Right... I don't find men at all attractive, masculine bodies do nothing for me, and the thought of kissing another man makes my stomach turn, but I LOVE how a very large, very hard cock looks!
I don't think that really makes me Bi, does it? If not, what am I, is there a term for it? |
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"Right... I don't find men at all attractive, masculine bodies do nothing for me, and the thought of kissing another man makes my stomach turn, but I LOVE how a very large, very hard cock looks!
I don't think that really makes me Bi, does it? If not, what am I, is there a term for it?"
bi-playful x |
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Liking how something/someone looks surely doesn't dictate one's sexuality?
Should you want to do more than admire then it might, but what does it matter .... I'd say it makes you liberated  |
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over a year ago
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" I'd say it makes you liberated
I like that too! I think, presented with an enormous cock, a big, beautiful, painfully erect cock, I could be tempted, very tempted to take hold of it... "
Just take hold of it? |
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"Do you really need to have a "label"?
However I do like that term "bi-playful", think that is appropriate "
Don't get me wrong, I don't want to pigeon-hole myself, I just wondered if there was a recognised term for someone like me, and then maybe I could do some Googling |
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" I'd say it makes you liberated
I like that too! I think, presented with an enormous cock, a big, beautiful, painfully erect cock, I could be tempted, very tempted to take hold of it...
Just take hold of it? "
As I said, I think presented with it, that's entirely likely! Are there guys into just having their cocks worshiped, not being taken as a whole as it were? |
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"Do you really need to have a "label"?
However I do like that term "bi-playful", think that is appropriate
Don't get me wrong, I don't want to pigeon-hole myself, I just wondered if there was a recognised term for someone like me, and then maybe I could do some Googling"
In all honesty I'm of a similar opinion to yourself.. I couldn't see me kissing a guy but I'd have no problem playing/sucking one in the right circumstances |
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"Or maybe just curious "
Yes, I'm definitely curious! Just to throw another element into the mix, it has to be a VERY large dick, thats what I get on, the way a huge cock looks, small to average doesn't do much for me.
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"Do you really need to have a "label"?
However I do like that term "bi-playful", think that is appropriate
Don't get me wrong, I don't want to pigeon-hole myself, I just wondered if there was a recognised term for someone like me, and then maybe I could do some Googling
In all honesty I'm of a similar opinion to yourself.. I couldn't see me kissing a guy but I'd have no problem playing/sucking one in the right circumstances "
So no practical experience either like me? |
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"Or maybe just curious
Yes, I'm definitely curious! Just to throw another element into the mix, it has to be a VERY large dick, thats what I get on, the way a huge cock looks, small to average doesn't do much for me.
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I think you need to try it |
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"I would say bi playful as well. Kev doesn't kiss men just enjoys sucking Their cocks ????"
And how does that make you personally feel? That's the other issue, I'm married, afraid of being caught, exposed, and the guilt would be enormous... |
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You're bisexual.
I see it as a range/ scale. Some just want to do sexual things with the opposite sex. At the other end of the scale some people want relationships with the opposite sex. Still all bi. |
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"You're bisexual.
I see it as a range/ scale. Some just want to do sexual things with the opposite sex. At the other end of the scale some people want relationships with the opposite sex. Still all bi. "
You're probably right, I just tended to think of bisexual as meaning you'd be equally at ease in a relationship with either sex, that's definitely not the case with me.
I'm not even sure I could go through with it, maybe it's just the idea of it I find exciting? Maybe bi-curious is a better fit |
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"You're bisexual.
I see it as a range/ scale. Some just want to do sexual things with the opposite sex. At the other end of the scale some people want relationships with the opposite sex. Still all bi.
You're probably right, I just tended to think of bisexual as meaning you'd be equally at ease in a relationship with either sex, that's definitely not the case with me.
I'm not even sure I could go through with it, maybe it's just the idea of it I find exciting? Maybe bi-curious is a better fit"
Use whatever label that makes you happy. It's scary not knowing if it should stay as a fantasy or if you'd love the reality. Society generally has a pretty shit view of bi people so I know why you may be 'worried' that you are one. Plus age and marital status can make it all harder to deal with.
But you'll be ok either way. Do what makes you happy. Hope you get a chance to try it out. It can be fun. x |
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I think if you don't want to do anything with a man or their cock then you're straight. I can like, admire and find the female body attractive but I'm still straight. |
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"Right... I don't find men at all attractive, masculine bodies do nothing for me, and the thought of kissing another man makes my stomach turn, but I LOVE how a very large, very hard cock looks!
I don't think that really makes me Bi, does it? If not, what am I, is there a term for it?"
To me it sounds like your confusing aesthetics with sexuality..
Unless you want to choke on said cock your" are admiring then liking the look of another dick isn't anything. You have one yourself, and probably like the look ,and feel of it..just a natural consequence of having a penis all your life. |
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" I'd say it makes you liberated
I like that too! I think, presented with an enormous cock, a big, beautiful, painfully erect cock, I could be tempted, very tempted to take hold of it... "
Well if presented with such a wonder would your first thought be: "what does this make me?" If not, just enjoy it if and when it happens. If you want to add something to your profile I think what you wrote here would be perfect. |
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"bi-playful x
I like the sound of that! Is that a recognised term?"
It's not but it should be lol. X
. MY boyfriend has no intrest in guys what so ever unless I want to see him with a guy then he will play with a guy because he knows it turns me on x |
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"I would say bi playful as well. Kev doesn't kiss men just enjoys sucking Their cocks ????"
My boyfriend is the same as long as I'm there to watch lol xx |
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It's a shame how we seem to need to label things. I think, at play, the parameters are set by the players and not by any given label one has attached. Life's too short for what ifs. |
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