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Would it make you more likely to meet someone if..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You saw a meet posted and the guy offered indicated he would 'book and pay for the hotel..my treat'?
Just asking as my ex fb has done this a few times with no success and wondered why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd think they were offering to pay as they think it would get them a fuck and frankly, it sounds a bit desperate.
Maybe not the case, but makes me think it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd think they were offering to pay as they think it would get them a fuck and frankly, it sounds a bit desperate.
Maybe not the case, but makes me think it "
This for me too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We posted a meet on our old profile before we took a break away ,was contacted by a guy quite a way away who wanted to meet us and he suggested meeting at a hotel which we said was no guarantee of play which he was fine with turned into a great chilled fun night to say least |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"You saw a meet posted and the guy offered indicated he would 'book and pay for the hotel..my treat'?
Just asking as my ex fb has done this a few times with no success and wondered why. "
No, because I get five star hotels for less than people pay for a travel lodge. It's a bit of a rubbish selling point and I don't think many are too fussed about the cost of the hotel if it's someone you want to fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An ability to accomodate is often a pre-requisite for most guys looking to meet. So offering to book and pay for a room to shag in as a 'treat' isn't likely to cut much mustard with most people.
If you get on after a period of 'getting to know you' on here and mutually agree to a play meet, then people are often to happy to share costs.
Seeking a 'meet now' with a randomer and offering to pay isn't a treat. It's almost a necessity! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd think they were offering to pay as they think it would get them a fuck and frankly, it sounds a bit desperate.
Maybe not the case, but makes me think it "
this! ..i wouldnt like to be put in a situation where i felt somehow obligated.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a man to be proactive. I don't like it when a man expects the couple to sort out accommodation. But if he took responsibility for booking a room, we might buy dinner or something, so it's fair.
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