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Ok so im the male half of the couple and have my own business .its sessions dependent so in winter i find other work .. this year is a slow take off so im at home ..my question is what the hell do you guys find to do all day lol and before you say it the house is already spotless lol xx |
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"Ok so im the male half of the couple and have my own business .its sessions dependent so in winter i find other work .. this year is a slow take off so im at home ..my question is what the hell do you guys find to do all day lol and before you say it the house is already spotless lol xx "
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We're both retired (I work so little it isn't worth mentioning). The truth is we had so many things we wanted to do when we were working and just didn't have the time that we're fully occupied.
It helps that we bought a property that needs work. Apart from that I'm studying a couple of things I'm interested in, catching up on a reading list about three miles long and spending quality time with my parents.
As a couple we socialise much more, spend much more quality time with each other, go to places we didn't have time to before, spend ages just kicking back with a cup of coffee and a paper.
I think it's quite difficult to make the mental shift from full time working to not. The biggest thing is accepting that you're allowed to do things you enjoy and that leisure isn't a bad thing. Once you've sorted that you'll find loads you want to do.
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Have you any family you can visit? Find a hobby, jog, work out? Shopping?
I cook.. i find it relaxing. But I also visit the forums and chat with guys/friends from here.  |
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"Have you any family you can visit? Find a hobby, jog, work out? Shopping?
I cook.. i find it relaxing. But I also visit the forums and chat with guys/friends from here. "
have you seen my picture lol im fully fit slim toned and i cook every night as for shopping im doing that bad boy tomorrow lol x. |
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"Online shopping.
Practice makeup.
 ive already got that down to a fine art darling xx "
You asked what we do. I shop and practice my makeup.
I have only a relatively short time of practice under my belt. I'm getting better at it, I think |
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"Online shopping.
Practice makeup.
ive already got that down to a fine art darling xx
You asked what we do. I shop and practice my makeup.
I have only a relatively short time of practice under my belt. I'm getting better at it, I think "
it looks good on your pictures so practice makes perfect me thinks xx |
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"Online shopping.
Practice makeup.
ive already got that down to a fine art darling xx
You asked what we do. I shop and practice my makeup.
I have only a relatively short time of practice under my belt. I'm getting better at it, I think it looks good on your pictures so practice makes perfect me thinks xx "
although constructive only i think the lippy needs a little tone down to show your face more ..xx |
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"Online shopping.
Practice makeup.
ive already got that down to a fine art darling xx
You asked what we do. I shop and practice my makeup.
I have only a relatively short time of practice under my belt. I'm getting better at it, I think it looks good on your pictures so practice makes perfect me thinks xx although constructive only i think the lippy needs a little tone down to show your face more ..xx"
Oh. Ok. Thank you. Although to be fair as a daytime look I do go for less aggressive shades. Xx |
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"Ok so im the male half of the couple and have my own business .its sessions dependent so in winter i find other work .. this year is a slow take off so im at home ..my question is what the hell do you guys find to do all day lol and before you say it the house is already spotless lol xx "
I do two things..bouncing is one and keeps me very busy in the run up to chrimbo.
I'm in tonight Friday & Sat night... chh Ching  |
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44 years old, and need people to tell you what to do in your spare time?
Really?
Do you have any hobbies?
Pastimes?
Sports?
Reading?
Learning something new?
Do some adult education?
Visit places; museums, art galleries, historic places.
Go enjoy the Countryside .
What about voluntary work?
Eg
Red Cross
Charity shop
Hospital visitor
St Johns ambulance.
Do you have skill you could use in youth centres?
Scouts?
Or old folk
Meals on wheels.
Animal sanctuary
Samaritans
Some councils have a scheme for voluntary drivers to take old folk shopping or to hospital appointments ( expenses and fuel paid for)
Look up voluntary organisations online ( your council or county has a list of voluntary organisations you could join.)
The list is endless.
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"44 years old, and need people to tell you what to do in your spare time?
Really?
Do you have any hobbies?
Pastimes?
Sports?
Reading?
Learning something new?
Do some adult education?
Visit places; museums, art galleries, historic places.
Go enjoy the Countryside .
What about voluntary work?
Eg
Red Cross
Charity shop
Hospital visitor
St Johns ambulance.
Do you have skill you could use in youth centres?
Scouts?
Or old folk
Meals on wheels.
Animal sanctuary
Samaritans
Some councils have a scheme for voluntary drivers to take old folk shopping or to hospital appointments ( expenses and fuel paid for)
Look up voluntary organisations online ( your council or county has a list of voluntary organisations you could join.)
The list is endless.
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easy tiger im not unemployed lol i have a few days off but they seem like a year .. your list is very entertaining but rather pointless if im at work Monday do you not think mr chips ???  |
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"44 years old, and need people to tell you what to do in your spare time?
Really?
Do you have any hobbies?
Pastimes?
Sports?
Reading?
Learning something new?
Do some adult education?
Visit places; museums, art galleries, historic places.
Go enjoy the Countryside .
What about voluntary work?
Eg
Red Cross
Charity shop
Hospital visitor
St Johns ambulance.
Do you have skill you could use in youth centres?
Scouts?
Or old folk
Meals on wheels.
Animal sanctuary
Samaritans
Some councils have a scheme for voluntary drivers to take old folk shopping or to hospital appointments ( expenses and fuel paid for)
Look up voluntary organisations online ( your council or county has a list of voluntary organisations you could join.)
The list is endless.
easy tiger im not unemployed lol i have a few days off but they seem like a year .. your list is very entertaining but rather pointless if im at work Monday do you not think mr chips ??? "
Well you did ask; You said your work is seasonal and you don't have lots of spare time
Hence the list of things that have all sorts of possibilities; and which enable you to choose how much or how little you do.
I did several of these things when I was fully employed;
I did more of them when I went to part time working
I do several more of them ( or equivalents) now I am retired. |
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"Lol you lot .. tv is soul destroying and Facebook ??? Really lol come on peeps xx
Passes the time tho.  xxx
Nah, Fab's better "
Well of course it goes with out saying that I'm always in the forums but I do flit over to facefuck a few times a day. xxx |
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"Lol you lot .. tv is soul destroying and Facebook ??? Really lol come on peeps xx
Passes the time tho. xxx
Nah, Fab's better
Well of course it goes with out saying that I'm always in the forums but I do flit over to facefuck a few times a day. xxx"
lol at facefuck or should i say like like oh and like xx |
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"44 years old, and need people to tell you what to do in your spare time?
Really?
Do you have any hobbies?
Pastimes?
Sports?
Reading?
Learning something new?
Do some adult education?
Visit places; museums, art galleries, historic places.
Go enjoy the Countryside .
What about voluntary work?
Eg
Red Cross
Charity shop
Hospital visitor
St Johns ambulance.
Do you have skill you could use in youth centres?
Scouts?
Or old folk
Meals on wheels.
Animal sanctuary
Samaritans
Some councils have a scheme for voluntary drivers to take old folk shopping or to hospital appointments ( expenses and fuel paid for)
Look up voluntary organisations online ( your council or county has a list of voluntary organisations you could join.)
The list is endless.
easy tiger im not unemployed lol i have a few days off but they seem like a year .. your list is very entertaining but rather pointless if im at work Monday do you not think mr chips ???
Well you did ask; You said your work is seasonal and you don't have lots of spare time
Hence the list of things that have all sorts of possibilities; and which enable you to choose how much or how little you do.
I did several of these things when I was fully employed;
I did more of them when I went to part time working
I do several more of them ( or equivalents) now I am retired."
ah yes but can you put a fruit pastel in your mouth without chewing eh eh  |
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"44 years old, and need people to tell you what to do in your spare time?
Really?
Do you have any hobbies?
Pastimes?
Sports?
Reading?
Learning something new?
Do some adult education?
Visit places; museums, art galleries, historic places.
Go enjoy the Countryside .
What about voluntary work?
Eg
Red Cross
Charity shop
Hospital visitor
St Johns ambulance.
Do you have skill you could use in youth centres?
Scouts?
Or old folk
Meals on wheels.
Animal sanctuary
Samaritans
Some councils have a scheme for voluntary drivers to take old folk shopping or to hospital appointments ( expenses and fuel paid for)
Look up voluntary organisations online ( your council or county has a list of voluntary organisations you could join.)
The list is endless.
easy tiger im not unemployed lol i have a few days off but they seem like a year .. your list is very entertaining but rather pointless if im at work Monday do you not think mr chips ???
Well you did ask; You said your work is seasonal and you don't have lots of spare time
Hence the list of things that have all sorts of possibilities; and which enable you to choose how much or how little you do.
I did several of these things when I was fully employed;
I did more of them when I went to part time working
I do several more of them ( or equivalents) now I am retired. ah yes but can you put a fruit pastel in your mouth without chewing eh eh "
Actually, yes.
So clearly you aren't really serious about finding something to do.
Sorry to have bothered.
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"44 years old, and need people to tell you what to do in your spare time?
Really?
Do you have any hobbies?
Pastimes?
Sports?
Reading?
Learning something new?
Do some adult education?
Visit places; museums, art galleries, historic places.
Go enjoy the Countryside .
What about voluntary work?
Eg
Red Cross
Charity shop
Hospital visitor
St Johns ambulance.
Do you have skill you could use in youth centres?
Scouts?
Or old folk
Meals on wheels.
Animal sanctuary
Samaritans
Some councils have a scheme for voluntary drivers to take old folk shopping or to hospital appointments ( expenses and fuel paid for)
Look up voluntary organisations online ( your council or county has a list of voluntary organisations you could join.)
The list is endless.
easy tiger im not unemployed lol i have a few days off but they seem like a year .. your list is very entertaining but rather pointless if im at work Monday do you not think mr chips ???
Well you did ask; You said your work is seasonal and you don't have lots of spare time
Hence the list of things that have all sorts of possibilities; and which enable you to choose how much or how little you do.
I did several of these things when I was fully employed;
I did more of them when I went to part time working
I do several more of them ( or equivalents) now I am retired. ah yes but can you put a fruit pastel in your mouth without chewing eh eh
Actually, yes.
So clearly you aren't really serious about finding something to do.
Sorry to have bothered.
"
so sorry mr serious pants have you tryed the archers |
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"44 years old, and need people to tell you what to do in your spare time?
Really?
Do you have any hobbies?
Pastimes?
Sports?
Reading?
Learning something new?
Do some adult education?
Visit places; museums, art galleries, historic places.
Go enjoy the Countryside .
What about voluntary work?
Eg
Red Cross
Charity shop
Hospital visitor
St Johns ambulance.
Do you have skill you could use in youth centres?
Scouts?
Or old folk
Meals on wheels.
Animal sanctuary
Samaritans
Some councils have a scheme for voluntary drivers to take old folk shopping or to hospital appointments ( expenses and fuel paid for)
Look up voluntary organisations online ( your council or county has a list of voluntary organisations you could join.)
The list is endless.
easy tiger im not unemployed lol i have a few days off but they seem like a year .. your list is very entertaining but rather pointless if im at work Monday do you not think mr chips ???
Well you did ask; You said your work is seasonal and you don't have lots of spare time
Hence the list of things that have all sorts of possibilities; and which enable you to choose how much or how little you do.
I did several of these things when I was fully employed;
I did more of them when I went to part time working
I do several more of them ( or equivalents) now I am retired. ah yes but can you put a fruit pastel in your mouth without chewing eh eh
Actually, yes.
So clearly you aren't really serious about finding something to do.
Sorry to have bothered.
so sorry mr serious pants have you tryed the archers "
No I play chess with pigeons.
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"44 years old, and need people to tell you what to do in your spare time?
Really?
Do you have any hobbies?
Pastimes?
Sports?
Reading?
Learning something new?
Do some adult education?
Visit places; museums, art galleries, historic places.
Go enjoy the Countryside .
What about voluntary work?
Eg
Red Cross
Charity shop
Hospital visitor
St Johns ambulance.
Do you have skill you could use in youth centres?
Scouts?
Or old folk
Meals on wheels.
Animal sanctuary
Samaritans
Some councils have a scheme for voluntary drivers to take old folk shopping or to hospital appointments ( expenses and fuel paid for)
Look up voluntary organisations online ( your council or county has a list of voluntary organisations you could join.)
The list is endless.
easy tiger im not unemployed lol i have a few days off but they seem like a year .. your list is very entertaining but rather pointless if im at work Monday do you not think mr chips ???
Well you did ask; You said your work is seasonal and you don't have lots of spare time
Hence the list of things that have all sorts of possibilities; and which enable you to choose how much or how little you do.
I did several of these things when I was fully employed;
I did more of them when I went to part time working
I do several more of them ( or equivalents) now I am retired. ah yes but can you put a fruit pastel in your mouth without chewing eh eh
Actually, yes.
So clearly you aren't really serious about finding something to do.
Sorry to have bothered.
so sorry mr serious pants have you tryed the archers
No I play chess with pigeons.
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checkmate pigeon is the way to go then .. how did you teach them to play as i fancy a game of connect 4 with my goldfish |
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"44 years old, and need people to tell you what to do in your spare time?
Really?
Do you have any hobbies?
Pastimes?
Sports?
Reading?
Learning something new?
Do some adult education?
Visit places; museums, art galleries, historic places.
Go enjoy the Countryside .
What about voluntary work?
Eg
Red Cross
Charity shop
Hospital visitor
St Johns ambulance.
Do you have skill you could use in youth centres?
Scouts?
Or old folk
Meals on wheels.
Animal sanctuary
Samaritans
Some councils have a scheme for voluntary drivers to take old folk shopping or to hospital appointments ( expenses and fuel paid for)
Look up voluntary organisations online ( your council or county has a list of voluntary organisations you could join.)
The list is endless.
easy tiger im not unemployed lol i have a few days off but they seem like a year .. your list is very entertaining but rather pointless if im at work Monday do you not think mr chips ???
Well you did ask; You said your work is seasonal and you don't have lots of spare time
Hence the list of things that have all sorts of possibilities; and which enable you to choose how much or how little you do.
I did several of these things when I was fully employed;
I did more of them when I went to part time working
I do several more of them ( or equivalents) now I am retired. ah yes but can you put a fruit pastel in your mouth without chewing eh eh
Actually, yes.
So clearly you aren't really serious about finding something to do.
Sorry to have bothered.
so sorry mr serious pants have you tryed the archers
No I play chess with pigeons.
checkmate pigeon is the way to go then .. how did you teach them to play as i fancy a game of connect 4 with my goldfish "
Google it
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"Ok so im the male half of the couple and have my own business .its sessions dependent so in winter i find other work .. this year is a slow take off so im at home ..my question is what the hell do you guys find to do all day lol and before you say it the house is already spotless lol xx
I do two things..bouncing is one and keeps me very busy in the run up to chrimbo.
I'm in tonight Friday & Sat night... chh Ching "
I thought you meant you stayed at home you know, bouncing |
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"44 years old, and need people to tell you what to do in your spare time?
Really?
Do you have any hobbies?
Pastimes?
Sports?
Reading?
Learning something new?
Do some adult education?
Visit places; museums, art galleries, historic places.
Go enjoy the Countryside .
What about voluntary work?
Eg
Red Cross
Charity shop
Hospital visitor
St Johns ambulance.
Do you have skill you could use in youth centres?
Scouts?
Or old folk
Meals on wheels.
Animal sanctuary
Samaritans
Some councils have a scheme for voluntary drivers to take old folk shopping or to hospital appointments ( expenses and fuel paid for)
Look up voluntary organisations online ( your council or county has a list of voluntary organisations you could join.)
The list is endless.
easy tiger im not unemployed lol i have a few days off but they seem like a year .. your list is very entertaining but rather pointless if im at work Monday do you not think mr chips ???
Well you did ask; You said your work is seasonal and you don't have lots of spare time
Hence the list of things that have all sorts of possibilities; and which enable you to choose how much or how little you do.
I did several of these things when I was fully employed;
I did more of them when I went to part time working
I do several more of them ( or equivalents) now I am retired. ah yes but can you put a fruit pastel in your mouth without chewing eh eh
Actually, yes.
So clearly you aren't really serious about finding something to do.
Sorry to have bothered.
so sorry mr serious pants have you tryed the archers
No I play chess with pigeons.
checkmate pigeon is the way to go then .. how did you teach them to play as i fancy a game of connect 4 with my goldfish
Google it
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"Ok so im the male half of the couple and have my own business .its sessions dependent so in winter i find other work .. this year is a slow take off so im at home ..my question is what the hell do you guys find to do all day lol and before you say it the house is already spotless lol xx
I do two things..bouncing is one and keeps me very busy in the run up to chrimbo.
I'm in tonight Friday & Sat night... chh Ching
I thought you meant you stayed at home you know, bouncing "
eh on my space hopper lol ??? |
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"Ok so im the male half of the couple and have my own business .its sessions dependent so in winter i find other work .. this year is a slow take off so im at home ..my question is what the hell do you guys find to do all day lol and before you say it the house is already spotless lol xx
I do two things..bouncing is one and keeps me very busy in the run up to chrimbo.
I'm in tonight Friday & Sat night... chh Ching
I thought you meant you stayed at home you know, bouncing eh on my space hopper lol ???"
Off the walls by the sounds of it!! Sopranos box set. 84 hours of pure class. Did it for me!! |
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"Ok so im the male half of the couple and have my own business .its sessions dependent so in winter i find other work .. this year is a slow take off so im at home ..my question is what the hell do you guys find to do all day lol and before you say it the house is already spotless lol xx
I do two things..bouncing is one and keeps me very busy in the run up to chrimbo.
I'm in tonight Friday & Sat night... chh Ching
I thought you meant you stayed at home you know, bouncing eh on my space hopper lol ???
Off the walls by the sounds of it!! Sopranos box set. 84 hours of pure class. Did it for me!!"
on amazon right now omg its a large one lol .. |
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I've always much, much more to do (ie would perhaps love to do, or am ignoring) than I'm actually able to do, due to limited time.
Home jobs and life admin, social stuff, books and hobbies, artistic interest, travel and lots more, including sex.
With any spare time to hand, I'm sure tons of other interests and distractions would spring up. |
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