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Jealously

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

Preach it bro

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they.

I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they.

I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits

Nope but still it does spoilt people's fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they.

I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits

Nope but still it does spoilt people's fun"

Only if you allow it too.

Remember buddy you are in control of who you surround yourself with and if its negative vibes just loose them theirs 7 billion people in this world to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they.

I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits

Nope but still it does spoilt people's fun

Only if you allow it too.

Remember buddy you are in control of who you surround yourself with and if its negative vibes just loose them theirs 7 billion people in this world to choose from.

"
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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they.

I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits

Nope but still it does spoilt people's fun

Only if you allow it too.

Remember buddy you are in control of who you surround yourself with and if its negative vibes just loose them theirs 7 billion people in this world to choose from.

I definately hear that!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they.

I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits

Nope but still it does spoilt people's fun"

Can do, yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never had a problem with jealously. We have played others who I know are much better looking then me and can do things better then me.. but they are not me and my partner doesn't love them he loves me and all my downfalls...

He will say the same thing about me x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

is this a veiled rant?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

is this a veiled rant?

Nope a general one

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Never had a problem with jealously. We have played others who I know are much better looking then me and can do things better then me.. but they are not me and my partner doesn't love them he loves me and all my downfalls...

He will say the same thing about me x"

Blessed that a nice thing you have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very simplistic

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By *annooWoman over a year ago

Hastings

People when it comes to jealousy do NOT have control of their emotions

Agreed in fab world its pretty negative

However that's why we all have it own rules, our own restrictions etc

Its just one them things

Dealing with it and how we approach it is the main thing

I agree with what's been written before

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"People when it comes to jealousy do NOT have control of their emotions

Agreed in fab world its pretty negative

However that's why we all have it own rules, our own restrictions etc

Its just one them things

Dealing with it and how we approach it is the main thing

I agree with what's been written before"
Agreed

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they.

I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits

Vagueness

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

When are you bringing your wife on here OP?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sure it would be almost impossible to swing or share partners in a sexual if there is any jealousy.

I have to admit that before we started on here and visited our first club I (MrJ) had quite a bad jealous streak which was originally kicked off by an ex girlfriend going off behind my back. Now that we've both swapped and thoroughly enjoyed it that all that jealousy has subsided. What we have now is 100% trust.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they.

I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits

Vagueness

Erm maybe. I might have, I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm sure it would be almost impossible to swing or share partners in a sexual if there is any jealousy.

That's great news!!! Glad your sorted!! Nice profile by the way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

When are you bringing your wife on here OP?"

What wife I don't have one lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jealousy in and of itself isn't a terrible trait. It's how you behave as a result of the feeling which matters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep..jealousy an ugly trait..agree..swinging and jealousy should not go hand in hand.

If you are the jealous type swingine is NOT recommended!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

When are you bringing your wife on here OP?

What wife I don't have one lol "

But when you're married, will you look forward to another guy fucking her? If you meet your wife through swinging you might even be lucky enough to watch her taking another guys dick on your honeymoon! How cool would that be?!

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

you dont like people to be jealous OP, fair enough. some people are, just avoid them

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By *lassy pairCouple over a year ago

Greenwich London

Well trust is the most fundamental thing in fab world, without it relationship will tumble and fall, and if jealousy exist then you lose that trust or it was no trust there in first place, so we agree trust will push any jealousy out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"you dont like people to be jealous OP, fair enough. some people are, just avoid them "

Believe me Ive learnt the hard way hun belive xxxx.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

When are you bringing your wife on here OP?

What wife I don't have one lol

That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Jealousy in and of itself isn't a terrible trait. It's how you behave as a result of the feeling which matters."
totally agree there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

When are you bringing your wife on here OP?

What wife I don't have one lol

That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!! "

But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

When are you bringing your wife on here OP?

What wife I don't have one lol

That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!!

But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? "
.yes it would be fun or her pussy licked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

When are you bringing your wife on here OP?

What wife I don't have one lol

That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!!

But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? .yes it would be fun or her pussy licked "

You should get in touch when you get a girlfriend. My wife and i are always on the look out for sexy couples with guys like yourself. I'd be happy to fuck her in front of you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

When are you bringing your wife on here OP?

What wife I don't have one lol

That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!!

But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? .yes it would be fun or her pussy licked

You should get in touch when you get a girlfriend. My wife and i are always on the look out for sexy couples with guys like yourself. I'd be happy to fuck her in front of you

Thanks for that fella lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

When are you bringing your wife on here OP?

What wife I don't have one lol

That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!!

But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? .yes it would be fun or her pussy licked

You should get in touch when you get a girlfriend. My wife and i are always on the look out for sexy couples with guys like yourself. I'd be happy to fuck her in front of you

Thanks for that fella lol "

If it happens I think you'll be the first black guy I've chatted to who will swap with a white guy! Kudos indeed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

When are you bringing your wife on here OP?

What wife I don't have one lol

That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!!

But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? .yes it would be fun or her pussy licked

You should get in touch when you get a girlfriend. My wife and i are always on the look out for sexy couples with guys like yourself. I'd be happy to fuck her in front of you

Thanks for that fella lol

If it happens I think you'll be the first black guy I've chatted to who will swap with a white guy! Kudos indeed! "

Okay no worries fella

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've only been back 5 minutes and you're already getting invitations from FAB royalty!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You've only been back 5 minutes and you're already getting invitations from FAB royalty! "

Lol!!!

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By *uperock99Man over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x "
It's easy for a single person on here to speak out of term to say not be jealous and tell couples not too, I think it is the couples on here who are the real swingers who have to make judgment on who they invite to join them, so respecting them is essential, we singles are just add on's to join them or other singles but we singles never share, should not judge couples of their jealousy, it is their business not ours to moan about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yep..jealousy an ugly trait..agree..swinging and jealousy should not go hand in hand.

If you are the jealous type swingine is NOT recommended!"

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By *ollyGWoman over a year ago

Southampton

Sometimes people

Actually love others and don't want them to play alone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So the advice youre offering for people who get jealous....is dont get jealous!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been in a vanilla relationship for 7 months now, and no way, am I sharing him, and I'm not playing myself, hell yea I would be so jealous if he even touched another woman, I've been a swingle for 2 and half years, yea had great times, but can't understand if you truly love somebody, you would enjoy seeing them, been intimate with another!!! Doesn't float my boat at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok I've been on the receiving end of jealous singles and couples. Neither makes the fit of a swinging lifestyle work.

If you are on here you are looking to swing meaning sharing and playing with multiples/groups/singles not just entering into a relationship.

By being a single swinger you have no claim over any other single or couple. Therein meaning you can see whom ever and so can they.

The issue I've experienced is other singles in the main, whom I've been a FB of, getting jealous of my other fbs getting my attention? Or if I'm attending an event or club without them....

My other meets I'm made to feel guilty of as if it I'm their property and should be faithful...???

Is that not just a relationship folks?

Yes please explain how you can get jealous of my other meets if we

A- not in an exclusive relationship

B- they are free to see whom ever they wish when ever they wish... double standards?

C- I am made to feel bad that someone else is getting my attention

D- in a group situation they want to have their pick of playmates but I'm told to stick to the ladies?

Hmmmm folks this jealousy I do not understand from either fbs or fwbs.

That said I've also met couples where the lady gets jealous of any attention I'm getting of her Partner. This is the situation I find truly uncomfortable!!

This means that both parties are not on board with swinging and you should walk away and let them sort them selves out.

I've met many sexy singles and couples alike too where I get the respect of swinging and they welcome the experiences we offer as a group. The fun is awesome and shared well. This is swinging this is fun and this is what works for me.

If I should enter into another relationship....

then discussions of how we progress forward should be had and if jealousy is an issue we will deal with it our way.

Respect to every one who understands my plight and those couples who make this life work. You are awesome !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok I've been on the receiving end of jealous singles and couples. Neither makes the fit of a swinging lifestyle work.

If you are on here you are looking to swing meaning sharing and playing with multiples/groups/singles not just entering into a relationship.

By being a single swinger you have no claim over any other single or couple. Therein meaning you can see whom ever and so can they.

The issue I've experienced is other singles in the main, whom I've been a FB of, getting jealous of my other fbs getting my attention? Or if I'm attending an event or club without them....

My other meets I'm made to feel guilty of as if it I'm their property and should be faithful...???

Is that not just a relationship folks?

Yes please explain how you can get jealous of my other meets if we

A- not in an exclusive relationship

B- they are free to see whom ever they wish when ever they wish... double standards?

C- I am made to feel bad that someone else is getting my attention

D- in a group situation they want to have their pick of playmates but I'm told to stick to the ladies?

Hmmmm folks this jealousy I do not understand from either fbs or fwbs.

That said I've also met couples where the lady gets jealous of any attention I'm getting of her Partner. This is the situation I find truly uncomfortable!!

This means that both parties are not on board with swinging and you should walk away and let them sort them selves out.

If I should enter into another relationship....

then discussions of how we progress forward should be had and if jealousy is an issue we will deal with it our way.

Respect to every one who understands my plight and those couples who make this life work. You are awesome !!

a great outlook

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is why i love the swing scene so much - just love sharing my sex partners and my them sharing me.

However sometimes jealousy can be an aphrodisiac. I do get a mild jealousy which I find a huge turn on, when my husband or a lover is playing with someone else, and I have to wait my turn. But negative jealousy is not good.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is why i love the swing scene so much - just love sharing my sex partners and my them sharing me.

Mrs "
I Agree indeed

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By *ordsandstuffMan over a year ago

Highbury

Another way to look at it is to be happy that your friends are having fun and enjoying themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jealousy is an ugly emotion that makes people say some seriously whacky shit and when a woman is experiencing it, it doesn't feel great.

Jealousy is a disease!

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x It's easy for a single person on here to speak out of term to say not be jealous and tell couples not too, I think it is the couples on here who are the real swingers who have to make judgment on who they invite to join them, so respecting them is essential, we singles are just add on's to join them or other singles but we singles never share, should not judge couples of their jealousy, it is their business not ours to moan about."
what?

i share, what are you talking about, you be a fuck toy and see yourself as an 'add on if you like' that's your business, but dont be telling other people, they should feel the same way...or its ok to be treated that way..cos its not ..true swingers indeed..

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past.

However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so.

When are you bringing your wife on here OP?

What wife I don't have one lol

That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!!

But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? .yes it would be fun or her pussy licked

You should get in touch when you get a girlfriend. My wife and i are always on the look out for sexy couples with guys like yourself. I'd be happy to fuck her in front of you

Thanks for that fella lol

If it happens I think you'll be the first black guy I've chatted to who will swap with a white guy! Kudos indeed! "

We have shared a fair few men, and lots of time they aren't black .... I dont think these women are as hard to find as you think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is why i love the swing scene so much - just love sharing my sex partners and my them sharing me.

Mrs "

I am with you that sometimes it can drive you on. I rarely get jealous except ive found in the rare times we have tried seperate meets. The idea of mr 121 with someone else.. nope. Drives me scatty and I get very agitated... yet watching him with someone.. I get this delightful pang of something.. and its like I want to grab him and kiss him .. its so sexy..

Watching him be passionate with other ladies.

Odd creatures arent we x

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By *lassy pairCouple over a year ago

Greenwich London

"This is why i love the swing scene so much - just love sharing my sex partners and my them sharing me.

Mrs

Watching him be passionate with other ladies.

Odd creatures arent we x "

Indeed

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