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I think it's my ex...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As my profile describes I'm looking to explore my Bi side but if a fella catches my eye then Im more than open to flirting and to see where it leads... With that in mind I was checking my inbox the other day and had a nice intro mail. Normally I would either bin or if its nice just a quick thanks but no thanks and happy fabbing. BUT this one mail just had something about it not sure what but I replied and asked how they were etc. Again the next one or two exchanges were as if I had spoken before.. I asked for pics and he fobbed me off saying was uploading waiting etc. he has just mailed me a pic and I know its my ex.
Now what should I do? We had a very bad breakup and I am not in the least bit interested in getting back together but do I block him or have a little fun? Hes now with an old friend of both of ours so is a bit of a dick for cheating but he did it to me with her so im not going to inform her..
Help me out fabbers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just leave alone and let things work out on their own.
Although I would message a bit more and toy a bit myself. That is up to you though.
Alls fun in love and war eh"
Well I don't mean games. I would just be really ambiguous is all. |
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"Just leave alone and let things work out on their own.
Although I would message a bit more and toy a bit myself. That is up to you though.
Alls fun in love and war eh
Well I don't mean games. I would just be really ambiguous is all. "
Tbf sounds like the other person is playing games, string him along and then block |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know but the temptation to make him look a fool is that devil on my shoulder... He hurt me quite a lot and I feel this is my turn to get him back.."
I wouldn't do something vengeful. No good can come of it. |
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"I know but the temptation to make him look a fool is that devil on my shoulder... He hurt me quite a lot and I feel this is my turn to get him back.."
You seem like a nice woman
From what I can see I highly doubt you would be short of offers
Don't stoop to it
Let it go and move on
Enjoy life
Enjoy sex
Enjoy yourself
Xx |
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By *itzhallMan
over a year ago
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Rise above the temptation to get your own back on him and her..... it'll never end well and only bring you more aggravation than you need or deserve.
If he's set on cheating on her then stand well back and enjoy the fireworks that will bring but don't get involved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would you consider anything other than block? He's probably guessed who you are too. Just block and avoid the pointless and totally unnecessary drama you seem to be weirdly keen on |
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"Why would you consider anything other than block? He's probably guessed who you are too. Just block and avoid the pointless and totally unnecessary drama you seem to be weirdly keen on"
same thought exactly, even to consider it after knowing what he is really like but to the point of him being a twat to you before why consider anything other then block and carry on.
Aswell to say you normally would say no thanks to others on here and consider someone like that just says you wanna start trouble in your life, when its clearly not worth it, dont say much about the guys on here either... being tempted by an ex but just saying no straight up to the rest.
Best thing to do is block and move on for sure.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know but the temptation to make him look a fool is that devil on my shoulder... He hurt me quite a lot and I feel this is my turn to get him back..
You seem like a nice woman
From what I can see I highly doubt you would be short of offers
Don't stoop to it
Let it go and move on
Enjoy life
Enjoy sex
Enjoy yourself
Xx"
I am with this one, (though those people who know me or had an extended exchange of messages would say that they would expect me to go for the jugular). He may have sussed it was you and HE is toying with YOU. I suppose it depends where you met originally, if on here, I would defo say he's sussed you out and is messing with your head. For some guys, they like to hurt and hurt, I just wouldn't put myself in a position where any guy had that sort of power. Walk away, block him, leave him either shrugging coz he didn't get to you again or scratching his head coz he can't work out why some new bird he was chatting with has suddenly blocked him. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know but the temptation to make him look a fool is that devil on my shoulder... He hurt me quite a lot and I feel this is my turn to get him back..
You seem like a nice woman
From what I can see I highly doubt you would be short of offers
Don't stoop to it
Let it go and move on
Enjoy life
Enjoy sex
Enjoy yourself
Xx"
This.
Spot on
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How would feel if you read this post from a man? If you think it's fair game then go for it but karma is an evil bitch so in the end you reap what you sow. Tread carefully op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Either set him up so his new gf finds out and dumps him, thereby making him hurt as much as u did (although his gf would be hurt as an innocent bystander but at the same time needs to know he's doing this) or block and stay away, it depends on wether you want drama or not |
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"As my profile describes I'm looking to explore my Bi side but if a fella catches my eye then Im more than open to flirting and to see where it leads... With that in mind I was checking my inbox the other day and had a nice intro mail. Normally I would either bin or if its nice just a quick thanks but no thanks and happy fabbing. BUT this one mail just had something about it not sure what but I replied and asked how they were etc. Again the next one or two exchanges were as if I had spoken before.. I asked for pics and he fobbed me off saying was uploading waiting etc. he has just mailed me a pic and I know its my ex.
Now what should I do? We had a very bad breakup and I am not in the least bit interested in getting back together but do I block him or have a little fun? Hes now with an old friend of both of ours so is a bit of a dick for cheating but he did it to me with her so im not going to inform her..
Help me out fabbers"
Sounds like your still pineing for him, leave him alone you big stalker ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thanks Fabbers... I think some got the wrong end of the stick about me being with him againg... NOOOO I was just going to have him pining but I think your right... Blocked and move on.. |
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"Thanks Fabbers... I think some got the wrong end of the stick about me being with him againg... NOOOO I was just going to have him pining but I think your right... Blocked and move on.."
Only problem now is that if he has read this thread, he'll know it's you for sure.
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