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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Following a reply from a different forum post, has anyone experienced scenarios that you thought were really hot in fantasy but wasn't as hot when it happened in reality?
The only one I've had happened like that was visiting a club. But maybe it was the club I went to, or the night I went. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Before we attended clubs I thought it would be really hot to watch others playing. Turns out I'm not a voyeur as only once have we sat back and enjoyed watching another couple.
Everything else about going to clubs/meets has been better than expected when we took part though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before we attended clubs I thought it would be really hot to watch others playing. Turns out I'm not a voyeur as only once have we sat back and enjoyed watching another couple.
Everything else about going to clubs/meets has been better than expected when we took part though "
Probably because in your fantasy the couples were hot but the reality is totally different! |
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By *asyukMan
over a year ago
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I generally avoid trying to recreate a fantasy because you spend so much time trying to make things just so that you fail to enjoy the moment.
Also, people in reality are never as impossibly attractive as in your head. They also can't deliver the perfect sexual stimulation tuned exactly to your needs. Eventually maybe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Before we attended clubs I thought it would be really hot to watch others playing. Turns out I'm not a voyeur as only once have we sat back and enjoyed watching another couple.
Everything else about going to clubs/meets has been better than expected when we took part though
Probably because in your fantasy the couples were hot but the reality is totally different!"
I think there's an element of this but not the only reason.
I would far rather see sensual and intimate connections rather than fucking and in the main, that's not what we witness out in public areas. Also I feel quite self conscious watching, so the only time I've really enjoyed it was after we played on an open bed then lying back watching others play. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Interesting answers. I do think a lot of it is down to connecting with the right type of people for yourself.
The club I visited and the "clientele" didn't quite live up to my expectations.
I do think I need to visit another club, as no good "writing them off" after just one visit.
I do fancy The VA. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting answers. I do think a lot of it is down to connecting with the right type of people for yourself.
The club I visited and the "clientele" didn't quite live up to my expectations.
I do think I need to visit another club, as no good "writing them off" after just one visit.
I do fancy The VA."
Our first 2 club visits were disappointing. We've since found clubs we love and clubs we won't rush back to.
We agree the VA looks great, going to get a trip there in December |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Interesting answers. I do think a lot of it is down to connecting with the right type of people for yourself.
The club I visited and the "clientele" didn't quite live up to my expectations.
I do think I need to visit another club, as no good "writing them off" after just one visit.
I do fancy The VA.
Our first 2 club visits were disappointing. We've since found clubs we love and clubs we won't rush back to.
We agree the VA looks great, going to get a trip there in December "
I'd be interested to know your thoughts on it after your visit. I'm sure you'll have a great time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following a reply from a different forum post, has anyone experienced scenarios that you thought were really hot in fantasy but wasn't as hot when it happened in reality?
The only one I've had happened like that was visiting a club. But maybe it was the club I went to, or the night I went."
Do you mind us asking what club it was? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting answers. I do think a lot of it is down to connecting with the right type of people for yourself.
The club I visited and the "clientele" didn't quite live up to my expectations.
I do think I need to visit another club, as no good "writing them off" after just one visit.
I do fancy The VA.
Our first 2 club visits were disappointing. We've since found clubs we love and clubs we won't rush back to.
We agree the VA looks great, going to get a trip there in December
I'd be interested to know your thoughts on it after your visit. I'm sure you'll have a great time "
Always a great night at VA  |
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"Following a reply from a different forum post, has anyone experienced scenarios that you thought were really hot in fantasy but wasn't as hot when it happened in reality?
The only one I've had happened like that was visiting a club. But maybe it was the club I went to, or the night I went."
though the thought of a gangbang sounds erotic - I know that i really wouldnt enjoy it - would be too self conscious. So I stay away. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Interesting answers. I do think a lot of it is down to connecting with the right type of people for yourself.
The club I visited and the "clientele" didn't quite live up to my expectations.
I do think I need to visit another club, as no good "writing them off" after just one visit.
I do fancy The VA.
Our first 2 club visits were disappointing. We've since found clubs we love and clubs we won't rush back to.
We agree the VA looks great, going to get a trip there in December
I'd be interested to know your thoughts on it after your visit. I'm sure you'll have a great time
Always a great night at VA "
Maybe I need to pay VA a visit, but don't think I'd ever dare go as a single fem  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll let you know if it ever happens haha 
Aww, are you not going to tell us what it is? "
OK OK just for you haha.. I've always fancied the 2 women thing, as most blokes do .. putting into reality is another matter though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following a reply from a different forum post, has anyone experienced scenarios that you thought were really hot in fantasy but wasn't as hot when it happened in reality?
The only one I've had happened like that was visiting a club. But maybe it was the club I went to, or the night I went."
This was my experience also!
People went on and on about this club and how much fun it was and we were super excited to get there!
Huge let down!!! I think it was night and clientele though rather than the club. We're going to try it out again one day! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'll let you know if it ever happens haha
Aww, are you not going to tell us what it is?
OK OK just for you haha.. I've always fancied the 2 women thing, as most blokes do .. putting into reality is another matter though "
Ah right, yes I should of guessed, a lot of men's fantasy. I've been fortunate in that I've experienced a few MFF I'm yet to try a MMF. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Something I did definitely did not live up to the fantasy.
indulge us then haha "
Haha not really the place to announce it. Only a couple of people know, and I'd rather keep it that way... I know, boring! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Something I did definitely did not live up to the fantasy.
indulge us then haha
Haha not really the place to announce it. Only a couple of people know, and I'd rather keep it that way... I know, boring! Lol. "
Respect to you. I never declare intimate details of things I've done either, I only tell certain "friends" . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll let you know if it ever happens haha
Aww, are you not going to tell us what it is?
OK OK just for you haha.. I've always fancied the 2 women thing, as most blokes do .. putting into reality is another matter though
Ah right, yes I should of guessed, a lot of men's fantasy. I've been fortunate in that I've experienced a few MFF I'm yet to try a MMF."
A few! jammy fucker haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Something I did definitely did not live up to the fantasy.
indulge us then haha
Haha not really the place to announce it. Only a couple of people know, and I'd rather keep it that way... I know, boring! Lol.
Respect to you. I never declare intimate details of things I've done either, I only tell certain "friends" ."
We girls need our secrets sometimes, eh OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh yes, I had a thing about being blindfolded so I allowed someone to try it with me. I felt like I was going to pass out, I'd never sweat so much and was uncontrollably shaking (not in a good way). I thought it'd be something of really enjoy, turns out not so much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh yes, I had a thing about being blindfolded so I allowed someone to try it with me. I felt like I was going to pass out, I'd never sweat so much and was uncontrollably shaking (not in a good way). I thought it'd be something of really enjoy, turns out not so much."
I'd really enjoy not of |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Following a reply from a different forum post, has anyone experienced scenarios that you thought were really hot in fantasy but wasn't as hot when it happened in reality?
The only one I've had happened like that was visiting a club. But maybe it was the club I went to, or the night I went."
it was not so much a fantasy, as more curiosity factor.... and I wasn't that impressed either...but I think it was the night I went on (it seemed rather quiet) and the actual place looked a bit tired and run down ....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Something I did definitely did not live up to the fantasy.
indulge us then haha
Haha not really the place to announce it. Only a couple of people know, and I'd rather keep it that way... I know, boring! Lol.
Respect to you. I never declare intimate details of things I've done either, I only tell certain "friends" .
We girls need our secrets sometimes, eh OP? "
Yes we most certainly do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'll let you know if it ever happens haha
Aww, are you not going to tell us what it is?
OK OK just for you haha.. I've always fancied the 2 women thing, as most blokes do .. putting into reality is another matter though
Ah right, yes I should of guessed, a lot of men's fantasy. I've been fortunate in that I've experienced a few MFF I'm yet to try a MMF.
A few! jammy fucker haha "
But I'm the one who has the advantage, as so many couples are seeking a single fem. All is good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll let you know if it ever happens haha
Aww, are you not going to tell us what it is?
OK OK just for you haha.. I've always fancied the 2 women thing, as most blokes do .. putting into reality is another matter though
Ah right, yes I should of guessed, a lot of men's fantasy. I've been fortunate in that I've experienced a few MFF I'm yet to try a MMF.
A few! jammy fucker haha
But I'm the one who has the advantage, as so many couples are seeking a single fem. All is good "
I'll stick to the single thing for now haha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'll let you know if it ever happens haha
Aww, are you not going to tell us what it is?
OK OK just for you haha.. I've always fancied the 2 women thing, as most blokes do .. putting into reality is another matter though
Ah right, yes I should of guessed, a lot of men's fantasy. I've been fortunate in that I've experienced a few MFF I'm yet to try a MMF.
A few! jammy fucker haha
But I'm the one who has the advantage, as so many couples are seeking a single fem. All is good
I'll stick to the single thing for now haha "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Following a reply from a different forum post, has anyone experienced scenarios that you thought were really hot in fantasy but wasn't as hot when it happened in reality?
The only one I've had happened like that was visiting a club. But maybe it was the club I went to, or the night I went.
it was not so much a fantasy, as more curiosity factor.... and I wasn't that impressed either...but I think it was the night I went on (it seemed rather quiet) and the actual place looked a bit tired and run down .... "
Maybe it was the same place. |
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DVP... was great for her, but I spent all my time trying to get my thrust timing right so I didn't get squeezed out, and trying to maintain an erection as I'd seen 4 guys try and fail before stepping into the breach.... and having a crowd of about 10 people watching didn't help either lol!  |
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