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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheers for reading this, it's a question for the BBW out there.... when you put BBW on your profile, is this a advert your a BBW and proud and like it, or just a statement so guys not into that dont message.
I like a proper lady and enjoy talking about it but find it hard to mention it in an initial message as not sure if your loud and proud and want to talk about it, or shy and want to ignore it and don't want it mentioning?
Thoughts ladies? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello. I have on my strap line as an honest statement really. I'd hate to mislead anyone. Similarly for those who like a larger lady, it's a handy flag isn't it. |
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By *iver2015Woman
over a year ago
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"Cheers for reading this, it's a question for the BBW out there.... when you put BBW on your profile, is this a advert your a BBW and proud and like it, or just a statement so guys not into that dont message.
I like a proper lady and enjoy talking about it but find it hard to mention it in an initial message as not sure if your loud and proud and want to talk about it, or shy and want to ignore it and don't want it mentioning?
Thoughts ladies?"
All of the ladies here are "proper ladies". |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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wow someone has found offence in a totally innocence post! Shocked and cheers for your wonderful input
The post is a question regarding someone's opinion of themselves not what my opinion is of someone, I like a 'proper' lady because this is what I like!! And if that offends anyone else I'm really not arsed |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Cheers for reading this, it's a question for the BBW out there.... when you put BBW on your profile, is this a advert your a BBW and proud and like it, or just a statement so guys not into that dont message.
I like a proper lady and enjoy talking about it but find it hard to mention it in an initial message as not sure if your loud and proud and want to talk about it, or shy and want to ignore it and don't want it mentioning?
Thoughts ladies?"
I used to say I was not because I was proud of it but because I didn't want to disappoint people who weren't into that. Then I got a load of stick for not being large enough or got contacted by people who were into me solely for that reason and I hate having one aspect of my physicality or personality fetishised. So I don't bother saying it any more apart from making sure I am clear about in private messages early on and have enough body photos in my private gallery that people I may actually meet can make an informed decision by looking at those. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really like the term bbw so don't use the term but hopefully our pics show clearly that I'm 'bigger'
And personally I'd rather the first message didn't mention my size just because I'm more than that
Mrs X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind the term bbw used about me at all ...I'm big , I think I'm beautiful  and I'm a woman ...I'm also ok with my body but I'm also aware there are guys that prefer slimmer women so I've stated my height and dress size and tried to capture body shape on my photos (although it's pretty hard holding a camera and doing selfies when your boobs cover the entire shot ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't really like the term bbw so don't use the term but hopefully our pics show clearly that I'm 'bigger'
And personally I'd rather the first message didn't mention my size just because I'm more than that
Mrs X "
Personally I would never comment about that unless a lady had it in her profile, I'm more asking if there putting out there to advertise there self or informing folks? Like in a bar I would never approch someone and start talking about it haha but in here the rules are very different |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't mind the term bbw used about me at all ...I'm big , I think I'm beautiful and I'm a woman ...I'm also ok with my body but I'm also aware there are guys that prefer slimmer women so I've stated my height and dress size and tried to capture body shape on my photos (although it's pretty hard holding a camera and doing selfies when your boobs cover the entire shot ) "
But when you have boobs as impressive as that then your best off taking ALOT of pics of them haha
And do you appreciate a guy mentioning that they are attracted to that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mind the term bbw used about me at all ...I'm big , I think I'm beautiful and I'm a woman ...I'm also ok with my body but I'm also aware there are guys that prefer slimmer women so I've stated my height and dress size and tried to capture body shape on my photos (although it's pretty hard holding a camera and doing selfies when your boobs cover the entire shot )
But when you have boobs as impressive as that then your best off taking ALOT of pics of them haha
And do you appreciate a guy mentioning that they are attracted to that?"
I wouldn't have so many boob pics if I didn't lol...plus it's so easy to do selfies of boobs and I loveee lingerie too so no I certainly don't mind!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't really like the term bbw so don't use the term but hopefully our pics show clearly that I'm 'bigger'
And personally I'd rather the first message didn't mention my size just because I'm more than that
Mrs X "
This  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never put bbw on my profile.
I'm fat, yes, there's no hiding that, but the beautiful part is subjective and I think it's wrong that bbw is used as a term for all fat women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never put bbw on my profile.
I'm fat, yes, there's no hiding that, but the beautiful part is subjective and I think it's wrong that bbw is used as a term for all fat women."
Perhaps it should be big, bouncy woman  . Oddly enough I always ignore the beautiful bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use it to attract the men that are into larger ladies so they have a idea of what to expect.
Doll x "
I have actually used the word plus sized on my profile but BBW is a common word on here.
Doll x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well if you don't put BBW on your profile then anyone that mentions it in a message is a little ignorant and rude, you wouldn't say that to someone face so why in a message!
My question was more to do with the ladies that put BBW on there profile... and im still none the wiser haha
I've had a woman message saying she love it and likes to be talked dirty in that way which is one extreme and a few ladies say it's to not disappoint a guy, which I thought was a little bit putting them selves down... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was a bbw I would have.pics on display anyway so anyone could make their minds up if they wanted to messafe me simply be looking at the pics.
Isn't that the way to do it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was a bbw I would have.pics on display anyway so anyone could make their minds up if they wanted to messafe me simply be looking at the pics.
Isn't that the way to do it?"
Oops..I meant message! |
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I put bbw in my heading so that people know straight away to save disappointment after messaging or meeting etc.
I would never take offence to anyone mentioning it though when messaging. As I am not everyones taste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm skinny, Mrs is chubby. Our pics are there to show that so people can make a decision. We don't mind other people using BBW, but it's originally a porn term that didn't used to be on the swinging scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it interesting how people describe themselves. Here in bonny Scotland direct works better. The use of the term 'fat bird' in my profile hasn't done me a disservice and I'm scoring a fair level of hotties. |
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I don't use bbw, simply because I'm not a fan of labels but also because I like to meet people where there is mutual attraction. Not because, as some others have said, they have a bbw fetish
A preference to a body type is different, and I try and make sure I'm clear on my profile that I'm a large woman. As I want to catch the eye of those that are interested in me as a sexy woman, not some size |
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Personally its there as part of a description. If guys dont like bigger ladies they can pass on by.
However i dont like when people message me saying they like bbw/big girls etc. For me just dont mention it. If you've messaged me positively then im going to assume you're not averse to my body shape. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate it when I get messages saying bbw....I'm fat end of no use making it sound better than it is "
this
Annoys the shit out of me then when I get msgs saying 'awww you're not fat, just cuddly'  |
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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago
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I'm surprised so many put it in their profile as a "warning" to avoid "disappointment".
Some great looking women in this thread. It does help that I love curvy women. I say, embrace your physique.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So those who are not interested can move on and we do t waste time communicating.
I don't particularly like the term bbw but it seems in common use so I've used it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly don't see a problem with it! It's in my username so people know also that I am heavily tattooed! So if someone messages me then they already know I'm a big girl! but messages that start I love fat girls tend to be ignored I'm not a fetish!  |
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