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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk it out with her. Make sure you yourself want this as well as her. Clarify your feelings over this to her. Do the talk in the lounge not in bed, discuss it fully in an open and honest manner. |
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By *az1Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Hi I'm looking for a cuckold/hotwife couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if you would like to read x |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Wife wants to then don't think she's playing mind games with me should I just arrange a meet with out her knowlage and let events take there course
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Talk about it see what is meant by cuckolding she may simply want to hotwife or try having another partner rather than the full cuck package of humiliation etc |
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By *az1Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"I think it's more sleeping with some else it's a hotwife scenario but we me being there giving my permission for her to do it "
Best to speak with her and discuss what your both looking for and take it from there.  |
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"Wife wants to then don't think she's playing mind games with me should I just arrange a meet with out her knowlage and let events take there course
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Never arrange a meet without her knowledge, that's disrespectful of her and the man you arrange to meet.
Talk to her because it looks like neither of you are communicating.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Complete openness and honesty is essential, anything else is a recipe for disaster.
We took it slowly a step at a time, flirting in pubs, dancing with others, dates. All the while sharing feelings, emotions, reactions beyond fantasies.
The rewards are amazing and have given us so much together as a couple but without the honesty I can see how it could be a minefield. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting definition of mind games OP. If she's not sure, the answer is no. You're her husband, she should be able to trust you, but you're thinking of springing something on her? So she's faced with two testosterone pumped men to say no to, instead of just one?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Complete openness and honesty is essential, anything else is a recipe for disaster.
We took it slowly a step at a time, flirting in pubs, dancing with others, dates. All the while sharing feelings, emotions, reactions beyond fantasies.
The rewards are amazing and have given us so much together as a couple but without the honesty I can see how it could be a minefield."
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