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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All these people have shown an interest in us and when we arrange something seem excited then just go all quiet afterwards. This is why clubs are so much better the freedom the actual meeting of people in person with no organisations through here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you're maybe right. From our personal experience meeting after messaging is rather hit and miss. In a club you meet with no expectations and either leave - or take it right there and then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure it's a question but I know what you mean... I've had a few instances with interest lasting a few days or right up until a meet is discussed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i think some people just presume now a meet is arranged they can ignore you until that day?"
Yes, we've had this too, but also i'm sure some think, oh shit i might have to go through with it. Some single men especially, they like the thought, but scared of the reality  |
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"i think some people just presume now a meet is arranged they can ignore you until that day?"
Feeling a bit perplexed about this. If a meet is all set up, then yes sure a message near the time just to re-confirm all's well, but otherwise I wouldn't necessarily expect to either send or receive a message in the interim. What would we be messaging about? I'm a bit worried I'm missing something here?! |
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"i think some people just presume now a meet is arranged they can ignore you until that day?
Yes, we've had this too, but also i'm sure some think, oh shit i might have to go through with it. Some single men especially, they like the thought, but scared of the reality "
they should maybe chat more up to the meet then? to reassure themselves they will click with the people they're meeting. idk if that would help? |
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"i think some people just presume now a meet is arranged they can ignore you until that day?
Feeling a bit perplexed about this. If a meet is all set up, then yes sure a message near the time just to re-confirm all's well, but otherwise I wouldn't necessarily expect to either send or receive a message in the interim. What would we be messaging about? I'm a bit worried I'm missing something here?!"
some people like chatting that's all. i think it confirms everyone is still interested in each other. plus some just enjoy the social side of swinging so expect their meet to be more of a friend than just be someone they arrange an appointment for sex with. |
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