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Can you have to many verifications
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no you can't, ok.
people like sex and meeting other people, they might also like veris.
if someone has an amount that puts you off then you aren't compatible probably and that's it. doesn't matter how many there are as the person with them is happy with them.
who they're off on the other hand...  |
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"You can have to few for some, and too many for some.
All of which is very odd, given that those with few could be utter slappers in vanilla land, and those with many could all be social..."
Slappers?  |
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some people are put off by more than a certain amount of verifications, lots of profiles say that they aren't looking for lots of meets. As said above it just means that they aren't compatible with those that do have lots of verifications.
I don't think its fair to make judgements on people who have more partners than you personally find acceptable. |
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"Hi, to many verifications can you have many? I was chatting to a woman who had 197 !! It does put me off. I don't show my verifications"
At what point are you out off - 10, 50, 100? It somewhat annoys me when guys like a sexual woman...but not too sexual.
Not just sexually liberated though. Can a woman also be too intelligent, too educated, too successful, have too many kids or many other examples before you're put off her, judge or feel threatened?
At what point does admiration of a trait go to judgement? |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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Verifications cause so many problems on here.
Either trying to get one
Having too many
Having them from the 'wrong' type of people
Being too graphic / arse licking/ lamp post pissing etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications cause so many problems on here.
Either trying to get one
Having too many
Having them from the 'wrong' type of people
Being too graphic / arse licking/ lamp post pissing etc
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Well said, that's why its best to just hide them completely imo or not care what others think. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Verifications cause so many problems on here.
Either trying to get one
Having too many
Having them from the 'wrong' type of people
Being too graphic / arse licking/ lamp post pissing etc
Well said, that's why its best to just hide them completely imo or not care what others think."
We go through spells of both   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The kind of small-minded people who would be put off by large amounts of verifications aren't the kind of people I would like to meet.
Sometimes guys message me and make some comment about how they're glad I don't have lots of veris (I have a handful on another profile), and I promptly point out that I have had sex with several hundred more people than are listed in my verifications on this site. Thankfully that usually means they never bother to write back... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, at least they are honest enough to show them. Some women .. me included have hidden or not been verified but hasnt stopped me from meeting that person. You could find one woman you meet has only 3 veris but has met and fucked 100 people.. its not really something you can take on face value |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, to many verifications can you have many? I was chatting to a woman who had 197 !! It does put me off. I don't show my verifications"
197 Over 10 years or the last month? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't show our summary as it does get judged way too often .
I guess we could display it as we wouldn't want to meet those who judge us for it , but suffice to say that 197 is not that many really .
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"Slappers?
It was intended as gender neutral (!), happy to hear of a better term.  "
I guessed it was gender neutral. I just don't think its fair to use derogatory terms for people who have a lot of partners, I wouldn't like to be called a slapper myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Slappers?
It was intended as gender neutral (!), happy to hear of a better term.
I guessed it was gender neutral. I just don't think its fair to use derogatory terms for people who have a lot of partners, I wouldn't like to be called a slapper myself. "
Also it's not a gender neutral term - it's primarily been used to refer to women in the past.
Perhaps try 'people who have had lots of partners' instead of 'slappers'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can have to few for some, and too many for some.
All of which is very odd, given that those with few could be utter slappers in vanilla land, and those with many could all be social..."
You think women who have sex with a lot of men are slappers, yet you're on a swingers website lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure I'll get shot down for this, but it does irritate me when people find lots of verifications a turn off. It's a swingers site, and it is fairly normal for swingers to have multiple partners. This should be the one place where people embrace sexual liberation to not find promiscuity a turn-off. Why do people come to a site like this if numbers of partners bother them?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure I'll get shot down for this, but it does irritate me when people find lots of verifications a turn off. It's a swingers site, and it is fairly normal for swingers to have multiple partners. This should be the one place where people embrace sexual liberation to not find promiscuity a turn-off. Why do people come to a site like this if numbers of partners bother them?
Mrs"
Here here!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure I'll get shot down for this, but it does irritate me when people find lots of verifications a turn off. It's a swingers site, and it is fairly normal for swingers to have multiple partners. This should be the one place where people embrace sexual liberation to not find promiscuity a turn-off. Why do people come to a site like this if numbers of partners bother them?
Mrs"
Because they mistake it for a dating site |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Slappers?
It was intended as gender neutral (!), happy to hear of a better term.
I guessed it was gender neutral. I just don't think its fair to use derogatory terms for people who have a lot of partners, I wouldn't like to be called a slapper myself.
Also it's not a gender neutral term - it's primarily been used to refer to women in the past.
Perhaps try 'people who have had lots of partners' instead of 'slappers'."
I assure you I meant it about both, and have certainly used it about myself in the past. In hindsight, it should have been in quotes, if not as you suggest, replaced.
Apologies to anyone upset. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I started this post it's just my own opinion I'm sure the woman who had 197 verifications can remember every single fuck lol xx"
Why should it matter that she probably doesnt remember each one? Is it because you are worried you will be just another notch on the bedposts? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I started this post it's just my own opinion I'm sure the woman who had 197 verifications can remember every single fuck lol xx"
So at what number would you say is a sensible number to stop at? |
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"Hi, to many verifications can you have many? I was chatting to a woman who had 197 !! It does put me off. I don't show my verifications"
Personally, I'd be concerned about meeting anyone who's met with more than 657,389... but I'm picky like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I started this post it's just my own opinion I'm sure the woman who had 197 verifications can remember every single fuck lol xx"
What an attitude you have , and on a swinging site too  |
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I don't think people should be judged for anything to be honest. We are all here for fun and that's what should be assumed right?
No matter how many veris we have. We can't please everyone as people would be put off meeting someone without veris just as much as having too many. As already said, some or most could be from socials or after chatting to people you meet in a club etc.
Doesn't mean every veri is by someone she's fucked |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I started this post it's just my own opinion I'm sure the woman who had 197 verifications can remember every single fuck lol xx"
why does that matter..
And do you really think someone with less verifications has really met less... trust me that our verifications have no baring on how many meets we have had.. let alone how many people we have had sex with in our lifetime |
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"Hi, to many verifications can you have many? I was chatting to a woman who had 197 !! It does put me off. I don't show my verifications"
However the person may not have met anyone!
Verifications can be for many things the number isn't an account of every sexual encounter.
You have to decide what you are looking for and happy with because you can't change anyone else
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Unless someone chooses to show their verification summary and all their verses, you will never know how many.
What I choose to show and what I actually have may be different by thousands or 1.
What about meets that don't end in a verification?
What about the woman you have a d*unken shag with on Saturday night, do you ask her how many she has slept with? Would you believe the number?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well We've got 20 odd ...and are still swinging Virgins lol..
Just people we've met along the way on our sexy nights out..
And have chosen to give us a veri on our page ... |
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By *ooking for bbwsCouple
over a year ago
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"some people are put off by more than a certain amount of verifications, lots of profiles say that they aren't looking for lots of meets. As said above it just means that they aren't compatible with those that do have lots of verifications.
I don't think its fair to make judgements on people who have more partners than you personally find acceptable."
I don't think its fair to make judgements on people who have more partners than you personally find acceptable.
this equally, as sometimes I won't get to play cause of medical reasons
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We want to come across innercent rather then come across a very naughty couple. It's like telling someone new how many people you slept with and giving that thought away that your a nice young girl with a tight virgina ready for it to be abused by a nice big cock lol then given them that shock when you get them in bed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I started this post it's just my own opinion I'm sure the woman who had 197 verifications can remember every single fuck lol xx"
Can hardly remember who I had last week never mind all of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I started this post it's just my own opinion I'm sure the woman who had 197 verifications can remember every single fuck lol xx"
Can you remember every single fuck you've had?
Be honest now.
Because if you can I'm not sure you've been sexually active for very long. |
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"I started this post it's just my own opinion I'm sure the woman who had 197 verifications can remember every single fuck lol xx
Can you remember every single fuck you've had?
Be honest now.
Because if you can I'm not sure you've been sexually active for very long."
Course he can he hasn't had any meets just a drink and chat according to his profile lol but don't judge him on that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally am not bothered. Who knows how many that person has even shagged outside of the site. You could have 2 veris showing and done a 100 off the site.
Doll x |
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"The kind of small-minded people who would be put off by large amounts of verifications aren't the kind of people I would like to meet.
Sometimes guys message me and make some comment about how they're glad I don't have lots of veris (I have a handful on another profile), and I promptly point out that I have had sex with several hundred more people than are listed in my verifications on this site. Thankfully that usually means they never bother to write back..."
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"I'm sure I'll get shot down for this, but it does irritate me when people find lots of verifications a turn off. It's a swingers site, and it is fairly normal for swingers to have multiple partners. This should be the one place where people embrace sexual liberation to not find promiscuity a turn-off. Why do people come to a site like this if numbers of partners bother them?
Mrs"
totally agree |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm sure I'll get shot down for this, but it does irritate me when people find lots of verifications a turn off. It's a swingers site, and it is fairly normal for swingers to have multiple partners. This should be the one place where people embrace sexual liberation to not find promiscuity a turn-off. Why do people come to a site like this if numbers of partners bother them?
Mrs"
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By *ooking for bbwsCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm sure I'll get shot down for this, but it does irritate me when people find lots of verifications a turn off. It's a swingers site, and it is fairly normal for swingers to have multiple partners. This should be the one place where people embrace sexual liberation to not find promiscuity a turn-off. Why do people come to a site like this if numbers of partners bother them?
Mrs
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I keep getting saying to many. Yet most our club or repeat it so stupid, I'm trying to find another regular but so hard! This is the first time all day I've not been in pain so it's so hard to get out for a social! Or the men that do want too meet our to far away!An think they can make it from Kent to Portsmouth in an hour! I need someone close lol....  |
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Thing is not all veris are from sexual meets and some have multiple from the same person. The number of Veris wouldn't put me off however if the person was meeting someone new daily that would make me question their standards in a way |
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Unbelievable 