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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've never displayed mine only the number. To me I don't want anyone to no all the details of what happened.
But how does it look to everyone else?
Do people want to see others or ever even read them?
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I only show a few and I vary which ones I show. I do this because people were getting hassle from a whingey man who wanted to know why they wouldn't meet him when they'd met me so I hid a lot to prevent that. I also show the one that says I'm a shit shag because it will put the dur-brains off contacting me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us as a couple we use it as a bit of a measuring stick. You get a good idea about someone from them. Seeing the word "respect" in several verifications on a single guys profile gives us a little boost!
But also when we see loads and loads we say thanks but no thanks. That is loads in close succession such as a guy who had met three women in two days which we personally found a bit much lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never displayed mine only the number. To me I don't want anyone to no all the details of what happened.
But how does it look to everyone else?
Do people want to see others or ever even read them?
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I do like reading them but as long as you have them it's totally upto yourself if you wish to make them public x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't personally think it's any of my business who else someone has met. I don't generally read verifications and have no interest in the number that someone has. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I show a selection of mine. I hid them all recently after someone went through them to 'disprove' that I'm rarely free during weekday evenings by checking the days they were left  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never put any verification up. Never will. Cannot see any point in it. If a lady won't meet me because of a green tick then its her lose. I value my privacy and what goes on during my meets will remain private between myself and whoever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation.
Some people won't meet unless you're verified. I've been contacted by, and met, new people because of the veris.
I've possibly missed out on others because of them too, who knows?
Do what you feel is best - it's your profile!
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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We always read them, yes, but mainly to get a sense of how likely to be genuine someone is. It's difficult to fake a network of realistic veris.
As for the content, that's entirely secondary. You will only get a real sense of someone by meeting them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never put any verification up. Never will. Cannot see any point in it. If a lady won't meet me because of a green tick then its her lose. I value my privacy and what goes on during my meets will remain private between myself and whoever."
I'm curious, do you tell people not to verify you because if they leave a verification, you don't have to show it, but the green tick will still show. |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
I used to show mine but took them down and put summary up. I like to keep who I am meeting private now. My older veris had a theme of me not being sharing with cake. I liked them as it was tongue in cheek rather the tongue up the arse licking ones.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never put any verification up. Never will. Cannot see any point in it. If a lady won't meet me because of a green tick then its her lose. I value my privacy and what goes on during my meets will remain private between myself and whoever.
I'm curious, do you tell people not to verify you because if they leave a verification, you don't have to show it, but the green tick will still show."
Exactly. I cannot understand the point. Everybody I have met has been on the whole very nice....but I would hate it if somebody decided to meet me due to a verification by another person. They basically all read the same. |
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I'm not too fussed one way or the other about my own. Do like to show off a bit I guess.
I was concerned when I first joined about people with lots of veris but soon realised with club socials etc they don't all mean sex.
And yes, I do read the veris of others. Not to judge as such, but I like to see the personal touches that have been left. Dunno, gives me a warm fuzzy feeling!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My view would be different if I were single. But as part of a couple who plays with men, we need to know that the man is comfortable with couple play and understands the dynamics of playing with a MF couple. So ideally we look for men who have done this before, and the more experienced the better. Verifications are the first port of call to find this information out.
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"I've never displayed mine only the number. To me I don't want anyone to no all the details of what happened.
But how does it look to everyone else?
Do people want to see others or ever even read them?
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Very important those ppl give feed back about the person, if clean if not a nice person ,or oppersite they was fantastic ,I think it's very important and will not see un verified guys to be verified and not show them is about as useful as a chocolate fire guard  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For us as a couple we use it as a bit of a measuring stick. You get a good idea about someone from them. Seeing the word "respect" in several verifications on a single guys profile gives us a little boost!
But also when we see loads and loads we say thanks but no thanks. That is loads in close succession such as a guy who had met three women in two days which we personally found a bit much lol"
Could have met them all the same day at a party or club....? |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"It's a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation.
Some people won't meet unless you're verified. I've been contacted by, and met, new people because of the veris.
I've possibly missed out on others because of them too, who knows?
Do what you feel is best - it's your profile!
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You give such good ones too!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For us as a couple we use it as a bit of a measuring stick. You get a good idea about someone from them. Seeing the word "respect" in several verifications on a single guys profile gives us a little boost!
But also when we see loads and loads we say thanks but no thanks. That is loads in close succession such as a guy who had met three women in two days which we personally found a bit much lol
Could have met them all the same day at a party or club....?"
Oh quite, it fairly usual to go to a swing party and play with more than one person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i only show none graphic ones, i don't like ones that give step by step details of the meet
I feel as a single women showing a few clean ones help other wise people seem to assum your a man |
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Before being verified, we had a lot of accusations of timewaster/fake etc from people we declined, so when we did get one from a club trip we were proud to display it as we felt it vindicated us. And the same applies to every other one received , I guess. Some are fairly graphic, but I'd sum it up as they show us for what we are and what we do. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Very rarely ever show them. They are for our viewing only. Each meet is very different anyway
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I don't feel the need to. I have a green tick and I can do without more possessive messages. Also, people judge whether they are too few or too little. On the off chance someone really needs to see if I am genuine or not will show them but I've not encountered that so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For us as a couple we use it as a bit of a measuring stick. You get a good idea about someone from them. Seeing the word "respect" in several verifications on a single guys profile gives us a little boost!
But also when we see loads and loads we say thanks but no thanks. That is loads in close succession such as a guy who had met three women in two days which we personally found a bit much lol"
Seen it all now .... too many veris put you off for virtual fun ? |
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