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Are women sex mad like men?
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over a year ago
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Most definetly there are women out there who are sex mad, myselh being one of them.
I often joke that I have a mans brain as sex is always on my mind, also there's a lot worse things to have on your mind all day  |
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"If only don't think mine gives it a second thought unless she wants something lol"
Surely she must, after all she has a couples profile with you on here |
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"Most definetly there are women out there who are sex mad, myselh being one of them.
I often joke that I have a mans brain as sex is always on my mind, also there's a lot worse things to have on your mind all day "
That's so hot. Knowing that you love sex |
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"I think about sex quite a lot, without feeling I have to have it. I take my sex life very seriously and won't have sex for the sake of it. "
I'm exactly like that. I think about sex a lot. And love it. But I'm very fussy. As I think everyone should be. I hate some lads who say they had sex with someone cos they needed a fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive. "
i dont know what you mean by 'sleep around'.. the way men do..what does that mean..how many is sleeping around..? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive.
i dont know what you mean by 'sleep around'.. the way men do..what does that mean..how many is sleeping around..? "
We can't be seen as equivalent to a man, by some men. If we have a lot of partners, we have a mental health issue. If a man does it he's a hero. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive.
i dont know what you mean by 'sleep around'.. the way men do..what does that mean..how many is sleeping around..?
We can't be seen as equivalent to a man, by some men. If we have a lot of partners, we have a mental health issue. If a man does it he's a hero. "
ahh glad you cleared that up..thanks.. 
i have a high sexd rive..sometimes its referred to as a 'disorder' called nymphomania..i thought its one disorder most men would be grateful for in a woman..obviously not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive.
i dont know what you mean by 'sleep around'.. the way men do..what does that mean..how many is sleeping around..? "
Quite frankly, in my experiences, whenever I met couples on here I always had pretty solid experiences. Straightforward, no nonsense, great people...etc.
Whenever I meet single women who swing there tends to be alot of oddballs. Most of the time they're either expecting a relationships through this site or their sleeping around as revenge against a partner. I use the "hypergamy" example because sexuality for a female is complex, requiring the right kinda man and the right kinda chemistry, You DONT get that when one attempts to sleep with multiple different guys...unless most of these guys are high caliber...which is unlikely.
Guys are alot less picky and it reflects in the nature of the demographics, the fact that men struggle compared to women on here...hell, its reflected in the ratio of "fabs".
I am kinda tired of women on here trying to reinvent the wheel when it comes to sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive.
i dont know what you mean by 'sleep around'.. the way men do..what does that mean..how many is sleeping around..?
We can't be seen as equivalent to a man, by some men. If we have a lot of partners, we have a mental health issue. If a man does it he's a hero. "
TBH I think the desire for validation and compensation applies to both men and women who sleep around excessively. I see that first hand in myself any many of my friends.
However, the difference with men is that sexual promiscuity tends to require multiple other qualities to make them more appealing. As much as people on here want to lie to themselves, you only need to look at the "top fabs" list to see that looks and size matter. In the "vanilla" world, better looking richer men with some kind of social proof will always have greater options. It is not the sleeping around but the fact that men tend to have numerous qualities that make them attractive to multiple women.
For women on the other hand, there is no challenge or effort in sleeping with multiple men. Nothing is achieved. One simply opens their legs...this is reflected by the fact that most women I talk to on here will tell me they rarely, rarely message other men. Things that come easy become old...for everyone. I tend to find for many women sex ends up working like a drug/cheap fast food...plenty are simply chasing a fix. Add to that the disparities in testosterone between the exes also figuring largely in how driven men and women are when it comes to pursuing sexual encounters. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive.
i dont know what you mean by 'sleep around'.. the way men do..what does that mean..how many is sleeping around..?
Quite frankly, in my experiences, whenever I met couples on here I always had pretty solid experiences. Straightforward, no nonsense, great people...etc.
Whenever I meet single women who swing there tends to be alot of oddballs. Most of the time they're either expecting a relationships through this site or their sleeping around as revenge against a partner. I use the "hypergamy" example because sexuality for a female is complex, requiring the right kinda man and the right kinda chemistry, You DONT get that when one attempts to sleep with multiple different guys...unless most of these guys are high caliber...which is unlikely.
Guys are alot less picky and it reflects in the nature of the demographics, the fact that men struggle compared to women on here...hell, its reflected in the ratio of "fabs".
I am kinda tired of women on here trying to reinvent the wheel when it comes to sex. "
i have two beautiful high calibre guys as fwb's. i meet with a couple of couples and i would meet again some single females and occasionally other single guys, i develop caring reciprocal relationships with all these people.. and i do play with others, with those fwb's too..
im tired of people saying its not possible...what you are, what you put in, what time and consideration you show people, is what you get out..i love them all...i dont need to 'have' them to myself, to feel that way.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive.
i dont know what you mean by 'sleep around'.. the way men do..what does that mean..how many is sleeping around..?
We can't be seen as equivalent to a man, by some men. If we have a lot of partners, we have a mental health issue. If a man does it he's a hero. ahh glad you cleared that up..thanks..
i have a high sexd rive..sometimes its referred to as a 'disorder' called nymphomania..i thought its one disorder most men would be grateful for in a woman..obviously not "
a lot of guys like the idea of sex whenever they want it, but not many can handle actual sex addiction, can't say i blame them either. |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive.
i dont know what you mean by 'sleep around'.. the way men do..what does that mean..how many is sleeping around..?
We can't be seen as equivalent to a man, by some men. If we have a lot of partners, we have a mental health issue. If a man does it he's a hero. ahh glad you cleared that up..thanks..
i have a high sexd rive..sometimes its referred to as a 'disorder' called nymphomania..i thought its one disorder most men would be grateful for in a woman..obviously not
a lot of guys like the idea of sex whenever they want it, but not many can handle actual sex addiction, can't say i blame them either."
addiction..is that what it is then..if you have a high sex drive you are addicted, or are you just referring to what the definition of 'nympho' is.?x
i just happen to want and like fancying my partner over a long period of time, otherwise it wouldn't make sense to be with him in the first place..for me.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive.
i dont know what you mean by 'sleep around'.. the way men do..what does that mean..how many is sleeping around..?
Quite frankly, in my experiences, whenever I met couples on here I always had pretty solid experiences. Straightforward, no nonsense, great people...etc.
Whenever I meet single women who swing there tends to be alot of oddballs. Most of the time they're either expecting a relationships through this site or their sleeping around as revenge against a partner. I use the "hypergamy" example because sexuality for a female is complex, requiring the right kinda man and the right kinda chemistry, You DONT get that when one attempts to sleep with multiple different guys...unless most of these guys are high caliber...which is unlikely.
Guys are alot less picky and it reflects in the nature of the demographics, the fact that men struggle compared to women on here...hell, its reflected in the ratio of "fabs".
I am kinda tired of women on here trying to reinvent the wheel when it comes to sex. i have two beautiful high calibre guys as fwb's. i meet with a couple of couples and i would meet again some single females and occasionally other single guys, i develop caring reciprocal relationships with all these people.. and i do play with others, with those fwb's too..
im tired of people saying its not possible...what you are, what you put in, what time and consideration you show people, is what you get out..i love them all...i dont need to 'have' them to myself, to feel that way.."
Eh.
Dont buy a word of this to be honest. Purely because as a functioning human, one will desire a fulfilled relationship with one person. This is kinda what I mean, I have dated so many of the "I have great, fulfilling relationships with 20 people" types. Always end up with them eventually telling me they feel depressed and emotionally exhausted.
You cant "love them all" as much as you want to tell yourself you can. We're humans, its natural for us to desire a single individual. Its funny because swinging is probably the best example of that. The vast, VAST majority of swingers are older couples. People think you can recreate these experiences THROUGH swinging...I've always thought its an extremely foolish expectation as is anyone silly enough to think you can actually start a relationship through here.
The fact that you say you're tired of people saying its not possible makes me think you have heard it before. As stated, trust me, dont try and reinvent the wheel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive.
i dont know what you mean by 'sleep around'.. the way men do..what does that mean..how many is sleeping around..?
We can't be seen as equivalent to a man, by some men. If we have a lot of partners, we have a mental health issue. If a man does it he's a hero. ahh glad you cleared that up..thanks..
i have a high sexd rive..sometimes its referred to as a 'disorder' called nymphomania..i thought its one disorder most men would be grateful for in a woman..obviously not
a lot of guys like the idea of sex whenever they want it, but not many can handle actual sex addiction, can't say i blame them either.
addiction..is that what it is then..if you have a high sex drive you are addicted, or are you just referring to what the definition of 'nympho' is.?x
i just happen to want and like fancying my partner over a long period of time, otherwise it wouldn't make sense to be with him in the first place..for me.."
I need one of these nympho things where do I find such things? haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive.
i dont know what you mean by 'sleep around'.. the way men do..what does that mean..how many is sleeping around..?
We can't be seen as equivalent to a man, by some men. If we have a lot of partners, we have a mental health issue. If a man does it he's a hero. ahh glad you cleared that up..thanks..
i have a high sexd rive..sometimes its referred to as a 'disorder' called nymphomania..i thought its one disorder most men would be grateful for in a woman..obviously not
a lot of guys like the idea of sex whenever they want it, but not many can handle actual sex addiction, can't say i blame them either.
addiction..is that what it is then..if you have a high sex drive you are addicted, or are you just referring to what the definition of 'nympho' is.?x
i just happen to want and like fancying my partner over a long period of time, otherwise it wouldn't make sense to be with him in the first place..for me.."
nymphonmania is sex addiction, or a sexual disorder.
i know a high sex drive can be something different to that, or might be a part of sex addiction. i thought you were referring to sex addiction specifically with you mentioning the disorder part. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Also, FYI. I am so, so sick of women telling me the "if men can do it why cant I??" nonsense. Women are not men. Women never will be men. This is reflected through sexual experience and expectation. It boggles the mind when I meet a partner who tells me she wants to be treated more like a man and then feels slighted when she faces rejection or a guys doesnt know how to take charge or a guy pivots her entire sexual experience through the orgasm. At that point I notice women suddenly want to be women again... |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Oh yeah, alot of them.
But not in the same way men are. Men tend to be polygamous. Women tend to be hypergamous. Whenever I meet women who sleep around the way men do they always seem a bit...off. Like 95% of the reason they're doing it is always some ulterior motive.
i dont know what you mean by 'sleep around'.. the way men do..what does that mean..how many is sleeping around..?
Quite frankly, in my experiences, whenever I met couples on here I always had pretty solid experiences. Straightforward, no nonsense, great people...etc.
Whenever I meet single women who swing there tends to be alot of oddballs. Most of the time they're either expecting a relationships through this site or their sleeping around as revenge against a partner. I use the "hypergamy" example because sexuality for a female is complex, requiring the right kinda man and the right kinda chemistry, You DONT get that when one attempts to sleep with multiple different guys...unless most of these guys are high caliber...which is unlikely.
Guys are alot less picky and it reflects in the nature of the demographics, the fact that men struggle compared to women on here...hell, its reflected in the ratio of "fabs".
I am kinda tired of women on here trying to reinvent the wheel when it comes to sex. i have two beautiful high calibre guys as fwb's. i meet with a couple of couples and i would meet again some single females and occasionally other single guys, i develop caring reciprocal relationships with all these people.. and i do play with others, with those fwb's too..
im tired of people saying its not possible...what you are, what you put in, what time and consideration you show people, is what you get out..i love them all...i dont need to 'have' them to myself, to feel that way..
Eh.
Dont buy a word of this to be honest. Purely because as a functioning human, one will desire a fulfilled relationship with one person. This is kinda what I mean, I have dated so many of the "I have great, fulfilling relationships with 20 people" types. Always end up with them eventually telling me they feel depressed and emotionally exhausted.
You cant "love them all" as much as you want to tell yourself you can. We're humans, its natural for us to desire a single individual. Its funny because swinging is probably the best example of that. The vast, VAST majority of swingers are older couples. People think you can recreate these experiences THROUGH swinging...I've always thought its an extremely foolish expectation as is anyone silly enough to think you can actually start a relationship through here.
The fact that you say you're tired of people saying its not possible makes me think you have heard it before. As stated, trust me, dont try and reinvent the wheel "
im not usual ..so there xx stick that in your pipe and smoke it  |
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By *uzy444Woman
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"Also, FYI. I am so, so sick of women telling me the "if men can do it why cant I??" nonsense. Women are not men. Women never will be men. This is reflected through sexual experience and expectation. It boggles the mind when I meet a partner who tells me she wants to be treated more like a man and then feels slighted when she faces rejection or a guys doesnt know how to take charge or a guy pivots her entire sexual experience through the orgasm. At that point I notice women suddenly want to be women again... "
i am not a man..thank goodness for that..love being a woman..all chaotic and loving ..pfft to being a man, i totally respect them for their nature, but it isnt ours x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im not usual .."
No guy has ever heard that line before of course
I do sometimes wish men on here would actually forgo their thirst to actually be more honest about sexual and emotional expectation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am speaking for myself as a sexually liberated woman, I can't speak for other's nor would I presume to. If I am to be brutally honest I don't care if people on here get no sex or sex twenty four hour's a day as long as I get what I signed up for. I love the freedom of fabbing and the fantasies I am fulfilling. Yes I love sex. Yes I have it frequently. Yes it is fantastic. I don't care if I am the best at it, I don't care if I get more or less than the next fabber...male or female. I don't have to have sex daily to feel sexually satisfied... I just need great sex often to do that. I have a healthy, happy fulfilling sex life that fab has enhanced and I am smiling that's what counts to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Us men think about sex non stop. And are pretty mad about it. Are you the same? "
I am
Horny and wet constantly all the time! Can't get through the day without having at least 3 orgasms lol.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Us men think about sex non stop. And are pretty mad about it. Are you the same?
There are very few sex mad women, but they do exist!"
I agree.
Even on here. There are tons of compensators though, the true freaks are never actually single which is kind of annoying  |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
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I am terrible. I am sex mad but I dont get it enough, hard wen ive got kidz and dont liv together but stil very much a couple. Just makes it all the better and fun wen we do see each other. Its a few times a week like but i used to be atleast 3 times a day kinda girl x |
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