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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And what will you accept in the meantime? Has it changed from when you first joined Fab?
When I first came here I used this site like a dating site. It was great  . I had hoped to meet someone a little kinky and for it to develop into a relationship.
Now I want an fwb who is a lot kinky  . In the meantime I'll accept quality meets and fucks |
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I have open expectations and no specific ideal for being here so if I find some nice guys that interest me great and if not its not a problem as there are other places. Thinking that way I won't be disappointed. |
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When i first came on here i met someone a few times and got to know them quite well which was a mistake, now i only want to meet for an hour which works out better for me, i dont get involved with anyone.
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To have sex after finding an ex on here...now I wouldn't mind someone to chill with and have a life adventure I'm not sure I'll ever be vanilla again...but for now I'll just plod on and try and embrace life for what it is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I was hoping to find some locals that I could try starting FWB with but now I'm enjoying the forums and have a few friends on here I enjoy chatting with.
Occasionally I might get a meet aha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When i first came on here i met someone a few times and got to know them quite well which was a mistake, now i only want to meet for an hour which works out better for me, i dont get involved with anyone.
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The joys of being different - I love to make a mental connection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For amazing sex of course..........
Genuinely to meet like minded men and women, who are sexually adventurous, open minded and willing to explore with me.
I also do enjoy the social side and banter on here too.
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Honestly I have no real expectations. My ex and I experiments with this kind of thing a little, (we had a Twitter account posting pics and stuff) but it never went further than just talking to others. Now single and thought I'd come on and hopefully meet some like minded. |
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"Honestly I have no real expectations. My ex and I experiments with this kind of thing a little, (we had a Twitter account posting pics and stuff) but it never went further than just talking to others. Now single and thought I'd come on and hopefully meet some like minded. "
I really should look at what I'm writing.... Like minded people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To get a good social network going, primarily. As i'm not really into swinging i'm not sure how this will actually work but i'm giving it a try.
Bored of the endless sex now and have been for a while, hoping to have a lot more quality meets with genuinely nice guys. Maybe even find a cuckold but i kind of gave up on that for a while now, someone into 3sums would be alright too. |
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"To get a good social network going, primarily. As i'm not really into swinging i'm not sure how this will actually work but i'm giving it a try.
Bored of the endless sex now and have been for a while, hoping to have a lot more quality meets with genuinely nice guys. Maybe even find a cuckold but i kind of gave up on that for a while now, someone into 3sums would be alright too."
I tick most of your boxes, if only I was a few years younger.
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
I'm here looking to add to my unique friendships and to added a few more new memorable memories to the ones I've already lived on my life journey .
I function best in a fwb dynamic which of coarse makes adding to my group of unique friendships hard but as my life journey has already taunt me well worth the effort demanded to find such arrangements . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To get a good social network going, primarily. As i'm not really into swinging i'm not sure how this will actually work but i'm giving it a try.
Bored of the endless sex now and have been for a while, hoping to have a lot more quality meets with genuinely nice guys. Maybe even find a cuckold but i kind of gave up on that for a while now, someone into 3sums would be alright too.
I tick most of your boxes, if only I was a few years younger.
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my age range isn't strict, but thanks for respecting that. good start right there.
i'm holding a social in preston next weds, which i probably will be busy at that but, you're welcome to come to check me out in person. |
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"And what will you accept in the meantime? Has it changed from when you first joined Fab?
When I first came here I used this site like a dating site. It was great . I had hoped to meet someone a little kinky and for it to develop into a relationship.
Now I want an fwb who is a lot kinky . In the meantime I'll accept quality meets and fucks "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have been on and off fab for years! I came back in Jan after splitting from my husband and was just looking for one off meets. Instead i found a great group of girls I'm happy to call good friends and we do the normal girly stuff as well ad visiting clubs and I found someone who I have now ended up seeing, and as we met here it's ideal as we both have the same outlook on sex! So all in all I did quite well! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have been on and off fab for years! I came back in Jan after splitting from my husband and was just looking for one off meets. Instead i found a great group of girls I'm happy to call good friends and we do the normal girly stuff as well ad visiting clubs and I found someone who I have now ended up seeing, and as we met here it's ideal as we both have the same outlook on sex! So all in all I did quite well! X "
Awww things are working out well then.  |
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When i joined i came from another site.
I knew exactly what i wanted, great sex with like minded people and a few friends.
Only difference is i didnt always insist on a social first where as i do now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When i joined i came from another site.
I knew exactly what i wanted, great sex with like minded people and a few friends.
Only difference is i didnt always insist on a social first where as i do now"
Likewise - here is better due to the ceri process.
I too insist on a social, but the older I get the more inclined I am to have the sex straight after . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When i joined i came from another site.
I knew exactly what i wanted, great sex with like minded people and a few friends.
Only difference is i didnt always insist on a social first where as i do now
Likewise - here is better due to the ceri process.
I too insist on a social, but the older I get the more inclined I am to have the sex straight after ."
Errr verification process.  |
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By *ymph84Woman
over a year ago
durham |
Yes what I want has changed since I joined.
I never realised how bi I was until I joined this site and met a woman. Now I only really look for women. Don't get me wrong if the right man turned my head I could be persuaded but on the whole I'm here for women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been on and off fab for years! I came back in Jan after splitting from my husband and was just looking for one off meets. Instead i found a great group of girls I'm happy to call good friends and we do the normal girly stuff as well ad visiting clubs and I found someone who I have now ended up seeing, and as we met here it's ideal as we both have the same outlook on sex! So all in all I did quite well! X
Awww things are working out well then. "
They are! I find most people I meet especially at clubs are just really nice people! who happen to like a bit of kink lol x |
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"To get a good social network going, primarily. As i'm not really into swinging i'm not sure how this will actually work but i'm giving it a try.
Bored of the endless sex now and have been for a while, hoping to have a lot more quality meets with genuinely nice guys. Maybe even find a cuckold but i kind of gave up on that for a while now, someone into 3sums would be alright too.
I tick most of your boxes, if only I was a few years younger.
my age range isn't strict, but thanks for respecting that. good start right there.
i'm holding a social in preston next weds, which i probably will be busy at that but, you're welcome to come to check me out in person."
I am hoping to be there, glad you're not too strict on your age range.
Will be nice to meet you in person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To get a good social network going, primarily. As i'm not really into swinging i'm not sure how this will actually work but i'm giving it a try.
Bored of the endless sex now and have been for a while, hoping to have a lot more quality meets with genuinely nice guys. Maybe even find a cuckold but i kind of gave up on that for a while now, someone into 3sums would be alright too.
I tick most of your boxes, if only I was a few years younger.
my age range isn't strict, but thanks for respecting that. good start right there.
i'm holding a social in preston next weds, which i probably will be busy at that but, you're welcome to come to check me out in person.
I am hoping to be there, glad you're not too strict on your age range.
Will be nice to meet you in person. "
likewise. 
make sure i add you to the next guest list, i update it every day or so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wants and needs have changed so much over the years I've been here. At the moment I'm only here to stay in contact with people I meet in clubs, or others that only do club meets. It works well for me |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
Now, ideally I'd long to find a long term fwb who can satisfy my needs - rare as rocking horse shit it seems!
So for now I'll just carry on meeting peeps til he comes around (although I MAY have found one I'll not jinx it!) but I'm having a laugh so it's all good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And what will you accept in the meantime? Has it changed from when you first joined Fab?
When I first came here I used this site like a dating site. It was great . I had hoped to meet someone a little kinky and for it to develop into a relationship.
Now I want an fwb who is a lot kinky . In the meantime I'll accept quality meets and fucks "
Wondering how I landed here. Don't know what I am doing here |
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For us it was to find a Bi guy to share and explore my then Bi-curious side. That has moved to a couple so we can both explore this Bi side as we no longer see our lady friend that Mrs S had fun with, and for her to have the occasional other man while I watch and help as required. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been on and off fab for years! I came back in Jan after splitting from my husband and was just looking for one off meets. Instead i found a great group of girls I'm happy to call good friends and we do the normal girly stuff as well ad visiting clubs and I found someone who I have now ended up seeing, and as we met here it's ideal as we both have the same outlook on sex! So all in all I did quite well! X "
Pretty much the same thing happened to me. I have some fantastic friends who I have a giggle with and sometimes fun sex, then found someone with a similar outlook. I was tired of meeting vanilla guys who wanted boring sex. I now have really good, raunchy, kinky sex and have a giggle at the same time. I found what I was looking for. |
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Friendship, unbounded/uninhibited fun and shared passion/sex.
The site has proven to be a roller coaster ride, a huge social experiment where every member of society is present and all the incredible experiences and significant challenges can be found.
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I'm not here for anything specific except to ensure I can still have sex whilst I'm single.
I've been single for over 5 years now and I think I am possibly ready to consider dating but I'm not really expecting that from Fab.
Though it would be good because of the shared understanding of swinging |
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"I'm not here for anything specific except to ensure I can still have sex whilst I'm single.
I've been single for over 5 years now and I think I am possibly ready to consider dating but I'm not really expecting that from Fab.
Though it would be good because of the shared understanding of swinging "
Forgot to say I've made some amazing friends though |
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"When i first came on here i met someone a few times and got to know them quite well which was a mistake, now i only want to meet for an hour which works out better for me, i dont get involved with anyone.
The joys of being different - I love to make a mental connection."
Well maybe different if i wasnt married with a family i dont know though. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
No real expectations...joined as part of a couples profile back in February...and still very much part of that...with the intention of exploring *this* life having discussed it for years. Initially used the site to educate ourselves and find out about local clubs, etiquette etc etc and had some great times along the way.
As our education and experiences have evolved we recently set up solo profiles to allow occasional solo meets not to mention making it easier to post on the forums without having to type Mr/Ms G at the end of everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We came on here initially to find someone that would want to watch ie..a voyeur...because we got caught playing and realised how much it turned us on. But very quickly we started to push our boundaries so we occasionallg meet others (singles or couples) that we are attracted to try out new things and fulfill our fantasies |
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Initially was to make new friends, explore and push sexual boundaries,
It's been challenging at times but I feel ive started to achieve this,
Now ideally one or two regular friends to push further, and build good relationships with is the aim, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I started on here for and what I want now has changed massively. Circumstances and wants have taken a huge shift and my perspective has changed too.
I think that it's all positive though. I found something that I wasn't looking for and it changed everything for the better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We came to find a few couples that we can click with, share some social times and have very Horny times. It happened on our old profile, but not happened yet on this one.
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am here to meet new folk and hopefully friends in the process with shared kink interest.
My real goal however is to meet a lovely bi male who loves being dominated, is also into kink, who will be happy to be my friend with benefits and swinging partner on a long term basis...as long as he is not a jealous man!
Not easy to find a man like that but I don't give up and meet others in the meantime having fun along the way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm here to experiment and find out what I like sexually, I led a pretty sheltered life until Fab."
This! I've been here over a year now but when I first joined I was like a rabbit in the headlights. Didn't know where to look or what to do!
I've had some really terrible meets!  but learnt my lesson and met some fantastic people. It's given me a platform from which I can explore a whole new world. I've learnt lots of about my personality and sexuality too. I was pretty naive and innocent before.
In the beginning I only met girls. Or played with couples in a FFM situ. At the moment my preference is MMF but I know it's likely to change again as I experience all the things on my to do list.
Visiting lots of clubs was always the plan too and with the help of some awesome people, im working my way around the country, trying out all these new ones
It's been great fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I now enjoy my man meeting and eating pussy and using my toys on a woman then he texts me at work bout it so I can wank then cum home n fuck him but really finding it hard to find ladies who I will try this x |
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I initally joined fabs to maintain a soci contact with friends I'd previously met at clubs or parties.
Over the years the membership has remained reasonably consistant, and a good balance of all membership types. |
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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago
Ashford kent |
"We enjoy watching and being watched, and it's much safer than just parking up starting to play and hoping whoever catches you isn't offended, don't get off on upsetting those vanilla folk... lol "
snap...love being the 3rd wheel. Or tongue. .lol |
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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago
Ashford kent |
"I am here to meet new folk and hopefully friends in the process with shared kink interest.
My real goal however is to meet a lovely bi male who loves being dominated, is also into kink, who will be happy to be my friend with benefits and swinging partner on a long term basis...as long as he is not a jealous man!
Not easy to find a man like that but I don't give up and meet others in the meantime having fun along the way! "
But im here and yr there...lol
Otherwise were perfect...lol |
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I work hard and have a very busy work and social life, my family comes first and as I build my business I don't have the time to commit to a relationship. For now this is an honest way of meeting people for fun the odd drink chat flirt but no commitment x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To expose my magnificent cock to the world and receive judgement from ne'er do wells in the process...
Maybe...
.... nah... to remind myself I am still alive; that my imagination is still delightfully decadent and at the grand old age of 41 I can still be naughty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We joined after our first club visit which was purely for a night out with a difference. We spoke to a couple who mentioned this site. We looked, we joined and now met some great, sexy couples. We love sexy couples. |
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