a model on the catwalks and a weekend job saving the whale?

Of course you can! It's your fantasy I won't whine like a baby like some of the men on this thread because I'm excluded!

I don't think there is any whining going on on here at all! Its all fairly good natured banter as far as I can see!

You think telling people to fuck off and being up their own arse as banter?!! Really?!! "

Maybe not to your taste but having read a few of his posts I think so yes. Its how I took it anyway. And I dont think he directly told anyone to do that it was more a general concept.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it ok to ask for exceptional ladies aswell?

First class honours from Oxford, Phd and career with top City bank while simultaneously pursuing a career as a model on the catwalks and a weekend job saving the whale?

Of course you can! It's your fantasy I won't whine like a baby like some of the men on this thread because I'm excluded!

I don't think there is any whining going on on here at all! Its all fairly good natured banter as far as I can see!

You think telling people to fuck off and being up their own arse as banter?!! Really?!!

Maybe not to your taste but having read a few of his posts I think so yes. Its how I took it anyway. And I dont think he directly told anyone to do that it was more a general concept.

"

Oh! it was aimed at me...lol....well i think in MY post I said I say it in my head...why the fuck would I message a couple telling them to fuck off lol-even if I'd asked for a meet and they said, you are not exceptional enough for us, I'd still abide by my ettiquite, it just so happens that I have an opinio that I really dont care if anyone is "exceptional" "professional"-as long as they are fun and can communicate to a fair level...far too many on te site are so serious that it turns u off just reading the requiremnts. No reason to whine about my own time on fab so i dont whine, i just tell it how I see it.

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By *he Happy ManMan  over a year ago

Merseyside


"So how do you difine exceptional males?

Seen it mentioned a few times and interested to know how couples and ladies define this

Thanks

Dave "

I see it as saying if you are the type of male who has 99% of the woman drooling over you when you go out then we will make an exception for you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it ok to ask for exceptional ladies aswell?

First class honours from Oxford, Phd and career with top City bank while simultaneously pursuing a career as a model on the catwalks and a weekend job saving the whale?

Of course you can! It's your fantasy I won't whine like a baby like some of the men on this thread because I'm excluded!

I don't think there is any whining going on on here at all! Its all fairly good natured banter as far as I can see!

You think telling people to fuck off and being up their own arse as banter?!! Really?!!

Maybe not to your taste but having read a few of his posts I think so yes. Its how I took it anyway. And I dont think he directly told anyone to do that it was more a general concept.

"

No, not to my taste: vulgar and crude men leave me cold, but I've noticed the less discerning don't mind: different strokes and all that!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it ok to ask for exceptional ladies aswell?

First class honours from Oxford, Phd and career with top City bank while simultaneously pursuing a career as a model on the catwalks and a weekend job saving the whale?

Of course you can! It's your fantasy I won't whine like a baby like some of the men on this thread because I'm excluded!

I don't think there is any whining going on on here at all! Its all fairly good natured banter as far as I can see!

You think telling people to fuck off and being up their own arse as banter?!! Really?!!

Maybe not to your taste but having read a few of his posts I think so yes. Its how I took it anyway. And I dont think he directly told anyone to do that it was more a general concept.

No, not to my taste: vulgar and crude men leave me cold, but I've noticed the less discerning don't mind: different strokes and all that! "

arrogant angry posters do my head in....so looks like we just keep our strokes away from eachother lol

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By *anny PepperoniMan  over a year ago

Matlock


"Is it ok to ask for exceptional ladies aswell?

First class honours from Oxford, Phd and career with top City bank while simultaneously pursuing a career as a model on the catwalks and a weekend job saving the whale?

Of course you can! It's your fantasy I won't whine like a baby like some of the men on this thread because I'm excluded!

I don't think there is any whining going on on here at all! Its all fairly good natured banter as far as I can see!

You think telling people to fuck off and being up their own arse as banter?!! Really?!!

Maybe not to your taste but having read a few of his posts I think so yes. Its how I took it anyway. And I dont think he directly told anyone to do that it was more a general concept.

Oh! it was aimed at me...lol....well i think in MY post I said I say it in my head...why the fuck would I message a couple telling them to fuck off lol-even if I'd asked for a meet and they said, you are not exceptional enough for us, I'd still abide by my ettiquite, it just so happens that I have an opinio that I really dont care if anyone is "exceptional" "professional"-as long as they are fun and can communicate to a fair level...far too many on te site are so serious that it turns u off just reading the requiremnts. No reason to whine about my own time on fab so i dont whine, i just tell it how I see it."

Yeah that's the way I undestood it. Not my misinterpretation then!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Most people's definition of an exceptional male will be different....

When I see this on profiles I take it to mean, they usually/prefer to meet couples but will OCCASIONALLY meet a guy....But that's just my take on it!

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston

My mum says I'm exceptional.

...mind you she also says I'm a nutter.

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