Hey everyone .... Just a quick question I'm finding it really difficult to find a couple who like to truly play the cuck role play... Also I tend to find most couples who are into it are mainly into black guys? Is it me or am I doing something wrong ! |
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over a year ago
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"Many people see cuckold differently so might be best explaining what you see as true cuckold "
+1. This is a hugely personal and subjective area and can sometimes involve some quite complex psychology. Once you've got in to the mindset of the couple and understand and appreciate the dynamic of their relationship (and their fantasies/pleasures), you'll understand how you can add to that. |
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"Many people see cuckold differently so might be best explaining what you see as true cuckold "
Indeed. So many guys have a rigid view of what cuckolding is, so that's why we gave up on it. |
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I found one couple ( well, they found me ), who I would meet each time they were in the country. It was perfect.
Any other couples that I've encountered, like the guy to be a mind reader and can get very shitty when he is not.
Good communication is key. Be clear about what you want and fingers crossed that you find a match.
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I think it's this rigidity that's the issue - as the single guy, you're the one being introduced to the already existing dynamic, so I'd say it's more up to you to be a little flexible with regards to what the couple is looking for, as opposed to demanding they fit your idea of the arrangement. Everyone's definition of a 'true' cuckold is different, i.e. the definition that works for them! |
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in fetish usage a cuckold is complicit in his (or her) partner's sexual "infidelity"; the wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is called a cuckoldress if the man is more submissive
That's the official definition but to me there are two scenarios
1) man that simply enjoys seeing his wife being fucked by other guys (may join in too) . Can also be referred to as Hotwife
2) the man likes to be humiliated as part of play
Obviously these are to simple explanations and there are varying degrees of both . |
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"in fetish usage a cuckold is complicit in his (or her) partner's sexual "infidelity"; the wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is called a cuckoldress if the man is more submissive
That's the official definition but to me there are two scenarios
1) man that simply enjoys seeing his wife being fucked by other guys (may join in too) . Can also be referred to as Hotwife
2) the man likes to be humiliated as part of play
Obviously these are to simple explanations and there are varying degrees of both . "
,I am definitely in the number one definition you posted |
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"in fetish usage a cuckold is complicit in his (or her) partner's sexual "infidelity"; the wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is called a cuckoldress if the man is more submissive
That's the official definition but to me there are two scenarios
1) man that simply enjoys seeing his wife being fucked by other guys (may join in too) . Can also be referred to as Hotwife
2) the man likes to be humiliated as part of play
Obviously these are to simple explanations and there are varying degrees of both . ,I am definitely in the number one definition you posted"
And so lays the complexity. I as the male of partner can find myself sitting in both definitions and to varying degrees. I find few things more sexy than seeing Mrs S with another man and with me also being Bi there can be, but not always an element of humiliation there. Most times we all play as equals for want of a better word even with the Bi play, where it falls back into definition one. In short there seems to be few rules and varying boundaries dependent on the situation. |
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"Hey everyone .... Just a quick question I'm finding it really difficult to find a couple who like to truly play the cuck role play... Also I tend to find most couples who are into it are mainly into black guys? Is it me or am I doing something wrong !"
Agree with the forum. Hugely different for each couple. Some really into it and some mildly. A man coming into an established relationship is extremely hard and we have found it almost impossible over the years. In fact, I think only one has truly been lucky with us. Possibly two. One major drawback for us is the man usually delights in chatting to Mrs and fails to establish a relationship with me thereby negating any chance he may have had. Mr Classy |
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"Hey everyone .... Just a quick question I'm finding it really difficult to find a couple who like to truly play the cuck role play... Also I tend to find most couples who are into it are mainly into black guys? Is it me or am I doing something wrong !
Agree with the forum. Hugely different for each couple. Some really into it and some mildly. A man coming into an established relationship is extremely hard and we have found it almost impossible over the years. In fact, I think only one has truly been lucky with us. Possibly two. One major drawback for us is the man usually delights in chatting to Mrs and fails to establish a relationship with me thereby negating any chance he may have had. Mr Classy"
Here here!  |
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"Hey everyone .... Just a quick question I'm finding it really difficult to find a couple who like to truly play the cuck role play... Also I tend to find most couples who are into it are mainly into black guys? Is it me or am I doing something wrong !
Agree with the forum. Hugely different for each couple. Some really into it and some mildly. A man coming into an established relationship is extremely hard and we have found it almost impossible over the years. In fact, I think only one has truly been lucky with us. Possibly two. One major drawback for us is the man usually delights in chatting to Mrs and fails to establish a relationship with me thereby negating any chance he may have had. Mr Classy"
Totally agree. |
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"Hey everyone .... Just a quick question I'm finding it really difficult to find a couple who like to truly play the cuck role play... Also I tend to find most couples who are into it are mainly into black guys? Is it me or am I doing something wrong !
Agree with the forum. Hugely different for each couple. Some really into it and some mildly. A man coming into an established relationship is extremely hard and we have found it almost impossible over the years. In fact, I think only one has truly been lucky with us. Possibly two. One major drawback for us is the man usually delights in chatting to Mrs and fails to establish a relationship with me thereby negating any chance he may have had. Mr Classy
Totally agree. "
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By *az1Man
over a year ago
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Hi I'm looking for a cuckold/hotwife couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if you would like to read x |
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