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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not to start an argument, though I might.
There's been a lot of jusgemnt about profiles, verification, non verification, single men, pic collectors etc about lately.
What does it matter?
This site is designed for one thing, allowing
People to achieve their sexual thrill.
We cant see an issue with any of the gripes lately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People are extremely judgemental on here. I'm all for live and let live. People judge on other people and situations they know absolutely nothing about. This is meant to be a site all about fun, but people take it way too seriously.
You only live once, do what makes you happy, as long as no one is being hurt in the process, then all is good ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are mostley judgemental full stop! not just on here, it's human nature "
Very true, people should open their minds more and look at the bigger picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are extremely judgemental on here. I'm all for live and let live. People judge on other people and situations they know absolutely nothing about. This is meant to be a site all about fun, but people take it way too seriously.
You only live once, do what makes you happy, as long as no one is being hurt in the process, then all is good ?? "
Totally agree with this  you seem canny down to earth, I like it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are mostley judgemental full stop! not just on here, it's human nature
Very true, people should open their minds more and look at the bigger picture. "
You're judging them... you see that, right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you have an opinion on someone or something you have made a judgment. It seems its only called judgemental if the opinion is negative, if it's positive its called the truth... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The forums on here are a place to discuss opinions on a variety of topics . If everyone agreed with every opinion they wouldn't be much fun would they ? And why would we all agree with every persons perspective on every topic ?
So , it starts off with a few voicing their opinions and usually ends up with all of us being accused of being judgemental .
Just as a footnote , I have found swingers to be extremely judgemental overall , which is surprising given the lifestyle choice we have all made . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just as a footnote , I have found swingers to be extremely judgemental overall , which is surprising given the lifestyle choice we have all made . "
I never understand when people say this. Swingers aren't an elite alien race. They are just people that like to fuck. |
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If you start a thread asking for advice, stating you're playing away etc what do people expect? 
Keep your business to yourself/work it out for yourself.
Posting on a OPEN forum then bitching about the responses is an exercise in futility. |
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"People are mostley judgemental full stop! not just on here, it's human nature
Very true, people should open their minds more and look at the bigger picture. "
Why? I'm here for fun with like minded people. What others do is their business, I don't have to be open minded for thongs that don't interest me. |
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"If you have an opinion on someone or something you have made a judgment. It seems its only called judgemental if the opinion is negative, if it's positive its called the truth..."
...or if the opinion is the same as yours. If not it's narrow minded and judgemental. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just as a footnote , I have found swingers to be extremely judgemental overall , which is surprising given the lifestyle choice we have all made .
I never understand when people say this. Swingers aren't an elite alien race. They are just people that like to fuck. "
True , but my issue is with the swingers who think their way is the only way .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just as a footnote , I have found swingers to be extremely judgemental overall , which is surprising given the lifestyle choice we have all made .
I never understand when people say this. Swingers aren't an elite alien race. They are just people that like to fuck.
True , but my issue is with the swingers who think their way is the only way .
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Fair point but they are still 'just' people.  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"If you have an opinion on someone or something you have made a judgment. It seems its only called judgemental if the opinion is negative, if it's positive its called the truth..."
I make judgements about things, all the time. Most people do, if they're honest.
It's just some people are more vocal about them, than others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are mostley judgemental full stop! not just on here, it's human nature
Very true, people should open their minds more and look at the bigger picture.
You're judging them... you see that, right?"
Ah yes, I see your point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People are mostley judgemental full stop! not just on here, it's human nature
Very true, people should open their minds more and look at the bigger picture.
Why? I'm here for fun with like minded people. What others do is their business, I don't have to be open minded for thongs that don't interest me. "
I'm talking from my personal experiences with people and how they judge me, without even knowing any facts at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People are extremely judgemental on here. I'm all for live and let live. People judge on other people and situations they know absolutely nothing about. This is meant to be a site all about fun, but people take it way too seriously.
You only live once, do what makes you happy, as long as no one is being hurt in the process, then all is good ??
Totally agree with this you seem canny down to earth, I like it!"
I'm extremely canny and down to earth, and try my hardest not to judge without knowing the whole story. I then form my own opinion on facts. |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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" I have found swingers to be extremely judgemental overall , which is surprising given the lifestyle choice we have all made . "
Similarly I've seen the same in the BDsM / kink community. A lot of the conversations at munches, are around how they're viewed negatively in the vanilla wider world. Then in the next breath "vanilla" is used in a derogatory sense and an "us and them" mentality takes over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't want to talk to pic collectors,because I'm here for sex and they are here for pics. That's not being judgemental, that's making a decision based on my experiences here.
Pic collectors are sad, wankers with no lives. That's being over critical and judgemental.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We may be swingers, but that doesn't necessarily mean we are open minded about everything that people do. We just happen to be people who enjoy sex. Not everybody is going to like some things that others do. Some are more vocal than others. Nobody is immune to being judgemental. It's human nature. We judge every day. Whether it's a parent scolding their child a little too harshly, or a driver who doesn't indicate before moving into the next lane in front of us. The forums may not be perfect, but if everybody didn't have a different opinion on things, how boring would the forums be? Though I do concede that some can be a little too critical, and take their judgement to the next level, which doesn't need to happen. |
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