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Hi all , I might be just trying to justify my own actions! But... am I right in thinking most guys like having our backdoor played with, either fingers or more. Is this frowned at by female's or looked as at the norm? |
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One of my best mates ( who is a bloke) once told me when I was dating that if a guy says he doesn't like some sort of anal play ( rimming, finger or more) I shouldn't trust them lol
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"One of my best mates ( who is a bloke) once told me when I was dating that if a guy says he doesn't like some sort of anal play ( rimming, finger or more) I shouldn't trust them lol
Mrs "
I'd go with that |
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"Hi all , I might be just trying to justify my own actions! But... am I right in thinking most guys like having our backdoor played with, either fingers or more. Is this frowned at by female's or looked as at the norm?"
Should never be frowned upon, each to their own.... although yes I'm suspicious of guys who don't like a bit of bum play |
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"I enjoy bum play with men. My husband is one of the few men who won't let me anywhere near their bum. He doesn't know the fun he's missing out on.
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He'd run a mile ! |
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"I enjoy bum play with men. My husband is one of the few men who won't let me anywhere near their bum. He doesn't know the fun he's missing out on.
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He'd run a mile !"
I'd run a mile if I had a set of jiggle balls inside me! |
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I'm happy to explore any part of a mans anatomy & I ind it a big turn on when a man lets me tease them there.
My hubby isn't at all keen to let me do it to him though |
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"I'm happy to explore any part of a mans anatomy & I ind it a big turn on when a man lets me tease them there.
My hubby isn't at all keen to let me do it to him though "
Tell him from me... he's a fool! |
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I'm a relative newbie to anal play, but ..is ok, fellas! I did catch a little bit of gay in my right thumb, but it's managed and as long as I watch some premiership football before play, it's absolutely fine, you can't tell, even when you look at my thumb up close too.
I had what had turned out to be the biggest orgasm ever (first time I ever lost control of myself) during play there, and I was still tender and sensitive a DAY later.
so don't miss out, stop being daft and experience the complete pleasure potential of your own body, ..it's you missing out
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A lot of blokes who do like it, won't admit it because they think it makes them gay!
A lot of blokes who say "oh god, no way" often think it makes them gay!
Not the case really is it? |
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If you massage the prostrate just right it can produce a different type of orgasm than normal. Sex afterwards is also really intense with my cock feeling really hot. |
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It amazes me how many guys in my age group have never had this experience. Too shy to ask or no one ever asked them.
Once they experienced it they never looked back or behind lol. |
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"A lot of blokes who do like it, won't admit it because they think it makes them gay!
A lot of blokes who say "oh god, no way" often think it makes them gay!
Not the case really is it? "
Not if it's a woman doing it...it's heterosexual activity... |
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I'd rather a guy not be into it purely because it's not something i'd like to do and I wouldn't want to leave a guy feeling unsatisfied. I think it's only right we challenge our own judgements. For example, I see men who indulge in anal play with dildos etc as being slightly feminine or not quite manly. What have I to base that on though? Absolutely nothing. Does it mean they are more likely to be bisexual or gay which is more feminine? Again, absolutely no evidence that bisexual or gay men are any more feminine than straight men! Also, no evidence that a man can't be straight and enjoy anal play. So what i'm saying in a very long winded and confusing way is that even if it does put people off, it shouldn't. |
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"I'm a relative newbie to anal play, but ..is ok, fellas! I did catch a little bit of gay in my right thumb, but it's managed and as long as I watch some premiership football before play, it's absolutely fine, you can't tell, even when you look at my thumb up close too
I had what had turned out to be the biggest orgasm ever (first time I ever lost control of myself) during play there, and I was still tender and sensitive a DAY later.
so don't miss out, stop being daft and experience the complete pleasure potential of your own body, ..it's you missing out
" mmmmmm what did you do? |
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"I'd rather a guy not be into it purely because it's not something i'd like to do and I wouldn't want to leave a guy feeling unsatisfied. I think it's only right we challenge our own judgements. For example, I see men who indulge in anal play with dildos etc as being slightly feminine or not quite manly. What have I to base that on though? Absolutely nothing. Does it mean they are more likely to be bisexual or gay which is more feminine? Again, absolutely no evidence that bisexual or gay men are any more feminine than straight men! Also, no evidence that a man can't be straight and enjoy anal play. So what i'm saying in a very long winded and confusing way is that even if it does put people off, it shouldn't."
I don't understand the femininity that comes with it. Freddie Mercury was gay and he was manly as hell..
The way I see it, gay guys are manlier than straight blokes.
Being shagged up the arse by a big, sweaty, hairy biker and enjoying it is probably one of the manliest things you can do... |
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"I'd rather a guy not be into it purely because it's not something i'd like to do and I wouldn't want to leave a guy feeling unsatisfied. I think it's only right we challenge our own judgements. For example, I see men who indulge in anal play with dildos etc as being slightly feminine or not quite manly. What have I to base that on though? Absolutely nothing. Does it mean they are more likely to be bisexual or gay which is more feminine? Again, absolutely no evidence that bisexual or gay men are any more feminine than straight men! Also, no evidence that a man can't be straight and enjoy anal play. So what i'm saying in a very long winded and confusing way is that even if it does put people off, it shouldn't.
I don't understand the femininity that comes with it. Freddie Mercury was gay and he was manly as hell..
The way I see it, gay guys are manlier than straight blokes.
Being shagged up the arse by a big, sweaty, hairy biker and enjoying it is probably one of the manliest things you can do... "
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"I'm happy to explore any part of a mans anatomy & I ind it a big turn on when a man lets me tease them there.
My hubby isn't at all keen to let me do it to him though
Tell him from me... he's a fool! "
Ok I will lol! I've got a fb that likes anal play so at least I'm not missing out |
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"I'm happy to explore any part of a mans anatomy & I ind it a big turn on when a man lets me tease them there.
My hubby isn't at all keen to let me do it to him though
Tell him from me... he's a fool!
Ok I will lol! I've got a fb that likes anal play so at least I'm not missing out "
Not just the once... tell him hourly at least in waking hours!, text him at work, |
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"is not for me ta lad
proper fella me like
You must be such a man
more than most tis true
More than me?
am quaking in me boots now kid
Mr V"
Why have you taken it like that?
My point is you think a lesser man or a less manly guy is one who likes anal play.
What qualifies as a manly man? |
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I think some guys do fear being thought of as gay or somehow less manly if they try receiving anal.
They're missing out. The prostate being stimulated is a most wonderful feeling and in no way indicates a desire to be penetrated by another man. |
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"I think some guys do fear being thought of as gay or somehow less manly if they try receiving anal.
They're missing out. The prostate being stimulated is a most wonderful feeling and in no way indicates a desire to be penetrated by another man. "
It's a masculine world and comments like the one above and the general negativity from some fabbers shows why it's still a very prejudiced world. |
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"I'm a relative newbie to anal play, but ..is ok, fellas! I did catch a little bit of gay in my right thumb, but it's managed and as long as I watch some premiership football before play, it's absolutely fine, you can't tell, even when you look at my thumb up close too.
I had what had turned out to be the biggest orgasm ever (first time I ever lost control of myself) during play there, and I was still tender and sensitive a DAY later.
so don't miss out, stop being daft and experience the complete pleasure potential of your own body, ..it's you missing out
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DID YOU NOW......WATCH FUCKING FOOTBALL BEFORE PLAY!!!!
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It's amazing. But a real cock up there is so much better than a strap on!
Get fucked by a guy but make sure you are face down in a hot pussy and it cancels the gayness out.
The bisexual bit is a bit more tricky though! |
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"A lot of blokes who do like it, won't admit it because they think it makes them gay!
A lot of blokes who say "oh god, no way" often think it makes them gay!
Not the case really is it?
Not if it's a woman doing it...it's heterosexual activity..."
Completely agree, doesn't change the stigma attached to it though unfortunately! I'd like nothing more than a lady to pop a toy in me!! |
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It's not something we've really explored. A hairy bum hole really puts me off not to mention the whole idea of what travels through there on a regular basis. Hubby loves playing with my bum but he's a lot more laid back than I am so none of the above concern him (hopefully I don't have a fuzzy bum hole too often!) I don't use anal toys on myself so it's not really double standards because I don't want to touch my own either! Do feel like hubby is missing out sometimes though but funnily enough he didn't enjoy the one time I did use an anal toy on him (I wore hair dye gloves!) |
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