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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I had a couples profile a year ago but did not have great success due to the fact that my fb was 5'5 and many couples and single makes and females stated they found it off-putting although MY height wasn't a problem!

Is height really a big issue for a guy then?

Was thinking of opening a couples profile again.

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By *umtofuckMan  over a year ago

glasgow


"I had a couples profile a year ago but did not have great success due to the fact that my fb was 5'5 and many couples and single makes and females stated they found it off-putting although MY height wasn't a problem!

Is height really a big issue for a guy then?

I think its a bit shallow to be honest but as many say in fab its there choice.x

Was thinking of opening a couples profile again."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can't speak for anyone else, but it wouldn't bother my Mrs in terms of your fb's height.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I had a couples profile a year ago but did not have great success due to the fact that my fb was 5'5 and many couples and single makes and females stated they found it off-putting although MY height wasn't a problem!

Is height really a big issue for a guy then?

I think its a bit shallow to be honest but as many say in fab its there choice.x

Was thinking of opening a couples profile again."

Of course but I want to know if it's worth my while really I suppose!

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By *udistnorthantsMan  over a year ago

Desborough

Personally I'm not bothered about other people's height

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple  over a year ago

Bedworth

Height does tend to be an issue, mainly when men are short or ladies very tall.

I personally have never been attracted to short men, despite being only 5'2" myself.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman  over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I do like a guy to be a fair few inches taller than myself

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By *aughty_amazonWoman  over a year ago

BRISTOL

This is a big deal.for me, I'm.5"10 and wanna be thrown about, not vice versa. It's a confidence thing too, I feel weird bending to kiss someone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get quite a bit of interest at times but as soon as some people I would meet find out I'm 5"7 they either ignore or block.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We're all the same size horizontal aren't we

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"We're all the same size horizontal aren't we "

No.

Not the same length

Not the same area

Not the same volume

Not even the same height

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a couples profile a year ago but did not have great success due to the fact that my fb was 5'5 and many couples and single makes and females stated they found it off-putting although MY height wasn't a problem!

Is height really a big issue for a guy then?

I think its a bit shallow to be honest but as many say in fab its there choice.x

Was thinking of opening a couples profile again.

Of course but I want to know if it's worth my while really I suppose!"

You're going to get diverse opinions on here, only you can answer that for yourself. Does your FB have his own profile on here?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're all the same size horizontal aren't we "

Are we shite.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't meet a couple unless both of them were around my height or taller and the man would absolutely have to be taller. I don't think that makes me shallow, it just means I know what I like.

Others aren't bothered though - so I don't see why you wouldn't get a positive response from those people.

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like my guys to be taller than me, at least 5'10. Of course there are exceptions but I wouldn't meet anyone shorter than me. It wouldn't feel right!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1"

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're all the same size horizontal aren't we "

If you keep things in the bedroom them your height shouldn't be a concern. Out and about or in clubs then I could see why some (not all of us) would have an issue concerning your height.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10". "

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're all the same size horizontal aren't we "

Nope, if you're a tall woman and the guy is significantly shorter some positions become very hard work!

I'm in the same camp as a PP, like to feel like a guy can throw me around the bedroom a bit if I so desire. That said I don't insist a guy is taller than me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't. "

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I had a couples profile a year ago but did not have great success due to the fact that my fb was 5'5 and many couples and single makes and females stated they found it off-putting although MY height wasn't a problem!

Is height really a big issue for a guy then?

I think its a bit shallow to be honest but as many say in fab its there choice.x

Was thinking of opening a couples profile again.

Of course but I want to know if it's worth my while really I suppose!

You're going to get diverse opinions on here, only you can answer that for yourself. Does your FB have his own profile on here? "

He did but had no interest from anyone so deleted it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I prefer smaller women although it isn't a deal breaker at all. Its just what u prefer suppose its same as gay and straight or seeing just black or white guys just your own person preferences. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then..."

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

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By *loppsyWoman  over a year ago

marlow


"Height does tend to be an issue, mainly when men are short or ladies very tall.

I personally have never been attracted to short men, despite being only 5'2" myself. "

Yep me too x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If my height costs me a fuck then no big deal.

As for being thrown around. I must be dreaming when I throw around more weight in the gym then taller guys

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed."

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

Popcorn into microwave...check

Comfy chair....check

"

Comfy chairs and popcorn have done enough damage regarding obesity.. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though."

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

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By *ild-1Woman  over a year ago

york

It is for me. I'm 5 8 so my profile states men over 5 10 minimum.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman  over a year ago

BRISTOL


"We're all the same size horizontal aren't we

Are we shite. "

Can't fuck doggy with a short bloke as my as my ass is too high up, can't 69 as can't REach, can't fuck stood up.....shall.I carry on?.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman  over a year ago

BRISTOL


"If my height costs me a fuck then no big deal.

As for being thrown around. I must be dreaming when I throw around more weight in the gym then taller guys "

It's what turns you on, I personally don't find looking down on a man a turn on.....I want to be dominated and be able.to wear heels and feel sexy,I want to be pinned to a wall.and fucked stood up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're all the same size horizontal aren't we

Are we shite.

Can't fuck doggy with a short bloke as my as my ass is too high up, can't 69 as can't REach, can't fuck stood up.....shall.I carry on?."

Met 6ft + and achieved all 3 so wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If my height costs me a fuck then no big deal.

As for being thrown around. I must be dreaming when I throw around more weight in the gym then taller guys

It's what turns you on, I personally don't find looking down on a man a turn on.....I want to be dominated and be able.to wear heels and feel sexy,I want to be pinned to a wall.and fucked stood up "

So a guy 5.7 can't do that.? You're find he can just not for you're preferences. But I know it can because I have

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So women like tall men, true story

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different. "

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a couples profile a year ago but did not have great success due to the fact that my fb was 5'5 and many couples and single makes and females stated they found it off-putting although MY height wasn't a problem!

Is height really a big issue for a guy then?

Was thinking of opening a couples profile again."

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. Don't see height as a requirement to fun

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I had a couples profile a year ago but did not have great success due to the fact that my fb was 5'5 and many couples and single makes and females stated they found it off-putting although MY height wasn't a problem!

Is height really a big issue for a guy then?

Was thinking of opening a couples profile again."

Some people will have a preference regarding height and some won't.

To put your lack of success on a couples profile, purely down to the male, is a bit naff in my opinion. I'm sure, it makes him feel really good about himself, not!

Having a couples profile, will make finding meets harder, as you've got more people to please, especially if looking for other couples. You need a 4 way attraction and that's not that easy to find, both in looks and personality wise.

Only you can decide, if it's worth it or not.

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Wouldn't worry us at all Dicks 5'6 and we seem to do ok.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference."

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

Popcorn into microwave...check

Comfy chair....check

Comfy chairs and popcorn have done enough damage regarding obesity.. Lol."

Thanks, Doctor...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This thread is about height, not weight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have met short guys but prefer taller, there is nothing that compares to when a really tall guy puts his arms around you and it makes you feel small, plus I like heels.

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By *rnortholtMan  over a year ago

Waveney Valley

It really is horses for courses, I guess. There seem to be quite a few relatively short men in the swinging world who seem to get on alright, but just like any other trait, height can limit options.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Personally, I do prefer a guy to be taller, but that because I'm 5'7 and ate too much cake... If I like someone though, and they tick all the other boxes, I'd never say no just because of height.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think most peoples problem in meeting is that theyre just a dick regardless of any other feature.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not."

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This thread is about height, not weight "

Yeah; I thought that but now apparently weight is all that matters on any thread, ever.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This thread is about height, not weight

Yeah; I thought that but now apparently weight is all that matters on any thread, ever. "

Conversations evolve.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it."

Of course. Who said it was okay to be nasty about it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

Of course. Who said it was okay to be nasty about it? "

You. Because a fat woman can control their weight but a small man can't control their height. And if that's not what you meant, despite being what you said, then I don't know what you're even arguing with me about.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it."

What's with the..my heart bleeds for the short guys comment then? I always get the impression from a few taller ladies on the forums that just because there taller they think there above shorter guys in more ways then one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Everyone on here has the right to be choosy, whether that's to do with height, weight, or any other preferences.

We don't have the right to be a twat in how we express our preferences nor do we have the right to condemn others for their preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

What's with the..my heart bleeds for the short guys comment then? I always get the impression from a few taller ladies on the forums that just because there taller they think there above shorter guys in more ways then one "

I was being sarky about the fact I'm supposed to feel guilty for not wanting to meet short men. Plenty of people don't want to meet me for plenty of reasons, I don't bleat about them though. I don't think I'm above the short guys, I just don't find them attractive. That ok with you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

What's with the..my heart bleeds for the short guys comment then? I always get the impression from a few taller ladies on the forums that just because there taller they think there above shorter guys in more ways then one

I was being sarky about the fact I'm supposed to feel guilty for not wanting to meet short men. Plenty of people don't want to meet me for plenty of reasons, I don't bleat about them though. I don't think I'm above the short guys, I just don't find them attractive. That ok with you?"

That's cool. Good luck in finding what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone on here has the right to be choosy, whether that's to do with height, weight, or any other preferences.

We don't have the right to be a twat in how we express our preferences nor do we have the right to condemn others for their preferences."

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"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

Of course. Who said it was okay to be nasty about it?

You. Because a fat woman can control their weight but a small man can't control their height. And if that's not what you meant, despite being what you said, then I don't know what you're even arguing with me about. "

I never said that. I do think that as unattractive traits go, obesity is worse. For health too. My opinion.

You are evidently sensitive about it so I'll leave it

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By *aughty_amazonWoman  over a year ago

BRISTOL


"If my height costs me a fuck then no big deal.

As for being thrown around. I must be dreaming when I throw around more weight in the gym then taller guys

It's what turns you on, I personally don't find looking down on a man a turn on.....I want to be dominated and be able.to wear heels and feel sexy,I want to be pinned to a wall.and fucked stood up

So a guy 5.7 can't do that.? You're find he can just not for you're preferences. But I know it can because I have "

.

But I personally don't find it a turn on to look down on a guy, it's my preference and in my experience I've struggled to fuck in positions as i mentioned before with people 5"11 let alone smaller. I'm not bashing shorter guys, just responding to OP post as to why her fb can't get meets,as station were getting taller and women are too.

I wanna feel.sexy when I'm in bed, I don't when I have to take my heels.off and bend down to have a snog.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I had a couples profile a year ago but did not have great success due to the fact that my fb was 5'5 and many couples and single makes and females stated they found it off-putting although MY height wasn't a problem!

Is height really a big issue for a guy then?

Was thinking of opening a couples profile again.

Some people will have a preference regarding height and some won't.

To put your lack of success on a couples profile, purely down to the male, is a bit naff in my opinion. I'm sure, it makes him feel really good about himself, not!

Having a couples profile, will make finding meets harder, as you've got more people to please, especially if looking for other couples. You need a 4 way attraction and that's not that easy to find, both in looks and personality wise.

Only you can decide, if it's worth it or not.

"

It was purely down to his height as the replies were always the same..your guy is too small for the missus..sometimes rude replies like...she won't fuck midget.men..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like my guys 5'9" (roughly as I'm not gonna bring my tape measure lol) or above ...reason for this is that I like assertive men and the height thing adds to the whole scenario ....although if I like the look of their face...I wouldn't cancel a meet because of someone's height...as long as they aren't shorter than me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Till I joined fab I never realised my height was a issue. Think I'm off to claim disability now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

for me, there is something about shorter men (5'10and under) that I find slightly ridiculous...

but then I'm 6ft so...

(I also think that short men have an attitude as if they have to prove they are arrogant feckers to make up for their lack of inches )

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"for me, there is something about shorter men (5'10and under) that I find slightly ridiculous...

but then I'm 6ft so...

(I also think that short men have an attitude as if they have to prove they are arrogant feckers to make up for their lack of inches )"

I rest my case

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

Of course. Who said it was okay to be nasty about it?

You. Because a fat woman can control their weight but a small man can't control their height. And if that's not what you meant, despite being what you said, then I don't know what you're even arguing with me about.

I never said that. I do think that as unattractive traits go, obesity is worse. For health too. My opinion.

You are evidently sensitive about it so I'll leave it "

We all have our preferences. However, saying someone isn't your type and saying you find them disgusting is very different.

You used the word "disgusting". That's what is offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"for me, there is something about shorter men (5'10and under) that I find slightly ridiculous...

but then I'm 6ft so...

(I also think that short men have an attitude as if they have to prove they are arrogant feckers to make up for their lack of inches )"

You find short men ridiculous!?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

Of course. Who said it was okay to be nasty about it?

You. Because a fat woman can control their weight but a small man can't control their height. And if that's not what you meant, despite being what you said, then I don't know what you're even arguing with me about.

I never said that. I do think that as unattractive traits go, obesity is worse. For health too. My opinion.

You are evidently sensitive about it so I'll leave it

We all have our preferences. However, saying someone isn't your type and saying you find them disgusting is very different.

You used the word "disgusting". That's what is offensive."

I only find certain levels disgusting. Chubby is cute. I'm starting to realise how big a problem it is across society.

Maybe l can't fathom how someone gets that big because l struggle to put weight on even when l eat and eat. Maybe l assume they are eating way more than me?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This thread is reeking of heightism

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"for me, there is something about shorter men (5'10and under) that I find slightly ridiculous...

but then I'm 6ft so...

(I also think that short men have an attitude as if they have to prove they are arrogant feckers to make up for their lack of inches )

You find short men ridiculous!? "

I did say slightly...get it right

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"for me, there is something about shorter men (5'10and under) that I find slightly ridiculous...

but then I'm 6ft so...

(I also think that short men have an attitude as if they have to prove they are arrogant feckers to make up for their lack of inches )

I rest my case "

Maybe tall women think they are stronger than short men? How silly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a preference for tall men but I have met men shorter than me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"for me, there is something about shorter men (5'10and under) that I find slightly ridiculous...

but then I'm 6ft so...

(I also think that short men have an attitude as if they have to prove they are arrogant feckers to make up for their lack of inches )

I rest my case "

I rest mine too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

Of course. Who said it was okay to be nasty about it?

You. Because a fat woman can control their weight but a small man can't control their height. And if that's not what you meant, despite being what you said, then I don't know what you're even arguing with me about.

I never said that. I do think that as unattractive traits go, obesity is worse. For health too. My opinion.

You are evidently sensitive about it so I'll leave it

We all have our preferences. However, saying someone isn't your type and saying you find them disgusting is very different.

You used the word "disgusting". That's what is offensive.

I only find certain levels disgusting. Chubby is cute. I'm starting to realise how big a problem it is across society.

Maybe l can't fathom how someone gets that big because l struggle to put weight on even when l eat and eat. Maybe l assume they are eating way more than me?"

Jesus!

Okay, you don't understand it. Fine, but why use words like "disgusting".

I put this to you. A lot of people who are overweight have issues. They turn to food to comfort themselves. Some turn to drugs and alcohol when they lose a loved one or suffer some form of life set back. Some eat. Not everything is black and white. Empathy goes a long way in this world.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"for me, there is something about shorter men (5'10and under) that I find slightly ridiculous...

but then I'm 6ft so...

(I also think that short men have an attitude as if they have to prove they are arrogant feckers to make up for their lack of inches )

I rest my case

Maybe tall women think they are stronger than short men? How silly "

I'm stronger then a lot of the taller guys at the gym. But I still look like I can't protect a ant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"for me, there is something about shorter men (5'10and under) that I find slightly ridiculous...

but then I'm 6ft so...

(I also think that short men have an attitude as if they have to prove they are arrogant feckers to make up for their lack of inches )

I rest my case

I rest mine too"

Just need the other to turn up now and make it a insult the short person day

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By *aughty_amazonWoman  over a year ago

BRISTOL


"for me, there is something about shorter men (5'10and under) that I find slightly ridiculous...

but then I'm 6ft so...

(I also think that short men have an attitude as if they have to prove they are arrogant feckers to make up for their lack of inches )

I rest my case

Maybe tall women think they are stronger than short men? How silly "

Nope I'm.a wuss, don't wanna bench press with a tall man just wanna be face down ass up and not have to lie flat to get my ass fucked!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

Of course. Who said it was okay to be nasty about it?

You. Because a fat woman can control their weight but a small man can't control their height. And if that's not what you meant, despite being what you said, then I don't know what you're even arguing with me about.

I never said that. I do think that as unattractive traits go, obesity is worse. For health too. My opinion.

You are evidently sensitive about it so I'll leave it

We all have our preferences. However, saying someone isn't your type and saying you find them disgusting is very different.

You used the word "disgusting". That's what is offensive.

I only find certain levels disgusting. Chubby is cute. I'm starting to realise how big a problem it is across society.

Maybe l can't fathom how someone gets that big because l struggle to put weight on even when l eat and eat. Maybe l assume they are eating way more than me?

Jesus!

Okay, you don't understand it. Fine, but why use words like "disgusting".

I put this to you. A lot of people who are overweight have issues. They turn to food to comfort themselves. Some turn to drugs and alcohol when they lose a loved one or suffer some form of life set back. Some eat. Not everything is black and white. Empathy goes a long way in this world. "

Well ask yourself, do women find alcoholism attractive? By this logic we can justify anything if it's a coping mechanism.

I do have empathy. My dad is a fat guy. He is insecure about it but does nothing that change it. He doesn't comfort eat, he just loves fattening things. Who doesn't?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"for me, there is something about shorter men (5'10and under) that I find slightly ridiculous...

but then I'm 6ft so...

(I also think that short men have an attitude as if they have to prove they are arrogant feckers to make up for their lack of inches )

I rest my case

Maybe tall women think they are stronger than short men? How silly

I'm stronger then a lot of the taller guys at the gym. But I still look like I can't protect a ant "

Stocky guys are good lifters.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

Of course. Who said it was okay to be nasty about it?

You. Because a fat woman can control their weight but a small man can't control their height. And if that's not what you meant, despite being what you said, then I don't know what you're even arguing with me about.

I never said that. I do think that as unattractive traits go, obesity is worse. For health too. My opinion.

You are evidently sensitive about it so I'll leave it

We all have our preferences. However, saying someone isn't your type and saying you find them disgusting is very different.

You used the word "disgusting". That's what is offensive.

I only find certain levels disgusting. Chubby is cute. I'm starting to realise how big a problem it is across society.

Maybe l can't fathom how someone gets that big because l struggle to put weight on even when l eat and eat. Maybe l assume they are eating way more than me?

Jesus!

Okay, you don't understand it. Fine, but why use words like "disgusting".

I put this to you. A lot of people who are overweight have issues. They turn to food to comfort themselves. Some turn to drugs and alcohol when they lose a loved one or suffer some form of life set back. Some eat. Not everything is black and white. Empathy goes a long way in this world.

Well ask yourself, do women find alcoholism attractive? By this logic we can justify anything if it's a coping mechanism.

I do have empathy. My dad is a fat guy. He is insecure about it but does nothing that change it. He doesn't comfort eat, he just loves fattening things. Who doesn't?"

I don't think you're quite understanding what the point is. We're not talking about preferences or what we find attractive.

Would I say that an alcoholic is disgusting? No! That's because I have empathy that there's an underlying issue.

Do you all your Dad disgusting!? I certainly my hope not!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

Of course. Who said it was okay to be nasty about it?

You. Because a fat woman can control their weight but a small man can't control their height. And if that's not what you meant, despite being what you said, then I don't know what you're even arguing with me about.

I never said that. I do think that as unattractive traits go, obesity is worse. For health too. My opinion.

You are evidently sensitive about it so I'll leave it

We all have our preferences. However, saying someone isn't your type and saying you find them disgusting is very different.

You used the word "disgusting". That's what is offensive.

I only find certain levels disgusting. Chubby is cute. I'm starting to realise how big a problem it is across society.

Maybe l can't fathom how someone gets that big because l struggle to put weight on even when l eat and eat. Maybe l assume they are eating way more than me?

Jesus!

Okay, you don't understand it. Fine, but why use words like "disgusting".

I put this to you. A lot of people who are overweight have issues. They turn to food to comfort themselves. Some turn to drugs and alcohol when they lose a loved one or suffer some form of life set back. Some eat. Not everything is black and white. Empathy goes a long way in this world.

Well ask yourself, do women find alcoholism attractive? By this logic we can justify anything if it's a coping mechanism.

I do have empathy. My dad is a fat guy. He is insecure about it but does nothing that change it. He doesn't comfort eat, he just loves fattening things. Who doesn't?

I don't think you're quite understanding what the point is. We're not talking about preferences or what we find attractive.

Would I say that an alcoholic is disgusting? No! That's because I have empathy that there's an underlying issue.

Do you all your Dad disgusting!? I certainly my hope not! "

He certainly can be disgusting lol.

I think all greed and is disgusting, even if it's with booze.

So thinking something is disgusting is being horrible?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

Of course. Who said it was okay to be nasty about it?

You. Because a fat woman can control their weight but a small man can't control their height. And if that's not what you meant, despite being what you said, then I don't know what you're even arguing with me about.

I never said that. I do think that as unattractive traits go, obesity is worse. For health too. My opinion.

You are evidently sensitive about it so I'll leave it

We all have our preferences. However, saying someone isn't your type and saying you find them disgusting is very different.

You used the word "disgusting". That's what is offensive.

I only find certain levels disgusting. Chubby is cute. I'm starting to realise how big a problem it is across society.

Maybe l can't fathom how someone gets that big because l struggle to put weight on even when l eat and eat. Maybe l assume they are eating way more than me?

Jesus!

Okay, you don't understand it. Fine, but why use words like "disgusting".

I put this to you. A lot of people who are overweight have issues. They turn to food to comfort themselves. Some turn to drugs and alcohol when they lose a loved one or suffer some form of life set back. Some eat. Not everything is black and white. Empathy goes a long way in this world.

Well ask yourself, do women find alcoholism attractive? By this logic we can justify anything if it's a coping mechanism.

I do have empathy. My dad is a fat guy. He is insecure about it but does nothing that change it. He doesn't comfort eat, he just loves fattening things. Who doesn't?

I don't think you're quite understanding what the point is. We're not talking about preferences or what we find attractive.

Would I say that an alcoholic is disgusting? No! That's because I have empathy that there's an underlying issue.

Do you all your Dad disgusting!? I certainly my hope not!

He certainly can be disgusting lol.

I think all greed and is disgusting, even if it's with booze.

So thinking something is disgusting is being horrible?

"

You didn't just think it though, did you!?

You said it. That's the point.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a couples profile a year ago but did not have great success due to the fact that my fb was 5'5 and many couples and single makes and females stated they found it off-putting although MY height wasn't a problem!

Is height really a big issue for a guy then?

Was thinking of opening a couples profile again."

OP... I'm sorry this thread got hijacked a bit!

Have the posts helped? I'd say to go for the profile again!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a couples profile a year ago but did not have great success due to the fact that my fb was 5'5 and many couples and single makes and females stated they found it off-putting although MY height wasn't a problem!

Is height really a big issue for a guy then?

Was thinking of opening a couples profile again."

The thread has gone off topic I think, but why not try you won't do any worse than not trying at all. Height is important to some but not to others

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I had a couples profile a year ago but did not have great success due to the fact that my fb was 5'5 and many couples and single makes and females stated they found it off-putting although MY height wasn't a problem!

Is height really a big issue for a guy then?

Was thinking of opening a couples profile again.

The thread has gone off topic I think, but why not try you won't do any worse than not trying at all. Height is important to some but not to others"

I agree with that... it won't hurt to try again.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've seen a few short men with tall women this year. It works ok for some. We all have our own preferred taste. We are all different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks for all your views on this subject! On balance I will consider compiling a new couples profile and take it from there! I also have another friend on here keen to be a couple with me who is 5'10!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm 5'4", had lovers over 6' and not slim ladies either; yes it can be an issue if you're standing up and if you go out or go dancing, but, when it comes to sex it's all about personality and preference compatibility..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm 5'4", had lovers over 6' and not slim ladies either; yes it can be an issue if you're standing up and if you go out or go dancing, but, when it comes to sex it's all about personality and preference compatibility.. "

Met 2 women at a cocktail bar recently. Both were about 6'5"!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Interesting thread!

Marc is only 5'7" and we've never had any real problems with his height. We don't message people who say height is important to them, but it hasn't limited us in any real sense. I find it interesting that our experiences have been so different in this regard.

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By *aughty_amazonWoman  over a year ago

BRISTOL


"I'm 5'4", had lovers over 6' and not slim ladies either; yes it can be an issue if you're standing up and if you go out or go dancing, but, when it comes to sex it's all about personality and preference compatibility..

Met 2 women at a cocktail bar recently. Both were about 6'5"!!!!

"

Umm were they female.or shemale?

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By *aysmitMan  over a year ago

walsall

Very intresting im 6.6 some people don't like im so tall xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Very intresting im 6.6 some people don't like im so tall xx"

I have met someone who 6'6" and someone else who is 6'8" which was great for me as I could wear my highest heels without feeling self conscious

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks for all your views on this subject! On balance I will consider compiling a new couples profile and take it from there! I also have another friend on here keen to be a couple with me who is 5'10! "

I think you should give it a go. People who are bothered about height usually say so in the profile so you can avoid them in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't find height an issue. Saying that I did meet a lady once who was a few inches taller than me ... all was great until she got on all fours and I was behind her, seems her thigh bones were longer than mine and I couldn't reach kneeling!!!

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By *aysmitMan  over a year ago

walsall


"Very intresting im 6.6 some people don't like im so tall xx

I have met someone who 6'6" and someone else who is 6'8" which was great for me as I could wear my highest heels without feeling self conscious "

Oooo I love a lady in heels xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

You are evidently sensitive about it so I'll leave it "

Nope, I just thought your original "oh but what if men don't like disgusting fat women" argument was weak and irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm 5'4", had lovers over 6' and not slim ladies either; yes it can be an issue if you're standing up and if you go out or go dancing, but, when it comes to sex it's all about personality and preference compatibility..

Met 2 women at a cocktail bar recently. Both were about 6'5"!!!!

Lol! Definitely female, sure of that.

Umm were they female.or shemale?"

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By *mmmMaybeCouple  over a year ago

West Wales


"for me, there is something about shorter men (5'10and under) that I find slightly ridiculous...

but then I'm 6ft so...

(I also think that short men have an attitude as if they have to prove they are arrogant feckers to make up for their lack of inches )"

Oddly enough having run a department of 20 women it was always the very short ones that tended to have the shittier attitudes. But just my work experience. In real life my first wife was 5'11" in flats, didn't bother her or me, but!! I do agree with Amazon that certain sexual positions while not being off limits may require assistance or more thought, doggy for instance was easier if she was on the sofa or bed but I was standing on the floor, kneeling on the bed just didn't work well enough, also depends how lithe the lady is too.

Much much more important to me is honesty, whether intentional or not a few people we have met were not the heights they claim, met a few they say 5'10, 5'11" they are patently not as when standing you are looking at them with level eyes. Maybe its to put off shorter guys, maybe they're just unsure? I don't know the answer to that one, but I know I won't lose any sleep over being 5'8"

Its just another preference on here after all.

S

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By *iSTARessWoman  over a year ago

London

A height thread turns into a weight one

I only used to see taller chaps, dropped that and some of my best meets have been shorter. So there.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love how the weight remark was picked up on but it's game on to insult guys about there height. As above a few have but there females. No back lash

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By *aughty_amazonWoman  over a year ago

BRISTOL


"I don't find height an issue. Saying that I did meet a lady once who was a few inches taller than me ... all was great until she got on all fours and I was behind her, seems her thigh bones were longer than mine and I couldn't reach kneeling!!!"

This is what I mean, with a 36" inside leg, whilst I'm not stupidly tall it makes some positions hard

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love how the weight remark was picked up on but it's game on to insult guys about there height. As above a few have but there females. No back lash "

The weight remark was picked up on because he said everyone over his threshold of fatness was disgusting. Literally no one has said short men are disgusting. Hence no backlash.

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By *aysmitMan  over a year ago

walsall


"I don't find height an issue. Saying that I did meet a lady once who was a few inches taller than me ... all was great until she got on all fours and I was behind her, seems her thigh bones were longer than mine and I couldn't reach kneeling!!!

This is what I mean, with a 36" inside leg, whilst I'm not stupidly tall it makes some positions hard "

As im so tall glory holes can be tricky xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't find height an issue. Saying that I did meet a lady once who was a few inches taller than me ... all was great until she got on all fours and I was behind her, seems her thigh bones were longer than mine and I couldn't reach kneeling!!!

This is what I mean, with a 36" inside leg, whilst I'm not stupidly tall it makes some positions hard

As im so tall glory holes can be tricky xx"

I've got such a funny mental image of you limboing to get down to the glory hole

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love how the weight remark was picked up on but it's game on to insult guys about there height. As above a few have but there females. No back lash

The weight remark was picked up on because he said everyone over his threshold of fatness was disgusting. Literally no one has said short men are disgusting. Hence no backlash."

So ridiculous is a compliment. Right you are

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By *aysmitMan  over a year ago

walsall


"I don't find height an issue. Saying that I did meet a lady once who was a few inches taller than me ... all was great until she got on all fours and I was behind her, seems her thigh bones were longer than mine and I couldn't reach kneeling!!!

This is what I mean, with a 36" inside leg, whilst I'm not stupidly tall it makes some positions hard

As im so tall glory holes can be tricky xx

I've got such a funny mental image of you limboing to get down to the glory hole "

lol oh it is funny xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love how the weight remark was picked up on but it's game on to insult guys about there height. As above a few have but there females. No back lash

The weight remark was picked up on because he said everyone over his threshold of fatness was disgusting. Literally no one has said short men are disgusting. Hence no backlash.

So ridiculous is a compliment. Right you are "

Oh here we go again

Trying to take a comment out of context so you can say all the big girls are picking on you

I don't like short men.. so what?

Get over it, or maybe under it would be better for you

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By *L RogueMan  over a year ago

London


"Thanks for all your views on this subject! On balance I will consider compiling a new couples profile and take it from there! I also have another friend on here keen to be a couple with me who is 5'10! "

So after all that, shorty will soon be replaced.

Everyone's happy!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love how the weight remark was picked up on but it's game on to insult guys about there height. As above a few have but there females. No back lash

The weight remark was picked up on because he said everyone over his threshold of fatness was disgusting. Literally no one has said short men are disgusting. Hence no backlash.

So ridiculous is a compliment. Right you are

Oh here we go again

Trying to take a comment out of context so you can say all the big girls are picking on you

I don't like short men.. so what?

Get over it, or maybe under it would be better for you "

Well maybe leave you're dislike for them to you're self then broad cast it on a public forum. You did start a thread the other week about the forums. Maybe practice what you preach

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By *mmmMaybeCouple  over a year ago

West Wales


"I love how the weight remark was picked up on but it's game on to insult guys about there height. As above a few have but there females. No back lash

The weight remark was picked up on because he said everyone over his threshold of fatness was disgusting. Literally no one has said short men are disgusting. Hence no backlash.

So ridiculous is a compliment. Right you are

Oh here we go again

Trying to take a comment out of context so you can say all the big girls are picking on you

I don't like short men.. so what?

Get over it, or maybe under it would be better for you "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love how the weight remark was picked up on but it's game on to insult guys about there height. As above a few have but there females. No back lash

The weight remark was picked up on because he said everyone over his threshold of fatness was disgusting. Literally no one has said short men are disgusting. Hence no backlash.

So ridiculous is a compliment. Right you are "

I'll concede that ridiculous (which is not something I'd say) isn't exactly complimentary but it's still a far cry from disgusting. Get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love how the weight remark was picked up on but it's game on to insult guys about there height. As above a few have but there females. No back lash

The weight remark was picked up on because he said everyone over his threshold of fatness was disgusting. Literally no one has said short men are disgusting. Hence no backlash.

So ridiculous is a compliment. Right you are

Oh here we go again

Trying to take a comment out of context so you can say all the big girls are picking on you

I don't like short men.. so what?

Get over it, or maybe under it would be better for you

Well maybe leave you're dislike for them to you're self then broad cast it on a public forum. You did start a thread the other week about the forums. Maybe practice what you preach "

I have as much right as you to respond to a post on a public forum..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love how the weight remark was picked up on but it's game on to insult guys about there height. As above a few have but there females. No back lash

The weight remark was picked up on because he said everyone over his threshold of fatness was disgusting. Literally no one has said short men are disgusting. Hence no backlash.

So ridiculous is a compliment. Right you are

Oh here we go again

Trying to take a comment out of context so you can say all the big girls are picking on you

I don't like short men.. so what?

Get over it, or maybe under it would be better for you

Well maybe leave you're dislike for them to you're self then broad cast it on a public forum. You did start a thread the other week about the forums. Maybe practice what you preach

I have as much right as you to respond to a post on a public forum..

"

Of course you have. But it says a lot about you that it's to ridicule

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't find height an issue. Saying that I did meet a lady once who was a few inches taller than me ... all was great until she got on all fours and I was behind her, seems her thigh bones were longer than mine and I couldn't reach kneeling!!!

This is what I mean, with a 36" inside leg, whilst I'm not stupidly tall it makes some positions hard "

Id say from personal experience its definitely more to do with leg length more than overall height, I'm 5'11 but only 31" legs so while id be taller than you (just) there's no way stood up sex would be happening, I'd need to be on tiptoes lol.

Id personally say height can only be used as a guideline more than a simple cut and dried yes no filter, but that's just my view

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love how the weight remark was picked up on but it's game on to insult guys about there height. As above a few have but there females. No back lash

The weight remark was picked up on because he said everyone over his threshold of fatness was disgusting. Literally no one has said short men are disgusting. Hence no backlash.

So ridiculous is a compliment. Right you are

Oh here we go again

Trying to take a comment out of context so you can say all the big girls are picking on you

I don't like short men.. so what?

Get over it, or maybe under it would be better for you

Well maybe leave you're dislike for them to you're self then broad cast it on a public forum. You did start a thread the other week about the forums. Maybe practice what you preach

I have as much right as you to respond to a post on a public forum..

Of course you have. But it says a lot about you that it's to ridicule "

If I was ridiculing you specifically, I would fully understand your reason for not wanting to let it pass ..

However, what I meant was I find the idea of me with a shorter person faintly ridiculous .. that is all

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By *aysmitMan  over a year ago

walsall

I love a short lady squating over my face xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love how the weight remark was picked up on but it's game on to insult guys about there height. As above a few have but there females. No back lash

The weight remark was picked up on because he said everyone over his threshold of fatness was disgusting. Literally no one has said short men are disgusting. Hence no backlash.

So ridiculous is a compliment. Right you are

Oh here we go again

Trying to take a comment out of context so you can say all the big girls are picking on you

I don't like short men.. so what?

Get over it, or maybe under it would be better for you

Well maybe leave you're dislike for them to you're self then broad cast it on a public forum. You did start a thread the other week about the forums. Maybe practice what you preach

I have as much right as you to respond to a post on a public forum..

Of course you have. But it says a lot about you that it's to ridicule

If I was ridiculing you specifically, I would fully understand your reason for not wanting to let it pass ..

However, what I meant was I find the idea of me with a shorter person faintly ridiculous .. that is all "

that is all

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By *L RogueMan  over a year ago

London

Bloody hell.

I went to a party once and met a lady there who stood 6ft in barefeet. We had a nice long conversation and discovered that some women, especially taller ones like to feel dainty and petit. This is difficult when you're physically the opposite. Also, women like shoes, especially heels.

So as a short, attractive, funny, charming individual I learned that sometimes it's not you, it's them. But that's fine because we all want to feel good. that's why we're here. Although I do raise an eyebrow when a lady at 4'11" says she doesn't go for "shorties" but I'm happy enough not to care.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Bloody hell.

I went to a party once and met a lady there who stood 6ft in barefeet. We had a nice long conversation and discovered that some women, especially taller ones like to feel dainty and petit. This is difficult when you're physically the opposite. Also, women like shoes, especially heels.

So as a short, attractive, funny, charming individual I learned that sometimes it's not you, it's them. But that's fine because we all want to feel good. that's why we're here. Although I do raise an eyebrow when a lady at 4'11" says she doesn't go for "shorties" but I'm happy enough not to care. "

I'm with you on that one, back off small bitches, leave the tall ones for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

why can't tall women do certain sexual acts with short guys?

i can 69 guys 1ft 7inch taller than me no problem. not sure about doggy as nobody seems to do that with me. my median NSA meet height is around 6ft 3 to 6ft 4. that's over a foot longer.

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By *aysmitMan  over a year ago

walsall


"why can't tall women do certain sexual acts with short guys?

i can 69 guys 1ft 7inch taller than me no problem. not sure about doggy as nobody seems to do that with me. my median NSA meet height is around 6ft 3 to 6ft 4. that's over a foot longer."

Mmmm I bet you look hot is a 69 POSTION xx

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"I had a couples profile a year ago but did not have great success due to the fact that my fb was 5'5 and many couples and single makes and females stated they found it off-putting although MY height wasn't a problem!

Is height really a big issue for a guy then?

Was thinking of opening a couples profile again."

It is for some. At 5ft 7 I wouldn't meet a 5ft 5 man. There are people who won't meet me because I'm over 55, fat. Do I worry about those? No!

I know I won't have universal appeal so focus on those interested in me.

Set up your profile and relax: as ALL things, some will want to meet you, some won't!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

Of course. Who said it was okay to be nasty about it?

You. Because a fat woman can control their weight but a small man can't control their height. And if that's not what you meant, despite being what you said, then I don't know what you're even arguing with me about.

I never said that. I do think that as unattractive traits go, obesity is worse. For health too. My opinion.

You are evidently sensitive about it so I'll leave it

We all have our preferences. However, saying someone isn't your type and saying you find them disgusting is very different.

You used the word "disgusting". That's what is offensive.

I only find certain levels disgusting. Chubby is cute. I'm starting to realise how big a problem it is across society.

Maybe l can't fathom how someone gets that big because l struggle to put weight on even when l eat and eat. Maybe l assume they are eating way more than me?

Jesus!

Okay, you don't understand it. Fine, but why use words like "disgusting".

I put this to you. A lot of people who are overweight have issues. They turn to food to comfort themselves. Some turn to drugs and alcohol when they lose a loved one or suffer some form of life set back. Some eat. Not everything is black and white. Empathy goes a long way in this world.

Well ask yourself, do women find alcoholism attractive? By this logic we can justify anything if it's a coping mechanism.

I do have empathy. My dad is a fat guy. He is insecure about it but does nothing that change it. He doesn't comfort eat, he just loves fattening things. Who doesn't?

I don't think you're quite understanding what the point is. We're not talking about preferences or what we find attractive.

Would I say that an alcoholic is disgusting? No! That's because I have empathy that there's an underlying issue.

Do you all your Dad disgusting!? I certainly my hope not!

He certainly can be disgusting lol.

I think all greed and is disgusting, even if it's with booze.

So thinking something is disgusting is being horrible?

You didn't just think it though, did you!?

You said it. That's the point. "

Jeez! Why is this man being targeted? Because he said he finds morbidly obese disgusting? Well I do too. But like what has been stated, we wouldn't go up to someone and state it. Oh but he wasn't the one that stated "disgust" first, even if it was an example, it was still said. So maybe he was going by that example to explain what he thinks.

It seems people are more offended when it's about something they can change, if they wanted to. This can involve many things, weight, hygiene, teeth, hair colour etc. So if you state you won't meet someone because of any of those reasons people get offended, but saying you won't meet someone because he's short is ok? Oh because there's nothing he can do about that.

But hey like everyone says we're all entitled to an opinion just don't project it on to others as it may be offensive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm 5'6 and if I meet taller ladies it can be hard to look them in the eye when they're poking my eyes out with their nipples lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

hold on, just remembered a guy i used to meet regular, we did doggy a lot. he was 6ft 2, so still over a foot higher than me.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London

Blimey! The tone changed by the time I read to the end!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"hold on, just remembered a guy i used to meet regular, we did doggy a lot. he was 6ft 2, so still over a foot higher than me."
I'd love some doggy action with u lol wood woof x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though."

Rubywoo I love you!!

But you certainly don't loom big and fat in your profile pic!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Damn it, I'm only 5'9". I'm fucked, or I should rather say not .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"hold on, just remembered a guy i used to meet regular, we did doggy a lot. he was 6ft 2, so still over a foot higher than me.I'd love some doggy action with u lol wood woof x"

Wood woof! I laughed at that! Make of that what you will. I'm just easily amused.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" "

I second that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm just a dirty dog ladies and like the kiora song goes well u know what I'm saying x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thread makes me laugh. I've had fun with tall women. Guess I'm lucky. There's millions of women in the world to choose from. Go get them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're all the same size horizontal aren't we

Are we shite. "

I think she was just being facetious..

I'm very tall. But I don't give a fig about height with male or female. And if I'm honest? Seems that quite a few that do are a bit picky and/or full of themselves. Whatever. Each to their own I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're all the same size horizontal aren't we

Are we shite.

I think she was just being facetious..

I'm very tall. But I don't give a fig about height with male or female. And if I'm honest? Seems that quite a few that do are a bit picky and/or full of themselves. Whatever. Each to their own I suppose."

Why does only wanting to meet someone tall make me picky or full of myself? I've said it before, but I have no preference around build, race, sexuality, marital status, beard or no beard, tattooed or not, hair colour, eye colour, whatever. But I only find tall men attractive. Why does that make me "picky" and "full of myself" where someone who will only meet black men, or someone who will only meet thin women is just expressing a preference?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're all the same size horizontal aren't we

Are we shite.

I think she was just being facetious..

I'm very tall. But I don't give a fig about height with male or female. And if I'm honest? Seems that quite a few that do are a bit picky and/or full of themselves. Whatever. Each to their own I suppose."

But we can be picky. Everyone can. We're not here to give sympathy fucks.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're all the same size horizontal aren't we

Are we shite.

I think she was just being facetious..

I'm very tall. But I don't give a fig about height with male or female. And if I'm honest? Seems that quite a few that do are a bit picky and/or full of themselves. Whatever. Each to their own I suppose.

But we can be picky. Everyone can. We're not here to give sympathy fucks."

and it's upto the individual to make an impression that changes your perception

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is a big deal.for me, I'm.5"10 and wanna be thrown about, not vice versa. It's a confidence thing too, I feel weird bending to kiss someone "

The taller the woman! The more there is to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're all the same size horizontal aren't we

Are we shite.

I think she was just being facetious..

I'm very tall. But I don't give a fig about height with male or female. And if I'm honest? Seems that quite a few that do are a bit picky and/or full of themselves. Whatever. Each to their own I suppose."

Yes each to their own is right..

Why people can't just accept that is beyond me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Women really like height for some reason. It's funny when women condemn men for liking certain things like slimness but are choosey about certain things..

I say that as a guy around 6'1

I don't condemn men for liking slimness. I've never seen a man condemned for liking slim women. Plenty condemned for being cunts about fat women, but that's a different thing.

And there's a very good reason for liking height when you're 5'10".

Why is that different? A fat women can change her size. A short man can't.

You don't understand the difference between liking slim women and being horrible about fat women? Ok then...

Put I to those words, yes. What constitutes 'horrible' though? Is saying you find mordbid obesity very unattactive horrible? People talk as if obesity is an illness caused by something other than greed.

This is way off topic. The point is, I'm a big fat woman and I just don't fancy small men. The same way you just don't fancy morbid obesity and that's totally ok.

Whether someone can change something or not makes absolutely no difference to whether it's something I find attractive or not. My heart bleeds for the short men, it really does, still doesn't mean I want to fuck them though.

I agree. I just don't see how it's any different.

It's not different, that's been my entire fucking point.

What is different:

I message a man, he says "no thanks, I prefer slimmer women."

I message a man, he says "God no, what were you thinking, you morbidly obese drains on society disgust me."

That's the difference.

You missed my point, sweary mouth. Men are expected to be with it but wlots of women don't.

I think that is pretty disgusting depending on how fat. Chubby is cute but obese is not.

Oh sorry; does my swearing offend your delicate sensibilities.

You can think what you like - but if someone approaches you and you tell them they are disgusting, that's not a preference, that's being an arsehole. I didn't miss your point, I agreed that men are entirely entitled to find slim women attractive, same as I find tall men attractive. But when people are rude to others about those preferences, for example by calling them disgusting - then it is a different thing. I would never say a small man was disgusting because I don't find them attractive. I don't expect anyone to say I'm disgusting because of my weight, even if they think it.

Of course. Who said it was okay to be nasty about it?

You. Because a fat woman can control their weight but a small man can't control their height. And if that's not what you meant, despite being what you said, then I don't know what you're even arguing with me about.

I never said that. I do think that as unattractive traits go, obesity is worse. For health too. My opinion.

You are evidently sensitive about it so I'll leave it

We all have our preferences. However, saying someone isn't your type and saying you find them disgusting is very different.

You used the word "disgusting". That's what is offensive.

I only find certain levels disgusting. Chubby is cute. I'm starting to realise how big a problem it is across society.

Maybe l can't fathom how someone gets that big because l struggle to put weight on even when l eat and eat. Maybe l assume they are eating way more than me?

Jesus!

Okay, you don't understand it. Fine, but why use words like "disgusting".

I put this to you. A lot of people who are overweight have issues. They turn to food to comfort themselves. Some turn to drugs and alcohol when they lose a loved one or suffer some form of life set back. Some eat. Not everything is black and white. Empathy goes a long way in this world.

Well ask yourself, do women find alcoholism attractive? By this logic we can justify anything if it's a coping mechanism.

I do have empathy. My dad is a fat guy. He is insecure about it but does nothing that change it. He doesn't comfort eat, he just loves fattening things. Who doesn't?

I don't think you're quite understanding what the point is. We're not talking about preferences or what we find attractive.

Would I say that an alcoholic is disgusting? No! That's because I have empathy that there's an underlying issue.

Do you all your Dad disgusting!? I certainly my hope not!

He certainly can be disgusting lol.

I think all greed and is disgusting, even if it's with booze.

So thinking something is disgusting is being horrible?

You didn't just think it though, did you!?

You said it. That's the point.

Jeez! Why is this man being targeted? Because he said he finds morbidly obese disgusting? Well I do too. But like what has been stated, we wouldn't go up to someone and state it. Oh but he wasn't the one that stated "disgust" first, even if it was an example, it was still said. So maybe he was going by that example to explain what he thinks.

It seems people are more offended when it's about something they can change, if they wanted to. This can involve many things, weight, hygiene, teeth, hair colour etc. So if you state you won't meet someone because of any of those reasons people get offended, but saying you won't meet someone because he's short is ok? Oh because there's nothing he can do about that.

But hey like everyone says we're all entitled to an opinion just don't project it on to others as it may be offensive "

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"We're all the same size horizontal aren't we

Are we shite.

I think she was just being facetious..

I'm very tall. But I don't give a fig about height with male or female. And if I'm honest? Seems that quite a few that do are a bit picky and/or full of themselves. Whatever. Each to their own I suppose.

Why does only wanting to meet someone tall make me picky or full of myself? I've said it before, but I have no preference around build, race, sexuality, marital status, beard or no beard, tattooed or not, hair colour, eye colour, whatever. But I only find tall men attractive. Why does that make me "picky" and "full of myself" where someone who will only meet black men, or someone who will only meet thin women is just expressing a preference? "

Ah but I didn't say YOU were picky. Just that some of the profiles that you read on here come across that way. To me anyway.

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