Hey girls, if you're out and about on a night out. Do you get happy if a guy approaches you and chats you up, or do you find it unwanted or creepy? A few of my girl mates say they hate it when a guy buys them a drink and chats them up. So now when I see a girl I like I back off and won't speak to her. Would love to know your views |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I used to live in Leeds I would go to this one wetherspoons on Friday nights. It has a bacony which overlooks the dance floor. Marc and I would order drinks and then just watch the dance floor from above. It was fascinating. If you ever want to learn something about human behavior (or at east British behavior  ) then give it a try. It was really easy to spot from above who was interested in being chatted up, who wasn't, and everything in between. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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i dont venture out into vanilla land. i have twice in two years, the first time i had two pissed guys grovelling at my feet all night and the second time i had loads of young men telling me i didnt look half my age and how i was fascinating.
i dislike vanilla land, i dislike the getting d*unk culture, how no one can speak to you as a person and i dont fancy people from this area. so to answer you question. i dislike the kind of attention, men in vanilla land here, give me, its as shallow as a muddy puddle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if i'm enjoying myself then it would bother me. also if they ask me the same question more than once that also get on my tits. if they're d*unk then leave me alone too.
not everyone goes out to tap off.
a lot of women would be pissed off by the fact that they can't go anywhere without a man thinking they need male attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The worst is when you're at the bar, and they approach you there. My partner gets miffed if we're out together. Men will attempt to blatantly flirt, with him right there. I find that very rude. |
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"The worst is when you're at the bar, and they approach you there. My partner gets miffed if we're out together. Men will attempt to blatantly flirt, with him right there. I find that very rude. "
....and very disrespectful. There are way too many sleazebags out there. I really feel sorry for women when I can go out because even I can see how offputting the men can be. And here's a little secret - the bad behaviorist of a lot of women is also very offputting. |
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"The worst is when you're at the bar, and they approach you there. My partner gets miffed if we're out together. Men will attempt to blatantly flirt, with him right there. I find that very rude.
....and very disrespectful. There are way too many sleazebags out there. I really feel sorry for women when I can go out because even I can see how offputting the men can be. And here's a little secret - the bad behaviorist of a lot of women is also very offputting. "
You are completely right. It does go for both sexes   . |
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I don't like it.
I'm married, I wear my wedding rings, they don't know that I'm a swinger so as far as they are aware they are out of order for trying it on with a married woman. I find disrespect a massive turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's very rare I'm approached on a girlie night out. I did have a group of lads once who sang "big girl you are beautiful" as I passed a queue to a club. That's as close as it gets. (I'm so ugly  ). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It never happens to me. I think I give off a completely asexual vibe. But it would make me uncomfortable being chatted up in public, and I'd probably assume they were taking the piss or it was a bet to chat up the fat one. |
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By *ye SeMan
over a year ago
london |
"It never happens to me. I think I give off a completely asexual vibe. But it would make me uncomfortable being chatted up in public, and I'd probably assume they were taking the piss or it was a bet to chat up the fat one. "
Really, it's one of the hardest things to do if you see someone you real think it that hot that if you don't at least try you may never see them again. I know guys his will speak to any women if they think they have a chance and I understand that ladies can believe all guys are just chancers but you never know it could be the one...
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