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Depends on each case really unfortunately I can't accommodate so it's easier to meet at a club initially plus I think it's safer however I do adore a social I think the fact you can't play at times can build up the anticipation ready for the next time. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
If it's in a club and there's been a mini-social first by way of chatting in the bar then see no reason not to head straight to play if all in agreement....
....if not met before then social first every time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socials first, due to how different people can look/be in person. But if I'm happy and he is, then I'm quite happy to move straight on, no need to wait days/weeks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends who I'm talking to really. I've met people and played after a quick natter.
Then I've met people at clubs and socials and played another time. Take each situation and judge on it's own merit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a social quite early on. Check they are who they say they are, check they're going to turn up, check we actually like each other enough to want to have sex. And it builds anticipation, which I like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have jumped straight in on same day after we had lunch and it lasted for 5 years! However I no longer do this as I have been hurt by the actions of a few so it's now two or three socials until I have established a good connection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a social quite early on. Check they are who they say they are, check they're going to turn up, check we actually like each other enough to want to have sex. And it builds anticipation, which I like. "
I agree, I used to go straight to play meets but I found that I like the anticipation in the build up, it also means you know the person a little which makes for a better meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I dont mind either will do what the lady is most comfortable with firstly. But if was up to me I would say social only cause it takes away the worries about who you are meeting x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for replies everyone I mostly think people prefer the social first but get carried away and end having fun straight after which sounds the best to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really do socials, we don't get a lot of spare time so I chat for a long time first on here then meet in a hotel bar for a few drinks and then head back to my room if it all goes well xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if it ever happens again.... we just go with the flow not bothered either way. We are quite happy to fuck then leave and never speak to them again but we are also happy to build some sort of friendship too. It would depend on the people and situation x |
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