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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we rarely respond to winks, and prefer to receive a message.
Did respond to one last night though, but it hasn't come to anything.
Can't believe people are too shy to write when they're ok to let you see their bits  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people see them as lazy and prefer to be sent a message telling them a little about the person and to show that they have actually read the profile they are contacting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most winks we get, it's obvious people haven't read our profile.. 
If you cant read (or wont) and just look at pictures, then your not for us.
I guarantee, many people are the same and thats why they put that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think we've ever "winked" at anyone. If we do receive a wink and look at the profile we respond with a message either saying we are interested or sorry not for us. Usually though the reply is READ OUR PROFILE!!!!!!! Because nine out of ten haven't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like winks and ive been chatting to the most gorgeous guy today that had read my profile and winked instead of messaging like I ask
They're all good as far as im concerned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most of the time blokes just wink at girl that they would probably shag after a few beers lol but dont quite like them enough to send a message, either that or there to busy wanking lol lazy if you ask me
for the record I dont send winks lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have winked a few but it's meant in a simple nice profile way not anything more
if i want to know more i will pm them
its also how i take any recieved winks too |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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I always work on the basis that Winks are a "lazy" way of trying to make contact.
I only refer to sending a wink, once I have made contact through my Profile being seen by someone who has taken the time to view me and send a message.
On the other hand, if someone sends me a wink, I'll reciprocate and return the favour, only once I have viewed them. |
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I use the wink feature on this site because it is there and as a way of showing I have an interest in the person I've winked at.
I don't do it to be lazy, however it does get a little tiresome to write a dozen messages to people who never even bother to reply, so at least a quick wink shows interest.
If I get a wink from a local lady I shall wink back and send a message too. Most of the winks I get are from guys, shame i'm not gay or i'd get loads of action |
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I must admit that I find the 'lazy' or 'lacks effort' responses about winks just a tiny bit irritating given that even the most carefully worded and well thought out pm's with face pics attached and all profile criteria checked are still deleted without comment (note, tiny bit, I don't sit brooding on it! )
I'm fully aware just how many pm's the ladies and couples get and I understand why they do this, but it's one of the reasons blokes sometimes send winks instead of a pm.
Spending half an hour crafting each message only to log on to an empty inbox every day can be very disheartening when you first join.
I never wink anyone who has 'no winks' on their profile. |
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"I use the wink feature on this site because it is there and as a way of showing I have an interest in the person I've winked at.
I don't do it to be lazy, however it does get a little tiresome to write a dozen messages to people who never even bother to reply, so at least a quick wink shows interest.
If I get a wink from a local lady I shall wink back and send a message too. Most of the winks I get are from guys, shame i'm not gay or i'd get loads of action "
totally agree with u x |
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i see it as thats what the feature is there for otherwise why do they have it on the site,its not lazyness on our part we are showing interest, i think there should be wen u go on someones profile if they dont like winking they should be able to stop winking like when filtering messages,stops anyone getting annoyed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is just me,but if someone cant be bothered to send a mail,i cant be bothered to look at my winks. i bulk delete every few days."
*Nods in agreement* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yea i think your all right,but if you get a wink and you like them ,and you wink back,perhaps they will send a message ,as you have winked back!"
Life is too short to be pulling teeth winking! If it's a toss up between someone who takes the time to send a message and a winker - well... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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GUILTY of winking, but it IS a feature of the site, why not use it(unless specifically asked not to)...I dont mind being winked off at all, friends invites with no prior communication or future communication now that FUCKS me off lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, yeah - so it's a feature of the site, so is the block and delete bottom - doesn't stop people whinging about the overuse of them though does it?!! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, yeah - so it's a feature of the site, so is the block and delete bottom - doesn't stop people whinging about the overuse of them though does it?!!
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feature not nessecity, nor is the block or delete button.And didnt I just point out that if someone asks for no winks u respect it????-some people dont find it lazy...some do....maybe i should block my winking admirers for putting no effort in hehe |
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