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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think visually a gym bod looks really attractive but actually when it comes down to the body type i'd prefer to get jiggy with then I love a bit of squidge. Not a lot, but something to cuddle. Ironing boards aren't comfy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would depend on what the torso was attached to and their personality. All other things being equal I do like a toned guy. "
Should probably clarify it's if all things being equal.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ooh...can't decide...
how big is his dick also?
Well they would be both the same.
Someone's shallow  "
not like i'm marrying him so shallow it is.
right, i'll take both thanks, just wrap them up and i'll pick them up later. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ooh...can't decide...
how big is his dick also?
Well they would be both the same.
Someone's shallow
not like i'm marrying him so shallow it is.
right, i'll take both thanks, just wrap them up and i'll pick them up later."
Have you got prime? Otherwise that's going to cost extra! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ooh...can't decide...
how big is his dick also?
Well they would be both the same.
Someone's shallow
not like i'm marrying him so shallow it is.
right, i'll take both thanks, just wrap them up and i'll pick them up later.
Have you got prime? Otherwise that's going to cost extra! "
don't you have eBay premium? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ooh...can't decide...
how big is his dick also?
Well they would be both the same.
Someone's shallow
not like i'm marrying him so shallow it is.
right, i'll take both thanks, just wrap them up and i'll pick them up later.
Have you got prime? Otherwise that's going to cost extra!
don't you have eBay premium?"
Bought out by Amazon.... sorry! Next please! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ooh...can't decide...
how big is his dick also?
Well they would be both the same.
Someone's shallow
not like i'm marrying him so shallow it is.
right, i'll take both thanks, just wrap them up and i'll pick them up later.
Have you got prime? Otherwise that's going to cost extra!
don't you have eBay premium?
Bought out by Amazon.... sorry! Next please! "
pah, i want my money back. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ooh...can't decide...
how big is his dick also?
Well they would be both the same.
Someone's shallow
not like i'm marrying him so shallow it is.
right, i'll take both thanks, just wrap them up and i'll pick them up later.
Have you got prime? Otherwise that's going to cost extra!
don't you have eBay premium?
Bought out by Amazon.... sorry! Next please!
pah, i want my money back."
What money *slams till shut* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ooh...can't decide...
how big is his dick also?
Well they would be both the same.
Someone's shallow
not like i'm marrying him so shallow it is.
right, i'll take both thanks, just wrap them up and i'll pick them up later.
Have you got prime? Otherwise that's going to cost extra!
don't you have eBay premium?
Bought out by Amazon.... sorry! Next please!
pah, i want my money back.
What money *slams till shut* "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Naturally fit here through hard graft for the last 20 years 
When I split with my ex around three years ago I started going to the gym with my bro who was into the whole pumping iron thing for a while,just to stop me moping around the house n to take my mind off the split.
Around three months of the gym 3-4 days a week was enough for me!
I was drained with working a full time physically demanding job as well as the gym,I couldn't be bothered with the eating like a horse 4-5 meals a day either.
It just wasn't for me,the gym was full of muscle marys jagging themselves with steroids n prancing about in their wee sisters t shirts,screaming n grunting at themselves in the mirror as they worked out!
Nah,my graft keeps me fit enough,that n I'm a lazy fucker after I've finished work that much prefers chilling on the sofa! 
Though I ditch my lazy ways when it comes to sex,I'm no lazy shagger!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't got time to go to the gym too often as I'm usually at home eating cake.
Cake or gym?
Cake or gym?
Cake or gym?
It's a toughie ...
Anyone like moobs? Love handles?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends if he suits muscles... if he has a face for it... but I personally like either... slim guys don't really do it for me, but that's just because I'm curvy so I like more of a man than a slim man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking at past friends I'd say dad bods. But I'm not really bothered what the body is like as long as it's not to the extreme either way.
Personality and facial attractiveness are the main part. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs. here...
For a shag or two definitely a Gym body  
but to live day today life and cuddle up indeed there's nothing better than a dad body.
I'm greedy girl so I'd say I like them both. when I had enough cuddles I can turn the other side and touch the muscles |
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"Would depend on what the torso was attached to and their personality. All other things being equal I do like a toned guy.
Should probably clarify it's if all things being equal. "
Well then I would have them both lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would depend on what the torso was attached to and their personality. All other things being equal I do like a toned guy.
Should probably clarify it's if all things being equal.
Well then I would have them both lol "
Greedy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ooh...can't decide...
how big is his dick also?"
Hahahah Brilliant!
I am with her!
But personally I prefer normal/average men....not ones who need their egos massaged aswell as their balls x x |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm in the process of trying to slim down. I go to gym every week and the weight is slowly coming off. I think the gym and sex is a healthy combination."
I prefer sex & then more sex tbh, luckily so does H
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No reason to not have both. Any dad can get of his arse and goto the gym (unless physically unable) so no need to be flabby.
Fell into the dad bod trap, of getting chubby and fat, now woke up and am loving gym. Feel healthier, can keep up with my kids and wiggles is loving it.
Sure it's bloody hard and feels even harder being the 45yr old tubby guy at gym, but also feels great after few months when you realise you are lifting and working out more than the lads half your age
Also has great confidence bonus. Us guys have it easy, we go out, enjoy others admiring our wives/partners and feel lucky. But hey, why not work out, get a tad toned, look good and let here have that fun feeling of "this ones mine"
Especially in a wet club where blokes wear just a towel and the ladies dress amazingly sexy. Work out abit, get even a little bit of definition and give the ladies something to enjoy looking at. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No reason to not have both. Any dad can get of his arse and goto the gym (unless physically unable) so no need to be flabby.
Fell into the dad bod trap, of getting chubby and fat, now woke up and am loving gym. Feel healthier, can keep up with my kids and wiggles is loving it.
Sure it's bloody hard and feels even harder being the 45yr old tubby guy at gym, but also feels great after few months when you realise you are lifting and working out more than the lads half your age
Also has great confidence bonus. Us guys have it easy, we go out, enjoy others admiring our wives/partners and feel lucky. But hey, why not work out, get a tad toned, look good and let here have that fun feeling of "this ones mine"
Especially in a wet club where blokes wear just a towel and the ladies dress amazingly sexy. Work out abit, get even a little bit of definition and give the ladies something to enjoy looking at."
Nothing wrong with having a dad bod.... not here to bash either one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No reason to not have both. Any dad can get of his arse and goto the gym (unless physically unable) so no need to be flabby.
Fell into the dad bod trap, of getting chubby and fat, now woke up and am loving gym. Feel healthier, can keep up with my kids and wiggles is loving it.
Sure it's bloody hard and feels even harder being the 45yr old tubby guy at gym, but also feels great after few months when you realise you are lifting and working out more than the lads half your age
Also has great confidence bonus. Us guys have it easy, we go out, enjoy others admiring our wives/partners and feel lucky. But hey, why not work out, get a tad toned, look good and let here have that fun feeling of "this ones mine"
Especially in a wet club where blokes wear just a towel and the ladies dress amazingly sexy. Work out abit, get even a little bit of definition and give the ladies something to enjoy looking at."
But going to the gym eats into valuable cake eating time! Unless you combine the two and pop a Jaffa cake into your gob between reps?
It might be a way forwards for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No reason to not have both. Any dad can get of his arse and goto the gym (unless physically unable) so no need to be flabby.
Fell into the dad bod trap, of getting chubby and fat, now woke up and am loving gym. Feel healthier, can keep up with my kids and wiggles is loving it.
Sure it's bloody hard and feels even harder being the 45yr old tubby guy at gym, but also feels great after few months when you realise you are lifting and working out more than the lads half your age
Also has great confidence bonus. Us guys have it easy, we go out, enjoy others admiring our wives/partners and feel lucky. But hey, why not work out, get a tad toned, look good and let here have that fun feeling of "this ones mine"
Especially in a wet club where blokes wear just a towel and the ladies dress amazingly sexy. Work out abit, get even a little bit of definition and give the ladies something to enjoy looking at.
But going to the gym eats into valuable cake eating time! Unless you combine the two and pop a Jaffa cake into your gob between reps?
It might be a way forwards for me "
Quick patent that and start filming the DVD! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't prefer either.
Care to ellaborate? "
I can find a man with any body sexy. I can see a slim body and think mmmm, same with a plump body. I like all kinds of bods |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No reason to not have both. Any dad can get of his arse and goto the gym (unless physically unable) so no need to be flabby.
Fell into the dad bod trap, of getting chubby and fat, now woke up and am loving gym. Feel healthier, can keep up with my kids and wiggles is loving it.
Sure it's bloody hard and feels even harder being the 45yr old tubby guy at gym, but also feels great after few months when you realise you are lifting and working out more than the lads half your age
Also has great confidence bonus. Us guys have it easy, we go out, enjoy others admiring our wives/partners and feel lucky. But hey, why not work out, get a tad toned, look good and let here have that fun feeling of "this ones mine"
Especially in a wet club where blokes wear just a towel and the ladies dress amazingly sexy. Work out abit, get even a little bit of definition and give the ladies something to enjoy looking at."
We can enjoy other types of bodies too, you know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't prefer either.
Care to ellaborate?
I can find a man with any body sexy. I can see a slim body and think mmmm, same with a plump body. I like all kinds of bods "
I get that! It's hard to explain the perfect combination! |
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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago
Closer than you think |
I've had the gym fit body but those days have sadly passed I would say I am a mix of the two now I've the arms, shoulders, thighs and a reasonable chest but I've the dad stomach that I could do with working on a bit.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've had the gym fit body but those days have sadly passed I would say I am a mix of the two now I've the arms, shoulders, thighs and a reasonable chest but I've the dad stomach that I could do with working on a bit...."
Sounds like it isn't essential! At least on the pulling front! |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"No reason to not have both. Any dad can get of his arse and goto the gym (unless physically unable) so no need to be flabby.
Fell into the dad bod trap, of getting chubby and fat, now woke up and am loving gym. Feel healthier, can keep up with my kids and wiggles is loving it.
Sure it's bloody hard and feels even harder being the 45yr old tubby guy at gym, but also feels great after few months when you realise you are lifting and working out more than the lads half your age
Also has great confidence bonus. Us guys have it easy, we go out, enjoy others admiring our wives/partners and feel lucky. But hey, why not work out, get a tad toned, look good and let here have that fun feeling of "this ones mine"
Especially in a wet club where blokes wear just a towel and the ladies dress amazingly sexy. Work out abit, get even a little bit of definition and give the ladies something to enjoy looking at."
I agree, I've lost my biceps since working at home, so I'll work to get them back, but I'm 54 with a fck'd knee, shoulder & wrist from bike accidents in my youth. If you put your hand on my worst knee while I bend, it makes a noise not unlike a car driving on gravel. So gyms are out really, I'd go if I could to get fit, but not to get gym fit..
I do appreciate the effort involved on getting one though..
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"No reason to not have both. Any dad can get of his arse and goto the gym (unless physically unable) so no need to be flabby.
Fell into the dad bod trap, of getting chubby and fat, now woke up and am loving gym. Feel healthier, can keep up with my kids and wiggles is loving it.
Sure it's bloody hard and feels even harder being the 45yr old tubby guy at gym, but also feels great after few months when you realise you are lifting and working out more than the lads half your age
Also has great confidence bonus. Us guys have it easy, we go out, enjoy others admiring our wives/partners and feel lucky. But hey, why not work out, get a tad toned, look good and let here have that fun feeling of "this ones mine"
Especially in a wet club where blokes wear just a towel and the ladies dress amazingly sexy. Work out abit, get even a little bit of definition and give the ladies something to enjoy looking at.
But going to the gym eats into valuable cake eating time! Unless you combine the two and pop a Jaffa cake into your gob between reps?
It might be a way forwards for me "
Hey what ever keeps you going. I gave up fizzy drinks, so got major caffeine withdrawal, but each gym visit I get one of the pre work out caffeine drinks... it's like my crack supply now lol.
Plus I love meat, so get to eat loads of chicken and stuff as need the protein, so it's a bonus.
The view is also rather bloody splendid at times too |
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By *ex LutherMan
over a year ago
Closer than you think |
"I've had the gym fit body but those days have sadly passed I would say I am a mix of the two now I've the arms, shoulders, thighs and a reasonable chest but I've the dad stomach that I could do with working on a bit....
Sounds like it isn't essential! At least on the pulling front! "
I don't think anyone has met me due to my body I go to socials and parties and people seem to like me from there, if I was to send a message they generally end up deleted.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is any body form free from bashing on here 
You must have worked quite hard to take offence at anything that's been said in this thread.
Good effort "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder whether the females of fab prefer a man with a dad bod (no definition) or a gym bod (defined muscles)
What do you think?"
Something in-between please. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wonder whether the females of fab prefer a man with a dad bod (no definition) or a gym bod (defined muscles)
What do you think?
Something in-between please. "
YOU MUST CHOOSE! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder whether the females of fab prefer a man with a dad bod (no definition) or a gym bod (defined muscles)
What do you think?
Something in-between please.
YOU MUST CHOOSE! "
Since I have more curves than I want, I'll pick dad bod |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people are projecting characteristics onto people with certain bodies. I don't go to the gym but I'm naturally athletic, I eat what ever l want.
Don't judge a book by the cover. |
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Someone define 'dad bod'?
Personally I think people are naturally/innately attracted to others who appear healthy - because it speaks to our desire to have healthy children.
Healthy doesn't have to be ripped to shred; in fact quite often ripped to shreds isn't healthy. I suspect, most people like something in between - which I would imagine the Dad bod is.
I'm a Dad, by the way.
What about the 'mum bod' - how's that defined? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone define 'dad bod'?
Personally I think people are naturally/innately attracted to others who appear healthy - because it speaks to our desire to have healthy children.
Healthy doesn't have to be ripped to shred; in fact quite often ripped to shreds isn't healthy. I suspect, most people like something in between - which I would imagine the Dad bod is.
I'm a Dad, by the way.
What about the 'mum bod' - how's that defined?"
Mummy tummy, arghhhhh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone define 'dad bod'?
Personally I think people are naturally/innately attracted to others who appear healthy - because it speaks to our desire to have healthy children.
Healthy doesn't have to be ripped to shred; in fact quite often ripped to shreds isn't healthy. I suspect, most people like something in between - which I would imagine the Dad bod is.
I'm a Dad, by the way.
What about the 'mum bod' - how's that defined?"
Mum bod : stretch marks, cellulite and chip on shoulder about it. |
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