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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just accidentally posted this in Stories & Fantasies (so ignore that post and answer here, instead!):
I'm looking at this from the point of view of a woman receiving anal sex from a man - is this for the benefit of the man, or the woman?
Do some women prefer anal sexual to vaginal and oral sex (giving)?
Personally, I've never indulged in anal, never seen the attraction, when two other willing orifices are sooo tempting!
If a partner really wanted me to I'd certainly oblige - but in all honesty, I'd prefer oral or vaginal sex.... or would I?
Maybe I just need a partner that wants to lead me up the back alley....!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Physically, it doesn't do much for me. I can enjoy it but that's on the basis of knowing the man is enjoying it and getting off on his pleasure. Same sort of thing as blow jobs, for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Physically, it doesn't do much for me. I can enjoy it but that's on the basis of knowing the man is enjoying it and getting off on his pleasure. Same sort of thing as blow jobs, for me. "
That wouldn't be great if we both thought we were doing it for each other's pleasure, would it?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've known women that really love anal, to the point of climaxing through this alone.
I'm not a big lover of it myself, nothing beats a pussy in my opinion, obviously it's not exactly a chore if I need to do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Physically, it doesn't do much for me. I can enjoy it but that's on the basis of knowing the man is enjoying it and getting off on his pleasure. Same sort of thing as blow jobs, for me.
That wouldn't be great if we both thought we were doing it for each other's pleasure, would it?!"
I don't know, so long as both continued to think the other was really enjoying it, it would be OK  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer penetrive sex either anal or vaginal to oral unless it's with a toy and then I prefer clitoral. I'm complex hehe"
Complex means challenging. Challenging means a greater reward.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only have anal sex with my husband, it's something I keep exclusively for him because, to me, it feels so much more intimate than virginal sex.
Do I enjoy it? Hell yeah! We generally do it when I'm extra horny and turned on, at which point he could do pretty much anything to me and I'd love it! The orgasms I experience through anal stimulation are quite intense, but somehow different to virginal.
I guess there can be subtle differences to how people enjoy sex, as long as everyone's enjoying it then it's all good in my book.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really enjoy anal but only with mr SnT. Rough hard anal makes me cum hard and often squirt as well. We've done DP with a dildo but want to do it with another guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really enjoy anal but only with mr SnT. Rough hard anal makes me cum hard and often squirt as well. We've done DP with a dildo but want to do it with another guy."
I'll be there in a couple of hours!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just from a guys point of view....it's not much fun for us if the girl is not relaxed. Lots of prep play before to make sure everyone involved is relaxed and happy to feel a very wet cock sliding in and out of that very sensitive little hole.
I do love it when done right. I admit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven't done anal for over 8 years, when I was with my long term ex it was a once a month thing, if the rivers red take the dirt track instead kind of thing. He was very large and could only ever do it in missionary position and very slowly with his version of lube, a giant pot of petroleum jelly that was kept by his bed. I enjoyed it after the intial feeling that my body was being split in half, think the fact I had a tampax in the same time acted as a dp kind of effect, hit the spot from another angle and I could play with my bean the same time, was good but wouldn't do it with anyone other than a boyfriend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anal sex was on our bucket list, and it was fun, but it's something we'd do together again for various reasons. Mrs was some what indifferent. The taboo factor was the main reason for enjoying it, but once that was gone it just seemed like hard work.
I'm not even a big fan of it in porn.
However, if I was with a woman who was really into it, I'd be happy to oblige as it would be a turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haven't done anal for over 8 years, when I was with my long term ex it was a once a month thing, if the rivers red take the dirt track instead kind of thing. He was very large and could only ever do it in missionary position and very slowly with his version of lube, a giant pot of petroleum jelly that was kept by his bed. I enjoyed it after the intial feeling that my body was being split in half, think the fact I had a tampax in the same time acted as a dp kind of effect, hit the spot from another angle and I could play with my bean the same time, was good but wouldn't do it with anyone other than a boyfriend. "
Sounds filthy!! I'm sure felt amazing for him.
Time to get back in the saddle!!?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I genuinely know a girl that said she preferred it anal than in her pussy? I asked why but she didn't know, just said she loved the feeling and also loved the mental side of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haven't done anal for over 8 years, when I was with my long term ex it was a once a month thing, if the rivers red take the dirt track instead kind of thing. He was very large and could only ever do it in missionary position and very slowly with his version of lube, a giant pot of petroleum jelly that was kept by his bed. I enjoyed it after the intial feeling that my body was being split in half, think the fact I had a tampax in the same time acted as a dp kind of effect, hit the spot from another angle and I could play with my bean the same time, was good but wouldn't do it with anyone other than a boyfriend.
Sounds filthy!! I'm sure felt amazing for him.
Time to get back in the saddle!!?? "
I'm trying to find a boyfriend believe me, I want to be saddled up and ridden again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I genuinely know a girl that said she preferred it anal than in her pussy? I asked why but she didn't know, just said she loved the feeling and also loved the mental side of it"
Name and number please!!??
It's one of those days I reckon!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a visual turn on aswell as a mental one. Lovely seeing the wifes pussy wide open knowing I'm in her ass...add in a little dirty talk and it's a whole new level. So yeah from our point of view it's a mixture of alot of things that combine to make it so different from vaginal sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do love giving it to the ladies, plenty of rimming first to warm her up too. "
Love hearing a horny woman moan with my tongue on her sensitive arse hole....mmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my view either both people benefit or none do. If one does not enjoy it, it's off the table in my book. I would hate it if the other person would pretend to enjoy it just for my satisfaction, I would feel like crap if someone would do that for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd only do it with my OH, we don't do it very often but when we do I always cum from it, in fact those sessions I normally end up having a clitoral, vaginal and anal orgasm, all very different but great fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We probably fuck 50/50 between cunt and arse.
The orgasms are different, but both incredibly intense. A good hard anal fucking with a glass dildo up the cunt and a powerful wand on the clitoris is very hard to beat but DP (with the right guys) is even better |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"We probably fuck 50/50 between cunt and arse.
The orgasms are different, but both incredibly intense. A good hard anal fucking with a glass dildo up the cunt and a powerful wand on the clitoris is very hard to beat but DP (with the right guys) is even better "
We did the opposite last night, glass buttplug & a hard fucking from the rear so the pelvis hits the plug on each stroke. H says no clit stim thanks, she'd probably pass out 
Guess we might be doing it again soon then 
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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People have spoken about anal orgasms, I don't think I've experienced this. Is that literally like a fanny one but from the bum or is it still a fanny one but because the bum is being stimulated?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Miss Twisted here gets some of her hardest orgasms through being fucked incredibly hard in her ass. She asks for ass fucking. So some girls like it, some don't. |
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I enjoy giving and receiving anal immensely.
Receiving feels awesome and gives me what i'd call a female orgasm where I shake and tense and omg I need another soon
My female partner loves to receive anal but only every so often when she is really horny as the orgasms are so intense for her too!
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"People have spoken about anal orgasms, I don't think I've experienced this. Is that literally like a fanny one but from the bum or is it still a fanny one but because the bum is being stimulated? "
Its vaginal but H says much different because its a different g spot being activated, for H they are much more intense and after she is usually finished & good for nothing, she sometimes gets instant headaches from it too so its an end of a session thing for us & not an every time we fuck thing either.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do, and I ask for it!
Sometimes that's all I want, sometimes I'm denied, sometimes its forced upon me (in a consensual manner of course), sometimes I get that alone and nothing else.
All part of the kink |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"People have spoken about anal orgasms, I don't think I've experienced this. Is that literally like a fanny one but from the bum or is it still a fanny one but because the bum is being stimulated?
Its vaginal but H says much different because its a different g spot being activated, for H they are much more intense and after she is usually finished & good for nothing, she sometimes gets instant headaches from it too so its an end of a session thing for us & not an every time we fuck thing either.
S"
Thanks for the explanation. I guess I have had one then. Woohoooooo |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"People have spoken about anal orgasms, I don't think I've experienced this. Is that literally like a fanny one but from the bum or is it still a fanny one but because the bum is being stimulated?
Its vaginal but H says much different because its a different g spot being activated, for H they are much more intense and after she is usually finished & good for nothing, she sometimes gets instant headaches from it too so its an end of a session thing for us & not an every time we fuck thing either.
S
Thanks for the explanation. I guess I have had one then. Woohoooooo "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've given anal on a couple of occasions, but only when the lady asked for it. Must admit that the other options are more of a turn-on, and I'm not really turned on by explicit rearview pics on profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It does nothing for me neither does rimming so I don't waste my time doing it. "
Both sound smelly and unhygienic to me - rimming is certainly off the list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer penetrive sex either anal or vaginal to oral unless it's with a toy and then I prefer clitoral. I'm complex hehe
All women are complex!! X
Hahaha you wouldn't want it any other way "
It certainly makes life interesting! |
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Too many ladies have had their desire even to try anal ruined by the first 'likely lad' who tried it when they were younger.
Its such a shame IMHO as the last 6 ladies who I have had the pleasure of anal most expressed unsure, or stories of being torn a clowns pocket.
Slowky and reading signals angles and conversing well.
Its so intimate, I love it but only practise on ladies who expressly say they love it as well.
Love DP with other male or dildo.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Weve tried it a few times and the first few times it just hurt the last time we tried it was a few weeks ago we were doing anal for a little bit until i felt relaxed and a bit more comfortable then M put my vibrator inside me and switched the shaft and ears on to full power while i lay on a pillow for support and he pounded away it only took a few minutes and i had the most intense orgasm ive ever had to the point we had to stop because it got that intense.. we havent done it since but i think were giving things another try friday |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Weve tried it a few times and the first few times it just hurt the last time we tried it was a few weeks ago we were doing anal for a little bit until i felt relaxed and a bit more comfortable then M put my vibrator inside me and switched the shaft and ears on to full power while i lay on a pillow for support and he pounded away it only took a few minutes and i had the most intense orgasm ive ever had to the point we had to stop because it got that intense.. we havent done it since but i think were giving things another try friday "
Lovely description of what sounds like an amazing time had by both of you
Imagine two cocks taking turns in there while you were cumming
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