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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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other peoples perceptions of sluts s subjective.
also, how do you treat a slut?
i've had someone asked if i've been used, personally i hate being used and like to be the one in control but he based this on his perception of women who like 3sums.
generalisation is stupid. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?"
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics |
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics "
I think your generalising a little although having slut in the username would make me think that they may enjoy that scenario |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics "
nope still deserves respect... next question |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?
If you act like a 'dick' is it likely you will be treated like one?!"
What is your point, can you explain ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics nope still deserves respect... next question "
Nobody 'deserves ' respect, you earn respect |
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?
If you act like a 'dick' is it likely you will be treated like one?!
What is your point, can you explain ??"
It's the same question you asked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?
If you act like a 'dick' is it likely you will be treated like one?!
What is your point, can you explain ??"
i will.
you're coming across as a dick. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?
If you act like a 'dick' is it likely you will be treated like one?!
What is your point, can you explain ??
It's the same question you asked."
Never answer a question with a question  |
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics nope still deserves respect... next question
Nobody 'deserves ' respect, you earn respect "
Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?
If you act like a 'dick' is it likely you will be treated like one?!
What is your point, can you explain ??
i will.
you're coming across as a dick."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics nope still deserves respect... next question
Nobody 'deserves ' respect, you earn respect "
everyone deserves respect until they abuse that. think you've revoked your right to be respected now and i'm out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?
If you act like a 'dick' is it likely you will be treated like one?!
What is your point, can you explain ??"
Says it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?
If you act like a 'dick' is it likely you will be treated like one?!
What is your point, can you explain ??
i will.
you're coming across as a dick."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics nope still deserves respect... next question
Nobody 'deserves ' respect, you earn respect
Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?"
No, people earn respect, surely thats not a difficult concept to grasp |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?
If you act like a 'dick' is it likely you will be treated like one?!
What is your point, can you explain ??
i will.
you're coming across as a dick.
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics "
How do you think a woman like that should be treated? I'm guessing you're talking about women.
Personally I think that everyone should be treated with equal respect regardless of their (legal and consensual) sexual activities and I can't for the life of me imagine a reason why anyone would treat them any differently  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?
If you act like a 'dick' is it likely you will be treated like one?!
What is your point, can you explain ??
i will.
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you're coming across as a dick."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?
If you act like a 'dick' is it likely you will be treated like one?!
What is your point, can you explain ??
i will.
??
you're coming across as a dick. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
How do you think a woman like that should be treated? I'm guessing you're talking about women.
Personally I think that everyone should be treated with equal respect regardless of their (legal and consensual) sexual activities and I can't for the life of me imagine a reason why anyone would treat them any differently "
But if they act and want to be 'a slut' surely that's the way they want to be treated? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
How do you think a woman like that should be treated? I'm guessing you're talking about women.
Personally I think that everyone should be treated with equal respect regardless of their (legal and consensual) sexual activities and I can't for the life of me imagine a reason why anyone would treat them any differently "
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics nope still deserves respect... next question
Nobody 'deserves ' respect, you earn respect
Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No, people earn respect, surely thats not a difficult concept to grasp "
I didn't say it was  |
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
How do you think a woman like that should be treated? I'm guessing you're talking about women.
Personally I think that everyone should be treated with equal respect regardless of their (legal and consensual) sexual activities and I can't for the life of me imagine a reason why anyone would treat them any differently
But if they act and want to be 'a slut' surely that's the way they want to be treated?"
If you enlighten me as to your views on how a "slut" should be treated I can answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But if they act and want to be 'a slut' surely that's the way they want to be treated?"
I think that everyone is different, and you should talk to the individual and find out how they want to be treated.
Doing anything else makes you a dick. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
How do you think a woman like that should be treated? I'm guessing you're talking about women.
Personally I think that everyone should be treated with equal respect regardless of their (legal and consensual) sexual activities and I can't for the life of me imagine a reason why anyone would treat them any differently
But if they act and want to be 'a slut' surely that's the way they want to be treated?
If you enlighten me as to your views on how a "slut" should be treated I can answer."
I don't know, hence the thread, I am open to thoughts and ideas |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics nope still deserves respect... next question
Nobody 'deserves ' respect, you earn respect
Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No, people earn respect, surely thats not a difficult concept to grasp
I didn't say it was "
What's your point then |
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics nope still deserves respect... next question
Nobody 'deserves ' respect, you earn respect
Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No, people earn respect, surely thats not a difficult concept to grasp
I didn't say it was
What's your point then "
No point, I just asked the question Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No need to answer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics nope still deserves respect... next question
Nobody 'deserves ' respect, you earn respect
Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No, people earn respect, surely thats not a difficult concept to grasp
I didn't say it was
What's your point then
No point, I just asked the question Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No need to answer"
I did answer, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Loads of dodgy threads tonight! Think some are in a right mood
I as thinking the exact same thing
It's been all week! 
It's only Monday so guess you're right"
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics "
ok op your entitled to your opinion but I just want to point a few things out first of all read this """“A woman isn't a whore for wanting pleasure. If it were unnatural, we would not be born with such drives.”
secondly all words like slut whore what ever are not meant in the context you seem to think they are when you see them in profiles .such words are about mental play mental stimulation sapiosexuality another word I guess will go straight over your head.
Jesus fella are you really as immature as this forum post paints you out to be .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
How do you think a woman like that should be treated? I'm guessing you're talking about women.
Personally I think that everyone should be treated with equal respect regardless of their (legal and consensual) sexual activities and I can't for the life of me imagine a reason why anyone would treat them any differently
But if they act and want to be 'a slut' surely that's the way they want to be treated?
If you enlighten me as to your views on how a "slut" should be treated I can answer.
I don't know, hence the thread, I am open to thoughts and ideas "
we cant answer your question if you can't define in your mind what acting like a slut and being treated like one is.
Are you talking about greedy girls in a club environment? Are you talking about girls who "reveal" alot in public or on a night out. Are you talking about promiscuous girls?
All btw deserve respect. whether they want to be called a slut in private to fulfil a fantasy is their choice and not how you wish to degrade them.
It's closed mindedness and shaming which causes such a high imbalance between men and women on here! Feeling afraid of some women wanting to explore their desires, thankgod for the strong women on here that deal with countless messages and abuse from close minded people so they can meet some more "genuine guys" |
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
How do you think a woman like that should be treated? I'm guessing you're talking about women.
Personally I think that everyone should be treated with equal respect regardless of their (legal and consensual) sexual activities and I can't for the life of me imagine a reason why anyone would treat them any differently
But if they act and want to be 'a slut' surely that's the way they want to be treated?
If you enlighten me as to your views on how a "slut" should be treated I can answer.
I don't know, hence the thread, I am open to thoughts and ideas "
Ok. Here are my thoughts and ideas.
Each woman is an individual and its impossible to tell how she wants to be treated unless you communicate with her openly and respectfully.
Some women like to be treated a certain way during sex, be guided by them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I consider myself to be a slut. But I don't regard that to be a derogatory term. I love men, I love variety and I love because being used by a group of men and women. But I also love being treated like a princess and I'm extremely picky. I treat men well and they treat me well. I regard it that I am sexually liberated. But we only mix with men who understand. I'm sure there are men who would treat me like a slag, but we avoid those men.
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics "
Not sure what your point is?
I guess if you regard the word 'slut' as an insult? Everyone is different. Some love it and some hate it. But no need to judge either!
If a woman has 100s of verifications with lots of partners, and enjoys exhibiting her body on a website that is for consenting adults, good for her!!
So what if she continuously looks for meets? You threatened by that?
You don't have to meet her or even look at her pictures!
What difference does it make to your day how many men she chooses to fuck?
And IF she likes being treated as a slut then all power to her! She is in control of her own sexuality! And she certainly needs neither our permission or acceptance!
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"I consider myself to be a slut. But I don't regard that to be a derogatory term. I love men, I love variety and I love because being used by a group of men and women. But I also love being treated like a princess and I'm extremely picky. I treat men well and they treat me well. I regard it that I am sexually liberated. But we only mix with men who understand. I'm sure there are men who would treat me like a slag, but we avoid those men.
Mrs"
Good for you!!! |
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"No point, I just asked the question Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No need to answer
I did answer, "
It's a yes/no question and you didn't answer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
How do you think a woman like that should be treated? I'm guessing you're talking about women.
Personally I think that everyone should be treated with equal respect regardless of their (legal and consensual) sexual activities and I can't for the life of me imagine a reason why anyone would treat them any differently
But if they act and want to be 'a slut' surely that's the way they want to be treated?
If you enlighten me as to your views on how a "slut" should be treated I can answer.
I don't know, hence the thread, I am open to thoughts and ideas
Ok. Here are my thoughts and ideas.
Each woman is an individual and its impossible to tell how she wants to be treated unless you communicate with her openly and respectfully.
Some women like to be treated a certain way during sex, be guided by them."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No point, I just asked the question Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No need to answer
I did answer,
It's a yes/no question and you didn't answer "
Try reading my reply above |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
Not sure what your point is?
I guess if you regard the word 'slut' as an insult? Everyone is different. Some love it and some hate it. But no need to judge either!
If a woman has 100s of verifications with lots of partners, and enjoys exhibiting her body on a website that is for consenting adults, good for her!!
So what if she continuously looks for meets? You threatened by that?
You don't have to meet her or even look at her pictures!
What difference does it make to your day how many men she chooses to fuck?
And IF she likes being treated as a slut then all power to her! She is in control of her own sexuality! And she certainly needs neither our permission or acceptance!
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Bloody well said |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
Not sure what your point is?
I guess if you regard the word 'slut' as an insult? Everyone is different. Some love it and some hate it. But no need to judge either!
If a woman has 100s of verifications with lots of partners, and enjoys exhibiting her body on a website that is for consenting adults, good for her!!
So what if she continuously looks for meets? You threatened by that?
You don't have to meet her or even look at her pictures!
What difference does it make to your day how many men she chooses to fuck?
And IF she likes being treated as a slut then all power to her! She is in control of her own sexuality! And she certainly needs neither our permission or acceptance!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
ok op your entitled to your opinion but I just want to point a few things out first of all read this """“A woman isn't a whore for wanting pleasure. If it were unnatural, we would not be born with such drives.”
secondly all words like slut whore what ever are not meant in the context you seem to think they are when you see them in profiles .such words are about mental play mental stimulation sapiosexuality another word I guess will go straight over your head.
Jesus fella are you really as immature as this forum post paints you out to be .
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Are the insults necessary? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nothing wrong with a "slut". I don't even know why that word exists. Everyone loves sex, but if you admit it, you're a slut. Lol makes no sense"
That's true, and context is important, it's a fine line between being insulting and giving someone what they want? |
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"No point, I just asked the question Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No need to answer
I did answer,
It's a yes/no question and you didn't answer
Try reading my reply above "
I did. I'm going with Yes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No point, I just asked the question Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No need to answer
I did answer,
It's a yes/no question and you didn't answer
Try reading my reply above
I did. I'm going with Yes "
Should have gone to spec savers, the first work in my reply was No, try reading again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics "
Of course a woman with a profile like that will get treated differently to a woman with demure pics and non-sexual profile text. |
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The problem I have with anyome who thinks like this is this:
Some women, have found that this scene has given them a new lease of life where they have finally been able to discover their own sexual beauty and have the confidence to show it off!
Think about the words you use and how society feeds this myth:
'...acting like a slut....100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics'
Who are you? Where did you get this belief from? You want to be the first? Find a virgin! You are on a swingers site. Why? If such women are offensive to you?
Do you realise that some women will be affected by this and remove their photos or hide their profile because you shamed them? But they have no reason to be ashamed. They have every right to express their sexuality in anyway they choose as long as it is with consenting adults! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Misconceptions and assumptions are rife on here.
I've been spoken to like a slut purely because I'm on a "sex site".
I would say, treat all women equally, with respect, until you know how they want to be treated. If that suits you and her, then all is well and good. |
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
Of course a woman with a profile like that will get treated differently to a woman with demure pics and non-sexual profile text. "
Omg, can you say such a thing on here |
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
ok op your entitled to your opinion but I just want to point a few things out first of all read this """“A woman isn't a whore for wanting pleasure. If it were unnatural, we would not be born with such drives.”
secondly all words like slut whore what ever are not meant in the context you seem to think they are when you see them in profiles .such words are about mental play mental stimulation sapiosexuality another word I guess will go straight over your head.
Jesus fella are you really as immature as this forum post paints you out to be .
Are the insults necessary? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing wrong with a "slut". I don't even know why that word exists. Everyone loves sex, but if you admit it, you're a slut. Lol makes no sense
That's true, and context is important, it's a fine line between being insulting and giving someone what they want? "
Absolutely. Basically you can't win. If you talk slutty you'll get your head bitten off for making assumptions. If you talk in non-sexual terms you'll get your head bitten off for being boring. |
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It's entirely subjective - and I sometimes have thought about changing my username, but have been here so many years, it doesn't seem worth it.
As for peoples' behaviour - we do all influence others, all of the time. But how we respond to that influence is down to our own rules and choices, experience etc.
Would you choose to treat someone else without respect? I wouldn't generally, despite people potentially showing disrespect to me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The problem I have with anyome who thinks like this is this:
Some women, have found that this scene has given them a new lease of life where they have finally been able to discover their own sexual beauty and have the confidence to show it off!
Think about the words you use and how society feeds this myth:
'...acting like a slut....100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics'
Who are you? Where did you get this belief from? You want to be the first? Find a virgin! You are on a swingers site. Why? If such women are offensive to you?
Do you realise that some women will be affected by this and remove their photos or hide their profile because you shamed them? But they have no reason to be ashamed. They have every right to express their sexuality in anyway they choose as long as it is with consenting adults! "
Where and when did I say they 'didn't have the right'?? Get of your soap box and actually read what I have written  |
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"No point, I just asked the question Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No need to answer
I did answer,
It's a yes/no question and you didn't answer
Try reading my reply above
I did. I'm going with Yes
Should have gone to spec savers, the first work in my reply was No, try reading again "
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"No point, I just asked the question Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No need to answer
I did answer,
It's a yes/no question and you didn't answer
Try reading my reply above
I did. I'm going with Yes
Should have gone to spec savers, the first work in my reply was No, try reading again
Followed by people earn it, therefore starting form a point of no respect until it's earned "
its time to ignore your replies if you can't read, sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics nope still deserves respect... next question "
Why does 100s of verifications make you a slut....? Surely that just means you are successfully using the site?
I had 230+ on my old profile....can a guy be a slut? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
ok op your entitled to your opinion but I just want to point a few things out first of all read this """“A woman isn't a whore for wanting pleasure. If it were unnatural, we would not be born with such drives.”
secondly all words like slut whore what ever are not meant in the context you seem to think they are when you see them in profiles .such words are about mental play mental stimulation sapiosexuality another word I guess will go straight over your head.
Jesus fella are you really as immature as this forum post paints you out to be .
Are the insults necessary?
Oh the irony!!! "
Who have I insulted? Please explain?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics nope still deserves respect... next question
Why does 100s of verifications make you a slut....? Surely that just means you are successfully using the site?
I had 230+ on my old profile....can a guy be a slut?"
Yep, the verifications are only part of the picture |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nothing wrong with a "slut". I don't even know why that word exists. Everyone loves sex, but if you admit it, you're a slut. Lol makes no sense
That's true, and context is important, it's a fine line between being insulting and giving someone what they want?
Absolutely. Basically you can't win. If you talk slutty you'll get your head bitten off for making assumptions. If you talk in non-sexual terms you'll get your head bitten off for being boring. "
Again this is risky stuff to write on here, why are you not getting shot down in flames |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP you haven't actually said anything offensive, you've asked a question and made a simple comment about your opinion on respect being earned. It's everyone else that has 'filled in the blanks' and insinuated that you are saying something that you actually haven't.
Interesting thread. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP you haven't actually said anything offensive, you've asked a question and made a simple comment about your opinion on respect being earned. It's everyone else that has 'filled in the blanks' and insinuated that you are saying something that you actually haven't.
Interesting thread. "
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"OP you haven't actually said anything offensive, you've asked a question and made a simple comment about your opinion on respect being earned. It's everyone else that has 'filled in the blanks' and insinuated that you are saying something that you actually haven't.
Interesting thread. "
Completely agree |
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"OP you haven't actually said anything offensive, you've asked a question and made a simple comment about your opinion on respect being earned. It's everyone else that has 'filled in the blanks' and insinuated that you are saying something that you actually haven't.
Interesting thread.
Completely agree"
Have you noticed how quiet it has gone |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics "
I personally hate the word because a lot of people use it
as offensive term or as a means to belittle any women who so desires to portray sexuality.
it indicates that they are easy and cannot say no. On fab this is clearly not the case as many women turn down men who are desperate.
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the definitions
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thedic' definition varies but the English definition not the Skadinavian (which means finish or end of; Slut line: finish line or slut spurt: sale now ending) comes from the world slutten which means 'dirty' or 'sooty'. Or Slatten 'a women of low charecter or who lacks the ability or chooses not to exercise a power of autonamy or concent over her body' in one northern dialect.
American heritage dictionary - '1. Often Offensive A person considered to be sexually promiscuous.
2. Archaic'
'Cambridge - slang disapproving a woman who has sexual relationships with a lot of men without any emotional involvement. › UK very informal disapproving a woman who is usually untidy and lazy.'
The ethical Slut( a humanist book aimed towards the lifestyle communities)
'A slut is a person who has taken control of their sexuality and has sex with whomever they choose, regardless of religious or social pressures or conventions to conform to a straight-laced monogamous lifestyle committed to one partner for life. The term has been " taken back" to express the rejection of the concept that government, society, or religion may judge or control one's personal liberties, and the right'
Dictionary.com "Informal. a person with a seemingly
insatiable but often undiscerning desire to
do or have something specified..." |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?"
I think the conclusion of this discussion, dear OP, is that before you proceed to treat a "slut" how you think they like/expect/deserve to be treated, you should check that their definition of "slut" matches with yours. to communication. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?"
Isn't a slut someone whose not too hot on housework? Or have I been labouring under the wrong group impression for years? |
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over a year ago
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"If you act like 'a slut' is it likely you will be treated like one ?
I think the conclusion of this discussion, dear OP, is that before you proceed to treat a "slut" how you think they like/expect/deserve to be treated, you should check that their definition of "slut" matches with yours. to communication."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
I personally hate the word because a lot of people use it
as offensive term or as a means to belittle any women who so desires to portray sexuality.
it indicates that they are easy and cannot say no. On fab this is clearly not the case as many women turn down men who are desperate.
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the definitions
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thedic' definition varies but the English definition not the Skadinavian (which means finish or end of; Slut line: finish line or slut spurt: sale now ending) comes from the world slutten which means 'dirty' or 'sooty'. Or Slatten 'a women of low charecter or who lacks the ability or chooses not to exercise a power of autonamy or concent over her body' in one northern dialect.
American heritage dictionary - '1. Often Offensive A person considered to be sexually promiscuous.
2. Archaic'
'Cambridge - slang disapproving a woman who has sexual relationships with a lot of men without any emotional involvement. › UK very informal disapproving a woman who is usually untidy and lazy.'
The ethical Slut( a humanist book aimed towards the lifestyle communities)
'A slut is a person who has taken control of their sexuality and has sex with whomever they choose, regardless of religious or social pressures or conventions to conform to a straight-laced monogamous lifestyle committed to one partner for life. The term has been " taken back" to express the rejection of the concept that government, society, or religion may judge or control one's personal liberties, and the right'
Dictionary.com "Informal. a person with a seemingly
insatiable but often undiscerning desire to
do or have something specified...""
Even bad threads can be liberating
This is a swingers site op...sex is driven from your imagination and beliefs... it's up to each person how they swing or how they get entangled in their own hang up's
Accept what's not your thing and move on without judgement or challenge your attitude and push your boundaries. It's liberating to say the least. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
I personally hate the word because a lot of people use it
as offensive term or as a means to belittle any women who so desires to portray sexuality.
it indicates that they are easy and cannot say no. On fab this is clearly not the case as many women turn down men who are desperate.
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the definitions
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thedic' definition varies but the English definition not the Skadinavian (which means finish or end of; Slut line: finish line or slut spurt: sale now ending) comes from the world slutten which means 'dirty' or 'sooty'. Or Slatten 'a women of low charecter or who lacks the ability or chooses not to exercise a power of autonamy or concent over her body' in one northern dialect.
American heritage dictionary - '1. Often Offensive A person considered to be sexually promiscuous.
2. Archaic'
'Cambridge - slang disapproving a woman who has sexual relationships with a lot of men without any emotional involvement. › UK very informal disapproving a woman who is usually untidy and lazy.'
The ethical Slut( a humanist book aimed towards the lifestyle communities)
'A slut is a person who has taken control of their sexuality and has sex with whomever they choose, regardless of religious or social pressures or conventions to conform to a straight-laced monogamous lifestyle committed to one partner for life. The term has been " taken back" to express the rejection of the concept that government, society, or religion may judge or control one's personal liberties, and the right'
Dictionary.com "Informal. a person with a seemingly
insatiable but often undiscerning desire to
do or have something specified..."
Even bad threads can be liberating
This is a swingers site op...sex is driven from your imagination and beliefs... it's up to each person how they swing or how they get entangled in their own hang up's
Accept what's not your thing and move on without judgement or challenge your attitude and push your boundaries. It's liberating to say the least."
??? At what point did I say it was a bad thing? At what point did I say it wasn't my thing? At what point did I say it isn't up to a person how they swing?? |
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over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics "
When you classified what a slut is in your opinion!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
When you classified what a slut is in your opinion!!!!"
What do you mean |
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over a year ago
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"If a lady has "slut" in her username it doesn't mean I treat them any less politely than anyone else. They are human and as such get my respect "
Fair point, and does that approach tend to work ?? |
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
When you classified what a slut is in your opinion!!!!
What do you mean "
Again this is the swing section not the merry go round! You keep circling as you don't seem to want other opinions than your own which begs the question why put up this post but I think I can guess that answer myself. Yawn |
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"If a lady has "slut" in her username it doesn't mean I treat them any less politely than anyone else. They are human and as such get my respect
Fair point, and does that approach tend to work ??"
Of course. Respect is everything |
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over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
When you classified what a slut is in your opinion!!!!
What do you mean
Again this is the swing section not the merry go round! You keep circling as you don't seem to want other opinions than your own which begs the question why put up this post but I think I can guess that answer myself. Yawn "
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over a year ago
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"If a lady has "slut" in her username it doesn't mean I treat them any less politely than anyone else. They are human and as such get my respect
Fair point, and does that approach tend to work ??
Of course. Respect is everything"
Fair enough, if it works then stick with it |
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Just because someone likes to be treated like a slut in the bedroom or in a scenario it doesn't make them a slut in real life! When we play Jaz loves being called and so say treated like a slut but that is in the bedroom, role play if you like. Outside of that scenario she is a very classy lady!  |
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"a slut is some one that loves sex with the right people a slag is she will fuck any one. a slut acts like one when having sex but a normal lady in real life"
For fucks sake I have seen it all now an explanation of the difference between a slut and a slag both terms I find offensive. Interestingly does your slag description extend to men who will fuck anyone as there are plenty of those gents on here?
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He's not said a slut is a bad thing.
But I am concerned he wouldn't give respect to anyone until they've earned it. I wouldn't want to go to a meet on that basis, to be honest.
As far as how you should treat any type of woman? Umm ask them? Guessing leads to all sorts of trouble. But that involves respecting their feelings, and you don't respect them until they've earned it and yeah... good luck with that. |
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"a slut is some one that loves sex with the right people a slag is she will fuck any one. a slut acts like one when having sex but a normal lady in real life"
Totally this
We are very choosy as to who we invite to join us....there has to be an element of mind stimulation as well ....best scenarios usually get a meet |
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"a slut is some one that loves sex with the right people a slag is she will fuck any one. a slut acts like one when having sex but a normal lady in real life"
Could we stop using these old fashioned and deeply unpleasant names for women who enjoy sex please? (Unless of course the woman in question has *specifically* said that she likes it.)
It makes the people using those words sound like a dinosaur with no respect for women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He's not said a slut is a bad thing.
But I am concerned he wouldn't give respect to anyone until they've earned it. I wouldn't want to go to a meet on that basis, to be honest.
As far as how you should treat any type of woman? Umm ask them? Guessing leads to all sorts of trouble. But that involves respecting their feelings, and you don't respect them until they've earned it and yeah... good luck with that."
Your right, I haven't realy thought that through or worded it in the correct way. Of course everyone should be treated in the correct manner no matter if you respect them or not but respect is something that I feel should be earned not given. My interpretation of respect may differ from others |
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I don't like the word 'slut' and hate the word 'slag.' When used to describe a woman I think it is demeaning, the ultimate insult. Non of us are perfect, even if some on here think they are. But that doesn't give us the right to question other people on their morals. |
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over a year ago
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"I don't like the word 'slut' and hate the word 'slag.' When used to describe a woman I think it is demeaning, the ultimate insult. Non of us are perfect, even if some on here think they are. But that doesn't give us the right to question other people on their morals."
What if the person likes being called a slut or slag and had a username with either word in it? |
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
How do you think a woman like that should be treated? I'm guessing you're talking about women.
Personally I think that everyone should be treated with equal respect regardless of their (legal and consensual) sexual activities and I can't for the life of me imagine a reason why anyone would treat them any differently
But if they act and want to be 'a slut' surely that's the way they want to be treated?"
Do you hate women or something?
How does a slut deserve to be treated?
What are you then? How do you deserve to be treated? |
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
How do you think a woman like that should be treated? I'm guessing you're talking about women.
Personally I think that everyone should be treated with equal respect regardless of their (legal and consensual) sexual activities and I can't for the life of me imagine a reason why anyone would treat them any differently
But if they act and want to be 'a slut' surely that's the way they want to be treated?
Do you hate women or something?
How does a slut deserve to be treated?
What are you then? How do you deserve to be treated?"
Nope I don't hate women, do you??do me and yourself a favour and try and read the thread |
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
How do you think a woman like that should be treated? I'm guessing you're talking about women.
Personally I think that everyone should be treated with equal respect regardless of their (legal and consensual) sexual activities and I can't for the life of me imagine a reason why anyone would treat them any differently
But if they act and want to be 'a slut' surely that's the way they want to be treated?
Do you hate women or something?
How does a slut deserve to be treated?
What are you then? How do you deserve to be treated?
Nope I don't hate women, do you??do me and yourself a favour and try and read the thread "
I have...this is why I asked the question?
Loads of men hold the attitude that a woman is a slut if she likes to fuck guys, lots of these guys say it with contempt in their hearts..As in they use it in a derogatory sense.
I think I asked a perfectly reasonable question to be honest |
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over a year ago
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics
How do you think a woman like that should be treated? I'm guessing you're talking about women.
Personally I think that everyone should be treated with equal respect regardless of their (legal and consensual) sexual activities and I can't for the life of me imagine a reason why anyone would treat them any differently
But if they act and want to be 'a slut' surely that's the way they want to be treated?
Do you hate women or something?
How does a slut deserve to be treated?
What are you then? How do you deserve to be treated?
Nope I don't hate women, do you??do me and yourself a favour and try and read the thread
I have...this is why I asked the question?
Loads of men hold the attitude that a woman is a slut if she likes to fuck guys, lots of these guys say it with contempt in their hearts..As in they use it in a derogatory sense.
I think I asked a perfectly reasonable question to be honest "
yeah i do to..no response to the definition questiong, that i can see, so i guess he just wants drama..its not what people say i find, its the way that they say it and that is very hard to read correctly, over text comments |
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"a slut is some one that loves sex with the right people a slag is she will fuck any one. a slut acts like one when having sex but a normal lady in real life
Totally this
We are very choosy as to who we invite to join us....there has to be an element of mind stimulation as well ....best scenarios usually get a meet"
Whether someone enjoys being called slut, slag, whore during sex or non of those names, they will still have a mind. There's some strange thought processes on here sometimes.
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"What do you class as acting like a slut OP?
Have 100s of verifications, having a username like cumslut etc, continuously looking for meets, a profile full of graphic open legged pics "
At what point are they a slut?
100 fucks?
200 fucks?
300?
And what was it about that one Extra fuck that makes the difference?
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We play...I am his slut, at other times he is my slut. When I use the word it means he can take his pleasure. Other times the word is not used. When we use it I get turned on so much. When he is my slut I use toys to pleasure him. We do not degrade each other, we play and laugh, we have great sex. |
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According to the urban dictionary, a slut is a woman who has the morals of a man..lol
So, judging by that definition, sluts must be treated like men! Heaven help them...
I'm not sure that is the actual definition though...
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"No point, I just asked the question Are you one of those guys who likes to meet women on here but has little respect for them BECAUSE they are on here?
No need to answer
I did answer,
It's a yes/no question and you didn't answer
Try reading my reply above
I did. I'm going with Yes
Should have gone to spec savers, the first work in my reply was No, try reading again
Followed by people earn it, therefore starting form a point of no respect until it's earned
its time to ignore your replies if you can't read, sorry "
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"we not talking about men are we if you want to chat about men sluts start a thread"
why cant men be sluts too, maybe they like it..or maybe they dont..like some women..lets not get sexist here...or peeps will get their placards out for slut discrimination and slag rights...
mmmmmmm what about trollope. i think thats a great label...or maybe i dont need someone else's approval to have sex and i dont have to report to anyone saying how often or who with...autonomy is scary for some people... |
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"If a lady has "slut" in her username it doesn't mean I treat them any less politely than anyone else. They are human and as such get my respect "
this pretty much sums it..
this aspect is not for most people a lifestyle where its 24 hrs a day and 7 days a week etc..
the persona's we adapt in role play or when we want to fulfil a fantasy are not the same as when we are out doing the shopping or at a family social..
respect for other's stems from self respect..
and respect as a person is not the same as respect as a work colleague or team member.. |
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"we not talking about men are we if you want to chat about men sluts start a thread why cant men be sluts too, maybe they like it..or maybe they dont..like some women..lets not get sexist here...or peeps will get their placards out for slut discrimination and slag rights...
mmmmmmm what about trollope. i think thats a great label...or maybe i dont need someone else's approval to have sex and i dont have to report to anyone saying how often or who with...autonomy is scary for some people... "
My OH loves to be known as a slut is it because he is bi and this is how he is with other men? He loves me calling him my slut and various other nasty names ..... |
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"we not talking about men are we if you want to chat about men sluts start a thread why cant men be sluts too, maybe they like it..or maybe they dont..like some women..lets not get sexist here...or peeps will get their placards out for slut discrimination and slag rights...
mmmmmmm what about trollope. i think thats a great label...or maybe i dont need someone else's approval to have sex and i dont have to report to anyone saying how often or who with...autonomy is scary for some people...
My OH loves to be known as a slut is it because he is bi and this is how he is with other men? He loves me calling him my slut and various other nasty names ..... "
exactly..names can be for anyone who likes them xx |
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Cumslut slagslut numbslut ffs it don't make anyone anything at all it's a username ,ameet has ended ppl go home back to there everyday life's .respect don't have to be earned as nobody has to justify anything to anybody ,imo not really a post ,it's to get a rise |
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