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What makes a good blow job?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pay attention to how they react when you change movement etc, each ones tailored to the guy.
Watch good gay porn for tips
Love ya job "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know how to give a fantastic bj. Good wrist action and using tongue on the head... Licking the balls and all around the cock. Teasing the shaft too with the teeth gently but some guys like it rough. Love bjs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pay attention to how they react when you change movement etc, each ones tailored to the guy.
Watch good gay porn for tips
Love ya job "
I couldn't have put it better myself. When it comes to giving a guy oral, one size does not fit all...it needs to be tailored to fit individually in my experience! I love watching and listening to a guy's reaction, gauging what he likes or doesn't enjoy so much, taking my time, lots of eye contact and cheeky grins. I absolutely love giving oral to someone I connect with...there's no better feeling than giving pleasure and making someone feel good. It's definitely a labour of love!
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"I know how to give a fantastic bj. Good wrist action and using tongue on the head... Licking the balls and all around the cock. Teasing the shaft too with the teeth gently but some guys like it rough. Love bjs "
This
Also plenty of eye contact, i like to see whats going on. Gentle sucking of the tip for me, a powerfull Dyson suck can be to intense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it slow and sensual, with brief periods of frantic sucking and wanking. Tickle my balls, but don't suck on them (too sensitive). A hint of teeth every now and then adds a nice element of danger. Don't try and deep throat if you can't actually fit the cock in your throat, it's just painful for the guy. Tickle the bumhole too. Alternate speeds, use just your hand if you need a break every now and then, but mostly, read my reactions. You'll know by my moans and squirms if you're doing it right. Practice makes perfect  |
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No bloke is going to finish and then say....
"Ok, let's talk through what just happened and discuss what was good and what you could do better next time" as a punch in the nuts could be seen as a sign she didn't want that chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Split Saliva dribble gagging, wank the bellend not the shaft, or adleast not always the shaft.
Fire eyes, enthusiasm, teasing, ball sucking and licking with abit of Gooch,
Dosent really count to the question but love seeing a girl with my cock across there face
Oh and let me taste that pussy every now and again whilst getting head  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a single word the biggest thing is enthusiasm, but I think its a matter of what kind of blowjob you want at the time. Different girls are better at different kinds.
L is without a doubt the most effective blowjob giver ive ever met. In terms of being able to consistently and steadily apply pleasure to the point where i cum. Shes actually the only girl ive ever known who can pretty much ALWAYS bring me off with oral. In most other relationships an oral orgasm was maybe something that would happen 1 in 50 times. If that. The very best before id met her had a batting average of around 1 in 10.
All that being said, that isnt the only kind of blowjob that is great fun. There are more visual blowjobs, that arent actually effective in producing an orgasm, but are such a turn on to see as part of foreplay. A dirty spitting, wanking blowjob, employing my favourite hand trick is a joy to watch. Wont generally make me cum, but it will be a hell of a starter before the main course.
In both cases there needs to be enthusiasm for it to be worthwhile, its the biggest single factor. But in terms of the physical actions, its too multifaceted to say. |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
Cradley Heath |
"In a single word the biggest thing is enthusiasm, but I think its a matter of what kind of blowjob you want at the time. Different girls are better at different kinds. "
Totally agree, I've enjoyed a variety of techniques when enthusiastically applied  |
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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago
Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire. |
Soft and gentle does it for me. I love my tool to be accommodated by a warm mouth wet with saliva.I also enjoy the horny sensation as my bell end touches the back of my partner's throat.If my partner gags on it even better
HEAVEN mmmmmmmmm  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Don't think there's a single right answer to this one - what does it for me can vary depending on the person, the circumstances etc - but the one consistent factor that I find hot is eye contact...just something very naughty about looking deep into someones eyes as they do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, I prefer a nice slow one. Too many people just go in and suck hard and fast. For me, this isn't that much fun. I like it slow, with more licking than sucking, with the focus on the head while their hand pumps at the base |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. THE MOORLANDS. BARMOUTH. |
Hands behind back to start.
Slowly and sensuously flick my tongue around the tip. Gently sucking in the tip only. Move with soft kisses and gentle nibbles up and down the shaft, all the way around. Move back up and slowly take the cock into my mouth, going deeper with each thrust till I gag.
Work back down the shaft and kiss n lick each ball. Gently suck them one at a time into my mouth. Then with my hands cup them both together and suck them both deep into my mouth.
That's all for now xxxxx Suzi |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hands behind back to start.
Slowly and sensuously flick my tongue around the tip. Gently sucking in the tip only. Move with soft kisses and gentle nibbles up and down the shaft, all the way around. Move back up and slowly take the cock into my mouth, going deeper with each thrust till I gag.
Work back down the shaft and kiss n lick each ball. Gently suck them one at a time into my mouth. Then with my hands cup them both together and suck them both deep into my mouth.
That's all for now xxxxx Suzi "
Suzi you just made me hard reading this  |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. THE MOORLANDS. BARMOUTH. |
"Hands behind back to start.
Slowly and sensuously flick my tongue around the tip. Gently sucking in the tip only. Move with soft kisses and gentle nibbles up and down the shaft, all the way around. Move back up and slowly take the cock into my mouth, going deeper with each thrust till I gag.
Work back down the shaft and kiss n lick each ball. Gently suck them one at a time into my mouth. Then with my hands cup them both together and suck them both deep into my mouth.
That's all for now xxxxx Suzi
Suzi you just made me hard reading this "
my blow by blow account of the beginnings of a blow job xxxxx Suzi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hands behind back to start.
Slowly and sensuously flick my tongue around the tip. Gently sucking in the tip only. Move with soft kisses and gentle nibbles up and down the shaft, all the way around. Move back up and slowly take the cock into my mouth, going deeper with each thrust till I gag.
Work back down the shaft and kiss n lick each ball. Gently suck them one at a time into my mouth. Then with my hands cup them both together and suck them both deep into my mouth.
That's all for now xxxxx Suzi
Suzi you just made me hard reading this
my blow by blow account of the beginnings of a blow job xxxxx Suzi "
Sounds like my kind of bj  |
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By *andixxxMan
over a year ago
Gloucester |
"Pay attention to how they react when you change movement etc, each ones tailored to the guy.
Watch good gay porn for tips
Love ya job "
This pretty much covers every base needed, assuming you're making plenty of eye contact to measure my reactions
In fact. This is great sex in a nutshell, not sure the gay porn applies to EVERY scenario though...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every ones diffrent some like a nice slow sloppy one others like to throat fuck...
Never had a throat Fuck "
Hmmm you mean you have never been throat fucked or you have never fucked a throat  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Every ones diffrent some like a nice slow sloppy one others like to throat fuck...
Never had a throat Fuck
Hmmm you mean you have never been throat fucked or you have never fucked a throat "
Ha ha I mean I never fucked a throat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every ones diffrent some like a nice slow sloppy one others like to throat fuck...
Never had a throat Fuck
Hmmm you mean you have never been throat fucked or you have never fucked a throat
Ha ha I mean I never fucked a throat "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best blow job ever is usually given by the horniest 'girl' ever, with the best tits and wettest pussy ever, who squirts for England, and culminates in the best shag ever. Usually something in there about treating them nicely, and not letting them go (although that last bit does sound a bit like a hostage situation!).
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The fact that the giver is thoroughly enjoying what they are doing. Noticing every moan and twitch. Making those moans and twitches louder and stronger.
The tongue is a powerful tool. And the frenham is a sensitive area. When the 2 meet .....
Mmmmmmm mm mm
But yeah, everyone's different so find what works for the dude, and do it with genuine want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely this!! Lots of licking, sucking & kissing and include the balls & perineum too (and ass if you don't mind it!). Work from tip to base, balls & further back, then back up again.
Pay attention to their reaction & you will learn what a guy likes specifically - they're all different. Also eye contact is a good thing.
You have to enjoy it - if you don't, it will never blow him away!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Definitely an enthusiasm and love of the job.. No pun intended.
I cant imagine there is anything worse for a guy than someone going through the motions and obviously not enjoying it.
I adore it, watching facial expression, hearing changes in breath, and when it goes from 'oh god to,' oh fuck' I know I'm doing alright.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pride in your work. I am still quite new to receiving and one of my partners is simply amazing at it. Deepthroats, drooling and real enthusiasm. Gets me so hot I can almost believe the cock is really mine and not just a prosthetic. He just takes my breath away. He would be such a great gay cock slut lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a nutshell, appreciating the cock I think is the easiest way to put it. Treat it as something you love, and want at the same time and make sure you listen to the reactions for what ever you try. Great ways to ensure you leave a lasting memory. |
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"Pay attention to how they react when you change movement etc, each ones tailored to the guy.
Watch good gay porn for tips
Love ya job
I couldn't have put it better myself. When it comes to giving a guy oral, one size does not fit all...it needs to be tailored to fit individually in my experience! I love watching and listening to a guy's reaction, gauging what he likes or doesn't enjoy so much, taking my time, lots of eye contact and cheeky grins. I absolutely love giving oral to someone I connect with...there's no better feeling than giving pleasure and making someone feel good. It's definitely a labour of love!
V x"
Absolutely agree 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love a particular length and girth cock. If that's in front of me I'll go to the lengths of the earth and show you how much I'm loving it. I will ask where on your bellend is the most sensitive and do little flickies on there with my tongue. I'm not satisfied until you've blown your load. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love a particular length and girth cock. If that's in front of me I'll go to the lengths of the earth and show you how much I'm loving it. I will ask where on your bellend is the most sensitive and do little flickies on there with my tongue. I'm not satisfied until you've blown your load."
Sounds divine...when can I have one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hands behind back to start.
Slowly and sensuously flick my tongue around the tip. Gently sucking in the tip only. Move with soft kisses and gentle nibbles up and down the shaft, all the way around. Move back up and slowly take the cock into my mouth, going deeper with each thrust till I gag.
Work back down the shaft and kiss n lick each ball. Gently suck them one at a time into my mouth. Then with my hands cup them both together and suck them both deep into my mouth.
That's all for now xxxxx Suzi "  |
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