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How soon or not do you show a face picture
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are no rules, you should be able to gauge from the conversation, or the profile for an initial message, when one is warranted. However delay too long into a message exchange it becomes rather awkward if you don't find the other attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you're comfortable enough to send it "
Exactly this. I can completely understand the filtering process for many women due to the imbalance ratio but when you see some that have no pictures on show whatsoever yet are stating a face pic to start chatting, how can the sender decide if they are attracted to them enough in the first place |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I usually send one when I feel comfortable doing so and think I may eventually be interested in meeting someone. I've sent one in a first message before now because I had a hunch about someone. I don't insist on seeing one first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My face pics are public, so I never need to send one. I don't think I've ever asked to see a face pic. I wait until they are comfortable enough to send me one  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ermmmm i say when you feel comfortable with the person i rarely give mine out "
How long, in general, before you feel comfortable with someone? Have you ever conversed for ages then not been attracted to the face? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ermmmm i say when you feel comfortable with the person i rarely give mine out
How long, in general, before you feel comfortable with someone? Have you ever conversed for ages then not been attracted to the face?"
I have once in general i get it right though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My face pics are public, so I never need to send one. I don't think I've ever asked to see a face pic. I wait until they are comfortable enough to send me one . "
Mine are public too, so I expect one to be sent with a first message, otherwise I just delete their message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we are sending an initial message then we include our face pics. If we are responding to someone else's message then we only send our face pics when we want to and not before the initial messenger sends theirs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Due to my circumstance, I don't send them out until I know if we get on well personality wise. I always ask for their first too as discretion is paramount to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fairly early on. I don't need to see the faces of a load of people I'm not interested in, but I'd also rather get over that hurdle before the chat has gone on too long. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because a face pic is a potential deal breaker, mine is front and centre, on my profile.
If someone is too lazy to bother looking, then we wont be meeting anyway.
I'm also less likely to message someone who demands a face pic with first message - especially if they dont have one themselves. |
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I ask for a clear, recent face and torso pic in my profile text (which everyone reads of course  )
If I like the look and sound of them I'll send a return face pic back to them!
On the rare occasions I go 'hunting' for myself I always enclose a recent face pic in my opening message! Fair's fair! |
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how invasive! how rude! how presumptuous! 