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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I remember years ago I would be rock hard at the very site of a cleavage, these days I need to 'connect' more, kisses, small talk etc.
Do other men find this or can you still erect when required?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No real problem here for me, but i too prefer a connection with the person i am with.
Helps that you can slow down and have a little chat, then start up again. If you have no connection then the small talk its just that, small.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we too feel the need for connection, we have had some very interesting conversations on here and amongst swinger friends in clubs about the difference between nsa sex and swingers who form a bond but still manage to respect the dynamics between partners.
.....and yes as Ian has got older he finds it takes longer for him to get aroused, especially if he has worked long hours that week, m x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Porn.... Just think about the dollar.
I'm terrible when we make little films.... Retching when he comes in my mouth, biting his dick, looking into the camera all sad covered in cum "what am I supposed to do now" said in broadest Scouse even though I'm from the Wirral. Porn fails... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm the same, I need to kiss and feel a connection with my partner in order to relax and build the desire, and thus, the erection.
To be fair, there is a lot of porn out there that caters to these tastes, where the performers genuinely seem into each other and include a lot of kissing and caressing etc. It's not all stereotypical "straight down to business" |
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