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being judged on the way you play
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By *LBish OP Couple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
Dont you just hate it. Gets right up our noses,have freinds of ours where the lady only plays with women and he wont play with anyone else and they so get Judged and nasty comments. GOD it pisses me off, each to their own way of playing i say. We have mentioned to ppl we would like to try seperate rooms, but only in a club when we are both in the same club and well the comments we have got. We always prefer to meet TOGETHER but i was just stating a example, for some reason if i wasnt in the mood ( million to one chance ) or there was ppl we liked who wasnt a couple, and if we was in our fave club then i wouldnt mind then playing seperate. But some ppl seem to frown upon this and try and talk us out of it. There would be no other circumstance we would ever play seperate
Opss shit am i going off the topic lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of things we like is that most people at the Tease 2 are not judgemental in any way, but then again... I have been judged Mental!!
One of the many things we found, is that personality goes along way to making people attractive....so those that are judgemental towards others just don't float our boat!!
Shit its only Sunday...too long till Friday for the Long Hard weekend..
You coming to Tease on Saturday?? |
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This isn't something that we've ever encountered, if some one plays in a way that we don't, we just don't enter into dialogue with them, it isn't rocket science and to pass judgement on others is just plain wrong. Z |
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Each to their own!
As long as all parties know going into it then no one has a right to judge anyone else.
To us if you are judging how others play with your own missconceptions then you haven't embraced the lifestyle.
No one can force anyone else to play a certain way but everyone has the right to say 'that's not for me/us'
Forget what others think and play in whatever way gets you off the most lol |
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By *LBish OP Couple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
"One of things we like is that most people at the Tease 2 are not judgemental in any way, but then again... I have been judged Mental!!
One of the many things we found, is that personality goes along way to making people attractive....so those that are judgemental towards others just don't float our boat!!
Shit its only Sunday...too long till Friday for the Long Hard weekend..
You coming to Tease on Saturday??"
Judged mental, ohhh in that case Snap, lol |
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Each to their own is what we say too.
I think as long as you are up front about what you do and do not like, then what right has anyone got to judge?, they hav'nt, simple as that.
We all like what we like etc, but I think there is always going to be something that perhaps gets your curiosity going :] 
Although we state a couple or three simply rules on our profile, we still say, "never say never" |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
I remember being at a club one evening, eyeing up this lady (female half of couple that play with single guys, lol, limbering up once again to go talk to her trying to get courage for months) and this other couple were talking to them (ok, female half of another couple, the male was quiet).
The female of the second couple was effectively having a go at them for playing with single guys (ie, the first lady playing with single guys while hubby watched) saying how it was much better to play with couples. I found it hilarious (and slightly hypocritical) seeing as she herself doesn't play as per her profile... ie, does not play with anyone she's not in a relationship with. Weird science? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I remember being at a club one evening, eyeing up this lady (female half of couple that play with single guys, lol, limbering up once again to go talk to her trying to get courage for months) and this other couple were talking to them (ok, female half of another couple, the male was quiet).
The female of the second couple was effectively having a go at them for playing with single guys (ie, the first lady playing with single guys while hubby watched) saying how it was much better to play with couples. I found it hilarious (and slightly hypocritical) seeing as she herself doesn't play as per her profile... ie, does not play with anyone she's not in a relationship with. Weird science?"
thats funny, it does seem to be the woman who have been judgemental, never any men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we agree....each to their own and all that....we clearly state how we like to play yet we still get people trying to change things or asking us to do other stuff.....we say the same...if you dont like what we do...dont mail us!! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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why would anyone allow themselves to be judged..
there are people for all on here, if others don't get what you are into too.. hey, thats their choice..and should have ZERO impact on you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We remember the compliments and do forget the criticism....or try to.
Personally I am surprised to find that people can be judgemental, yet consider themselves to be, both broad, and open minded.
We like the way friendships are instant, whatever way the wind is blowing... and we like the massive laughs we all have due to the lack of attitude and lack of "alpha" male types in the club we go to...unlike a "norms" club...where fun and frolicks are the last thing on boozed up boyz minds.... I like Fridays for f*&king, not Fighting..
Chapter 2....Tangents and why we go off on them!  |
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