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By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago
West Midlands |
Haven't posted anything in here for a while. But thought about this as a venting, letting off steam etc, topic.
Please don't get aggressive, swear etc...just post very simply the type of things that frustrate or annoy you about swinging...for example mine are:
Profiles that demand a face pic with the first message, but have no pics on their own profile.
"Conversations" where you are asked lots of questions, but none of yours are answered.
"User no longer on site"
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
Couples in clubs who think they because you have chatted to them you obviously want to play with them. No, I was just making conversation in the smoking area instead of standing there in silence.
Couples who are way too eager in clubs: "Soooo, you want to go play?". No, it's only 9pm, I've spoken to you for 5 minutes and haven't even had a chance to hang my coat up yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples who bang on about their perfect marriage and say if you aren't a swinger then your marriage must be cramp..."
Couples who bang on about and can't understand the fact that if you are in a great relationship you can still swing together without there being something missing in your relationship |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"Haven't posted anything in here for a while. But thought about this as a venting, letting off steam etc, topic.
Please don't get aggressive, swear etc...just post very simply the type of things that frustrate or annoy you about swinging...for example mine are:
Profiles that demand a face pic with the first message, but have no pics on their own profile.
"Conversations" where you are asked lots of questions, but none of yours are answered.
"User no longer on site"
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My cat isn't on here - I hope |
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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago
between havant and chichester |
"Haven't posted anything in here for a while. But thought about this as a venting, letting off steam etc, topic.
Please don't get aggressive, swear etc...just post very simply the type of things that frustrate or annoy you about swinging...for example mine are:
Profiles that demand a face pic with the first message, but have no pics on their own profile.
"Conversations" where you are asked lots of questions, but none of yours are answered.
"User no longer on site"
My cat isn't on here - I hope"
its playing with my two rascals  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who message in the fact it is only the other half(missus) on the profile, by saying they'd do this and that to 'me', when ours says its mostly me on here.
Plus the usual one liners and messages from those who don't fall within our 'requirements'.
As for the scene generally speaking, it is the impolite people who presume that we will have sex with them because we are in a place at the same time.
Most annoyances can be removed by people reading profiles and responding (or not) as appropriate. |
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Men who moan or ask me why i wont do certain things, men who ask stupid, boring questions. Someone who keeps asking to see you so you do, they arrange a date to see you again, then you dont hear from them again even to say they have changed their mind or cant come. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profiles that are 'SHOUTY' ....you know the ones, they are written as a list of bullet points about their rules! Yes we all have things we don't like but we're basically here to enjoy ourselves.
I wish Sydney University would use our pics.
Profiles that are full of gaping fannys, arseholes and cocks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haven't posted anything in here for a while. But thought about this as a venting, letting off steam etc, topic.
Please don't get aggressive, swear etc...just post very simply the type of things that frustrate or annoy you about swinging...for example mine are:
Profiles that demand a face pic with the first message, but have no pics on their own profile.
"Conversations" where you are asked lots of questions, but none of yours are answered.
"User no longer on site"
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But requiring a face pic to be private messaged is not the same the same as having a face pic on profile for all to see. Those who insist on a face pic with first message (like ourselves) should be prepared to also send face pics if it's them initiating first contact, as we do. But I don't think it's reasonable to expect us to display face pics publically for everybody on Fab to see, surely?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men who message who presume cos I'm local I have to fuck them. Or men who think because I'm single I am available to them 24 7 so if they get a better offer they can blow me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try not to have pet hates and just hang loose, but it is tiresome explaining that, no I'm not forcing my wife into this and that she's not doing it just to put on a show for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People that presume I'm an easy lay just because I'm on a swinging site, and should just drop my knickers because they've sent me a message.
Abusive messages that are aimed at putting me down, just because I haven't read a message they sent previously... Although I state I'm here for the forums and not meeting, and have not asked anyone to message me, on my profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting a message asking why you haven't replied to thier last one. There's a local guy who is very good at that. Can spot him a mile off on each profile he has. Always block him.
People who dot understand the concept of unable to accommodate.
People who ask why you don't want to meet and get arsey about it. Even after you've politely said no.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples who bang on about their perfect marriage and say if you aren't a swinger then your marriage must be cramp...
Couples who bang on about and can't understand the fact that if you are in a great relationship you can still swing together without there being something missing in your relationship "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples who bang on about their perfect marriage and say if you aren't a swinger then your marriage must be cramp... "
The irony is that they got no clue what a proper marriage is according to the bible as they are committing adultery.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples who bang on about their perfect marriage and say if you aren't a swinger then your marriage must be cramp... The irony is that they got no clue what a proper marriage is according to the bible as they are committing adultery."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples who bang on about their perfect marriage and say if you aren't a swinger then your marriage must be cramp... The irony is that they got no clue what a proper marriage is according to the bible as they are committing adultery.
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Utter crap .
Next we will hear that gay marriage is against the bibles teaching .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples who bang on about their perfect marriage and say if you aren't a swinger then your marriage must be cramp... The irony is that they got no clue what a proper marriage is according to the bible as they are committing adultery."
How religious exactly are you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples who bang on about their perfect marriage and say if you aren't a swinger then your marriage must be cramp... The irony is that they got no clue what a proper marriage is according to the bible as they are committing adultery.
Utter crap .
Next we will hear that gay marriage is against the bibles teaching .
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Wouldn't bother guys let them have there little love in , actually who gives a shit,ignorance and lack of knowledge clearly showing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples who bang on about their perfect marriage and say if you aren't a swinger then your marriage must be cramp... The irony is that they got no clue what a proper marriage is according to the bible as they are committing adultery."
Providing they believe in the bible......
And those that do shouldn't be here, unless they're those types that only apply the bits of their religion that suits. (But that debate is for an entirely different thread.) |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"Couples that message saying they happy with just girl on girl play to find out 3 messages later they have wasted my time as actually they want the man to be involved too"
We get this a lot too, similar 'yep she plays on her own no probs" then "But I have to be there" or "can I just touch? You are fucking my Mrs after all"...
No! Bugger off...
S |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Womens profiles with a list of demands and donts.
Guys who address one half of a couple in 1st message.
White knights..place is full of them.
Straight in profile..bi in messages.
Cliques in chatrooms and forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Womens profiles with a list of demands and donts.
Guys who address one half of a couple in 1st message.
White knights..place is full of them.
Straight in profile..bi in messages.
Cliques in chatrooms and forums."
Great list and we agree with all your points |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples who bang on about their perfect marriage and say if you aren't a swinger then your marriage must be cramp... The irony is that they got no clue what a proper marriage is according to the bible as they are committing adultery.
Utter crap .
Next we will hear that gay marriage is against the bibles teaching .
Wouldn't bother guys let them have there little love in , actually who gives a shit,ignorance and lack of knowledge clearly showing "
True , nothing new there I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples who bang on about their perfect marriage and say if you aren't a swinger then your marriage must be cramp... The irony is that they got no clue what a proper marriage is according to the bible as they are committing adultery.
How religious exactly are you? "
I am religious, but not to the extreme you know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples who bang on about their perfect marriage and say if you aren't a swinger then your marriage must be cramp... The irony is that they got no clue what a proper marriage is according to the bible as they are committing adultery.
Providing they believe in the bible......
And those that do shouldn't be here, unless they're those types that only apply the bits of their religion that suits. (But that debate is for an entirely different thread.) "
That is right too and yeah it would be a different debate as well there. |
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"Womens profiles with a list of demands and donts."
I'm guilty of that  but despite stating in my profile that I'm an ssbbw I still end up having to explain what it is. Then they stop replying and block me
Hate guys with really bad screen names like heavycummer. Iliketofuck etc. Those that claim to be vwe but most definitely aren't - one was actually only 3" erect and pencil thin.
Sky remotes and deodorant cans |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"20/25 yr old single girls who are only looking for single males 20-35 etc wtf is all that about its a swinging site not a hook-up free sex site "
People who think because you're on a swinging site you'll hook up with anyone, regardless of age. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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couples and single ferns who do every thing they can to emasculate men and turns us into preforming seals who will do everything they demand for a chance of a fuck .
men who allow couples and single ferns to emasculate them because there so desperate for a fuck they will roll over play dead clap like a seal or do what ever other emasculating demands are made of them by those looking to strip men of there masculinity and turn us into controlled puppies doing there bidding . |
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People who repeatedly look at your profile, then wink, but then inexplicably delete your introductory message *without reading*.
Head scratcher. I mean, if it's possible to lurk without leaving a track (it is) and equally, it isn't easy to wink by mistake (a wink is a form of communication on here), why do it only to delete my message when I respond and say hello?
Ok I get folk change their minds (that's how the site rolls) but is it too much to say "sorry I've changed my mind" if you receive a message from someone who has clearly invested in reading your profile and spent time making an introductory message which reflects this?! After all, I've only messaged as a result of their direct actions!
Hmm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My irritants are cock avatars and profiles that are predominantly a collection of cock pics. I also don't like being sent a picture of cock - find it very presumptuous.
One-line messages such as 'how are you' irritate me, and I cannot bare it when someone we don't know randomly asks what we're up to (but I don't like it when that gets asked in the supermarket checkout either).
I don't like the way some guys try and use this site more as a escort site where the don't have to pay.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Text speak, really does get my back up 
Women and couples that think they have a god given right to mess a guy around just because he's single.
People that seem unable to hold a conversation because they only answer a message with one word replies. |
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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire East |
Men and women who are using this site as a hook up one and not a swingers site.
Couples in clubs who assume because you've chatted to them its a garuntee play. Recently got cornered in a hot tub for this exact reason
People who don't read profiles
Cock picks
The "I know you're not looking for men BUT..." messages
People who assume because I'm fat I'll meet up with anyone regardless of age, sex ect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who block you after they send a face pic as your phone has died before you had a chance to reply"
Who in their right mind would want to block you!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys (Women probably do it too, but I'm just goin off my own experience.) deleting their profile, then rejoining the site; on a regular basis like weekly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People who message me saying 'great profile'
If they are saying that then I know 100% that they haven't read it  "
Hi great profile ! Well great legs anyway!!!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The long profiles with things they don't do and don't like. Kinda just puts me off, we all have people that ruin the fun but we just move on from it, no need to keep moaning about it.
People that are pushy.
Lots of fanny cock pics on profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont like it when i send a decent message maybe ten lines or more. Really make an effort to communicate effectively and all i get back is one line....
Bad breath is also something i just can't do...don't people floss ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Biggest pet hate for me is turning up with fishnet stockings (devils spawn in my mind), second one is people who expect to be trusted to come to my home for fun, but as soon as you say we need to exchange phone numbers it's you might ring me, hello you can block my number but I can't block my address |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Hi" messages
"Meet now ?" Messages because im dressed up laid in bed gagging 24/7 waiting for you .......not lol "
"Hi" Messages!?
Outrageous! Reminds of a sketch by the late, great Peter Cook and Dudley Moore!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVMasdUbhfs |
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"I dont like it when i send a decent message maybe ten lines or more. Really make an effort to communicate effectively and all i get back is one line....
Bad breath is also something i just can't do...don't people floss ? "
I just paid £57 to get my teeth cleaned, my last dentist wasnt very good as he never sent me to the hygenist. I dont floss i use interdental brushes they are much better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men who think I am some kind of free prostitute to "service" them at their convenience.
People who take a wink or a fab as a guarantee you will fuck them.
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