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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Oh now here's a one ! We are already an MFF triple . One of his old girlfriends has moved back to the area and rather fancies the possibility of being a semi permenant MFFF ! Sounds great, in many ways , but the potential nagging and penis sharing ? Anyone ever done this ?

Xx

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By *oul BrothaMan  over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

Woe is me, I'm shagging three women, life is so hard...

Take your humble bragging elsewhere, or get sharing

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Woe is me, I'm shagging three women, life is so hard...

Take your humble bragging elsewhere, or get sharing "

This is actually the two girls asking , we've talked ourselves but thought we'd ask experienced people , this is after all a swingers forum , but thank you for your input anyway

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

Sounds a bad news story waiting to happen. Old affections will no doubt raise their heads as it's unlikely she will be able to separate the attention she was getting 1-2-1 from a group dynamic. Letting her into your activities not least relationship, if she gets burned would just be a disaster. There a a huge number of other women to chose from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sounds a bad news story waiting to happen. Old affections will no doubt raise their heads as it's unlikely she will be able to separate the attention she was getting 1-2-1 from a group dynamic. Letting her into your activities not least relationship, if she gets burned would just be a disaster. There a a huge number of other women to chose from."

It's one of the things that has crossed our mind . We've all talked about it but as we two are the three year established girls it makes us ponder about a third girl on a semi permenant , living with us for long periods basis . It all works fine at the moment . We girls sleep with each other , and with him individually and together depending on who's home etc.. The idea is erotic but we wonder if anyone's experienced the reality ?

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville


"Sounds a bad news story waiting to happen. Old affections will no doubt raise their heads as it's unlikely she will be able to separate the attention she was getting 1-2-1 from a group dynamic. Letting her into your activities not least relationship, if she gets burned would just be a disaster. There a a huge number of other women to chose from.

It's one of the things that has crossed our mind . We've all talked about it but as we two are the three year established girls it makes us ponder about a third girl on a semi permenant , living with us for long periods basis . It all works fine at the moment . We girls sleep with each other , and with him individually and together depending on who's home etc.. The idea is erotic but we wonder if anyone's experienced the reality ? "

There are a few threads about 'would you fuck an ex' and ex's in general, the census is they are ex's for a reason.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/574735

You don't really have to experience the specific 'introduce an ex' to a poly dynamic, to understand that it probably wouldn't be good.

Unless she was a swinger or didn't want a relationship then due to wanting an open one, I'd say it would be a bad move.

Have you asked her why the sudden change of heart with him, especially with such a big shift to now casual terms and ff rels?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah, I'm only 3 females away from this same situation so I can sympathise. It seems like you're setting your sights too low, why not try for 5 girls and one guy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sounds a bad news story waiting to happen. Old affections will no doubt raise their heads as it's unlikely she will be able to separate the attention she was getting 1-2-1 from a group dynamic. Letting her into your activities not least relationship, if she gets burned would just be a disaster. There a a huge number of other women to chose from.

It's one of the things that has crossed our mind . We've all talked about it but as we two are the three year established girls it makes us ponder about a third girl on a semi permenant , living with us for long periods basis . It all works fine at the moment . We girls sleep with each other , and with him individually and together depending on who's home etc.. The idea is erotic but we wonder if anyone's experienced the reality ?

There are a few threads about 'would you fuck an ex' and ex's in general, the census is they are ex's for a reason.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/574735

You don't really have to experience the specific 'introduce an ex' to a poly dynamic, to understand that it probably wouldn't be good.

Unless she was a swinger or didn't want a relationship then due to wanting an open one, I'd say it would be a bad move.

Have you asked her why the sudden change of heart with him, especially with such a big shift to now casual terms and ff rels?"

They were an item and they have swung together years ago , so she's of the same mould as us so to speak . We wonder if we are being closet minded having doubts even .

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yeah, I'm only 3 females away from this same situation so I can sympathise. It seems like you're setting your sights too low, why not try for 5 girls and one guy?

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Once again , thanks for your input but if you read this is the girls asking a question . NOT the chap

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By *iamondjoeMan  over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Yeah, I'm only 3 females away from this same situation so I can sympathise. It seems like you're setting your sights too low, why not try for 5 girls and one guy?

Once again , thanks for your input but if you read this is the girls asking a question . NOT the chap "

Ah men, eh?

*tuts*

I hope women can negotiate the rocky shoals of 'not becoming utterly jealous and crazy' better than men.

Sounds fun otherwise. All the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yeah, I'm only 3 females away from this same situation so I can sympathise. It seems like you're setting your sights too low, why not try for 5 girls and one guy?

Once again , thanks for your input but if you read this is the girls asking a question . NOT the chap

Ah men, eh?

*tuts*

I hope women can negotiate the rocky shoals of 'not becoming utterly jealous and crazy' better than men.

Sounds fun otherwise. All the best."

It's a sound point . We do feel maybe a hint of that , yet we are off to a party this weekend !

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