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over a year ago
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Absolutely no idea what-so-ever. A couple of times friends have asked me why I wasn't responding to a ladies' flirtatious advances and I've just looked at them blankly in bewilderment and asked "what the 'ell was they on about". Subtlety is completely lost on me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I'm pretty good at spotting the signs that someone is sexually attracted to me. It's usually the sexual flirting, them staring at my breasts, their eyes tend to sparkle and they look a bit hot under the collar. It's a wonderful feeling when you know someone is attracted to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I genuinely need to be told 'I fancy you' etc for me to click on. I don't have the guts to make a move on anyone myself, fear of rejection"
exactly this! X
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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the first time I met a now regular play partner who happened to be rather chest heavy well that's a lie she has a magnificent chest .
I had to point out to her for the fun of it all the second looks she was getting even those she had a jumper on.
it really broke the ice between us and I'm sure its one of the main reasons we ended up becoming regular play partners.
as for myself I'm hard to read or so I've been told a bit of a cool cucumber which I have learn to use to my advantage  |
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"In the real world I am completely useless at picking up on any signals, anyone else have the same problem? "
I have missed many a rub over the years because of my ignorance of other people's signals |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely.
My friend sent me a meme thing and said it reminded her of me. A girl saying to her friend "that guy wanted to buy you a drink" and the friend saying "why, I already have one, I'm hungry though do you think he'll get me some nachos instead"  well it was something along those lines and that pretty much sums me up on recognising signs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely.
My friend sent me a meme thing and said it reminded her of me. A girl saying to her friend "that guy wanted to buy you a drink" and the friend saying "why, I already have one, I'm hungry though do you think he'll get me some nachos instead" well it was something along those lines and that pretty much sums me up on recognising signs. "
Hahaha :0) |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
With my stunning good looks, woman can't stop themselves from coming onto me but I'm so bad at picking up the signals, I don't even notice - to me it just seems that they walk by without even looking at me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it very hard picking up on signals - I'm on the autism spectrum so body language and facial expressions are difficult to pick up on.
Doesn't make swinging easy 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You literally have to be sitting on my face before I start to think you're attracted to me "
We went to a party recently. Wandered around trying to catch someone's eye. Then concluded nobody was interested so went off to play by ourselves... only for a lovely woman to suddenly plonk herself down on my face lol  That's how bad we are at it |
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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago
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I often have big problems recognising social cues of any description let alone sexual ones. My self confidence is pretty near zero too so even on the rare occasions it occurs to me someone's acting as if they *might* be interested, I'll then talk myself out of it on the basis I'm ugly, too old, too boring or whatever, and I've read the signals wrong. That combination means I generally have no clue someone's got their eye on me unless they make it crystal clear - preferably several times over until I believe them!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have found that over the past 3 or 4 years I get a lot of attention from the opposite sex and they seem to be more confident and blatant in their advances ...making it totally clear they're interested ....I never know how to react in return |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can never tell and with all honestly all except the one person who admitted it later, I have never found out if anyone else does like me
I do "
Why hello there  |
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"In the real world I am completely useless at picking up on any signals, anyone else have the same problem? "
I'm totally useless. And I'm even worse on Fab! If someone just doesn't come out and say they like me or make the first move then I will simply never know. Probably the main reason why I'm perennially single. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the real world I am completely useless at picking up on any signals, anyone else have the same problem?
I'm totally useless. And I'm even worse on Fab! If someone just doesn't come out and say they like me or make the first move then I will simply never know. Probably the main reason why I'm perennially single."
I fancy you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the real world I am completely useless at picking up on any signals, anyone else have the same problem?
I'm totally useless. And I'm even worse on Fab! If someone just doesn't come out and say they like me or make the first move then I will simply never know. Probably the main reason why I'm perennially single."
where's your famous socks gone? and that cum pic? 
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Amongst my friends I am known for being oblivious to people flirting with me without me knowing...my ex wife says I've missed out on getting laid since we split so many times because of this.. ..and yes I'm probably as bad on here  |
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