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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am looking for advice from the lady's on here, I am just in a new relationship and she is a quite highly sexed lady of 56 yrs, size 10 nice figure and can be a bit of a dirty girl sucking my cock for fun even rimming me sometimes, when I have a session with her she gets very wet and turned on and she's up for all kinds taking the lead in many ways, she s not into swinging and wants to build our sex life just between us, thing is she gets a build up and enjoys me giving her oral then fucking her in all positions and rides me like there's no tomorrow, however according to her she has faked orgasms with previous relationships because she gets to the point of orgasm even starting an orgasm then switches off and unable to acheave a full one, I said we would work on it and hopefully rectify this, she says it has always been like this and the closest she has ever been to orgasm is with me, she displays sub tendencies and plays while I watch after being told to, I'm thinking maybe I should develop the sub side eventually maybe light bondage and trying to take control of the pending orgasm and trying to force her into orgasm, that way taking the button away that switches off and spoils it for her, do you think this approach could work?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think asking her would work better than asking total strangers. people are all so varied,tons can give you their opinions, but as hers is the only one that relevant, then yes, just ask her.
Also, and maybe just me, i feel a little more discretion might be in order. You could easily have said what you wanted to say without any graphic description. If it was about me, i'd be livid! |
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you need to talk to her about this because what you've got in mind could actually make things worse.
I know that you would like her to have an orgasm for her sake but you might actually be putting more pressure on. Why not discuss the possibility of just removing it from the agenda altogether, just allow her to enjoy sex for what it is with neither of you trying for or expecting her to achieve an orgasm? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Yes older as in mature, it bothers her because she's the one that is frustrated by her situation, the graphic aspect of the post was to explane the point that she can be a naughty dirty girl, obviously she's anonymous so there would be no reason to be livid about anything as it's meant to be constructive and address the problem , as for the cock in hand comment well ( there's always one) shame he couldn't come up with something constructive |
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