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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So fed up, and kinda frustrating that I'm hearing more and more ladies having to explain that the skill of oral pleasure ( when. Received) is time, attentiveness and the key word

DELICATELY...

so guys come on we're not dealing with a pickled egg and a pint of brown ale, nor is it is an episode of "man vs food"

Listen to the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why would you get fed up or frustrated about other mens oral technique?

Isn't the only thing that matters whether you're getting it right with the women you happen to be with at that moment?

Ps. I don't personally subscribe to a 'one glove fits all' approach.

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By *limandtrim300Couple  over a year ago

Ely


"So fed up, and kinda frustrating that I'm hearing more and more ladies having to explain that the skill of oral pleasure ( when. Received) is time, attentiveness and the key word

DELICATELY...

so guys come on we're not dealing with a pickled egg and a pint of brown ale, nor is it is an episode of "man vs food"

Listen to the ladies

"

well said and it is definitely a skill that can be learned and developed if you listen to what you are told, but then the same could be said of a good BJ

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

White charger's were half price on Friday?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I actually don't like it too delicate. I get bored of gentle and need something firmer. I get sick of men who think they know what I like or want better than me because that's what another woman liked.

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol


"I actually don't like it too delicate. I get bored of gentle and need something firmer. I get sick of men who think they know what I like or want better than me because that's what another woman liked. "

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So fed up, and kinda frustrating that I'm hearing more and more ladies having to explain that the skill of oral pleasure ( when. Received) is time, attentiveness and the key word

DELICATELY...

so guys come on we're not dealing with a pickled egg and a pint of brown ale, nor is it is an episode of "man vs food"

Listen to the ladies

"

Sorry have to disagree. I get frustrated if guys are too delicate and I prefer the 'Man vs Food' approach, for want of a better word.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Surely every woman is different?

Sometimes I like it delicately licked in a teasing way & others times I want it licked hard & fast!

Listen to the woman you are with at the time, see how her body responds & take it from there.

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I actually don't like it too delicate. I get bored of gentle and need something firmer. I get sick of men who think they know what I like or want better than me because that's what another woman liked. "
"

'tid made me smile, you respond to your partner, not to what's going on in your head, well in my world.

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol

It sounds like the OP hasn't listened to enough ladies before publishing his report.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Delicately is dull for me. Exciting for others. I'm guessing this was meant to be help out your fellow man but generalising all women to like the softly softly approach as that's what a few women you have been with enjoyed? Not really that good a piece of advice.

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By *atcoupleCouple  over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"Why would you get fed up or frustrated about other mens oral technique?

Isn't the only thing that matters whether you're getting it right with the women you happen to be with at that moment?

Ps. I don't personally subscribe to a 'one glove fits all' approach. "

Absolutely right.

Communication is the key.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely every woman is different?

Sometimes I like it delicately licked in a teasing way & others times I want it licked hard & fast!

Listen to the woman you are with at the time, see how her body responds & take it from there."

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman  over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I like it delicate, fast or hard is a complete turn off for me but all ladies are different.

'Listen to the ladies' advice is only part right - listen to each lady, her body will tell you even if she doesn't verbally

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like it delicate, fast or hard is a complete turn off for me but all ladies are different.

'Listen to the ladies' advice is only part right - listen to each lady, her body will tell you even if she doesn't verbally"

Spot on

If you get the build up right and she's relaxed with you, listen to her body because it will tell you all you need to know. Leave your ego outside the bedroom, it's not about any preconceived idea you have about your technique, it's all about your ability and willingness to adapt and react to her.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh dear...

"look at me ladies I'm brilliant at oral....honest"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For the record...I know many ladies that love a good tounge punching too...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like that this forum allows people to communicate openly about what they really want. Everyone's different

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