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By *BC TWO OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago
Leicester / Birmingham /Bucks |
So I've seen a couple's profile and they have a status which says "Only white guys now after a bit of abuse from _lk guy"
Now in the past i've seen other profiles with similar messages along the lines of "we dont meet white guys because they've done this and that in the past"
So my question is...will they stop swinging all together if they received a bad experience from the opposite race?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny enough we're all part of the human race. It's just down to preference, nothing bad or racial about it either. Not everyone is tarnished with the same brush because of idiotic people that have nothing better to do other than give verbal abuse simply because they can't get their own way. Life goes on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is it assumed race is behind behavior, other more likely but also ridiculous things you could filter out would be career choice, area of upbringing, school attended, etc |
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By *lk GuyMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
It's all about your own preference
Some only want white guys some only black.its what rocks your boat and I get point of view if you have a meet with what you want and goes wrong I guess ul try again... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've seen a couple's profile and they have a status which says "Only white guys now after a bit of abuse from _lk guy"
Now in the past i've seen other profiles with similar messages along the lines of "we dont meet white guys because they've done this and that in the past"
So my question is...will they stop swinging all together if they received a bad experience from the opposite race? "
Yup. They're all as pathetic as each other. Massively turned off whenever a couple/woman mentions that they're "blacks only". It usually takes them all of 5 minutes for them to prove to me how juvenile their mentalities tend to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've seen a couple's profile and they have a status which says "Only white guys now after a bit of abuse from _lk guy"
Now in the past i've seen other profiles with similar messages along the lines of "we dont meet white guys because they've done this and that in the past"
So my question is...will they stop swinging all together if they received a bad experience from the opposite race? "
Our honest answer is that it completely down to their personal choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, as usual, you have the usual crop of idiots in here to claim that "its all about preference". God the lack of intellectual capacity on here irritates me to no end. Any black guy who has been here long enough has realized that its not "just about preference". 99% of the swingers I met who told me they never had sex with white men or never liked asians would, eventually without fail, start espousing racist nonsense or their "bad experiences with XXXX race" as soon as they felt comfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exclude an entire race because you've met a few from said race who've behaved badly, that's ridiculous on our book. "
Agreed. people have so many daft justifications for not meeting certain groups, we've given up trying to understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The most obnoxious person I met was a white marine. I still meet white marines. It's frankly bonkers to exclude a whole group of individuals using one handy label. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exclude an entire race because you've met a few from said race who've behaved badly, that's ridiculous on our book.
Agreed. people have so many daft justifications for not meeting certain groups, we've given up trying to understand. "
Daft is a clever way of putting it. I like to just call it bigotry. They can dress it up in nonsense all they like.
Nice profile pic btw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've seen a couple's profile and they have a status which says "Only white guys now after a bit of abuse from _lk guy"
Now in the past i've seen other profiles with similar messages along the lines of "we dont meet white guys because they've done this and that in the past"
So my question is...will they stop swinging all together if they received a bad experience from the opposite race? "
Not at all, we prefer to meet black men because that is our preference. We have had negative experiences with black men, just this is our personal preference and we appreciate that skin colour, like hair, eyes, etc, is not a reflection on everyone who has such similarities. |
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Some people argument is completely hollow and crass.someone preference and choice is link to bigotry and racist.
Minority of racist do hide under preference and choice.not everybody.
Don't tarred everyone with the same brush. Alot are genuine |
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By *asyukMan
over a year ago
West London |
Well there are physiological differences not limited to colour that distinguish different racial groups. I can completely understand that people will have different aesthetic preferences as a consequence.
The nonsense comes when they say that they are excluding an entire group due to "bad experiences". This can only be due to the actions of individuals and I very rarely hear that particular justification used for their own racial group. However, I'm not going to get on with those with a mind set that needs to pigeon hole and label in this way so it acts as a convenient filter 
For the record, no I am not moaning because I don't meet people. I meet a more than adequate number of interesting, fun and downright dirty people without these criteria  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've seen a couple's profile and they have a status which says "Only white guys now after a bit of abuse from _lk guy"
Now in the past i've seen other profiles with similar messages along the lines of "we dont meet white guys because they've done this and that in the past"
So my question is...will they stop swinging all together if they received a bad experience from the opposite race?
Yup. They're all as pathetic as each other. Massively turned off whenever a couple/woman mentions that they're "blacks only". It usually takes them all of 5 minutes for them to prove to me how juvenile their mentalities tend to be."
Yes but that might be thier specific kink , or current idea at the time, or it may be the only thing they can't find from within their existing kink circle ! It's like wanting to test drive a specific type of car . If you want a go at s Bugatti , your not going to advertise for a Porsche owner ! |
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By *az1Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Shouldn't exclude everyone of that gender or race ect because of 1 or 2 idiots who don't know how to behave. Fair enough your first experience or couple of experiences were bad but the next guy/women/couple you meet might be perfect for you. |
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The thing is people DO exclude based on the actions of a few. How many profiles have "no single men, we'll find you" because, even with filters they'll be bombarded by people outwith what they're looking for.
I don't meet anyone who doesn't accommodate. I don't care or need to know why, all that I know is no one comes into my house who doesn't invite me to theirs...and that change in meet criteria was due to the action of one individual. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I've seen a couple's profile and they have a status which says "Only white guys now after a bit of abuse from _lk guy"
Now in the past i've seen other profiles with similar messages along the lines of "we dont meet white guys because they've done this and that in the past"
So my question is...will they stop swinging all together if they received a bad experience from the opposite race? "
They may stop swinging in the future, they may have tried things and found that maybe swinging wasn't for them at all.. On the way to that stage they may state they don't want to meet a certain group, (that group might be black/white it might be large/skinny or bald/hairy, all these groups will contain nice people and not so nice people. The groups themselves tho are all based on physical characteristics that can be noticed when looking at them, people should always have the right to be selective and specific about what they are looking for or not looking for) nothing wrong with that tho.. try not to be bothered by how others express their feelings. They clearly aren't suitable for you but there will be plenty that are. Instead of building hate towards them, channel your energy into someone that will be more suitable for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has their preferences, be it race, hair colour, body shape, height etc. I see plenty of guys and couples profiles that say "no overweight people" or "looking for Asian girls" etc. I know what I like and have that on my profile as a preference, but have enjoyed playing with plenty of people who don't tick all of my preference - by chatting at clubs and parties and finding a connection that way. Let's not label people as racist or bigots just because they state what they do and don't feel drawn to x |
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I think that pretty much everyone is racist to one degree or another. Some to a tiny degree and would never insult or treat anyone badly. Others who are nasty to anyone "other" and some downright dangerous 
But having sex is pretty intimate. And not compulsory. So refusing to copulatensure with someone because of their race... shrug. It's allowed.
Fwiw, I would treat each person who approached me as an individual and if I didn't like them, it wouldn't be because of their race. |
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