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"Do you think your relationship would end if you weren't swinging? Does it hold you both together? " Ooooh now there's a question!! I would like to say no but.... | |||
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"Do you think your relationship would end if you weren't swinging? Does it hold you both together? " Of course you aren't going to get any couples on here admitting their relationship was anything but perfect. For us, we rarely meet as we spend so much of our time with family things together. We don't have swingers in our social group so life goes on | |||
"I reckon swinging saves a lot of marriages as after years together they get bored with eachother, so this is an acceptable form instead of cheating." And I reckon you're wrong. Couples who do it to save their marriage are more than likely just delaying the inevitable. There may be some whose marriage it saved but they will be few and far between. Almost every couple we met and chatted to over the last ten years absolutely adore each other, even more so than any vanilla couple we've ever met. Couples in the lifestyle tend to be more open and honest with each other. | |||
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"Do you think your relationship would end if you weren't swinging? Does it hold you both together? Of course you aren't going to get any couples on here admitting their relationship was anything but perfect. For us, we rarely meet as we spend so much of our time with family things together. We don't have swingers in our social group so life goes on " That's us too. X | |||
"I reckon swinging saves a lot of marriages as after years together they get bored with eachother, so this is an acceptable form instead of cheating. And I reckon you're wrong. Couples who do it to save their marriage are more than likely just delaying the inevitable. There may be some whose marriage it saved but they will be few and far between. Almost every couple we met and chatted to over the last ten years absolutely adore each other, even more so than any vanilla couple we've ever met. Couples in the lifestyle tend to be more open and honest with each other." have to agree with shave to be honest. Most couples we know are not swingers though, and their marriages seem very solid. Many many couples we have talked to at parties and clubs and seen around the scene dont seem as secure by a long way. I just think people need to not see swinging through rose coloured glasses ... relationships are about the people involved, not whether they are swingers | |||
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"We could give it up tomorrow and it would have zero effect other than we'd need a new hobby to fill our weekends with. In my honest opinion, if swinging is holding anyone's relationship together it's just papering over the cracks and they're destined to break up sooner rather than later sadly."  | |||
"Do you think your relationship would end if you weren't swinging? Does it hold you both together? " No & no. It has no importance at all. | |||
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"Do you think your relationship would end if you weren't swinging? Does it hold you both together? Ooooh now there's a question!! I would like to say no but.... " This was a tongue in cheek comment. We met on here and have been a couple for just over 5 years. So this lifestyle has become a part of us but isn't all that we are, and there is so much more than swinging that cements us. I think if anything it helps toward a stronger togetherness. | |||
"Do you think your relationship would end if you weren't swinging? Does it hold you both together? Of course you aren't going to get any couples on here admitting their relationship was anything but perfect. For us, we rarely meet as we spend so much of our time with family things together. We don't have swingers in our social group so life goes on That's us too. X"
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"Do you think your relationship would end if you weren't swinging? Does it hold you both together? " Heck no. We didn't get into swinging to save our marriage or anything like that. We got into because of fantasies and excitement together. We are strong with or without it. Eve. Xx | |||
"Do you think your relationship would end if you weren't swinging? Does it hold you both together? Of course you aren't going to get any couples on here admitting their relationship was anything but perfect. For us, we rarely meet as we spend so much of our time with family things together. We don't have swingers in our social group so life goes on " Ditto to this! X | |||
"I reckon swinging saves a lot of marriages as after years together they get bored with eachother, so this is an acceptable form instead of cheating." It is the opposite with us sex between us is always exciting and fresh whereas meets can quickly become boring. We have been married over 30 years and could not envisage life without the other, but could envisage life without swinging. Some couples may/do use swinging as a prop but those couples are more often than not couples in which one party is not committed to the marriage. Then there are also couples whose life is in a rut and they use swinging as the spice to add excitement they would probably miss swinging and could break up without it. But the same could be said about single people who swing, some use it as a hobby, others use it as a drug and some use it as a way to find a future lifelong partner. | |||
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" In my honest opinion, if swinging is holding anyone's relationship together it's just papering over the cracks and they're destined to break up sooner rather than later sadly." This 'nails it'. | |||
"Do you think your relationship would end if you weren't swinging? Does it hold you both together? " I assume many have ended from swinging | |||
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"Despite what everyone is saying above (let's be honest who's going to say their marriage is anything other than rock solid to each other) any relationship where the sex life is suddenly changed radically is bound to be impacted. If swinging is an important part of a couples sex life and all of a sudden the buzz of sex with multiple partners is taken away if one partner decides they don't want to do it any more then it's bound to have an effect. " | |||
