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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone we are a couple in our early 30's and have been swingers for nearly 3 years. We've tried a variety of clubs.
The problem is we find 99% of people aren't our type. Specifically there seems to be a large majority of women who are fat or even morbidly obese.
So we were wondering, as there seems to be themed nights for most other preferences (ie race / gender / transgender)... is there one for thin attractive women? We all have our preferences right?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone we are a couple in our early 30's and have been swingers for nearly 3 years. We've tried a variety of clubs.
The problem is we find 99% of people aren't our type. Specifically there seems to be a large majority of women who are fat or even morbidly obese.
So we were wondering, as there seems to be themed nights for most other preferences (ie race / gender / transgender)... is there one for thin attractive women? We all have our preferences right?
Thanks in advance! "
Having a thin theme is fair enough IMO, although I'm sure plenty of the larger ladies will take offence. You can't please everyone though!
As for "attractive", that's far harder to pin down. Everyone has opinions on what's attractive and what's not, so that one would definitely cause issues! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think you'll find one that stipulates "attractive" only, as that's subjective, surely? Not heard of a night specifically for slimmer people, but for what it's worth the BBW night at chams is still open to all, you don't *have* to fulfill a certain criteria for going then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try the chic nights at Liberty elite. They have a guestlist on the forum. Lots of sexy young (slim/gym fit) couples and single ladies go. There's one in November I think chic 6. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't understand why larger ladies would be offended. Everybody has their preferences. If I was thin I may apply. I'm not thin or slim but I'm not large either. Each to their own and if it upsets others it's tough really. Hope you find what you are looking for xxx |
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Well thin I can do
But our playmates need to like the bigger guys.... so I'm guessing that's us out.
Oh and as for being attractive, that's not really for me to say. Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder, and attraction is so much more than physical appearance. Thankfully we find beauty in all body types |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone we are a couple in our early 30's and have been swingers for nearly 3 years. We've tried a variety of clubs.
The problem is we find 99% of people aren't our type. Specifically there seems to be a large majority of women who are fat or even morbidly obese.
So we were wondering, as there seems to be themed nights for most other preferences (ie race / gender / transgender)... is there one for thin attractive women? We all have our preferences right?
Thanks in advance!
Having a thin theme is fair enough IMO, although I'm sure plenty of the larger ladies will take offence. You can't please everyone though!
As for "attractive", that's far harder to pin down. Everyone has opinions on what's attractive and what's not, so that one would definitely cause issues!"
Why would us fatties take offence? Gee I wish I was slim as I felt more attractive back then. But you try fighting hormones. |
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"Hi everyone we are a couple in our early 30's and have been swingers for nearly 3 years. We've tried a variety of clubs.
The problem is we find 99% of people aren't our type. Specifically there seems to be a large majority of women who are fat or even morbidly obese.
So we were wondering, as there seems to be themed nights for most other preferences (ie race / gender / transgender)... is there one for thin attractive women? We all have our preferences right?
Thanks in advance! "
I always wondered this. Although ALL events is not restricted to anyone, everyone is welcome. HOWEVER if advertising for BBW night...u will find more BBWs attending. If BBC night...more BBCs attending. Again all events does not exclude any size race etc but why isnt there a 'Slim' night? So the people who prefer slim have 'more choice'. As a regular club goer to a variety of NW clubs, I have experienced there are usually more 'curvy' & 'fabulous' ladies on a daily basis n yet clubs still put on 'extra' bbw nights for them. Yes, slim people can attend but why is it not possible the other way round. Im not empathising looks or attractiveness cos everyones perception of wot attracts them is different but we all do have a 'preference' |
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
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Yes...but most of us are normal people. They are vetted n scrutinised before allowed to join. Im just thinking out loud for us mere folk who like to attend themed parties catered for slim people WITHOUT the extreme champagne on arrival n all that jazz n expense. Just a normal theme night like they would hold for BBWs, BBCs, Greedy Girls, BDSM...isnt this another preference that could be catered for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
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There are some clubs you have to send photos to be approved, not sure if this is one, but these clubs I avoid. Just because the person approving them finds them attractive, doesn't mean I will. |
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My take on this is that not many would attend.
If they're anything like me (average/fit/bordering on slim), lots of ladies would wonder if they were "thinking enough" and that sort of event is enough to bring out the insecurities in a lot of women.
Also, ladies who attend a "thin and attractive only" event, MAY be so vain or arrogant (or perceived to be) that they may not be so attractive in personality??
I do know what you mean OP, but I haven't found a shortage of men I'd be interested in at an average club night. As well as plenty I wouldnt be, for a variety of reasosn5.
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Lol,
If you think about it, what would the attraction be for those females?
A woman has to go and be vetted (I find that quite demeaning), any successful ones are alowed through... For what?
I certainly don't know any women who would do that. Not even the hot ones I know would do that.
Those same hot females can easily get sex without having to be vetted, do you see what I mean?
I don't think it's likely that hot women will be keenly throwing themselves into any such events!
I stand to be corrected though! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
Yes...but most of us are normal people. They are vetted n scrutinised before allowed to join. Im just thinking out loud for us mere folk who like to attend themed parties catered for slim people WITHOUT the extreme champagne on arrival n all that jazz n expense. Just a normal theme night like they would hold for BBWs, BBCs, Greedy Girls, BDSM...isnt this another preference that could be catered for?"
Totally on your wavelength there! No need for theatrics  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
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No, I'm a member and have been to several parties and am not thin. Maybe I just managed to sneak in. There's a man who runs some events who specifies dress size limits but I can't remember the name fully. Slickers something or other. |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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I definitely think theres a need for this. I'm not slim and not offended by this at all.
I imagine thats the PC worry though. Likely one of the reasons it doesn't happen. Also of the majority of a clubs customer base is something other than the night they are trying to have, they risk losing business.
Its sad that people don't see it for what it is more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have only just realised that these events don't seem to categorise men in the same way, bbw any man can go, greedy girls any man can go, and this one is only about women. The only one for men is the bbc but that's just one ethnicity and I doubt they're checked to see if he has a bbc. |
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"Hi everyone we are a couple in our early 30's and have been swingers for nearly 3 years. We've tried a variety of clubs.
The problem is we find 99% of people aren't our type. Specifically there seems to be a large majority of women who are fat or even morbidly obese.
So we were wondering, as there seems to be themed nights for most other preferences (ie race / gender / transgender)... is there one for thin attractive women? We all have our preferences right?
Thanks in advance!
Having a thin theme is fair enough IMO, although I'm sure plenty of the larger ladies will take offence. You can't please everyone though!
As for "attractive", that's far harder to pin down. Everyone has opinions on what's attractive and what's not, so that one would definitely cause issues!"
I'm sure plenty of the larger lady wouldn't take offence,I certainly don't take offence when people stipulate they want the larger lady,so why should it be the other way around! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't understand why larger ladies would be offended. Everybody has their preferences. If I was thin I may apply. I'm not thin or slim but I'm not large either. Each to their own and if it upsets others it's tough really. Hope you find what you are looking for xxx"
And you are totally right. We all have different tastes and retain the right to meet who we want to meet and what suits us. You shouldn't compromise- continue to be fussy and look for what suits YOU |
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"Hi everyone we are a couple in our early 30's and have been swingers for nearly 3 years. We've tried a variety of clubs.
The problem is we find 99% of people aren't our type. Specifically there seems to be a large majority of women who are fat or even morbidly obese.
So we were wondering, as there seems to be themed nights for most other preferences (ie race / gender / transgender)... is there one for thin attractive women? We all have our preferences right?
Thanks in advance! "
Haven't read the comments on the thread but you're unlikely to find many of your 'type' in most clubs!
Amour in Manchester often has a younger, slimmer crowd on party nights - and parties which term themselves exclusive are often for the younger, slimmer type (though curiously it only seems to be the females looks that are relevant - go figure!  )
Other than that - you're looking at sites like the young feline site - and their get-togethers tend to be rather expensive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
Yes...but most of us are normal people. They are vetted n scrutinised before allowed to join. Im just thinking out loud for us mere folk who like to attend themed parties catered for slim people WITHOUT the extreme champagne on arrival n all that jazz n expense. Just a normal theme night like they would hold for BBWs, BBCs, Greedy Girls, BDSM...isnt this another preference that could be catered for?"
I'm not a thin lady but I totally agree with this!! Clubs should cater for everyone! Hope this happens for u guys....when it does find me in the corner perving lol   x |
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"City slickers. They only let 'beautiful' people in apparently. Im yet to see anyone attractive actually attend "
Have you seen the guy who runs the parties??
Bit like Hitler - wanted to create a blonde, Arian elite but he was short, dark and ugly! |
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
Yes...but most of us are normal people. They are vetted n scrutinised before allowed to join. Im just thinking out loud for us mere folk who like to attend themed parties catered for slim people WITHOUT the extreme champagne on arrival n all that jazz n expense. Just a normal theme night like they would hold for BBWs, BBCs, Greedy Girls, BDSM...isnt this another preference that could be catered for?
I'm not a thin lady but I totally agree with this!! Clubs should cater for everyone! Hope this happens for u guys....when it does find me in the corner perving lol x"
No u wont....youll be helping the ladies sort the boys from the men haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
Yes...but most of us are normal people. They are vetted n scrutinised before allowed to join. Im just thinking out loud for us mere folk who like to attend themed parties catered for slim people WITHOUT the extreme champagne on arrival n all that jazz n expense. Just a normal theme night like they would hold for BBWs, BBCs, Greedy Girls, BDSM...isnt this another preference that could be catered for?
I'm not a thin lady but I totally agree with this!! Clubs should cater for everyone! Hope this happens for u guys....when it does find me in the corner perving lol x
No u wont....youll be helping the ladies sort the boys from the men haha "
nice arse would like to visit your rock x |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
No, I'm a member and have been to several parties and am not thin. Maybe I just managed to sneak in. There's a man who runs some events who specifies dress size limits but I can't remember the name fully. Slickers something or other."
City Slickers I think from what I remember from previous forum posts. I'm not sure if he specifies dress sizes though because I am properly podgy but still got contacted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone we are a couple in our early 30's and have been swingers for nearly 3 years. We've tried a variety of clubs.
The problem is we find 99% of people aren't our type. Specifically there seems to be a large majority of women who are fat or even morbidly obese.
So we were wondering, as there seems to be themed nights for most other preferences (ie race / gender / transgender)... is there one for thin attractive women? We all have our preferences right?
Thanks in advance! "
Killing Kittens is your best bet. They vet your pictures but it only takes 24 hours in my experience. Trust me, it's worth it! |
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"Hi everyone we are a couple in our early 30's and have been swingers for nearly 3 years. We've tried a variety of clubs.
The problem is we find 99% of people aren't our type. Specifically there seems to be a large majority of women who are fat or even morbidly obese.
So we were wondering, as there seems to be themed nights for most other preferences (ie race / gender / transgender)... is there one for thin attractive women? We all have our preferences right?
Thanks in advance!
Killing Kittens is your best bet. They vet your pictures but it only takes 24 hours in my experience. Trust me, it's worth it! "
Again why does it have to be Killing Kittens?? Do they actually have their own club?? Or they just an elite group that travel all over UK? People shouldnt have to pay membership/subscription on their looks! Just a normal club where u pay normal prices on a 'themed' night. I wouldnt pay wot they charge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think people are confusing minority preference with exclusivity. In society's pecking order slim still trumps curvy. Black men despite the whingeing of certain men is still a minority preference.
But then fab is the last place for rational thinking on the politics of beauty and equality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Remember that BBW themed events were predominantly started because it was a place to feel comfortable when your body doesn't fit the social norm.
I've heard that in the swinging world, there are a whole host of sizes so I totally agree with there should be nights that cater for everyone! I wouldn't be offended if there was a night or club that catered for specific sizes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think people are confusing minority preference with exclusivity. In society's pecking order slim still trumps curvy. Black men despite the whingeing of certain men is still a minority preference.
But then fab is the last place for rational thinking on the politics of beauty and equality."
Heh, at least I am not the only one who noticed.
To the OP Killing Kittens and City Slickers are your best bet. Clientele doesnt HAVE to be slim but they look like they take care of themselves. Which is more than enough. The problem with alot of clubs is really the hygiene and dingy/seedy nature of them. I dont think it necessarily about looks per se. |
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"Remember that BBW themed events were predominantly started because it was a place to feel comfortable when your body doesn't fit the social norm.
I've heard that in the swinging world, there are a whole host of sizes so I totally agree with there should be nights that cater for everyone! I wouldn't be offended if there was a night or club that catered for specific sizes! "
Im sometimes in awe of these BBW cos they are always so confident n fantastic personalities cos like u said, they are comfortable in their own bodies. Likewise to those who have dieted n been to slimming world n weight watchers n now looking amazing, they too are lovely people n no doubt have so much more confidence...that they should be proud to attend such events. Well done to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think people are confusing minority preference with exclusivity. In society's pecking order slim still trumps curvy. Black men despite the whingeing of certain men is still a minority preference.
But then fab is the last place for rational thinking on the politics of beauty and equality.
Heh, at least I am not the only one who noticed.
To the OP Killing Kittens and City Slickers are your best bet. Clientele doesnt HAVE to be slim but they look like they take care of themselves. Which is more than enough. The problem with alot of clubs is really the hygiene and dingy/seedy nature of them. I dont think it necessarily about looks per se."
can't say I've ever been to a club and thought people haven't been taking care of themselves or that the club didn't care about its hygiene rate.
Although I do think some people should respect clubs more, put their dirty condoms and wrapper in the bin, no need to leave it on the side for the next people to go in the room  |
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"I think people are confusing minority preference with exclusivity. In society's pecking order slim still trumps curvy. Black men despite the whingeing of certain men is still a minority preference.
But then fab is the last place for rational thinking on the politics of beauty and equality.
Heh, at least I am not the only one who noticed.
To the OP Killing Kittens and City Slickers are your best bet. Clientele doesnt HAVE to be slim but they look like they take care of themselves. Which is more than enough. The problem with alot of clubs is really the hygiene and dingy/seedy nature of them. I dont think it necessarily about looks per se."
Actually all the reputable clubs pride themselves clean n tidy. Its the members/clientele who cba cleaning after themselves that make the clubs untidy. Bins are provided, wipes n papertowels are there to be used. Some even provide disinfectant sprays to wipe down after use...as the sign usually displayed 'please put ur used condoms in the bin provided'. As for seedy/dingy...thats everybodies own opinion hence 'reputable clubs' |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"City slickers. They only let 'beautiful' people in apparently. Im yet to see anyone attractive actually attend "
We've been to city slickers 
As others have said OP, city slickers and Killing Kittens |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP, have a look at A Wonderland Adventure in the Club Review section, might be something you're interested in as they do attract a cross section but not 'elitist'.
Otherwise like most have mentioned it's City Slickers (weight in proportion as opposed to dress size I believe), Killing Kittens (younger fit crowd, that's me out or Le Boudoir Club in London. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a valid point, maybe without the attractive label as the TV/ts and BBW nights would also be attractive (it's all subjective after all).
As a bigger person I'd never take offence if a club held a slim night, it's merely catering for a sexual preference just as the other themes.
Sorry I don't have any suggestions on actual places that do this op but if you can find enough people why not approach your local club and ask for them to try it!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"City slickers. They only let 'beautiful' people in apparently. Im yet to see anyone attractive actually attend
Have you seen the guy who runs the parties??
Bit like Hitler - wanted to create a blonde, Arian elite but he was short, dark and ugly! "
Yeah i know haha god knows where he gets his ideas from |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's another preference that's all . As you say there are BbW events , gangbang events , bi events , gay events, bbc events etc etc . Why should there not be a thin people event ? |
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"I think people are confusing minority preference with exclusivity. In society's pecking order slim still trumps curvy. Black men despite the whingeing of certain men is still a minority preference.
But then fab is the last place for rational thinking on the politics of beauty and equality.
Heh, at least I am not the only one who noticed.
To the OP Killing Kittens and City Slickers are your best bet. Clientele doesnt HAVE to be slim but they look like they take care of themselves. Which is more than enough. The problem with alot of clubs is really the hygiene and dingy/seedy nature of them. I dont think it necessarily about looks per se."
We haven't been to a seedy club, except by choice, and we,veg been to loads of clubs. Also, never actually seen anyone who doesn't take care of themselves .... Where have you been going?
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
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Why elitist? It isn't considered elitist when men rave over BBWs or when clubs run BBW nights. As for attractive, presumably if someone has a preference for BBWs then they find them attractive. |
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I under stand what op is saying every one has their type and that is fine but what iam asking is would they judge some one different on how they look?
For me I treat every one the same even if I would not play with them
Have seen some very nasty people in clubs before eg giving dirty looks and laughing at others that are just having fun and a good time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The OP is entitled to their preferences when it comes to who they want to play with. They haven't bashed any curvy/larger like myself. Just stated their type. Nothing wrong with that at all. Good luck OP's. Hope you find the type of girl you're both looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The OP is entitled to their preferences when it comes to who they want to play with. They haven't bashed any curvy/larger like myself. Just stated their type. Nothing wrong with that at all. Good luck OP's. Hope you find the type of girl you're both looking for "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone we are a couple in our early 30's and have been swingers for nearly 3 years. We've tried a variety of clubs.
The problem is we find 99% of people aren't our type. Specifically there seems to be a large majority of women who are fat or even morbidly obese.
So we were wondering, as there seems to be themed nights for most other preferences (ie race / gender / transgender)... is there one for thin attractive women? We all have our preferences right?
Thanks in advance! "
I,m the opposite, I am not turned on by skinny slim men. I am overweight size 16 not offended by your comments. XXX |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"City slickers. They only let 'beautiful' people in apparently. Im yet to see anyone attractive actually attend "
We've been to a couple of those parties, met quite a few nice and attractive (to us) people.
(We snuck in, when no one was looking, that's how we got in)
I will say, that some of their posts, haven't always shown them in a good light and we've disagreed with alot of those comments.
I also get fed up, with the general assumption that all who go are 'up themselves' sizest etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
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Im a little confused on that, because Killing Kittens in my experience is an abandoned website with about 3 profiles on it that we stopped looking at after about a day. Do they have events, do people actually go?
L signed us up because she thought it might open up a different avenue of potential partners but there was really noone there, and i dont recall ever being vetted to join. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"L signed us up because she thought it might open up a different avenue of potential partners but there was really noone there, and i dont recall ever being vetted to join. "
Yes, they have events, yes people attend. Anyone can join, the vetting happens at later stages. Not everyone will be allowed in at said events. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"City slickers. They only let 'beautiful' people in apparently. Im yet to see anyone attractive actually attend
We've been to a couple of those parties, met quite a few nice and attractive (to us) people.
(We snuck in, when no one was looking, that's how we got in)
I will say, that some of their posts, haven't always shown them in a good light and we've disagreed with alot of those comments.
I also get fed up, with the general assumption that all who go are 'up themselves' sizest etc."
I agree.
If someone like me are on their list then I think some of their bad press is hearsay & some isn't.
Like most things in life do what suits you. |
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
Yes...but most of us are normal people. They are vetted n scrutinised before allowed to join. Im just thinking out loud for us mere folk who like to attend themed parties catered for slim people WITHOUT the extreme champagne on arrival n all that jazz n expense. Just a normal theme night like they would hold for BBWs, BBCs, Greedy Girls, BDSM...isnt this another preference that could be catered for?"
i think the possible stumbling block is....would the themed night still be open for all members? i know that the BBW nights i run at chams are still open for all to attend, it is just that there will be more larger (fat/obese/voluptuous/fabulous) women there that night.
I got slated for this on the forums once but i really dont see any issue with events like killing kittens etc, other than you are simply going by one persons perception of attractive. Their parties seem to be more about exclusion rather than acceptance and inclusion.
I dont put any weight/dress size restrictions on my guest lists for example. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree that there should indeed be a normal club night for everyone's preference. You shouldn't have to pay the prices of the elitist crowd to be in with more of a chance to get what you want.
However, BBW/BBC nights for example can fetishise those body types. Your desires are more 'mainstream'. As a larger, club going lady I often note that it is the other way around and I am in the minority amongst those I would consider 'thin and attractive', sometimes a minority of 1. It may be a case of trying a different club or a different night. You may have a pleasant surprise. Good luck op! |
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
Yes...but most of us are normal people. They are vetted n scrutinised before allowed to join. Im just thinking out loud for us mere folk who like to attend themed parties catered for slim people WITHOUT the extreme champagne on arrival n all that jazz n expense. Just a normal theme night like they would hold for BBWs, BBCs, Greedy Girls, BDSM...isnt this another preference that could be catered for?
i think the possible stumbling block is....would the themed night still be open for all members? i know that the BBW nights i run at chams are still open for all to attend, it is just that there will be more larger (fat/obese/voluptuous/fabulous) women there that night.
I got slated for this on the forums once but i really dont see any issue with events like killing kittens etc, other than you are simply going by one persons perception of attractive. Their parties seem to be more about exclusion rather than acceptance and inclusion.
I dont put any weight/dress size restrictions on my guest lists for example."
As mentioned in a earlier post. Yes of course it should be open for everyone, just like the BBW or BBC events. Clubs would not stop slim people from attending, they welcome all...the 'theme' is aimed for 'more' BBWs so people who enjoy these ladies have more to choose from. So why not cater for opposite preference? Where guys who would prefer slimmer ladies got more choice? But nothing stopping ladies of all sizes to attend...just a theme to make sure ALL preferences are catered for |
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"Isn't Killing Kittens a club night for that kind of elitist stuff?
There are some clubs you have to send photos to be approved, not sure if this is one, but these clubs I avoid. Just because the person approving them finds them attractive, doesn't mean I will."
I'll tell you this for nothing, your bum would stand a much better chance of getting in than my face |
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"Hi everyone we are a couple in our early 30's and have been swingers for nearly 3 years. We've tried a variety of clubs.
The problem is we find 99% of people aren't our type. Specifically there seems to be a large majority of women who are fat or even morbidly obese.
So we were wondering, as there seems to be themed nights for most other preferences (ie race / gender / transgender)... is there one for thin attractive women? We all have our preferences right?
Thanks in advance!
I always wondered this. Although ALL events is not restricted to anyone, everyone is welcome. HOWEVER if advertising for BBW night...u will find more BBWs attending. If BBC night...more BBCs attending. Again all events does not exclude any size race etc but why isnt there a 'Slim' night? So the people who prefer slim have 'more choice'. As a regular club goer to a variety of NW clubs, I have experienced there are usually more 'curvy' & 'fabulous' ladies on a daily basis n yet clubs still put on 'extra' bbw nights for them. Yes, slim people can attend but why is it not possible the other way round. Im not empathising looks or attractiveness cos everyones perception of wot attracts them is different but we all do have a 'preference'"
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"I think La boudoir may cater for your desires"
I agree! Can you imagine how clubs could possibly vet if someone is thin and pretty on the door and then deny entry. Wouldn't be pleasant!
Hope you find what you are looking for though, good luck! |
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What's attractive?.How can anyone be attractive to all?.Is it that thing the media or social boxes says attractive?.Ask yourself the question is your idea of beauty the same as someone else's.We all have different likes and dislikes so to me fat skinny small large tall small mean nothing but we're all difrent for a reason and maybe that reason is there's someone for everyone  |
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"Check my profile out I am attractive no such thing as thin I can work my curves to perfection my pussy is always wet and I squirt non stop I'll soon change your biased opinions x"
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"Check my profile out I am attractive no such thing as thin I can work my curves to perfection my pussy is always wet and I squirt non stop I'll soon change your biased opinions x"
There is such a thing as thin.
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"Hi everyone we are a couple in our early 30's and have been swingers for nearly 3 years. We've tried a variety of clubs.
The problem is we find 99% of people aren't our type. Specifically there seems to be a large majority of women who are fat or even morbidly obese.
So we were wondering, as there seems to be themed nights for most other preferences (ie race / gender / transgender)... is there one for thin attractive women? We all have our preferences right?
Thanks in advance! "
I totally get where youre coming from, but, if regular club nights youve been to are a majority of the larger folk that you mention, when theyre open to all, and have no generalisation, then filling a club with a good amount of slimmer folk would be a tough ask |
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"Hi everyone we are a couple in our early 30's and have been swingers for nearly 3 years. We've tried a variety of clubs.
The problem is we find 99% of people aren't our type. Specifically there seems to be a large majority of women who are fat or even morbidly obese.
So we were wondering, as there seems to be themed nights for most other preferences (ie race / gender / transgender)... is there one for thin attractive women? We all have our preferences right?
Thanks in advance! "
omg no wonder you left, where would clubs be without the people who've lived a life  |
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"I hate being called thin. I am slim with curves where it counts.
Your figure is fantastic....wish I had your legs!"
thankyou but you'd look odd with my legs |
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"I hate being called thin. I am slim with curves where it counts.
Your figure is fantastic....wish I had your legs!thankyou but you'd look odd with my legs
And i would look oddd with no legs.x"
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