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why cant we find what we are looking for???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys, thought we would put this out there to see if we are maybe setting our standards to high!...for some reason, we have trouble finding couples where the female likes bum fun, and most importantly, females who squirt! Are we searching for the impossible??  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Hey guys, thought we would put this out there to see if we are maybe setting our standards to high!...for some reason, we have trouble finding couples where the female likes bum fun, and most importantly, females who squirt! Are we searching for the impossible?? "
*cof*
Have you looked in other regions? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey guys, thought we would put this out there to see if we are maybe setting our standards to high!...for some reason, we have trouble finding couples where the female likes bum fun, and most importantly, females who squirt! Are we searching for the impossible?? "
Well you've certainly tested the water..... |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Isn't Cupids in that area?
I'm always up for travelling within reason and as long as the trains go there. My problem is finding a) the time to get there and b) a reliable couple. Not been that lucky with b) lately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With all them veris and not made a girl squirt maybe its your technique plus bum fun is normally exclusive to own partners very personal to the individual. |
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Squirting isn't a party trick, depite my user name i wont meet anyone who goes on about how much they want to see a woman squirt in their mail.
It's how i come,not always,but i refuse to be anyones performing seal.Perhaps you need to consider why it is so vital to you,or get lessons from someone who knows how to use their fingers.
As for anal,some will some wont,but again ,if i thought it was a prerequisite of meeting i would not meet, i might not be in the mood.This is from a woman who loves anal sex.
Good sex is about everyone having their needs met,what do you have to offer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Squirting isn't a party trick, depite my user name i wont meet anyone who goes on about how much they want to see a woman squirt in their mail.
It's how i come,not always,but i refuse to be anyones performing seal.Perhaps you need to consider why it is so vital to you,or get lessons from someone who knows how to use their fingers.
As for anal,some will some wont,but again ,if i thought it was a prerequisite of meeting i would not meet, i might not be in the mood.This is from a woman who loves anal sex.
Good sex is about everyone having their needs met,what do you have to offer?"
Well said. Spot on. |
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"Squirting isn't a party trick, depite my user name i wont meet anyone who goes on about how much they want to see a woman squirt in their mail.
It's how i come,not always,but i refuse to be anyones performing seal.Perhaps you need to consider why it is so vital to you,or get lessons from someone who knows how to use their fingers.
As for anal,some will some wont,but again ,if i thought it was a prerequisite of meeting i would not meet, i might not be in the mood.This is from a woman who loves anal sex.
Good sex is about everyone having their needs met,what do you have to offer?
Well said. Spot on."
bloody hell ppl keep agreeing with me today...i'm not sure i can cope!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Squirting isn't a party trick, depite my user name i wont meet anyone who goes on about how much they want to see a woman squirt in their mail.
It's how i come,not always,but i refuse to be anyones performing seal.Perhaps you need to consider why it is so vital to you,or get lessons from someone who knows how to use their fingers.
As for anal,some will some wont,but again ,if i thought it was a prerequisite of meeting i would not meet, i might not be in the mood.This is from a woman who loves anal sex.
Good sex is about everyone having their needs met,what do you have to offer?
Well said. Spot on."
i agree too, i can squirt/gush but i dont do it with every guy i meet, because some guys just dont have the knack, and theres nothing at all worse than a guy who knows you can squirt but they cant do it but refuses to stop trying even tho its never going to happen lol |
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"Squirting isn't a party trick, depite my user name i wont meet anyone who goes on about how much they want to see a woman squirt in their mail.
It's how i come,not always,but i refuse to be anyones performing seal.Perhaps you need to consider why it is so vital to you,or get lessons from someone who knows how to use their fingers.
As for anal,some will some wont,but again ,if i thought it was a prerequisite of meeting i would not meet, i might not be in the mood.This is from a woman who loves anal sex.
Good sex is about everyone having their needs met,what do you have to offer?
Well said. Spot on.
i agree too, i can squirt/gush but i dont do it with every guy i meet, because some guys just dont have the knack, and theres nothing at all worse than a guy who knows you can squirt but they cant do it but refuses to stop trying even tho its never going to happen lol"
Tell me about it,a few times at cubs i have had to seriously tell guys to feck off,its like the gush matters more than the fact there is a woman attached! |
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Yes, Angie has had that problem a couple of times, whereby once they discover she gushes they seem to think that its endless and the only thing that matters. She has on two occasions had to say 'stop, that's enough' and one of those also had to be told by me!
We find that a person or persons that are too fixated with one or two particular activities very off-putting.
While the object of the hobby might be sex, we don't like to be treated like sex objects. If we wanted to perform we'd give up swinging and join the Circus  |
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I will squirt/gush, but someones instance on that is going to turn me right off them. My man can have me coming in under a minute, but as with a liking for anal sex and I do with him its the mix of love and lust in a specail person or at least lust and trust. Men get very heavy handed, well heavy fingered when the cant make me "perform" as he does, the more instant they are physically or mentally the less likely I am to relax and literally go with the flow. We have boundaries for ourselves, respect others and their mood on the night, expect nothing but hopefully a smile and you get the best from everyone then, but to their timing not necessarily to yours - take a chill pill and dont look for all these things to cross of your list, then you may ger a suprise they arrive! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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It could be that people don't like things to be expected....know we don't!
For us it's what feels good at the time...what we'll do on one occasion, may not want to do on another.
So will often put me off if someone is fixated on something in particular. |
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