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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
Some guys can't stand rejection ignore the idiot  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
What a prick! You are a gorgeous woman and from the email we exchanged some time ago, you are polite and nothing but friendly
Ignore the fool
M x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cannot understand why ppl join these sites if they cannot accept polite rejection without insulting people. I have had to block people I've rejected before they can reply with insults.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is quite funny how quickly they change their minds and say that they didn't really want to meet once you say no to them."
They show their true colours eh x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had the same previously . Said no thanks and was told how I am fat ( no shit Sherlock ) , men on here were just using me for sex ( literally reason we are on here is just for sex so not sure why that would bother us) and that I should get to a gym  |
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over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
It's ya own fault for allowing creepy weirdos to mail you..then by knocking him back start getting abused..
You either search yourself or belt up moaning  |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol
Was he hairy? "
Yeah lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
Best decision you made in hindsight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At least the fecker didn't try to save you. We had a Welsh sheep farmer approach us about 6 weeks ago and when I said NO he had a rant about how we were all damned and that only Jesus could save us ... with lots of quotes from the Bible. S said to ignore him as to respond only encourages nutters. The same applies in your case ... most people are really warm and nice ... and we both think you are lovely. If you ever want to find Jesus we can give you a hot lead. Cx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another bloke who can't handle rejection - pfft!
Block and move on OP - and if you want to be picky and choosy then you do just that! It's your decision who you want to meet, so don't let one petulant idiot tell you otherwise!
Have a nice day OP! |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol
Was he hairy?
Yeah lol"
I knew it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow. I get turned down all the time, but would never dream of insulting the woman/couple because they exercised their right to politely not fuck me!
Some people on this site are no better than stroppy children! |
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
Dont worry about this loser if he cant take a polite no from a lady then he has problems.
All men are not the same if i get told no i respect and move on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're fat them I'm officially a whale 
The problem is a lot of single blokes join up who have no idea what swinging is about and who think any woman is game and they're garunteed a fuck. So even if you say no politely their pride takes a knock and all of a sudden they wouldn't have touched you with a barge pole
Mrs xxxx |
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol
It's ya own fault for allowing creepy weirdos to mail you..then by knocking him back start getting abused..
You either search yourself or belt up moaning "
No need for that |
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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago
north kensington w10 |
"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
Yep, never condone anyone being rude and offensive, but i also know how much it can hurt, constantly being turned down ever time. Especially when you have taken the time to think out a message and you care!  |
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol
Yep, never condone anyone being rude and offensive, but i also know how much it can hurt, constantly being turned down ever time. Especially when you have taken the time to think out a message and you care! "
Okay, creepy post.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
I'm sure you will not lose any sleep over it as you can get meets when you pretty much want to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol
It's ya own fault for allowing creepy weirdos to mail you..then by knocking him back start getting abused..
You either search yourself or belt up moaning
No need for that"
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol
It's ya own fault for allowing creepy weirdos to mail you..then by knocking him back start getting abused..
You either search yourself or belt up moaning
No need for that"
Wasn't it a joke? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
He must be fucking bonkers hun your gorgeous and don't let arse holes like him get to you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think a lot of men get worked up once they get a reply and automatically think it means a meet and definitely playing....they've got themselves so worked up and spent hours fantasising that rejection just blows them away and they just lash out.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rejection is my middle name it seems....hahaha...but never would I insult anyone....what a prick. ..and by that I mean an insecure little boy prick. ...it takes but one to spoil it for others...so hang on..hang in...and enjoy your own self worth...its clearly way more supreme than his....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but if you had said yes you would have been the best lady on fab, giving the best blow job, and to be treated with respect blah blah - "
That's if he even turned up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I had a pound for every time I've had 'thanks but no thanks ' mail back .....
I would have £2.467 
OP don't stress the small stuff... lucky escape me thinks .. now where is this sheep farmer ? I need my sins purged |
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
Thats why I've changed and after sending my usual polite no thanks I block them
The abuse back got too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
Did you blow a raspberry and stick your two fingers up at the screen? That's what he deserves. |
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over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
Wow cheeky git. You are far from any of that tell us who he is and let's take a peek |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when he first contacted you he obviously thought you was attractive and sexy enough to have sex with you,
you turn him down and suddenly your fat and ugly ect,
obviously thought he was Adonis and doesn't understand why women don't fall at his feet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
2 lovely cheeks from behind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And that's why us genuine guys get a bad rep and struggle as dickheads upset the ladies and we get tarred with the same brush I hope u have blocked him op and don't judge us normal guys by his low standards of decency |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"said it before on here there seem to be 4 stages of fab rejection with some people
1, anger
2, bargaining, if they haven't been blocked already that is.
3, depression
4, acceptance."
Where do moaning statuses and moaning forum threads fit into that scheme? |
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"said it before on here there seem to be 4 stages of fab rejection with some people
1, anger
2, bargaining, if they haven't been blocked already that is.
3, depression
4, acceptance.
Where do moaning statuses and moaning forum threads fit into that scheme?"
very true, may need a little work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And that's why us genuine guys get a bad rep and struggle as dickheads upset the ladies and we get tarred with the same brush I hope u have blocked him op and don't judge us normal guys by his low standards of decency "
This isn't true. Dickheads get themselves a bad name. they actually make the good guys look better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a really abusive one earlier. Plain to see he hadn't read my profile at all. I reported him and blocked him. No doubt he's gone and vented his anger on some other poor woman but he won't be pestering me again |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"said it before on here there seem to be 4 stages of fab rejection with some people
1, anger
2, bargaining, if they haven't been blocked already that is.
3, depression
4, acceptance.
Where do moaning statuses and moaning forum threads fit into that scheme?"
And good that saved some time |
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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago
north kensington w10 |
"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol
Yep, never condone anyone being rude and offensive, but i also know how much it can hurt, constantly being turned down ever time. Especially when you have taken the time to think out a message and you care!
Okay, creepy post.
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Don't you have any feelings then? I know a lot of people on here are to scared to say what they really think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And that's why us genuine guys get a bad rep and struggle as dickheads upset the ladies and we get tarred with the same brush I hope u have blocked him op and don't judge us normal guys by his low standards of decency
This isn't true. Dickheads get themselves a bad name. they actually make the good guys look better"
but it also has the effect that couples or bi females decide fuck this and block single guys from messaging them |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"And that's why us genuine guys get a bad rep and struggle as dickheads upset the ladies and we get tarred with the same brush I hope u have blocked him op and don't judge us normal guys by his low standards of decency
This isn't true. Dickheads get themselves a bad name. they actually make the good guys look betterbut it also has the effect that couples or bi females decide fuck this and block single guys from messaging them"
I haven't, plenty of good ones on here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
What a complete and utter prick!!
You are absolutely gorgeous xx |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"And that's why us genuine guys get a bad rep and struggle as dickheads upset the ladies and we get tarred with the same brush I hope u have blocked him op and don't judge us normal guys by his low standards of decency
This isn't true. Dickheads get themselves a bad name. they actually make the good guys look betterbut it also has the effect that couples or bi females decide fuck this and block single guys from messaging them"
Makes me wonder what these couples and bi females are on the site for, surely not for their own needs....
I'm sure if they want single guys they don't need to feel like they are in a cattle auction to find them, or have someone attempt to make them feel crap. Truthfully what option would you use.
Cream floats so they say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And that's why us genuine guys get a bad rep and struggle as dickheads upset the ladies and we get tarred with the same brush I hope u have blocked him op and don't judge us normal guys by his low standards of decency
This isn't true. Dickheads get themselves a bad name. they actually make the good guys look betterbut it also has the effect that couples or bi females decide fuck this and block single guys from messaging them
I haven't, plenty of good ones on here x"
I strive to be one of them but my meets will confirm that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened to us at weekend my Mrs simply said sorry not my type. All the best. He replied by saying she wasn't his and she was a fat cunt. Didn't bother her because she saw it logically that he must have fancied her to bother messaging. She curvy but definitely not fat, not that, that should make any difference. It really made me angry and I stewed over in for a day or so. Can't believe some people |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"And that's why us genuine guys get a bad rep and struggle as dickheads upset the ladies and we get tarred with the same brush I hope u have blocked him op and don't judge us normal guys by his low standards of decency
This isn't true. Dickheads get themselves a bad name. they actually make the good guys look betterbut it also has the effect that couples or bi females decide fuck this and block single guys from messaging them"
We are not even looking for guys so logic says we shouldn't need to block them, especially as our header says looking for a bi-fem fwb..but guess what? Blocked..just can't be doing with them, even had one guy message he was a polite & respectful person. I just responded shouldn't the first part of respect be to read a profile? Then you just get the "You is hot babes, wanna fuck?" Even a local one we chatted to about normal stuff comes on Friday night with "I'm free & local if you guys wanna play" So now all blocked & they'd stay all blocked if we were looking for a guy too...
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"And that's why us genuine guys get a bad rep and struggle as dickheads upset the ladies and we get tarred with the same brush I hope u have blocked him op and don't judge us normal guys by his low standards of decency
This isn't true. Dickheads get themselves a bad name. they actually make the good guys look betterbut it also has the effect that couples or bi females decide fuck this and block single guys from messaging them
Makes me wonder what these couples and bi females are on the site for, surely not for their own needs....
I'm sure if they want single guys they don't need to feel like they are in a cattle auction to find them, or have someone attempt to make them feel crap. Truthfully what option would you use.
Cream floats so they say. "
it does and I'm not saying they shouldn't have minds of their own I'm just saying that one bad apple spoils it sometimes for the rest of us and that as a result the afore mentioned people might decide it's not worth the aggro so then block all single guys sometimes it's not one guy but a few that pushes people to react but generally people with bad attitudes spoil it for those who genuinely try and be courteous and polite |
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"And that's why us genuine guys get a bad rep and struggle as dickheads upset the ladies and we get tarred with the same brush I hope u have blocked him op and don't judge us normal guys by his low standards of decency
This isn't true. Dickheads get themselves a bad name. they actually make the good guys look betterbut it also has the effect that couples or bi females decide fuck this and block single guys from messaging them
We are not even looking for guys so logic says we shouldn't need to block them, especially as our header says looking for a bi-fem fwb..but guess what? Blocked..just can't be doing with them, even had one guy message he was a polite & respectful person. I just responded shouldn't the first part of respect be to read a profile? Then you just get the "You is hot babes, wanna fuck?" Even a local one we chatted to about normal stuff comes on Friday night with "I'm free & local if you guys wanna play" So now all blocked & they'd stay all blocked if we were looking for a guy too...
S"
this happens a lot people just look at pictures location and age and forget to actually read your preferences that is disrespectful and I for one do read profiles as I like to see if there's a common factor we have on common before messaging so I only ever message people looking for someone like me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry op I seem to have hijacked your thread trying to defend my comments but you know what I said in private stands I hope you have a good rest of the night and to everyone else please stop beating me up lol |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
I think you got off lightly op i had a glass of wine thrown over me in a club by a fern I turn down . I had a husband blow a fuse over me turning down the chance to play with his wife came out of the club to find a flat tire on my car .
I had a fern stalk me for 6 months over the fact I turned her down .
the moral of the story its not only immature men who can't handle rejection.
by the way yes he was a prat just like everyone who turns nasty over rejection are . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On behalf of probably all males here that person.is stupid.
You are not fat you are not ugly you look very nice I think you look under 47. He is probably just jealous that he doesn't have a chance with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
Did he have a small cock? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had an almost similar response when j sent a polite no thank you message. The guy said I couldn't afford to be fussy as I'm fat!
My response was I think you will find I can lol
Hugs xx  |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Sorry op I seem to have hijacked your thread trying to defend my comments but you know what I said in private stands I hope you have a good rest of the night and to everyone else please stop beating me up lol"
Thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had an almost similar response when j sent a polite no thank you message. The guy said I couldn't afford to be fussy as I'm fat!
My response was I think you will find I can lol
Hugs xx "
in the words of queen fat bottomed girls you make the rocking world go round |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol
What a prick! You are a gorgeous woman and from the email we exchanged some time ago, you are polite and nothing but friendly
Ignore the fool
M x"
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some just don't handle rejection well... And a few wonder why we sometimes find it easier not to reply... X"
yeah that's what I just said, looking at her photos she fit. He's just pissed off he couldn't have her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had the same previously . Said no thanks and was told how I am fat ( no shit Sherlock ) , men on here were just using me for sex ( literally reason we are on here is just for sex so not sure why that would bother us) and that I should get to a gym "
Gyms are great. Ours has a machine and another that's sells crisps and chocolate and all kinds.  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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i think you should thank your intuition for having such good judgement to say no in the first place x we've all had them, they made me smile and go, that was a lucky escape x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had the same previously . Said no thanks and was told how I am fat ( no shit Sherlock ) , men on here were just using me for sex ( literally reason we are on here is just for sex so not sure why that would bother us) and that I should get to a gym
Gyms are great. Ours has a machine and another that's sells crisps and chocolate and all kinds. "
Love this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol
Was he hairy?
Yeah lol
I knew it "
what's wrong with hairy?? Well chest only not ape like haha! Hairy is more manly okay mrs waxes my back lol Its always the case that when kids carnt have what they want the dummy comes out the trolley |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol
Was he hairy?
Yeah lol
I knew it what's wrong with hairy?? Well chest only not ape like haha! Hairy is more manly okay mrs waxes my back lol Its always the case that when kids carnt have what they want the dummy comes out the trolley "
trolley! Pram!!!  it's too early for this lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OMG I had this last week, well slightly different and I should of followed my instincts on this one. Long story but here goes.
I'd gone to a club with a friend and got chatting to some guy things did not go to plan but I won't go into detail. Got home that night to have a surprise in my box (he he) a message from the guy saying how lovely it was to meet and how he'd love to meet again, we exchanged kik's and chatted for a while.
A few days passed with no chatting and to that's a neither of us are interested and that's cool. He keep putting status up about how much action he was getting so I cheekily messaged him something like keeping busy as a joke and he called me judgemental to which I explain was a joke, there no room for judgemental people on here(in my opinion)
About 20/30 minutes later he messaged saying about my friend (not the one from the club another YES I have 2 friends lol) basically saying she's not meet him because he'd meet me and I'd told her we'd played which we did not but she never botherd asking lol. I explain I never said that as we'd never spoken about him.
Another while passed and he messaged agin saying some very derogatory things about me and my club friend. To which I was very polite I said I will take your comments on bored and hopefully it will improve my swinging.
I then blocked him and I'm aware he's been "warning" people about me since this happened and it's probably all lies but no one wants to here my side. I feel swinging should be light hearted and fun and very naughty no one should have to revive abusive or derogatory comments, messgages or face to face.
I do realise I've ranted on but I had to get this of my chest and rant over |
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By *rixieswTV/TS
over a year ago
S.Westerly |
Fat? Ugly? The guy needs specksavers. Love the legs as well babes. Beautiful. And as we all know its a womans right to say NO.
But clearly we're all happier when we hear a YES. Happy playtimes sexy. Trixie x |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
Be more Choosy in future. Ignorent blind men are clearly not for you.
Dont know what gets into some guys on the scene they seam to forget that swinging is NOT prostitution its a mutual thing. Clearly these guys are so vane they have problems with rejection. Can anyone recomend them a good pyciatrist? They would benifit from therapy. |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"I had the same previously . Said no thanks and was told how I am fat ( no shit Sherlock ) , men on here were just using me for sex ( literally reason we are on here is just for sex so not sure why that would bother us) and that I should get to a gym "
Not Fat Fabulious! |
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I don't think it's truly related to rejection.
They purposely want to bully or hassle people, and use the rejection as an excuse.
Even if you accept the offer to meet, I guess these kind of people won't turn up.
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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Well i supose if people consentrate on the pyhsical and dont look at the person as a whole these kind of imature comments are going to be made.
Frankly that level of imaturity suggests a crap fuck anyway. So celabrate finding and blocking these morons.
Sadly however i have to say there are some women on here who are just as bad. But the mature answer is not to be abusive but just say ok block and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
F..k him.
*you know what I mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
How very dare you!
You should be honoured that he chose to include you as one of his 500 recipients for the day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
Well hes a tit |
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
may I apologise on behalf of us males....no need for that. Be assured that there's not many like that out there..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol
Was he hairy? "
Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
Wow. It's a minefield.
Maybe we should all initially say " thanks, but no thanks" just to out idiots like this. One could always recant later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a similar situation recently, only the guy went through my verification list and started telling other guys to be warned that I gave him an STD. Just because I told him I didn't want to see him again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow! This thread is quite enlightening.
I can see why a lot of single women are wary of meeting guys they don't really know. There are some absolute mentalists on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
Were you 47, fat and ugly before he messaged you?
*I bet you weren't. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I've had a similar situation recently, only the guy went through my verification list and started telling other guys to be warned that I gave him an STD. Just because I told him I didn't want to see him again."
wtf |
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Good that you obviously made the right choice ... blokes need to be able to take rejection with a smile ... as mentioned - a more light- hearted approach helps ... and peeps not too full of their own importance ... now - I just need to check the ferry timetable .... and hope you've found someone to have a great time with ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is quite funny how quickly they change their minds and say that they didn't really want to meet once you say no to them.
They show their true colours eh x"
Don't they just, like someone else said in the wrong place if they can't handle rejection. Shrug it off there problem not yours, concentrate on the positive people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is quite funny how quickly they change their minds and say that they didn't really want to meet once you say no to them.
They show their true colours eh x
Don't they just, like someone else said in the wrong place if they can't handle rejection. Shrug it off there problem not yours, concentrate on the positive people."
Couldn't agree more... u live and learn.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't even get the meets so haven't been rejected yet!
Take no notice of him, as others have already said, he just couldn't handle rejection which is 100% his problem and not yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol may I apologise on behalf of us males....no need for that. Be assured that there's not many like that out there.."
Unfortunately there are. Not just males but some couples too. |
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